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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

She thinks this is funny. How can I get her to understand that I don't like that she when we make love she lets off wind? Why does this happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

31 December 2014 (M) - I have what I call a severe prob;em with my partner in that when we make love she lets off wind and never does do anything to stop it and when I said something about it she thought it was funny and laughed at me and wonder if I should end it with ...

I want my ex take an HIV and STD before rekindling our relationship. What if he refuses to do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I haven't been with my ex for over ten years we are talking long distance now and have hopes of rekindling our relationship, but I am in fear of having sex with him . I want him to take an HIV and STD test before I give myself to him agai...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...

I feel cheap doing what he asks. Will I lose my fiance if I stop agreeing to his requests to skype while undressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a LDR relationship in which we have met recently and have hadsexual relationships. Everything is well except this man loves sex a lot. He's asked me to undress on Skype and arouse him to masturbate every other night. I've done it twice now...

Is my desire to be bitten weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - hello everyone i wold like to thank anyone in advance if you answer this question, i has been bothering me for sometime now. my question is, is it weird that i like to be bitten? now let me fully explain. when my husband and i are lets s...

Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would sa...

I get my needs met online and my husband uses porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I feel justified in getting feedback online from Men about my body to get my emotional needs met . I would never meet with one but it makes me feel desired loved and attractive My husband uses porn and says that there's no harm in it as he will ne...

Will my friends want advice on boys from an ex-christian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I used to be quite the devoted christian girl; at high school I was even the leader of certain girl-focused cell groups were I'd encourage girls about valueing themselves by waiting till marriage to have sex. And now, a year later and at university, ...

EVERYTHING IS GREAT!! ................ except for our sex life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Let me just start by saying I LOVE my partner very very much. All I want is to make him happy and NEVER hurt him. He is 21, I am almost 23. We have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2. He is my best friend in the whole world ...

Met online, had 6 dates, had sex on 4 of them, is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Dear Aunts, I met this guy at an online dating site about two months ago, and after we met in person (about seven weeks ago) we have been out about six times and we had sex four times out of the six dates. The other two times were nice and romanti...

How long to wait before having sex with a guy? Not sure what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - How long should you wait before having sex with a guy? Ok, I met this lovely guy in September, we've been on 5 dates, third date he kissed me and stayed at mine, fourth date same and fifth date same too. He lives out of London, so we usually go ou...

Am I wrong to feel hurt that she let her exes give her oral sex but not me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together getting on for five months now and at some point we have had a chat about the sexual experiences we've both had in our pasts. My girlfriend has openly talked about how she enjoyed oral sex when her ex's have ...

I want to feel as strongly about my boyfriend as I do about this other man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a predicament that I've brought on myself. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our r...

Together 18 years, yet sexually it could be better. Emotionally we have issues. How can this situation be improved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray ...

I love her and we've been doing sexual things together. Despite all this she says she doesn't love me sexually. So what am I, to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I've been best friends with a girl for 5 months. She's my daughters uncle's wife. We have been come really close, and doing sexual things with each other. It's happened 3 times now. I'm confused in what to do. I love her to bits, but she sa...

My ex is coming over and says he doesn't want sex. What if I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) - Dear cupid, My ex is coming over tomorrow to hag out,he says he wants to catch up and watch TV. He says he doesn't want to have sex but what if I want to? I know I'm not gonna pressure him but I don't want to come on too strong. What do I do?...

Torn between what I want and what I need to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3413 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and its time to get to the next step which is the intimacy part. I am still a virgin which adds extra pressure. Ive saw him look at another girl and i feel if i dont give him what he wants sexually he will ...

I cant have sex with my g/f after knowing she had sex with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

20 December 2014 (M) - What should I.Do I can't enjoy sex with girlfriend after finding out she had sex with another man while a one mouth split. I.Just keep seeing him with her while having sex....

My boyfriend has slept with 15 of his friends- feeling insecure now,

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - Hi there, Just looking for a bit of relationship advise Been with my boyfriend for a year now. I'm 21, he's the first guy I've slept with as I wanted to wait until I was comfortable enough with a guy. He however, has slept with 15 girls,...

My boyfriend loses interest in a girl if she puts out too soon.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend has this "thing" where he loses interest in girls if she puts out too soon. I know this because we were friends for a long time before dating. And he would meet a girl, he seemed interested cause he would even tell us, "I met this ...

He kicked me out because I cheated. Will he take me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my my boyfriend for a little over two years. This week I had went behind his back and hung out with my ex, my ex would call me beautiful and do little gestures like put his hand on my leg while driving grab my butt randomly and open ...

I'm a cheater trapped in a sexless marriage and my wife has cancer. I'm at a breaking point here...help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - My wife and I have had a sexless marriage since shortly after marriage in 2003. This made me feel alone and unwanted so I started cheating to fill this void. Everything else in our relationship was fine and we had two children within a few years. ...

He's never made me reach orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I have a problem and I think it's really superficial but it's driving me mad. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and he's everything I could ask for except he's never made me reach orgasm. Also, he has an incredibly low sex ...

She complains about masterbating and about porn. But she never wants to initiate sex. What's a guy supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - Hi , what can I do about my girlfriend of 7 months ? She insists i'm not to watch porn when I masterbate but declines my advances to initiate sex? Just the other day I tried it on with her and she had a go at me stating all I'm ever interest...

I know its my hormones but sometimes I crave sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - I'm 15, this is a weird question, I know. I sometimes crave sex a lot. Every time when I see my crush want to grab him and kiss him, when I think about having sex with him the feeling sometimes goes away but I still want to kiss him. I never ha...

