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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do I make him forget about the lovers in my past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - when me and my boyfriend started going out he asked me how many people id had sex with before him and i lied and said it was only 4 when its really 9. (he was a virgin before me) recently he found out the truth and said he still loves me but he ...

I'm pregnant and he doesn't meet my sexual needs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and we have been dating for 5 months now. He is 36 years old and I am 25 years old and I am 4 months pregnant with his baby. When we first meet we had sex a few times a day, everyday. When I found out I was pregnant we ...

Nine days late and extremely worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I am 9 days late for my period. I had unprotected sex which i know is stupid! I don't know what it is, but i really don't think i am pregnant! I had something extremely stressfull happen in my life roughly 4 days before i was due my period, could ...

When is it a good time to explore our sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together a while and have a committed and loving relationship. We have talked about having sex. My question is when is a good age to start exploring sex and a sexual relationship? When is a good age for my girlfriend? ...

Can I get pregnant while wearing a condom that didn't break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex during my period while I was not on birth control. We used a condom and it didn't break. Could that get me pregnant?...

How do I tell my girlfriend I don't think I'm ready yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My girlfriend who I have been going out with for over a year and a half. I love her so much and would do anything for her. Now lately, we have been messing around saying sex stuff. But obviously cos we r both gay. (im bi and she is a lesbian), but ...

She's telling me sexual things, but I'm mates with her boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - (Male 14) Hey, I'm having trouble with a girl at the moment... She says very sexual stuff to me but it's not that i don't like it it's just that I know her boyfriend as a personal mate. I couldn't dream on going up to my mate and telling him... H...

How do I start masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hi. im 14 and i have never masturbated before. I know that it is completely normal, but i also know that some people my age look at it as gross or disgusting. I often find myself very horny and wanting sex so badly. but i made a promise to myself to ...

He said 'oops' after the sex ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hello, im a 16 year old girl needing help. i had sex with a friend of the family and after having sex he said oops. could that mean anything bad? because im scared that he might have gotten me pregnant but its to early to tell....

My wife admits that she's addicted to viagra but I don't understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - I found Viagra tablets (about 10 bottles, 5 consumed!) when cleaning the house the other day on a day off from work. My wife was out at work that day. When she came in, I told her what I'd found, and asked her sensitively and calmly if there ...

Help on Sex Positions please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - i was wondering about when riding a guy during sex what do you do? because me and my bf want to try new positions, and me on top of him was what he suggested so how do i move? what do i do? thanks x...

I'm scared but I want to give myself to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and I've kept him waiting sexually this long, hes starting to anxious but he says he'll wait as long as I need. I know he really cares for me and would wait but part of me too is getting ...

My guy hesitates to take it further with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hello everyone u could called me chibi, so here the deal i meet this boy on june 13 on a simple boat ride, we get along quite well. but we jump into the relationship to soon. but i thought it was ok because we both like each other so much and...

How do I do a good hand job or blow job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Dont make fun of me anyone please!!! But I really need some advice on how to give a good handjob/blowjob. I feel really bad for my boyfriend and me because he goes down on me and hes really good at it, but whenever I try to go down on him he's just ...

How should I say no to my friend who wants to sleep with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - my friend wants to sleep with me, but i dont want to. he sent me a txt saying so, should i ignore it or should i tell my mom?...

I'm much older than him and he's interested and I want to make his first time memorable

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I live alone, and there's a boy in my neighborhood who helps me out with odd jobs. He turned 18 two months ago. He's leaving for college in September and has been nervous about the whole thing. We were talking about it recently. I told him not ...

Do I need to tell him I am bi or does this even matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) - Ok I'm 20 yo and bi..no one knows not even my best friends So anyway I'm at the mall with a friend I work with and I see a guy who was around 18 and couldn't help but to stare at him He was wearing flip flops which was a plus lol..anyway I gu...

I love sex and it's something I love doing every day, but my partner isn't nearly as yielding

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - Am I oversexed and compulsive for wanting to have sex every day? After a number of days of my partner not wanting sex I start to get stressed. Basically I can't cope very well going through the week without sex. I could releive myself twice in ...

How do I hose him down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - hi..umm. i've been trieg to squirt for about 2 years now and recently my bf told me he wanted to have sex and said that he loves girls who squirt...so can you please help me i've rubbed my clit until i felt like a had to pee..then i pushed out..and ...

I used the pull-out method, which doesn't really work, but it's possible she's pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - please help me... my girlfriend and i have had sex.... and i always pull out...but a couple times we didnt use a condom.... i pulls out and she is on birth conrol.... but she says that she has to pee a lot(like every 2-4 hours) and i know htat ...

I'm intimate with my mom's fiance's daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) - well this is a very complicated situation for me. hear me out tho before you judge me. my mom met her current boyfriend/fiancé about two years ago and I didn't meet his family til about a year later. I'm 22 at the time and his daughter was 16...it ...