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What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me? I don't ask my bf to do a lot of things for me but the things I do ask are very important to me. He never has done any of the things I asked him to do. He always makes some lame excuse...

I had an email affair, but nothing more. Now I'm accused of cheating on him two times, which is a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've never felt so messed up in all my life. I'm so utterly confused. I've been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. In such a short space of time, i've never cared for anyone or been so comfortable with anyone in my life. (Previous to this i was in ...

Should I tell people my step-dad touches me inappropriately?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - when i was about eight years old my step father began touching me in rude ways. i was to young to understand so i didn't tell anyone he is still doing it should i tell people and do you think they will believe me?...

How can I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - i have a great feeling that im pregnant, because i have the symtoms. but i am not sure what i should do. you see im 15 turning 16 in oct. and it was my first time having sex non the less it was unprotected. i dont know how i should tell my dad. so ...

My post pregnancy body is putting me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I had a baby about 6 months ago and actually lost the weight very early on without really trying. Problem is my pre-pregnancy perky breasts that were full of cleavage and looked great naked, got HUGE during my pregnancy and now have stretch marks ...

My boyfriend may possibly be infertile but I want a child with him. Should I be positive or negative about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count. Th...

It was the first time we engaged in sexual activities together, and he began to cry. Any insight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Hello, The guy I am with now and I have been together for about four months. The other day, we were together in his home making out and touching and such (pretty much everything but actual sex) and he began to sort of cry. I was a little confused...

I think my girlfriend is no longer insterested in me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Alright... I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year. Our 'honeymoon period' went very well. For almost nine months, infact. Sex, communication, friendship, etc... Everything was great. We never argued. Then slowly, ...

I thought he was my soulmate but I found out he cheated on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I have just found out one week ago that my husband has cheated on me. We have been together 21 years and married for 14. He cheated on me five years ago and has only just told me. The real problem I am having with this is that he cheated on me ...

What can I do to make this man stand up to his kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - what actions do i need to take? because I have been dating an older man that has grown married kids that have rotten marriages, have never grown up, can't get past the past and always wants their dad to be with them and he always has to sugar co...

It seems so out of character but my fiance hit me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am new here, but something has happened that I would really like some unbiased opinions about. This may be long... My fiancé and I are both 25 and have been really close friends for almost 10 years. He has always had a "thing" for me, but I wa...

Why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the bedroom? Why can't they just leave it at the door?...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - with most of the girls ive been with, after i slept with them they developed intense emotional feelings even when we weren't close to intimate prior to the events. so my question is this, why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the ...

I don't understand her motives for kissing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next...

Age differences - should people's reactions matter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am a 34 year old male who has just begun dating a 19 year old female. I love being with her and adore her greatly, she is mature for her years , fun, serious when neccessary and has all the qualities of my ideal woman! However, I am concerned ...

How can I make my flat nipples look more proper?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and really self concious of my nipples, or lack of. I have boobs, im a 32DD i just dont undertstand why i dont have proper nipples, theyre like flat how can i make them more like proper nipples? ...

Why am I so tired? Is it depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Lately i have been feeling so tired its not normal, all i can think about is sleep. When im awake i feel really down and dont enjoy any of the things i used to, mainly because i have no energy or no happy thoughts anymore. I went to have a b...

What are some methods of emergency contraception?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - dear friends! I have a huge problem! Had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday. Usually we do the pull out method, however I believe that didn't work. We're afraid she could be pregnant, and we are really worried. Are there any other ...

What can I do, if anything, to make my periods lighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi, my periods a re really heavy, is there anything i can do to make them lighter? ...

He wants a baby, I think I'm still too young, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now, we have a house and a dog, he is ready for kids i am not. We argued about this early this year and in the end to keep him i agreed to start trying after our holiday in september.(yes he ...

My ex's best friend told me "you should tell him you want only friendship to clear his mind". What does he mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Alright I am going to try to make this as short as possible but advice would be appreciated. So 4 years ago I broke up with the nicest guy ever who truly loved me and wanted to follow me. We dated for around 3-4 years and he is 5 years older than ...

