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We got heavily drunk and now we can't remember anything from that night!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her ...

I don't think I want children anymore but my wife still does. What can I do to solve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Hello. Well where to start. My wife and I have been together for ten years and married 5. When we first started dating we talked about wanting to have children and I really thought that I did want to have kids then. Well long story short my...

How should I aproach my crush, who I haven't seen for months, without looking desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3288 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - this time last year i became envolved with someone we wernt official or anything but we were seeing each other for about 8 months i was in love with him but never told him as hes not the type of lad who will settle down. he moved abroad in may and i ...

We broke up a month ago and finding out he may be in a new relationship hurts me so much. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about one month. He basically dumped me because he said we were having problems. We were together for four years. Now I sometimes go on his myspace page ... I guess because I really miss hi...

Should I tell him I made a mistake for breaking up or should I just try to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - seven months ago i broke up with my bf coz he wasnt paying atention 2 me. since then i havent been able 2 date,am stil madly in luv wit him. i think abt him a lot n it is very painful coz i dont think he misses even though he calls me once in a ...

What does it mean when someone kisses you on the head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - im gonna explain this in brief, it was a week since i have last seen him, today, we go out a bunch of us, as we are waiting for a friend, for different reasons, the guy i like(and i am starting to think likes me back) get out of the car, then he ...

How do I cope with my husband's reaction to my past?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I met my husband when I was 17. I told him I was a virgin but I wasn't. Below is the story. Its a bit long but you need to understand the circumstances. Please bear with it I really need some good advice. At just 16, I met a 23 year old guy ...

What's the best way to tell her I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend split up a few days ago, and now i have a full on crush with one of my girl mates. ive know this girl mate for 2 years she use to date one of my friends but we are both single now, her n her partner split up the same day as me n ...

These girls that hate me for no reason have been filling his head with stuff! What's going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - In order to answer this question, you have to read this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-no-clue-what-hes-thinking-does.html Okay, today something else happened. A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog on my myspace and there are 4 gir...

What can I do about the feelings I have for my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - well see im not very good or big with emotions but i think i might like one of my jrotc teachers i dont know why but i do and it hurts when he's not teaching that day. please help....

What can I do to solve this love triangle problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - theres is this guy that likes me. but i like his best friend and his best friend and i won't work out because he cares about his friend.. but the guy who likes me won't ever give me up to his friend. what should i do? should i just forget him and ...

How can I aproach this guy and talk to him without sounding desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - okay.... please help im getting insane ! hahahaha okay, im 16 and i talk to guys .. but not really... people see me as shy when talking to guys... there's this guy tho... he's in my resistance training class and OMG, i like want him soo bad....

Where exactly is my G-spot and what can I do with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This is such an embarrassing question... where is my G-spot and how do I use it?...

What can I do to stop worrying about my boyfriend's fidelity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok well I met this guy.. I fell in love.. Usual stuff really! Well he's been distant with me lately... And he is on holiday and not even texting me... Oh he is in the saem country so he can it is possible... And I know it is also possible that he is ...

What does the phrase "I did love you but I am in love with you" mean to a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have heard men say " i do love you but im not in love with you" but what does it mean opposite of that " I did love you but I am in love with you" What does that phrase mean to a guy? ...

What are his reasons behind joining this website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i had a child with a man who i not only loved but who i thought wanted to be with me and our daughter as a family. I have found out that after we split up he went on an adult websight and has ticked boxes in which he has said he is looking for ...

I've never had an orgasm, but I don't like masturbating... Is there any hope?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My problem is this - I've never had an orgasm. I've read a lot of tips that advise you to explore and touch yourself, but masturbation really doesn't appeal to me, and the times I've tried have only left me bored and somewhat frustrated. I...

What can I do to prevent any accidents during my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ok this is embaressing but i started having my peroid about 4 months ago and it's been pretty regular but i have no cramps or warining signs so i don't know when or were it will happen and i'm afraid that it might happen while i'm at school so any ...

Should I tell my sister what her husband did to me when I was younger? Or should I just tell him to stay away from my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - When I was about 11 my sister's husband touched my breasts and asked me if I "want to have some fun and games". I knew instantly that this was wrong and said NO and moved away from him. He then said he was just joking and didnt mean anything by it. ...

She told me she only kissed him but I don't believe her. Should I give her another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - i went out for town for the weekend and when i came back my wife said we needed do talk about our relationship. she said she loved me but was not in love with me and had no attraction to me any more. i was shocked and did not see this coming, ...

Am I actually blacking out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ok so my mom and me were talking about school and i told her that i can't remeber most of my math class because i was tuneing out. she asked me what i was day dreaming about and i told her that i don't know. see when i tune out i mean i tune out i ...

Would I do right if I tell her husband about her cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am Divorced and live alone, I met a married women in a local pub and asked her to call for a coffee one day when I wa off work, As she was married I was suprised one day when she turned up at my door. We chatted for a while and nothing happened ...

Am I wrong for feeling upset about him looking at porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if it's just me or not but i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months and i found out that he was looking at porn on the interent when we first starting dating and a few times after that, I know its normal but it gets me quite ...

Is this man leading me on or does he really want to meet me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I am 39 years old and have 3 children, im seperated but i have been chatting to a man in scotland for over 6 months now on the internet. We have spoken on the phone and seen each other on web cam, we talk for hours every night. He has 3 grown up ...

What can I do to make my periods less heavy and painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hello everyone i have a menstrual problem, im on the rod thing and the pill as well, i had my period for the first time in about a year or so bout 3 weeks ago, ive got them again and alot more heavier and alot more painful, what do you suggest? ...

Am I wrong for wanting my own space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Right OK. Basically I want to know if I'm right. I feel that my girlfriend of nearly 2 years is expecting way too much from me. We only live across the street, and I'm a very private person who loves their own space. Tonight (but lots of othe...

