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Archived questions from: 10 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I feel there is still hope for us. Is it really over or am I in denial???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have been through so much together. I have 3 children and he has been involved with them %100.. we are a family.. My childrens' father is not easy and complicates things like decision making when it comes...

Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but ...

Our age difference doesn't bother us, but my father is not speaking to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 19 and I've fallen in love with robert, a 36 year old. We've been getting to know eachother quite intensively last six months and last week we've had the most amazing sex, every aspect of 'us' is amazing and I can't stop thinking about him. I d...

HOw can I control my urge to have a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 16 years old and i want a baby! i have previously been pregnant two times and miscarried both, which left me very emotional. i have always wanted to have kids but over the past 6months i have wanted one more and more and it can get emotiona...

My husband and I are on different ends of the spectrum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my hubby for 17 years (married ten years and have children. In the last 6 months things have just got worse. I admit that I no longer want to be intimate with my hubby and he has got more annoyed saying I need to see a sex therap...

Should I believe and trust my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I am 41 my boyfriend of 8 months is 27. I am married (partially seperated). I recently got an apartment with for my boyfriend and I. We seemed to be getting along great, then his friends started coming around. I noticed a change in him. One ...

I am unfulfilled in this marriage but divorce terrifies me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 4 year and we have a 2 year old son together. Our relationship has been rocky for a long time. My wife is a good person albeit cold a distant sometimes. Throughout our relationship I have often felt alone and longing for ...

My Mum won't come to my wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi Im 18 years old and my soon to be husbund is 31 we have known each other for nearly 2 years and have been dating for 16 months and living together for 8, i have had a very difficult childhood,father died when i was 14, mum trying to kill her self...

I am struggling to get over my ex-girlfriend; the mother of my child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4938 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Hi there my name is james and I'm 22 years old me and my ex girlfriend were going out for 4 years on and off we also have a son together the most recent break up we have had has lasted 6 months. But we have been gettin on good. So I have been goin ...

Is this an online romance or am I over-reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 7 years, but been together since we were teens. Only been with each other. She is very conservative and not at all into cheating ever. Very honest and pure. A Christian. Recently, she started playing an onli...

I am too afraid to enjoy this romance because of past hurt! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - ive met a guy. hes really into me.. hes soo sweet and funny. hes good looking.. goes uni really ambitious and seems really friendly and i think i like him too cos everytime i think about him i just smile.. he makes me really happy by just ...

How can I eliminate this harrassment without causing a scandal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (?) - An explanationa and a question...I had a brief internet fling with a much younger friend of the family. It was never a love thing or even an attraction for me but i think it was more of an ego trip. Our families have been friends forever and he is r...

I'm so worked up about failing my driving test, has anyone got any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im so down right now and for the stupidist reason....I have failed my driving test with just 1 major fault and 2 minors. Major fault was for doing 40mph on a 30mph road...completly my fault.Its not helping everyone is saying "oh what a shame" ...

Is it work or age difference that is really keeping him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Why does age difference have to be an issue after you turn 18? Say I'm 19 and he's 39? Why does work have to be an issue when your both single and its only a seasonal job so you only see the other in the summer or winter? If I were to work a s...

I am thinking of rekindling my romance with my ex, how do I tell my family who hate him and end my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Right the brief version if this, met guy 19, fall for each other, then he got married, had affair, I broke it off, now I am with someone else, so is he, but his left the girl, wants to be with me, I want him as well, as never loved the guy I ...

Should I ask him if he wants to get back or wait for him to speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Just to repost this for more replies from our aunts: My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, hav...

How can I find out whether we are actually a couple without scaring him away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've known T since beginning of Sep. He first asked me out on a group date beginning of Oct, and since then our dates become more and more frequent. He invited me to his company's dinner and dance as his plus one where he kissed me. Since then, ...

Am I just using her to get over the pain of losing my girlfriend and my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - about a year ago my girlfriend died. I went into a depression. I think about her every day. I let it affect me too much and ended up losing my job. two weeks ago my friend who I knew since I was 6 killed himself after losing his job. I havnt talked ...

Smitten after 2 weeks of dating, how do I stop my insecurities from ruining this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have met a guy I'm totally smitten with after only being together for two weeks. I think he's about to dump me due to my own stupid insecurities and related behavior (constantly seeking reassurance and doubting his motives for being with me). I ...

How do I appreciate good men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - why Is it do i only fall for bad guys the guys that dont treat me well? there was a guy that was intetested in me last year and i ignored him cause i still had feelings for my bastard ex boyfriend who ended the relationship cause it was boring" ...

I dumped him, now he makes out with me but he has a girlfriend, is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I dumped this one guy about 1 or 2months ago and were friends now...and the reson why I dumped him is because I felt wierd around him.But now that I know him better I want another chance,but there is one little probleme.....he has a girlfriend ...

I have been masturbating a long time, but I have a problem with orgasm, can anyone help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Ok, its kinda a sex question ive been masterbating since i was 12, and i have been sexually active since i was 14, nd im 15, i know weird, but i just want to know why i dont come when i masterbate, i mean i sumthimes do but most of the time, i dont, ...

My boyfriend says I am the only girl he has experiened an orgasm with, is this unusal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My bf says I am the first girl to ever make him cum. He says no girl has ever been able to do that for him before and hes always had trouble keeping it up, but with me he hasnt had either of those problems. I am wondering why this is? Im not even ...

What can I do to promote sexual activity with my girfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - How do i Instigate sexual actions with my girlfriend, I just want to know how i should proceed with the actions, oh and secondary question should i have the condom already on or do i have to put it on infront of her cause that could just cause an ...

Need some thoughful ideas for my guy for Christmas, please help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 24 and I dont know what to get him for christmas. I want to get him something that shows I care and put thought into it. I also dont want it to be original but i want it to be something he likes. He loves the redskins and beer lol. ...

How do I know if I'm a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I always seem to be thinking about how attractive females at my school are. I get turned on by females and occasionaly males. This year I had strong feelings for a female in my class. I had romantic feelings and that tingly feeling. I watched ...

My bossy boss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she ...