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Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I get noticed more?

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30 November 2009 (F) - ok here goes im 14 now and so far my best friend has gotten soooo much attention off the boys in our year its unbeleivable but some times i feel left out because none of them even notice me, its not like i dont get attention at because on my way ...

HELP!! I'm headed for a breakdown!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but undernea...

Thoughts on rebounding...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have a general question about this rebounding phenomenon. I've never done it myself, as I give myself time to heal. I may get physical with someone, but I'd never dive into a new relationship, because it doesn't feel right to me if my heart ...

How do I get "free" again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hello, I have a problem, I used to be an exellent student I didn't repeat any class and everybody was respecting me and I was always the hard working girl, but in the beginning of my adolescence something changed inside of me, my parents and my ...

I don't know what's wrong with me. I only like guys with blond hair.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ok here goes, for some reason i think i like guys if they have blonde hair i know that sounds really picky and i think thats y i didnt go out with a boy hu was just like me (personality wise) i mean the guy im in love with the heaven an bak and have ...

Where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship?

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30 November 2009 (F) - Hi... I have been on this site for a couple months i think, used it before and have given advice. I just want to ask where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship? I'm 28, with an Asian background and rarely meet guys, and dont ...

14 and want a baby...

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30 November 2009 (F) - Im 14 and i really want a baby. i know this sounds stupid at my age but its all i think about. i havent had a good education at school so far but i think if i have a baby it will be great. just somebody to love to be there for to give it a cuddle ...

I love him so much but I want to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I love him so much but I want to hate him. What shall i do to oppose my emotions towards him?! please help!...

If he remembers lots of small things over the last 3 years we have been together does this mean he really cares for me?

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30 November 2009 (F) - my bf tends to remember many small things or events for the past 3 year we've known each other. we've been together for almost more than year. Does this show he really cares for me? or loves me truly?...

I think this man has stolen personal information from me, can he do any harm with that sort of info?

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30 November 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have just had to go to a local newsagents and ask if they could print some stuff out of me. It was about 30 pages of documents including job applications, email details and cv details. It was obviusly something the guy doesn't usually ...

I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...

Emotional and physical love... the differences?

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30 November 2009 (M) - For a man, to live a life without ejeculating is hard, I am in a relationship with a celibate woman who finds it no problem, that is the difference, men need to express physically their love, women are quite happy having no physical relationship... ...

Should I marry my student or just be his mother figure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am a 32 year old who's divorced recently. I teach. One boy who's 22 yrs old came to me as a student and in due course i started treating him like my son and he calls me mom. suddenly we ended up having physical relationship. now i am in fix as to ...

I feel like I have nothing in my life compared to my friends...

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30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am approaching 29 and feel like I have nothing in my life. My freinds are all off getting married, having kids, buying houses, in great jobs etc. I live in a shared house with a 25 year old and I work in dire job for 22,000 a yea...

Should I tell my sister in law that I'm in love with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my sister in law. My wife's sister. I think about her all the time. I'm just concerned about taking it too far. I am married with a boy and a girl. She is married with 3 girls. We are both in our late 30's but she is a couple of ...

Is not being able to get over a crush normal? How do I get over him?

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30 November 2009 (F) - i reallllllly like a guy that is a known flirt. i dont want to be in a relationship with him cuz he is a known cheater. but at nights i still dream about him and i still check his acebook statuses and stuff. is this healthy will this help me get ...

I am fourteen and afraid that I'm pregnant. Who do I talk to?

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30 November 2009 (F) - Okay so Im 14 and Very Very Veryyyyyyyyy scared! I think i might be pregnant... Ummm....Ive missed my first period but theres no way for me to be able to get a preg. test. Im soooo Scared. I cant tell anyone because None of my friends would neve...

What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys?

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30 November 2009 (M) - What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys? How much outgoingness? How much confidence? More of a child, an equal, or a mother? I don't think an equally shy partner works. They tend not to talk much. Neither of them draws the othe...

How do I make his last name mine legally?

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30 November 2009 (F) - My mom and me havent gotten along since my dad left, and that was in the 6th grade. Im 25 now.Shes done so many wrong things to me to where today i have disowned her, i cant forgive her and move on . I have talked to my fiance about my plans to ...

Is casual sex a bad thing? Will I regret it?

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30 November 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no ...

Why did he break off the proposal? What can I do?

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30 November 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend for about a year and a half. I loved him, and he said he loved me. One day he poposed. I said yes, and everything was just great. Then, about three hours ago, he called, said he didn't want to get married, didn't want to date me at ...

Is he being too shallow? Or does he love me?

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30 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been going out with my bf since 9months, though i wwent to a different country 6 months after the relationship started and now, i am going to see my bf in a week and he said he won't be able to keep his hands off me. he is a great gu...

How can we work through our financial issues?

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30 November 2009 (M) - I'm a married man, in his mid-40s who is having a bit of trouble over my wife's bankruptcy. I myself have gone though it as well, but for some reason, I find myself getting angry about hers. It's a bit more complicated than mine, in that it ...

How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal ...

Is it possible that my husband is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A ...

I love him?

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30 November 2009 (F) - Im 13 and i like this guy but he dosnt know i like him how do i text him and like tell him that i really like him without him freaking out.. ...

Do I tell her how I how I feel, and how?

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30 November 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for 2 and a bit months, and already I see it taking a nose dive towards another failed relationship. Well, she wanted me to go to hers last night because she had the house to herself, as much as I wanted to see her pret...

Is it wrong to send sexy text messages?

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30 November 2009 (F) - is it wrong to send him sexy text messages...the man that i love, i send him a text today. that said hey babe,thinking bout u right now wondering how it would feel to touch you...mmmm and kiss you all up..omg dnt u wanna play. ill be the teacher ur ...

What do I get my 15 year old b/f for xmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi i have a 15 year old booyfriend and i cant think of a single thing to get him for christmas. we will be together for 8 months in december. so any ideas on what to get him?...