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Archived questions from: 1 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Advice needed? Is he using me for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - hiya :) I'm 15. There's this boy I've liked for a while. we'll call him connor. I've been on a date with him but that was months ago. He knows i still like him and he says he likes me too. we're quite close friends and have been for about a ...

Help!!! How can I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Couple of months back i lost my virginity to this boy I'd gotten to know pretty well - who had been chasing me for a while. Personality wise we were a great match and always got on amazingly, thing is he was always open about the fact he wasnt ...

Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy who I've known for a while and he has a girlfriend that he's been dating for six months but he flirts with me all the time and talks about wanting to have sex with me. Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?...

Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing...

I enjoyed my sexual encouter with a girl more than I do guys. Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I recently slept with a woman for the very first time...and I really loved it. It was the most erotic, sensual sex I've ever had. I easily liked it better than being with guys (which I have a good amount of experience with). So this defenitely makes ...

I'm too wet when we have sex! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I just recently got married n wanted some help. When i make love with my husband, i become too wet which makes me feel embarrassed sometimes. I wonder if it is normal....

Can pre cum make you pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...

Pain in strange places after sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hey, every time I have really passionate, hard sex with my boyfriend I get terrible pains afterwards, just below my ribs. We dont use a condom because I'm on the pill and he's safe so he finishes inside me. I'm 5ft and weigh 6 stone, if that h...

What to do with ex and sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for almost 4 years. Right away he was with this woman he met on a dating site! All of our neighbors wanted to know what was going on! She started sleeping over just a few days ...

I need tips on giving oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - There is this girl that I've been fooling around with for a few weeks now... it will most likely turn into a relationship soon because I have strong feelings about this girl and I'm assuming she does as well because we spend a lot of time with each ...

He wants me to get a six pack!!!! Why would he want me to look more muscular? I'm a female for pities sake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My husband does not want it at all when I try to instigate it. He has no sex drive at all. Our sex life used to be fairly active, but now it's non-existent. I've tried everything to get him interested: I wore sexy lingerie, I've dressed up for h...

How common is a promiscuous phase in women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - is it common for a woman to go through a brief phase of promiscuity? is four different men in six months a lot if her total of different partners is six or is this type of phase common in a woman's sexual development? ...

Any ideas how to make sex more special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm actually into the 6th month of my relationship with a guy and we're in love. and we've experienced a lot together. physically, we've covered all the bases but i think that there's still a lot we have to learn because we are just in our ...

How can I make her orgasm during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months and our sex life is great. we are both 30. she has never had an orgasm through penetration, we have to get the vibrators out to help make her orgasm afterwards. this doesn't bother me, infact ...

I want one night of fun with her but it will be my first time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 135 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - this girl and i are good mates, we keep talking about hooking up for one night of fun, i want to a lot, but at the same time i dont, becuase, well, it will be my first time and im woried that it will be over in like 30seconds and she wont enjoy it, ...

I'm a virgin but don't want to appear clueless in bed. What moves can I try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I am a virgin, but I really want to do it with my boyfriend of 3 months, and I don't wanna seem clueless. What moves could I try for my first time?...

My bf talks to me about our sex but it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - my bf and i were together 2 mos nextweek. he always talks about our make love (sex) sometimes it makes me feel unconfortable bec. i think this is the only thing that he likes me. i actually tell it to him how i feel but he told me it's not true he ...

I get jealous when she flirts and our sex has dwindled!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I am a 35 year old recently divorced father of 3 young kids and have been in a loving relationship with a 20 year old girl for the last 6 months. I love this girl to bits, she makes me so happy and has given me endless support and love, more t...

Wife doesn't want me to go down on her any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I really loved cunnilingus, in fact I enjoyed it more than receiving oral sex, and for many years it was an important part of our lovemaking, but my wife went off it a long time ago. She thinks she's "dirty" down there. I haven't even seen her ...

No love, just sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - how to tell or show to a girl that you wanna get laid with her? and not fall in love with her? whats next step? etc......

Why masturbate in front of them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him, but i'm not really sure what to do. I don't really masterbate often because honestly i'm not that good a it. He is just so much better at pleasing me than I am at pleasing myself. Also I have ...

All of a sudden I'm fantasizing about having sex and babies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Why do I feel this way? All my life I hated the idea of having children and saw babies as messy, noisy and annoying little humans and now all of a sudden it's all changed and when I see a guy I am really attracted to (not 'love' but just a crush) I...

I can't finish without my vibrator -- is this a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - So all my life I had trouble orgasming. I didn't have my first until I was 21 and bought myself my first vibrator (though I'd tried with hands without success). My boyfriend is freaking amazing in bed and I have never been so turned on by anyone, ...

Daughter feels its ok to masturbate in the open?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 41 years old single mother. My daughter is 15 years old and I was single ever since her father left me when she was 9 years old. She's a very bright student and scores very good marks at her exams, excels in sports a...

Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this ...