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Archived questions from: 14 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Serious sexual dysfunction without a cause!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - What can you do if your husband is permanently, sexually off? It started few years ago. In our early 40's. Now, we tried everything therapy, medical investigations but there is no answer, why is he the way he is. No medical cause, and not clear wh...

I keep dreaming of a man 23 years my senior!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - how much do dreams mean when it comes to terms of love? I keep dreaming that me and this guy are really close, like, cuddled up, I can feel his skin and his warmth in my dreams and I'm always dissapointed when I wake up. I do have sex dreams and I'm ...

I have no emotional connection with my husband and am so unhappy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have always been a smart girl, but I believe that I made a very bad decision. I met my now husband as a freshman in college. He sought after me for six months, but I began dating someone and did not return the calls. Well, after 6m...

I need a light at the end of the tunnel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely alone. I hate school, no one gets me or speaks to me. How do I survive my last year of high school before I go to Uni? I hope Uni will be a fresh start with new people who are more mature/nicer. I am giving up,...

He said if I died he'd move on. Does that mean he doesn't really love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im in a comited relationship with a guy since 4 months. we both really love each other..but i feel he doesn't love me much..because just for fun i asked him a question. da question that i asked 2 him was, what wil he do if i die? he said after my...

No man has seen me naked because of my stretch marks. Should I get a tummy tuck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I am in my late 40’s. I have no confidence when it comes to my body. I am on my 3rd divorce and each one of them have cheated on me (I don’t blame them) as I will not show my naked body to anyone. Everyone always says you got nice figure but they...

Life as someone's slave is hard, especially when they treat you worse than a bit of shit on their shoe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - if i knew what to do i wouldn't be here but i need help and advice the man i'm with has left me with no friends and feeling like my life isn't important enough to discuss sometimes i feel if i start talking who'd actually listen. i'm with my pa...

Lately she has been acting like she is mad at me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for around 2 months now, and lately she has been acting like she is mad at me. For the first few weeks everything was fine, we got along, we kissed, we cuddled, that sort of stuff. For about 2 weeks now she has been ...

I am having fantasies about my pregnant neighbor!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - i have a young couple as next door neighbours. my problem is that the wife is 5 months pregnant. and i have started having fantasies about her. ever since she got the baby bump. its almost like a pregnancy fetish. and i am not too happy about ...

How can I do better in school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I am a university student and my friends and groupmates doubt my ability to do well in my studies. It is definitely not a good feeling and I am beginning to feel increasingly inferior and lost the confidence in myself after this. Exams is next week ...

Is there a chance that this relationship can be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - For the last five months I was living with my boyfriend. He moved in only a few weeks after we started dating but we have been friends for several years. Things were going great, our kids got along well and we all had fun together. The problem is we ...

I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...

She surprised me by saying she wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - Allo My girlfriend and i have been together for two years, and we're fine and dandy. Recently though she surprised me by saying she wants sex. She surprised me more then by asking 'What if I was drunk and I had sex with another guy at a party a...

The wounds are really deep and the healing process is being tough...pleae help me with your advice...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm Luque , and I'm 23 years old. I'm feeling really lonely and without any direction, I've been feeling like crying all this week and I really can't describe what I feel, it's like a deep deep sadness, I've been through a lot of stuff in the ...

I've fallen for somebody who doesn't want a relationship with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im in a huge fix.I've fallen for somebody who doesnt want a relationship with me.He's scared of commitment and also according to him our schedules dont allow us to see each other enough anyways.We met almost a year ago,and I kind of assumed he didnt ...

I am thirteen...How do I tell the guy that I like that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Here is the problem. I have known this guy since i was like two and i am 13 now and he is almost 17. i used to think that we were just friends because i didnt like him. i know he likes me because i talked to my dad and the day before our convasation ...

I'm married but want my old friend back..what should I do?

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14 November 2009 (F) - i m married .we have 12 yrs age gap.i find difficult to communicate with my husband as a friend as well as a sex partner (my husband is good person gave me all freedom in term of finance and all).long time ago i find a person who is family friend ...

Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his ...

How do I get my husband to stop cutting me off when I talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Hello I would like advice on how to get my husband to stop cutting me off when i talk. I don't know if he does this on purpose but i have told him that he does it to people and he said he would work on it. He will cut me off in the middle of talking ...

My life is one sad tale....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - Hey aunts.I'm a 14 year old guy and turning 15 in a few days. My life is so complicated but yet too simple at the same time. I don't know what to do. Everything pretty much sucks for me. I never get anything easy. Everything bad always has to happen ...

Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...