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36-40,
anonymous
writes:well first of all im 23 i was with a girl who is 20 yrs old for around 2 years i fell in love with her and thought she did too,then she broke up with me around a week ago but we still comunicated because 2 yrs is a while to just cut off,and then she started going out and going home late i kept asking her where shed go and shed say with girlfriends then yesterday she told me she was going to a halloween party with 3 girls and today i asked her if she was with a guy and she finally told me shes been going out with a guy for 4 months and yes she was with him yesterday, i feel devastated because i gave her everything time,attention,what hurts the most is that she was seeing him when she was with me and i comitted myself to a long term relationship and it all shattered in 1 day and her dishonesty makes me feel like i made a mistake in the relationship...so someone help me give me some advise i love this girl and i dont know what to do?
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reader, lionelhutz  +, writes (2 November 2009):
If you gave her your best, which from reading your post sounds like you did, then I would say the reasons for her decision are hers alone. Don't think of it in terms of you making a mistake.
I think that if you were already broken up, then you should move on. I know that's easier to say than do, particularly when emotions are involved. But if she cared for you the way you cared for her, she wouldn't have been seeing someone else while she was seeing you.
all the best
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