Is it normal if I can't pull my penis' foresking back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ok heres the thing my penis has really tight foresking and i cant pull it back.. well i could if i pulled it hard but it sorta hurts when i do it is that normal?...

How can I get him in the mood after a long hard day at work ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend of 2 yrs ... Is constantly tired or sore from work to treat me like he used to and im afraid that if i confront him he will leave me or we will have an argument. and one of thoes people that hate arguing as i was brought up with ...

Why my friends can talk to girls but not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello got 1 more question how come when i talk to girls i get really nerves and scared and like if i ask them something they will take the piss and plus most of my mates can talk to girls really easily...

We can't be together for now but a part of me feels he's over me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He liste...

Is it jealousy that is clouding my judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Last January I started talking to this girl in my math class. We started to get really close and we had a sort of unofficial relationship. But we talked almost every night for months. We got really really close and she eventually was comfortable ...

Is it me or is this getting worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joki...

What can I do to change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi,basically me an mum have fallen out so ive been staying at my mother in law 2 bs house. i recently got a txt from my fionce saying me being there at his house has made him less tolerable and upset and that i only consider his happines...

Are rebounds O.K?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 31 year old female and I've been in 2 relationships back to back (kind of overlapping actually)combined total of 12 years. My current or ex, depending on how you look it, and I are pretty much through with ALOT of heartache. Is it so wrong to ...

How can I ask this girl out who seems more interested on guys that are the opposite of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ok the same girl that i creeped out by the exaggerated attention, i wanna make a move on her but shes into the more skinny popular guys, and she sees me as a nice and funny guy, soo is there anyway for me to land her no matter how big i am and how ...

My heart says take him back and use this experience to make the relationship stronger. My head says run. Which should I listen to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend cheated on me while very drunk. I haven't forgiven him or taking him back at this point. Right now I have told him I need time to myself. I've asked him to move out of our apartment and leave me alone for awhile. I am really ...

Do you think I'm spending too much on her so soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - My girl's bday is coming up. We've been together for a little under a year. I was thinking of taking her to a $$$$ place for dinner(est $300 for 2), I'm wondering if that is too much too soon. I also bought her a gift that cost $100. Should I take ...

Why did he end his email this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Well, this guy and I have being in touch for a year now. We met on a business and since then we are kinda long distance friendship. I mean, we like each other but we are just friends. We enjoy our friendship and emailing, share thoughts, pics, ...

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...

What can I do to strenghten my relationship with my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am 40 and have a family of my own. About 20 years ago, against my parent's wishes, I attended University which led to split between us for about 10 years. About 10 years ago I realized that I needed to make an effort to re-unite with my parents ...

He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but it seems that we will never be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess ...

How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...

He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical ...

Would our age difference play a part in the duration of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ive recently been seing a girl whos nearly 17, im 24. she s a very mature girl and dresses really well, and extreamly pretty,intelegent,funny. when we met i thought she was a bit older and and she thought i was a bit younger. it started as just fun...

We broke up in good terms but I don't understand why I'm still in love with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I know its only been a month and a half but I am still in love with my ex. We were together for two years and we broke up amicably for good reasons. He moved 2 hours away and I just got job an hour and a half further away. He kept calling and...

I had unprotected sex and my period came but it was very light. Does this mean pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I had unsafe sex on the 19. i had light spotting 6 days after. it was light brown. i have all of the pregnacy signs. i was going to buy a test but today i started bleeding. not alot and its light brown. i'm a week late. is this light bleeding my ...

I want to meet someone new and have a sex life, but the problem is that I have herpes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Picked up a nasty virus called Herpes over 20 years ago ... the 'lady' in question 'forgot' to mention it! Told my wife before we married ... she accepted it ok , but we never had a really good sex life ... i didn't want her to get it. Right now...