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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Pornography & drugs, but no sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Ok, I have quite the dilemma, and don't even know where to start. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. Up until six months ago, we had a great relationship, and amazing sex. About six months ago, he started losing interest in our sex ...

Do men see teenage girls as sex objects?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - heyyy !!! this is just a little question just to ask Do men see teenage girls as sex objects? because all they seem to do is talk about sex and boobs, what is the big deal about it? I mean i walk down my street and all the builders wink or...

How can I last longer during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - So I seem to have a hard time lasting during sex. After the foreplay when we get to the act I last maybe 10 to 15 seconds then its all over. This never used to be a problem when I was younger. Is there anything that can help me last longer? Oh ...

Am I overreacting or were his hurtful words as bad as it seems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months and well it has so far been great! im 17 now, but when i was 11 i was raped twice by the same guy. this horrified me, and i havnt told anyone since! apart from my boyfriend, i didnt want to be rushed into sex, ...

Why is my semen cloudy and thick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Why is my semen so thick and cloudy looking? I have never had any complaints from any of the females I've been with. Any help would greatly be appreciated!...

Does he have erectile dysfunction or does he not desire me? How can I figure this out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - How do I know ,if my husband has erectal dyssfunction,or he just does not desire sex with me? It is important to know, as it is too different situation,one,what I can handle, and the other, I can't. He is not medically sick,as he went for check u...

Question about Viagra...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Does anyone know if Viagra works for not getting an erection due to performance anxiety?...

Is my penis too small for my age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - hi, i have a 5.5 inch penis and im proud of it and have no problems with my size. however i would like to know, is it small for a 16 year old?...

Getting over the past... how can I help the man I love deal with mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. Four years ago was the darkest time in my life. I met my current boyfriend and his best friend and ended up sleeping with both of them when my current boyfriend was helping me out of a horribl...

I need some sexpert advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hiya ladies n gents, i got a bit of an embarrassing problem here, well not so much a problem, but here goes anyway lol Basically, i have a amazing sex life with my fella, hes a very unselfish lover and always makes sure im satisfyed! We are very ope...

My boyfriend is being unfair! I find it hard to orgasm with him...so he has stopped trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a couple of months now. We have been having some problems sexually as we have been finding it hard to make me cum, i can when im masturbating but not with him. Because of this my boyfriend has given up ...

What can I do to please my husband-to-be that no other woman would do to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I'm getting married soon and I know my soon to be husband has a fantasy and I would like to please him but what can I do sexual with a man that no other woman would ever do to him? And what is the meaning of the word full house?...

Nervous about getting a blowjob for the first time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Hey, i've been seeing a girl for some weeks now. it seems to be getting a bit sexual. i haven't done anything with a girl before but is about to sometime next week. she has said she wants to give me a blowjob, but im nervous. is there any tips, i ...

Our relationship just isnt fun anymore, any tips to spice things up a little?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hi, My lesbian girlfriend is really great and I don't want to end things with her, but it's just not fun anymore. When we first got together it was great. We had amazing sex, licked, sucked, kissed, all the trimmings. But I need something new to do ...

How do I tell my lover that he squashes me during sex because of his weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I was wondering if anyone can give me some advice as to handle this, I have a lover who while is not obese but is about 25kilos heavyer than me .when we have sex he likes to lay on top of me with all his weight sometimes i feel like i'm being ...

I don't find any pleasure anymore when having sex with my husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - i m 41 yr old with two kids 20,16 yr old boy and girl ,my husband is 12 yr older than me ,mine is arrange marriage 21 yrs ago, my husband is lazy kind person .he is not good looking ,very serious type, he gave me all freedom of money and all. ...

Took a pregnancy test and it came back negative....could I still be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - well I'm 14 and I had sex about a month ago and I think I may be pregnant..I didn't really want to do it with him..Well if I am I refuse to tell my dad..I want to have an abortion if this is the case..but I can't trust anybody!! Geez this is ...

Should I lose my virginity to a guy who I'm only going to spend another month and a half with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and a virgin. My boyfriend of the same age is not a virgin. We started going out a month ago, and we were friends before that. I'm leaving in September for university, and we agreed at the beginning that we would not do long distance. We've ...

Lack of sex is making me want to leave my girlfriend before I cheat on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend tells me im hot and sexy. Very often i have to turn down other girls that want sex from me, but my own girlfriend never comes onto me. She has an extremely low sex drive and my only option is masturbation. I am in my early 20's and i ...

Ex-gf problems.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for 3+ years we recently broke up. I have tried contacting her and we have met twice after the breakup. Both times we had sex and she says she really doesn't want to see me. She says every time she sees ...

My ex has a new GF but we still have sex. Should I keep trying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My ex and i broke up 4 months ago. Even though we broke up, the sex hasn't stopped. He has moved on and it kills me. Because we still talk and have sex I'm still attached. I still love him and want to be with him. He tells me he still cares but he ...

How can I tell my mother I want birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - how can i tell my mom that i want birth control...

How much porn is too much? I've considered downloading pics of naked me to my PC to let him see how it feels!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I just got married a few weeks ago and I knew my husband looked at porn but I thought he was doing it just sometimes as is 2-3 times a week. I found out that he is looking at porn almost every day when he gets home from work and on Sunday when I ...

I can't reach climax and I don't know why. I build up, but then plateau.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been 'experimenting' for a few months now, and since we've tried so many things he's learnt the right spots that feel good to me. The only problem is, i can feel myself building up to climax, but i can never reach it, my ...