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Dating divorced man with daughters...why havent I met the younger one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful man for over 1 year now. We enjoy each other very much, and when together have a great time. We love each other deeply. We've both been divorced within the last 2 years. The only problem is the younger daughter...

How can I live like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - hi, i am 40 years old not married, i used to live in us for 3 years, but when i came back i couldnt live well here, life is hard and people are hard to live with, even my mom layer, at work in the street all life is so bad, what can i do ?...

Does alchohol consumption change cum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (?) - heyy quick question, trying to settle a debate :) haha. if a guy drinks alcohol a lot is his cum more bitter or sweet or what? does it change the texture of it? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy....

I'm shattered. How do I handle her cheating and our breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - well first of all im 23 i was with a girl who is 20 yrs old for around 2 years i fell in love with her and thought she did too,then she broke up with me around a week ago but we still comunicated because 2 yrs is a while to just cut off,and then she ...

We live together and I have no place to go...how do I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - How do I break up with someone that I live with? My boyfriend and I have been together for thwo years now. I think he's a great person but I no longer want to be with him. I know I should just go, but as we live together, and I don't have anywh...

I slept with my girlfriend and now she's not calling me back! And also.. my male friend hit on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hello fellow agony aunts. I have a problem..actually it's 2 and i was wondering if you guys could help. So last night was Halloween and there was a huge party in my town. Everyone..all my friends and people from other schools were there. And i we...

I lied about my age and now I don't know if I should tell him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - so, i met this guy about 4 years ago through mutual friends...when we met i KNEW he was in his 20's and i was about to turn 16...ive always had older groups of friends. well, this guy and i always kept in touch...emailed for a good three months just ...

I love him, I don't want to lose him but I don't know what else to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old Egyptian girl. A year ago I met an American guy online, he is 26. Since the first night we met we both clicked right away. We talked for five hours and neither of us really wanted to go. I wasn't looking for a relationship nor was ...

Tired of these guys picking on me, should I stand up for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - In school I have 2 boys that like to pick and hit with me. They think its ok because their are playing and they think im playing but im not. See im a goofy person that laughs and smile a lot and they think it ok because i don't get mad but im, tired ...

Jealousy issues! please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Please help me,im 38 have been married and in long term relationships but I cant seem to be able to control my jealous streak.I know im insecure but i find it really hard to trust as I have been let down so many times by people really close to me.I ...

Is there any chance that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, From October of 2008 to May of 2009, I was in a relationship with the boy that I am thoroughly convinced was my first love. Our time together was absolutely wonderful. During those seven months, I was happier than I had ever been be...

Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...

Sometimes I wonder if we should break up. Are we doomed to fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I am a 30 year old male dating someone in my age range but just a little younger. We have so much fun together and enjoy each other's company. She does so much for me and I for her. However, I think that at times we are both insecure and it ...

(Contains list of emails and some bad language) Do these emails mean we're getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - my Girl friend wrot me thisand I was wondering if we are getting back together? these emails are in the order they were received. Dear Johnny, First of all by you just admitting to all this without rationalizations, excuses or div...

Mistreated sexually in a shop! What should I have done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I went to a shop the other week somewhere in Northwest England (not saying where), was looking at buying some new electronics for my husband, and asked a saleswoman for advice. She then asked me to come over to her desk, to discuss it, which I did, ...

Childhood sweethearts and now we're together, but he says he needs to be alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. We were childhood sweethearts over 20 years ago. Got back together when both our marriages crumbled (both our partners had affairs). His wife left him in Jan of this year, divorced by June. My ...

I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my ...

How can I check my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I m doubted that i have broke my hymen during self pleasuring.bt i dnt remember that I ever seen blood during self pleasuring.how can I check my virginity?...

What has happened to the world?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (?) - What has happened to the world...children having sex at the age of 14? They can't be emotionally prepared for all the stuff they will go through....

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a ...

We get on so well! But there are some problems..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I started dating a guy about a year ago. Things went well until he had a problem with ED. He told me he only ended up sleeping with the women that he married. His first marriage lasted 3 years (she ended up deciding to be gay). Hi seco...

She cheated on me and I forgive her, but now she does not know what she wants.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Well here it goes, I was went on vacation and I kept in contact with my girlfriend that I love very much, and i suspected something was going on and I was right She was cheating on me and she admitted it and asked me to forgive her I was raged but I ...

Things used to be so sweet. How can they go back to the way they used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much were still together we've been datin for 9 months but this past month just hasn't been the same. We would always do things that we like doin and at the end of the day we would just cuddle and watch tv or a movie. And ...

Does she look at other men? Is she lying to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I feel terrible. I do not know what to do. I have accused my girlfriend time after time after time of looking at other men and she always insists that she doesn't. But I see her looking around whenever we are outside, so she has to be judging and ...

What should I do about the cold shoulder he is giving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - He doesnt care to know how am doing or if i even still exist and i dont know what to do.I've always tried to guide my heart against wavering men but i think i just let my wall crumble without even trying to uphold it.i met this guy like 3yrs a go ...

Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not...

I lied to my fiancee that I'm a virgin... what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hi i had forced to have sex now im getting married and i lied to my fiancee that im a virgin i cant tell him the truth what should i do??????????/ plz help ...

Can you have love without sexual attraction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Do you thinks it's possible to be in love with someone but not sexually attracted to that person?...

What would woman think of me defending my girl's honour like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Ok this question is directed towards the women. I just want to know, if you're a guy is it ok to punch another man because he said something about his girlfriend. What do women think of that....

How do I regain self confidence and feel worthy again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - How do you regain self confidence after someone have cheated on you? Especially if the other woman was beautiful. How do I feel worthy again and not so ugly....

I want to be his girlfriend. Any feedback?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys it's Buddah again :). I just wanted a few little comments on this crush I have. Okay, so I just turned 14 a few weeks ago, and I am in the production of 'Cinderella' at my school. There is a guy, he's 17, that I have a huge crush on. He ...

Is it ok for my husband to flirt all the time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - MY HUSBAND FLIRTS WITH WOMEN ALL THE TIME, WHAT SHOULDI DO ? IS THAT OKAY FOR HIM TO D SO? ...