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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it possible just to give up on love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - It's been 8 months since my ex dumped me. I tried being friends after the break up which was a mistake and just hurt me more. Her and I are over. I kind of want to send her a message saying we can't be friends but that would be pointless. I've ...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

I need a friend to talk to, but my friend always steers the conversations back to her problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have this friend who i've known now for nearly 7 years and shes one of my closest friends, shes 3 kids 2 of which are my godsons and i do love her to pieces however i am at the end of my tether. She is forever ringing me and texting me telli...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

How can I dress more attractively?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - i am a short , fat and black guy. plsss pour your suggestions for dressing attractively. i usually wear jeans trousers and t - shirts. but my friends insist me to wear formals that 'd be looking nice for me... plsss yur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!...

I'm willing to compromise in my home. How can I get my daughter-in-law to pitch in?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My husband and I both smoke. I know it's a nasty, unhealthy, disgusting habit but we have it, nonetheless. We don't smoke in other people's homes out of respect for their space but feel we have the right to do what we want in our own home. ...

My husband is abroad and doesn't send money or call to talk.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i am 41 years i been married for almost 14 years and we have 3 kids my problem is my husband i was asking myself if i need quit my marriage, my husband and i do not talk regarding family matters, sex do not say i love you he did not talk to often we ...

I'm going to prison for 6 months. How will I cope?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope you are all well. Ok here is my problem, I am a nice middle class women of 28, I have guy I am with and another think I may end up with, a good job and a nice flaty I rent with some friends, I went to University, did a degree and ...

I'm sick of living like this, I just don't know what to do anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 and a half years and I think it's over. We're more friends than a proper couple. We don't do anything together, we don't go anywhere, he doesn't speak to me when we get home from work - he's too busy on ...

I know nothing about dating! Has anyone got any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 20 year old male who has never had a date because I've always been to shy to ask anyone. I am, now, perfectly confident in myself and can talk to girls much more easily. The problem is I don't really know absolutely anything about dating and ...

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...

Advice for last minute exam preparation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Any tips to how to cope with last minute preparation for exams? I am really desperate now argh~~~...

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...

Insecure & Losing My Mind...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Please help me... I'm really suffering. I have done countless Google searches, read through hundreds of forums and advice columns, and sought the help of family, friends, and even my significant other, but nothing will silence my thoughts and ...

I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...

Help me get over this "desire!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - How can a man get over the desire to have a threesome?...

I know more about books than women... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Well, this is another story of my life. i have decided to write those things down coz i cannot keep them inside me any more. I have started to like this website (I have received quite helpful advice), but I'm curious to see if anyone has an answe...

Is it bad to talk to yourself?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Is it bad to talk to yourself? I dont do it in public but if I'm by myself such as in the car driving I usaully talk to myself. The reason I do it is because I dont have nobody else to talk to all my friends that were always ears have babies now ...

Overly jealous fiance???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...