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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is it ever too early to have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - i need help.. i have a new boyfriend. we've been together for about 2 weeks now. we're both not virgins. we hang out a lot and it's kinda tempting to have sex. i mean we just get in the moment. we've almost done it twice but i made it stop before it ...

How long before we can dispense with the condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Just a quick question. I'm about to start taking birth control for the first time. I'm 20 years old and up until now haven't taken it due to a leiden deficiency (which makes my blood thicker than a normal person's), but my doctor and I have found...

How do I cope with her sleeping with male strippers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - my problem is that it feels like im dating a man sometimes! my girlfriend is CONSTANTLY checking out other men, all the time, whenever i catch her she says 'sorry' and that she didnt realize she was doing it. she admitted to me that she looks at ...

What should I do about my boyfriend's diminishing sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - what should i do about my boyfriend who use to want to have sex more often but now not so much?...

Will this "friends" thing work for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy (he didn't pressure me though) and after several months of being together" and not going out, I told him I couldn't do it anymore, which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. We went out for a week before he told ...

Does having sex soon after your fertile time, cause pregnancy, any ideas on what a guy can do to have a better erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok i had sex a few days after my fertile time i wanted to know can i still get pregnant after my fertile time, and also his penis was not all the way hard can i still get pregnant and one more question he penis is not getting hard nomore i don't ...

I have sexual fanasties, that I want to live out, is this wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I know people often ask the silliest questions on here but here goes... Is it normal for me to really want a man to cum inside of me? I'm sorry to be so graphic but I don't know how to make my point :S but the thought of a man's cum dribbling ou...

Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. ...

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

I don't want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - me and my fiance and had a baby 1 year ago and since then i havent wanted to have sex or do anything sexual at all! i can count the amount of times we have slept together on 1 hand! my partner was understanding at first but now i can see hes star...

I can draw air into my vagina and make farting sounds...is this abnormal ? I'm scared it might make me infertile.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - this is going to be the most embarrasing question i have ever asked, and i am way to embarrased to go to a clinic or even my GP. ever since i was about 9 i could make 'farting noises' out of my vagina. At the start it was only tiny ones that s...

My husband wants to make a sex tape!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (?) - My husband (for 3 years) wants us to make a sex tape for his birthday (hes turning 28). We have no kids yet (we're still talking about it). I told him to dream on. I dont want to get out and then everyone will i'm a slut. He promise he'll get a safe ...

What do I answer to her sexual questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - If a girl asks you how bad do you want her and how bad do you want to go down on her what do you tell her?...

I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's ...

Is it normal NOT to feel anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hello, every time I try to please myself with a penis shaped object I never get any enjoyment. All I feel is an uncomfortable feeling, I just feel an object coming in and out of me. I'm wondering if anyone else is like this? I only get enjoyment out ...

Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different univer...

I think I'm ready for light BDSM but my boyfriend says I'm not! Is he right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - There is something that I would LOVE to try with my boyfriend, and I've told him about this. I would love to try some light bondage, some light domination. (I say light because I've never done it before, so I'd just like to try it out and see if I ...

What could I do to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I just want to know what I can do to make my guy go crazy sexually. I don't feel like Im satisfying him well enough and would like to get more of a reaction out of him. All the things I do to him: I give him oral sex which I love doing, but the l...

We have been getting intimate at the cinema. I don't mind, but I don't want to get caught!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - hello, im 18 and my gf is 19, we both go to the cinema to get some alone time because we can never anywhere else, and we want to go farther, weve started to get a little more intimate at the cinema, shes given me a handjob already, she ...

Love or just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hiyah..well this is kind of embarresing but i need to ask sum1.:S well to start of with the first time i had sex was when i was 14 with this lad that i am currently having sex with now.i am now 15. i feel like i love him.. but the problem is...

My ex slept with me and his new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 288 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hi, last nite i had sex with my ex bf of about 2 weeks he left me to go bk to his ex but there having problams, they are not together but there trying to work it out the thing is she doesnt trust him, Anyway, shes been having her ex round to stay ...

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a ...

He has asked me for a BJ. I am afraid if I say no that he will think I don't like him anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have never given a bowjob and i am scared that i will do t wrong and my boyfriens has asked me to give him and i am scared if i say no he think i dnt like him any more what do u thnk i should do ?...

Burnging and itching after being fingered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend fingered me without asking and about a week after he did that, I got an itching problem and when I showered it burned. What could this be? There is no discharge....

Should I see a doctor about this stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Im 16 and lately ive noticed that my vagina has been having some problems. i have tryed fingering and so have other people but its just like way to tight and it hurts way to much. ive noticed that sometimes this white liquidy stuff comes out and ...

