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Archived questions from: 24 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Am I gay or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - So I've been attracted to girls all my life but shortly after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me(2.5 years ago) I started getting these really strong sexual urges. These urges come by for about 3 days every six months. The thing about these urges is ...

My boyfriend's mother is a problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hello i have a lil problem with my boyfriends mother. it seems that he can't cut the cord and it creates problems for us. i am close with my parents but my parents aren't clingy like his mother is. i have much love and respect for her and i am sure ...

Nobody likes me and I don't understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - well i have this problem since a few months ...i am 22 and am doing an mba ...all my classmates hate me...they dont greet me or even like to talk to me ....even i try to talk to them then i really feel disappointed by the way they respond...some ...

He seems so shy! Should I make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hi! could anybody help me? well, I use public transport, and I see Mister X almost every day, when we both go to work. we look at each other tenderly, but don't dare to say hello. obviously he wants to talk to me but he's too shy... what sho...

I don’t know what to think about him now! I am so confused!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years, and we have been living together only 2 months, but its going really well. I thought things were perfect between us.. he is sweet, kind, thoughtful, considerate and the perfect gentleman. Really ...

Need to shake this feeling! Please Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... I am a 21 year old Junior in college (should be a senior but due to poor grades am not) and have been been dating my girlfriend who is a Senior in a private University about an hour away from me. I've been with her for a few months n...

How do I get my self-esteem and confidence back after all life has thrown at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - When I came to this site, I was rock bottom in life. After going through so much adversity, in my life my self esteem plummeted. After visiting this site, I learned that so many man and women are going through similar problems and issues. My ...

Is their relationship against the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - one of my best mates has just turned 15. about 7 months ago when she was 14 she was going out with a 17 year old, they where great together and she was madly in love with him. but he works at a primary school training children after school. ...

Am I in love with my uncle's wife or is this just an obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - dear cupid I'm 20 years old and I have a big crush on my uncle's wife she is 32, their marriage is not that great and I hear them argue on the phone a lot ,they have one child together, she has a doughter from a past relationship, my aunt and I ...

Should I foster or adopt a child against my boyfriend's advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

24 November 2009 (?) - I have a boyfriend of six months who is against my idea of fostering a child. My idea is to adopt a child if i dont get married, and i would like to start with fostering. I realise i have been puting my plans on 'hold' waitng for marriage.I havent ...

Is my level of anxiety normal or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, im not sure if anyone is able to help but here goes... I recently passed my driving test and got myself a car. The thing is instead if being thrilled of having my independence im terrified of driving. I mean i was confident ...

How do I get back my 9 inch penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - When i was a youmg man i was blessed with being well endowed with a 9 inch penis. I had no complaints and lots of complements on its size. A couple weeks ago i overheard my wife over the phone to her phone say that she missed my 9 and thinks it had ...

He sends mixed messages. Does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - First, i like this guy. next, im confused as to how he acts. So...he treats me differently than other girls, basically, and idk if im just overanalyzing cuz i like him or if he really does treat me weird. He basically talks to me a bunch and invi...

How can you tell if you really like someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - how do you know that you like someone? i cant tell and im staring to worry that i will never meet anyone who i will like or maybe im just incapable of love. its driving me crazy and starting to scare me....

I don't know how to be in any other relationshi[?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in September after ten months of being together. We were apart for about a month and a half, until we ran into eachother again, and all the feelings came back. We started seeing eachother no strings attached. (Well, ...

I broke up with him today...shoul I e-mail him or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up today, he's been distant and I just couldn't take it anymore. He asked if I thought I'd be better single and I said maybe even thought I love him more then life itself. After I said maybe I just walked away, the look on ...

What should I do when I haven't seen someone in ages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for nearly 2 months now and have only gone out with him once. We chat all the time over the computer and thats about it. He has a job that takes up alot of his time and he sometimes works on weekends. At the moment he has work...

Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women? I mean, I myself am a very insecure female, especially regarding appearance. I always have a bit of an internal freak out when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend and a naked, big bre...