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Archived questions from: 15 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do condom sizing work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - very quick question, how big does the penis have to be (length and girth) to fit a normal condom? ...

I can't decide on my own whether to sexually satisfy him or not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

15 July 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months. We recently started having sex. He wants oral (b***j**) without a condom. Also, for me to swallow c**. I know u cant get pregnant but the thought is still in the back of my head. I want to make him ...

Can you get pregnant during your period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i had sex while i was on my period, i was under the understanding that you couldn't get pregnant while on your period. i'm also on birth controll but the pills you take while on your period are just reminder pills not actually birth ...

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me ...

I hate blow jobs but i'd love to know how to give a good one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I hate blow jobs but i'd love 2know how to give a good one....

Why does intercourse still hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - why does intercourse still hurt if iv had sex at least 15 times?...

Friction rash from anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I had anal sex for the first time last week--we didn't use enough lube, and although it actually didn't hurt at the time, 2 days later I started feeling like I had a rash right around the anal area, presumably from the rough friction. It's been...

My teenage boyfriend is horny and sweet talks to let him finger me, even when I am not ready

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 13 almost 14 and I have been dating this guy for 6months and I absolutly love him. Please don't judge me cuz of my age. Well, he has been wanting to finger me but I'm scared and that's normal. But, I asked him if he would be mad if I ...

How do you tell a guy you're still waiting for an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I slept with a new man the other night--in our texts he kept telling me about all the things he would do, oral, etc. But in reality we had intercourse twice, and I sucked him off for a while. But not once did he try to go down on me or please ...

I can only have sex a couple of times a day - is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and it's been good but we can only have sex once or twice a day as i get sore is this normal? Sometimes if we don't have sex for a week or so and we try and have it i will be sore so we have to kee...

Is it possible that I'm pregnant from this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I did oral sex yesterday. We didn't *** or orgasm at all but before he fingered me He rubbed his penis (I doubt he had pre-*** because before that gave a hand job and it wasn't wet or anything) then I gave him a ******** but ...

Was it wrong of me to lose my virginity to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Well first off i'm a 16 year old girl in serious need of advice! I would normally go to my mom or dad for advice but this time i cant. i feel like if i tell them ill disappoint them and thats exactly what i dont want. cuz like ever other norma...

I think he's having sex with his daughter!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - i am with a man in his late 40's he has a daughter living with him who is 18 i have known this man for 15yrs now and am madly in love with him. I really feel that he is having sex with his daughter and cannot get it out of my head. I have ...

When does it become just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Hi Just want to know what you people out there think of Love, do you think you can make love with someone yet not be in love with them,if not does it only then become just sex?? And if you have broken up with someone countless times and they s...

Should I take it now? How long does it take for the pill to work properly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - How long does it take for the pill to start working properly? Im in a relationship with my bf, but we are waiting to have sex until I feel ready and until we have been together longer. Although Im not ready yet, I want to be prepared for whe...

Does spanish fly drops work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - can anyone tell me if spanish fly drops realy work on women? Should you recomend it?...

I say no! and he hits me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I feel really down and used at this point but anyways.... Me and my bf was playing around, and he got on top on me and started to take my shirt off and stuff. well at the time i wasnt feeling to good. so i was like please stop not right now. h...

He says he doesn't like sex and can't be bothered with it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He is the most wonderful boyfriend and most amazing person I've ever been with. When I'm with him I feel happy and content. I adore this guy and I hope to be with him for a long time. The problem ...

I'm a girl having dreams about having a penis

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - I'm a sixteen year old girl and I'm bisexual. I find myself sexually attracted to both girls and guys, and I have for a long time. I've been having strange dreams for a few years, in which I have a penis. I never even thought about something as ...

Does this sound like someone who has been sexually abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for a few months and I think he might have been sexually abused as a child. He just told me that he is not capable of loving someone in a romantic way, and only loves me as a friend. He also told me once that he will ...

Effectiveness of withdrawal method plus spermicide?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Are there any statistics available on the effectiveness of withdrawal used in conjunction with a spermicide? I'm not on the pill any more and started having sex with my ex again. He never would wear a condom, so we've been using a spermicidal gel ...

We haven't had sex in 12 years, WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - My husband does not want to have sex. I am not unattractive, active and in very good shape for my age. We have not had sex in 12 years. When I ask him why he says he will try but never does. If he has a problem with ED would he tell me? If he does ...

Some questions regarding sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - i have two questions, one is when i have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't like it when i moan its weird because i thought that turned men on even more. and my second question is can you get pregnant while your on your period ...

My virgin GF cried during foreplay, is this my fault?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend told me she going to give her virginity (I didn’t pressure her and I’m not a virgin). We waited until my birthday to do it just to make a bit more fun. She acted really nervous around me. When the day come she was really freaked. I ...

My girlfriend left me after a mishap during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of one month left me 5 days ago cause 2 weeks ago during rough sex I must have did something to her cervix now she cant have sex with me may be more o f a problem but she wants to leave also or shes confused cause she said she cant be ...

How can we be more aggressive with each other in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

15 July 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, we're very serious and i love him dearly. We have great sex...when we have it. Its not that we dont have enough, its that i know we could have more, even better sex but, neither ...

Nervous about fooling around with my girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

15 July 2009 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a couple of weeks. and its been amazing I really like her and she really likes me too. we haven't gotten to anything physical but we would like to..id do anything with/for her. all we've done is ...