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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can high ambition be a turn off for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hello, If I could just ask the females if they think having too much drive and ambtion is major turn-off, that would be great! I recently dated about 2 women in the space of 2 months, but it didnt work out! I think is becuase I have grand plans fo...

Am I too late to win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - how do i know if this guy likes me or just wants sex! ok so he took me to my prom i wasnt interested in him after prom he fell in "love" with me always at my house and stuff.... then he found out i like to party and stuff and hes actually seen other ...

Do you think he's comfortable enough to meet me alone instead of with mutual friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I hope you dont think im totally stupid for this but ive got a problem wanting to meet up with a friend of mine, we;ve been friends for two years now and i still cant bring myself to ask him to go for a drink one daytime alone. Dont get me wrong ...

How should I approach sharing my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I want to hear from guys who have shared there wifes with a friend,stranger,etc. How did you approach it. How did it feel watching her when he started making love to her etc. My wife and I want to try something new . We sat in conversation one...

I feel like I'm wasting my life away. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hi there, my problem is this. I think i have some sort of social disorder. I've been thinking of getting a job but just the thought of having to interact with another human being just simply scares the life out of me. On top of that i have no ...

How do I get over my jealousy? It's starting to break us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years now and i am unbeleivably jealous. I don't know why i am like this and i don't know how to stop. It's not just normal jealousy, it's really bad, to the point where we can't even watch tv together ...

Any tips about phone sex? How do I avoid being awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I live in two different cities and she constantly wants phone sex..I have never had phone sex before so I usually stay quiet..I need some advice on what to say to her..I want to give her the satisfaction she wants......

Who do I invite to the wedding? Restraing order is getting in the way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I are now planning our wedding... things are still tense between me and his father but a new issue has come up and that is the family fued... My fiance is the youngest of 4 children and recently his parents got divorced. There ...

Is my wife is cheating on me.... again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - recently my wife went back to school and the first couple weeks she called me and wanted me to bring her lunch if I could, but the last couple weeks she ignores me all day and says she is too busy and tells me not to come up with lunch. She has also...

Why did my boyfriend change his mind about moving in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I live in a home where my needs are not met, and I'm stuck here until I can get on my feet. My boyfriend wants to help because my living situation endangers my life at times. We made plans that in a couple months we'll save money to get an apartm...

Does he actually love me or what? And why does he stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I don't get my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years. I love him deeply, even though we have issues. Mostly because he dislikes my past and because I lied about it in the beginning of the relationship, but immediately afterwards (like two ...

The truth about teacher student relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - For those who have a crush on their teacher; When I was 14 I moved into this teacher's group. He was really flattered by this and wanted to speak to me, see me all of the time. But only in terms of work in the beginning. People generally didn...

At my age, being realistic, what are the chances of lasting and marrying her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I'm 18, shes 19. we was best friend for four years before we got together. we got together and we broke up, but it wasnt long before we realised we cant do it without each other, and now we are back together again. we have our ups and downs as wit...

How can this girl who told me she loved me break it off so out of the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - so a couple years ago I met a girl online. I would say she's perfect in my eyes but that would be an understatement. needless to say I loved her so much. I don't know how I could when I met her over the internet. we talked every day. via text or ...

Why does no one seem to like me as girlfriend material or want to hire me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I'm so confused about life, I have no job and no boyfriend. I feel I'm comfortable and confident with myself so I don't understand why guys only see me as a sexual partner and not a girlfriend. Could it be because I emit I want a boyfriend from my ...

Work/union dilemma (non relationship issue). Perspective needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I know this is a place for relationship advice, but I don't think anyone will mind me asking this. And the mod can always block it if it is inappropriate so here goes... I'm looking for a bit of perspective on a dilemma I'm having at work, and I'm...

Why hasn't he asked me to be his girl yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - my guy is white and i'm black. i have never dated a white guy before so it is hard for me to figure him out. usually when i date black guys, the whole process goes like this. we talk on the phone, hangout, and after a while they ask me to be their ...

Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too ...

Gift ideas for my boyfriend?

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9 November 2009 (F) - So any tips, need some ideas on what to get my bf for Christmas. I though about a mixed CD with some of our songs but IDK I need some more help. Guys what do you like to get? Lol Tips, Ideas. Anything appreciated. Thanks =]....