Men, would you keep going back if the sex wasn't good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - 1) Would a man (being the initiator 90% of the time) keep having sex with a woman if it was bad sex? Bad as in, you couldn't orgasm during the act and had to take care of yourself later, it was too loose, too wet, too sloppy, she was a dead lay. ...

Would it be ok for me to have a casual arrangement with an abusive ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I have recently came out of an emotionally, verbally very very abusive relationship. He was the love of my life who started turning abusive for past 1 year and I became a typical doormat for him, lost all my self esteem, hated myself f...

My boyfriend says he thinks it's disrespectful to finger a girl. How can I encourage him to consider it as part of lovemaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend says he thinks it's disrespectful to finger a girl and that he's never done it. I think the disrespect thing is a cop out. I don't get it. He says he never has and never will. It's a big deal for me because it's a way to be intimate...

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman be...

I've heard rumours heis cheating, and now I have found condoms.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend n i have been togather for 7 years. Throughout the yrs iv herd rumors, but thats all. Two different times we went to have sex he couldnt get hard. Then a week later i found a condom unused in his stuff in our bedroom and we dont use...

My period was late and it's lasted longer since I gave up my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - I Have a question. i usually get my period for 4-5 days and i lost my virgnity one day before my period. it was late by 2 days and now im on my 7th day of my period. What can this be?...

Does he just love my mind? Does he turn to porn to due to some dis-satisfaction with my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - My partner seems to get more excited over the women in porn that he does me. I have also noticed that they have several things in common. They are all young thin and beautiful. He never looks for any woman with a body type remotely like mine. I'...

Why are so many men prepared to put their own orgasm and desire to see porn above respecting women and their partners emotions

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - Why are so many men prepared to put their own orgasm and desire to see porn above respecting women and their partners emotions Every day I'm reading post after post from women feeling hurt by their partners porn use . Far from being insecure...

My visiting a strip club upset my girlfriend ... how do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

9 December 2014 (M) - I need help fixing things with my girlfriend. Over the last few months she has gone off sex quite a bit and we only really have it once a week just now. She's been to the doctor who said she is physically fine so it might be stress or something. ...

Why does my ex keep asking about who I might be dating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - Ex, who is now married and I'm sleeping with (not proud of this), keeps asking me about who I'm dating. Why is he asking me this? Why does he even care to know? When I ask him, he changes the subject. He doesn't want a relationship with me again, ...

Boyfriend wants MMF threesome... With one of his best friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - So here's the backstory... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We've always had an adventurous and hot sex life. We are in our mid-twenties, no kids, and no rush. But he's the one, I knew it three months into our ...

He's so good I wonder about his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3427 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy , he's amazing and there's no doubt we have chemistry, endless amount of affection towards each other. I Just turned 20 and he's turning 25 in January. I don't see much of an age difference but at times he says certain ...

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't intend to have sex with him again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - I feel bad about this whole situation. I have a friend who is 11 years younger than me. I was actually friends with his older sister long time ago, but we lost touch and with him kept in touch through emails and FB. I didn't see him for 15 ye...

My husband slept with his cousin before we married and I can't get over it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - My husband slept with he's cousin before we got together. she doesn't live in the same state as us.but when she comes down we obviously run into her seens she part of the family i don't like being around her or even the thought that she slept with ...

Why am I never good enough for more than dating or them wanting sex?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - Why am I never good enough for more than dating or them wanting sex?!? They don't get the goodies, but that seems to be the only thing men want from me. I'm an attractive woman and get told this many many times by men and women alike. I'm good-...

Should I confront him,or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - Just looking for abit of advice in coming up to 3 months pregnant with my fiance's baby but i keep finding that he secretly is masturbating over his supposed to be old crushes photos on Facebook ,his also friends with her and have found out his ...

Why wont he tell me why he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - I met a guy at the start of the year, everything was good, sex was great, enjoyed his company. After the 4th time we had sex he decided to ignore me and go back online dating. I demanded why he done this and where I stood and he apologised to me...

Time to open the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Here's our situation: not having sex. I am about 50 lbs overweight. I have been working on losing it but it's going very slowly (I have lost 20 so far). My husband has told me I'm unattractive--yet he still wants sex with me and says he still ...

I feel like my romantic life is constantly on a fast track to destruction.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - I want to start off by saying I have serious issues with self worth. Some was instigated by my family situation growing up and has been perpetuated by guys that I date. I realize that I am typically attracted to a certain kind of guy who i know is ...

Why are the men in porn so average whereas the women are usually very attractive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Why are the men in porn so average whereas the women are usually very attractive? My SO and I watch some porn and it seems that in the vast majority the women are outstandingly attractive whereas the men are, very often, borderline ugly. This leav...

I'm 31 weeks pregnant I love him with all my heart. But now he's not interested. Can I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3428 days ago

6 December 2014 (F) - Hi, Sorry in advance for the essay but I really need to know how to cope with my situations. My ex and I met online nearly 2 years ago, neither of us wanted a serious relationship but we ended up falling in love anyway, we got engaged and he mo...

I'm a virgin and have questions about sex help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - Hello all, I would like some (kind please!) advice for my situation. Starting off, I have been with my boyfriend for a little less than a year and we're saving ourselves for marriage (yes we do intend to marry each other in the future). I am still a ...

Boyfriend’s Past Sex Life Bothers Me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me, things are pretty good between us. We are like perfect together and I trust him with all my heart which is really hard since I've been hurt really bad by my ex. We both agreed not to talk about his sexual ...

She says I make her feel like no one ever has, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

4 December 2014 (M) - Alright so i'm going to do my best to make this as concise as possible. I met this girl from another country on the other side of the world via the internet. She is a very social person and is almost always out and about but she is also insecure and ...