Could fingering get me pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I'm a little bit worried so I hope you can help. Last night I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he finished himself off - with cum on his hands. Afterwards he went to the bathroom and washed his hands and stuff (but I'm not sure if he used ...

Is it wrong for me to masturbate the nights he works?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hello my husband works 4 nights a week we are in our early forties we have lots of sex no need for me to want more ,but at night time is when im horniest even though he pleases me is it wrong for me to masturbate on the nights he works?...

Is it normal for a girl to be REALLY tight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was just wondering. Is it normal to be really really tight. People have tried to finger me but it just hurts way too much so we stop. The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about it and we thought maybe if we just went straight into ...

She freaked out and doesn't want to have sex with me any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - My fiancee and I just had sex for the first time. Well, some of you might not really call it that. I'll spare you the details. We were both virgins. She was even my first kiss. Basically we went slowly but once it was all the way in she started ...

She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was ...

I can't orgasm, what's wrong with me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello,ok so my and my hubby to be have a good sex life but one problem,I have never had a orgasm :( all my friends have,I dont know what is wrong with me. All the time we have sex it normally lasts for about 20-30 minutes, and by then he you know...

I'm only 12 and I think I'm pregnant !

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - About 2 months ago, i had sexual intercorse with my boyfriend even though i am only 12 YEARS OLD!!! i really regret it because i started my period a year ago and i havent had my period for ages! and i think i might be pregnant. i am really scared. ...

It feels weird having sex with him because we are so close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 288 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Okay im confused. I have this friend named chris. I have been friends with him for 6 years. He is gay. But i have had sex with him twice. I see him more then a friend. Like a husband, cus i can always tell him everything. I don't know if i'm in love...

Help! Sex questions need answered!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - ok, heres the deal, my bf wants me to give him a handjob/blojob, but 1; i dont know how, im afraid i might not do it right nd 2; i dont know what cum tastes like. can someone help me out please?...

Should I keep having sex with him? I'm 13!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello! Basically I'm 13 and I have had sex with the same guy over 20 times. Is that bad cos if it is then I'm gonna stop doing it but we're madly in love and we're basically going out so I don't know what to do. thanks for the help! x...

I Still Love Him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Basically, i lost my virginity to this boy. At the time we really liked each other. After about 2 weeks i met his friend that i really liked but the next day he went out with my best friend but i didnt mind cos they were gonna go out anyway. When ...

Was I too desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I met a really good man that had been broken up from his fiance of 3 years. I met him 2 weeks after their break-up. He and I had so much fun together. We are both 45 and his fiance is 37. We had more in common than she and he did. We did have ...

I'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom... dumb I know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Umm.. heres my situation. My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. ...

I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening ...

We had sex and haven't talked since!! I don't understand her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - So I met this woman, we went out a couple of times, spent the night the first night (only to third base, my decision. yes, I'm a guy!) In the morning she asked me to come back over that night (watch tv). I did. For the next week I get 3-8 texts/day ...

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. ...

He said I can have sex with other guys because he is not sexually attracted to me, but it hurt him when I did!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I need some input here. I have been seing this guy. He is not ready to commit to boyfriend/gfriend. We had a good talk last week and he said that he cares a lot about me but he is not in love with me. Said he loves me but he does not feel that ...

Any possible damage if we continue to play with this genital torture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - My GF and I have been together for about 5 years. We are both shaved and have genital and nipple piercings. We enjoy play piercing by inserting needles into her labia, clit and hood and my glans, shaft and sack along with other forms of genital tort...

I'm going through MLC and I'm so lost and confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I'm 33, married 7 years (but I've been with my husband for 13 years) and have 2 kids, one 14 (from a previous relationship) and one 2. I've never been single from the time I was 17. When I met my husband, I had just gotten out of a relationship. ...

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...

I finish way too fast when we have sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite some time, and we have always had really good sex up until about 2 months ago. Lately I have been finishing way too fast and we usually don't even have time to switch up ...

Experience Gap

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 375 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. She is a few years older than me and had a few partners before we met. I was a virgin when we met. It came out a while ago that she was unhappy with our sexual relationship and...

How do I drag him away from his computer and into my bed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while now, and it seems that he never wants to have sex. It seems like he's much more interested in his computer games. Any suggestions as to how I could get him more in the mood?? Like what are some things I could do ...

The condom split - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - i have a question that is really worrying me. i am 16 and my friend is 17. we are both gay and have been friends for the past year. we have also been sexually active with each other since a short time after we met. we just recently started ...

What can I do to control myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I'm 19 and I just simply put can't get over my sexual urges and I end up masturbating. Honestly for me this is just extremely frustrating even though my head and rationality says something else my body tell me another. I've had strong sexual ur...