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41-50,
*oveiscare
writes:MY HUSBAND FLIRTS WITH WOMEN ALL THE TIME, WHAT SHOULDI DO ? IS THAT OKAY FOR HIM TO D SO?
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reader, loveiscare +, writes (2 November 2009):
loveiscare is verified as being by the original poster of the question THANKS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): If you can't explain yourself and what exactly is bothering you other than repeating yourself (and please do not type in all caps) then I am not sure any of us here can advise you.
Since you are feeling this badly, I recommend that you go and get some individual counseling, I think a professional could help you sort things out inside yourself and come to a decision as to what to do about it.
Good Luck.
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reader, loveiscare +, writes (1 November 2009):
loveiscare is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIS IT OKAY FOR MY HUSBAND TO FLIRT ALL THE TIME ? I FEEL THERE IS NO LOVE IS THAT OKAY FOR ME TO FEEL THIS WAY ?
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reader, allureyou  +, writes (1 November 2009):
It sounds to me that your asking this question because it bothers you and thats the main thing.. you are not comfortable with it, those fut feelings that just dont seem kosher... Do you feel he flirts less with you? you need to take inventory on your relationship,see if pros outweigh the cons? or....you can do some reverse phycology and not toooo obvious, but do some flirting and maybe send yourself flowers and be sure to downplay it,i.e- oh, he is just being a nice guy or whatever!!let him know your desirable and hes the lucky one,good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): It depends on how it makes you feel, if you think he is crossing a line then he probably is, tell him to knock it off or you will knock his block off.
If on the other hand your husband is just a happy fellow and likes to flirt with women to make them feel good and add a little harmless banter to his day and he never gives you any reason not to feel he only has eyes for you, then I would say it is just his way, his personality.
I don't automatically think that if a man is married and he is with his spouse that I can't flirt with him, if it is done in a light way, it is just called being friendly, approachable and likable....
I don't know which he falls into, but perception is not reality. Just because you perceive he is a big flirt does not mean he is looking to get laid, lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): It depends on how you interpret flirting. But still, it's not right for him to flirt with other people. Just sit him down and talk about it, I guess. Confront him.
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reader, xocinderellaox11 +, writes (1 November 2009):
i don't think it's okay for him to flirt all the time if he is married at all. but don't be to pushy about it. you don't want to seem like the naggy house wife.
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reader, susievee  +, writes (1 November 2009):
If he cares about you he should practice some discretion at the very least. For me it would not be okay. You do not really elaborate so would doing it back be an option, you know show him how it feels, but yeah if you are not into games I say he needs to be a hell of a lot more considerate of your feelings.
Susie
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): NO..... Its not the hell OK. He don't have any respect for you. OK. If you let him do this you don't really love him, and he don't respect you and he don't love you too. take some action. Let him know that you don't like this.
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