Is there any point in waiting for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Okay, my ex broke up with me to get back with her ex because she said she was confused. She broke up with him recently, but now she tells me that she still cares a lot about me, but she just needs time to be by herself. Thing is, she still ...

My boyfriend would rather be with his friends than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, we're engaged to get married, anbd we live together. We both work FT jobs. We keep fighting about his friends. He would rather hang out with them then me. He has ditched me on several occasions for his ...

He has been looking at porn since I got pregnant! How do I aproach him about this issue?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for just over a year. We dated for four years before deciding to get married. We seemed to be on the same page about all the big decisions, including having children young. I am now almost 6 months pregnant. I ...

Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

Is it wrong to feel that "someday" I will be with him when I'm already married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have been married for 6 years. We have 5 boys (from different marriages). We love each other. Recently I met up with a past love and rekindled feelings, plus more. We know that I can't and don't want to divorce, but I really love this other ...

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

What a small world this is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have just joined Facebook and can't help but be a little overwhelmed. It's hard to appreciate just how small the world is unless suddenly it's in the context of people you’ve met in it! My sense of the world is built around all the people who have ...

What can I do about this person who is trying to blackmail me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'm a married bad girl. I've cheated on my husband 6 times over the last 4 years. I know I am wrong and I know I am bad. I've had intercourse with one of those people, the others I've just fooled around with and the last one that I’ve fooled a...

How can I get rid off the feelings I have for my first love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I dont suppose anyone could give me any productive advice on my situation but here I am trying anyway.... There was a boy who I went to school with who I had a crush on for the longest time I could remember. When we went to secondary school...

Does this mean I'm addicted to masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Recently i discovered the joy of masterbating and the truth is that it has been great. However, i have been doing it a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a day, and when i have the oppurtunity to do it but it is inappropriate(e.g at home doing work) i find i ...

Are my lack of emotions getting out of hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Is my lack of emotion getting out of hand? I'm younger and in the military, no I have not been to the desert, but I was in the meditteranean if that helps. But ive been married for about 5 months now, I knew my wife for about a year. Im still ...

How can I break-up with him while remaining friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've been best mates since primary. The problem is that i want to break up with him, but want to stay best friends. I'm afraid that if we do break up, it could jeopardize our friendship. What should i do? ...

He told his girlfriend what I said to him! What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This guy at work and I were attracted to each other. So as to cut thru the crap I came out and told him that I wanted to have sex with him, which we never did. Now he has a girlfriend (she works there too) and I think he told her what I said to ...

I'm in love but wondering if it's a right choice to be with this man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy when I was 17 and he was 17 also. We had already graduated we started living together and after a year I got pregnany. We both cared about each other alot and were both ready to take on the responsibility of a child. One night when...

I'm sick of the cliches and find life pretty dire.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am going to be honest, life is something I've never been a fan of. I'm nearly 20 now and so far my life has been pretty dire. I was never the popular person at school, the truth was it took me a bit more effort than most people to get passing ...

Is masturbation a sin?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am a christian who masterbates. I want to know whether masterbation is a sin or not. please help....

I want to move out and have a baby with my bf...how do I go about this???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old, I live with my mom and 14 year old sister. I have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for six months now, and he wants me to move in with him and he and I want to have a baby. We both feel ready for this. And I know its a big resp...

How do I conquer my fears before they conquer my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This is so similar to the way i feel. Im extremley jealous of my boyfriends ex, not to mention im the jealous type period. They were together on and off since 5th grade (currently 21). They accomplished soo much together. They went to their prom...

My breasts have been hurting since we had sex, is that a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex three days ago, and he injected in me three times, today my breasts have been hurting a little but not much. Is that a sign of pregnancy? somebody please help me....

Did I do the right thing by telling on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (?) - I have a guy friend who trust me with everything also he gets in trouble a lot! One day when I got to school, I found out that some of windows had broken with a baseball bat. Well, he told me he hates the school and he did it. I couldn't handle the ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to be intimate anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok story goes like this.. I been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. At first he put me on a pedestal, he called me "His earth angel" sex was fun, loving was fun, and the care and respect i got from him was beautiful. However th...

What should I do if my family finds out that I still love the guy who broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy and he cheated on me, and my family knows and they hate him...but i still love him with all my heart no matter what anybody says. im not desparate or pathetic i just know who i really love. but my question is if my family ...

Does he really like me or is it just too much too soon and too good to be true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I went to Spain recently on holiday and have met a man that I could really fall in love with. After having a string of negative possessive relatiosnhips and also having a very unaffectionate family background it was a breath of fresh air for me as I ...

He suddenly cut me off from his life! I thought we had something special and I'm deeply hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - How do you deal when a friend w/benefits breaks-up with u via email and gives no reason. I'm in a world of hurt? Is it normal for me to feel depressed, suicidal, and devastated being dumped over email with no explanation? I dont date a lot. I...

Should my girlfriend accept all my flaws or should I change for her to prove my love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Hey there aunts and uncles of Dear Cupid. I have a sort of problem from an argument i had yesterday with my girlfriend. She said that if i really loved her i should/would want to change some aspects of my behaviour to make her happy, but i argued ...

Why would my friend ignore me completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Well, this isn't exactly someone I love. Actually, I'm not sure how I feel about him... Let me cut to the chase. I have this friend... Let's call him "Bob". Well, Bob and I went through a rough period a few months before school ended, but thing...

I'm sick of my life ever since I told people I'm gay.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Okay-This doesn't have much to do with relationships like love or anything... I just need help Ever since people found out that I was a lesbian I've felt completely left out of everything surrounding me. I feel so alone and hated. My best friend a...