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Archived questions from: 30 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is she lying? She didn't bleed when we first did it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Hello, my question is my gf said that she was a virigin before me, but wouldn't that mean that when we first had sex that she would bleed? Or is she lying about me being the only one? I do trust her but Im not sure because she didnt bleed when...

I get too wet during sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i come to fast and get wet to much why?...

A warning from one teenager to others . . .

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...

My husband is too shy in the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My husband is a little shy in some ways in the bedroom. I know what i want and i have talked to him about having a desire to fulfill his fantasies as well as he fulfill mine, but he seems to intimidated, and doesn't. Sex is really good, but its ...

How do I satisfy him without sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hey I have been with my bf for about 4 months we haven't had sex because i'm just not ready and however corny this sounds i want my first time to be special and i think he understands that but he never seems fully satisfied with the physical ...

Should I go or stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Iam 30 yrs old and married to a wonderful, extremely caring, gentle and patient guy for the last 4 years and we share a common passion for holidays, food, wine, countryside etc. which we enjoy doing together. I couldnt ask for a better husband, ...

Does Plan B work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and having sex for 2. He sometimes asks me if he can just pull out but I've always been too afraid to risk it (because I'm not on any other type of birth control) so we always used a condom. ...

I really love him but the lack of affection is making me miserable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Hi, my husband has said that he does not feel like sex because he is tired, sick of work, etc. We have sex about once every 3 weeks, which is sending me crazy. He is late 40's and I am mid 30's. He has been like this since I put on 20kg (after ...

I think I still love my ex even though I'm married and haven't seen him for 6 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I've been married for three years and I do not enjoy sex with my husband. My ex-boyfriend (before I met my husband) was very good in bed and I think I still love him. I haven't seen him for 6 years no but still think about him. What should I do?...

We want to try and have sex but I cant bring myself to do it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now. Im still and a virgin and he knows this and he is very uncderstanding saying he will wait till im ready. But the problem is im too scared because I dony know what to do and ive been told ...

Should I lose my virginity to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - A girl that Ive been dating for a little while and i are planning to go to a convention out of state and hang out and see what their is to see. we have considered having sex for the first time, usually im really nervous about the idea but this time ...

Questions about sex and foreplay....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, ok this is a simple question. what is the difference between dry humping and body rubbing ?? i'm only 15 so that's why i don't know what's the difference, but thanks and i really do aprreciate it. i also wanted to know what is for...

I ran into my childhood crush, things were going great, we slept together...and now he seems more distant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I made a big mistake. You would think a woman 44 years old would know better. I ran into a man i had a huge crush on when I was in High School. We bacame friendly while online where we belonged to many of the same sites. Once we exchanged phone ...

What is he really thinking of when we make love, me or porn stars?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend nearlly 2yrs now. i am 18 and he is 21. we use to kiss and cuddle all the time but now we dnt do it very often. he never gives me sex i get it once a week. i am a pretty girl i am slim and smart dressed i like to make ...

Older, "obese" guy Fetish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm a 16 year old female (I am the legal age of consent in my state). I have this...fetish...for older guys. Not only older guys, kind of...fat...older guys. (around the ages of 26-38) Is it weird? I haven't told ANYONE. I don't think I ever ...

She doesn't want sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I am a 30yo male with a 30yo girlfriend. We have been together for 3 years lived together for 2 one of which was overseas, we have returned recently. My problem is she has been saying she doesn’t want sex, she has had this stance for 18months...