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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

When is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ok, pretty simple question. I've been seeing this new guy for nearly a month. For about 2 weeks it's been getting serious. We are together almost every night when we both get off work. He never makes plans without me and I always invite him to ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard...

Is there a chance that good friends can become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - I've been really good friends with a girl for about 6 months now but i've always had a little more for her that she doesn't know about, she's just broken up from a long term relationship and i've seen her alot more but i'm afraid we're too good ...

Does it mean he does fancy me or doesnt...........?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i was chatting with this guy i really like. we are good friends. he sort of appears outgoing but is actually quite shy especially with women. i,ve known him ages and he has never had a girlfriend. (he's not gay) we were recently joking about what is ...

I'm very worried that I can't tell if I like girls or guys, or both

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: You are not bothering us with 'stupid teen' questions. We're here to help as much as we can.] hi i have a big problem and i need help figuring this out in my life. im only 17 but i am having trubble telling if i like girls or guys ...

Have any other men divorced their wives to be with their sister in law?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - have men divoced their wives to marry their wife's sister? does this happen or am i the only one that is conteplating this?...

How can I be more interesting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social ...

Is it unhealthy to love someone this much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend we have been together almost two years now. I am still very attracted to him, we have great sex and I can tell him everything. We have this relationship where we can tell each other how we rea...

What can I get my Navy man for xmas...having a hard time thinking of something! Help!

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22 November 2009 (F) - hey all i apologise that this is totally the wrong site for this i just need a lil help if you dont mind please :) as you all no, its comng up to christmas, im finding it hard to think of soething i could get my boyfriend for christmas.. we have ...

Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it ...

She doesn't seem to want me as much now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Im in a new relationship (my first proper one). Im 22 and lost my virginity to her, every thing seems good but when we go to bed shes always tierd and i have a very high sex drive. We were having sex most weekends when we were together but now we ...

I had a one night stand with my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello, there is no one else i can talk to about what im going to tell. what ive done is illegal and could get me into alot of trouble, here is my story. okay so my cousin moved in with me my brother and my mom at the be...

What to do now he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - The other day I texted my crush/ friend that I had a little crush on him. After that he wasn’t much different acting that I noticed and there was one point last week that I thought he told people but he didn’t tell anyone. I don’t know why he would ...

Happend so quick, it's hard to comprehend! . . . Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello. Ok so i need some guy advice people!! I started being friends with a guy a year ago... We tried going on dated for a few months and flirted... And you know those looong profound conversations on the phone. Yep, We had those. And we always...

My fiancee is not pulling his share of the load!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - My partner is not supporting me, not easy to talk to about domestic issues and is not pulling his weight, how should i approach him about this? Me and my fiance have been together for almost 4 years and have a sixth month baby. We rent a house and...

Stuck in the middle between mum and my fiance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - my fiance and i have been together just over 1 year. we bought a house after 7mths together, got engaged about 3mths after that, and we wanna get married next june. He's 43 in december and i am 27. We love each other very much and are soulmates. ...

I asked him to move in with me to save money but the conversation went nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has stayed a my house every night now for the last 2 months. At the moment he rents a room in a shared house although he only gets a shower there then he's straight over to mine. As neither of us have much spare cash, I ...

Was my ex just using me for money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - im so hurt about this i really need your wonderful advice please i split with my ex this year after 6 years-during this time i have helped him out majorly financially it got to the stage where i felt this was all he was with me for as he never ...

Any advice to study and memorise fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I am only left with 2 days to my paper. It is a history paper and I am suppose to memorise the character's theory on translation. Any advice to study and memorise fast? Sorry am really desperate now!...

I've been hunting for a boyfriend for years, why haven't I found one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I always feel lonely perhaps it's because I've never had a boyfriend or even a date. I am too embarrassed to divulge this information to my friends but since we all met in college and are very close they've definitely noticed I've never been on one ...

My bf is abusive but I love him... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and we even live together. He treats me great, takes care of me and tells me everyday that he loves me. Problem is that when he gets upset he calls me names,gets very loud with me and has even ...

What movies are good to go too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hey People!!! this is just a weird question but...i know everyone loves movies and i was just wondering.... do you think movies have been bad lately...(well suckish...you know)and... if you could produce a movie what would it be about??...