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Big Questions: Help and advice

Do you think she would change after telling me this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm the 15 years old guy with the immature girlfriend. Ok well, I'm sorry if this is too fast but I had to write this because I'm running out of time. She sent me an email and tomorrow I don't know if I shoul talk to her or ignore her. Here is ...

My partner wishes that we have children in 2-5 years, but I really just cannot see myself as a good mother. What are some positive aspects about it? Will I be able to adapt to motherhood?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I had a terrifying conversation with my fiance the other day: Children. For a long time, I have been somewhat opposed to becoming a mother. I am a very seclusive person. I need personal space and me time in order to keep sane. I cannot even begi...

What happens if you just don't pay rent for a month?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I need to get some answers regarding rent payment in an apartment. My 2 roomates and I live in an apartment in orange county, ca. We are moving out on september 26th because we bought a home. yay!!! The thing is, our leasing office is horrible. They ...

How do you find out if a woman has had anal before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I would like to know if there is a way to find out if the woman had had anal sex before ? Well, lets say you can find out if she had vaginal intercourse by asking doctor to check her vagina. Now, I want to know if there's any way to find out i...

Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...

I feel as if I had to compete with the computer for her attantion...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - why does my fiance always go online and ignore me and then get upset with me when i say something to her about being online all the time ??? We both had yearbook and tagged and myspace accounts and always argued over them so i erased all mine but ...

Should I talk to this girl about my old guy or just leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Should I message a guy's old lover to find out the whole story of what happened? Im currently in the process of getting over a guy I've liked for a while. I found out he's a jerk and was seeing other women while we were a thing. He now has a new...

Why did it hurt when we had sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - When I have sex and he thrust in hard it hurts really bad. I know that this can happen when he my hit the uterus or the cervix. But I have had a hysterectomy so why is this happening?...

What exactly is phone sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi every one, My questions a bit weird, but i can't help but be curious! I was just wandering what is phone sex? And what do you do to have it? Well I know it can't be having sex whilst on the phone because if you are having phone sex with yo...

My husband is ready to leave but I don't know how to handle this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I need help! I have a husband who is ready to leave because he is just not happy! He can't tell you why but will tell you that it's our relationship! His moods change with me and everyone else including his children! I believe he is depress and ...

I want to start having sex with him, but I'm afraid of the idea because I'm a virgin and he's not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Guys, I need your help! I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, I'm a virgin, he isn't. He is absolutely perfect and wonderful, a really nice person, caring and lovely and all of that, and before he asked me out we were pretty much best ...

Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking ...

My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red...

How can I tell him that I feel he is smothering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, So been with this guy nearly 4 months now. We get on most of the time apart from when we argue and that is quite a lot. He is going on saying Im the one and wants to move in together, get married and have kids yet when we kiss I d...

The guy who broke my heart came back into my life. Should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i went out with a guy last year and really fell for him..but he ended up hurting me real badly..i never forgot him.. and i still love him.. the thing is that he came back into my life again.. asking for a second chance and telling me that he has c...

After I took the pill, my period hasn't stopped coming!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm currently on the pill (Not for contaceptive use, but to shorten and lighten my period) However, i first started taking it on Thursday 14th August and have only ever failed to take 1. Anyway the problem is, i'm still on my period - it has ...

I'm incredibly afraid of my abusive husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have a problem i'm 22 years old and have been married for over 2 year. I have recently become awary of my husband abusive nature. We fight alot and i dont know what to do i have told my family and they are trying to help but it seem to be getting ...

I think I'm falling for a much younger girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Hello all. I have a very confusing situation that I need help with. I am currently married but we have been living together but separated for years. We stay together because of our kids and the lifestyle for them; but neither of us are happy. We ...

How can I tell if my girlfriend is pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I have a slight problem. I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is 17. we just started having sex about two and a half weeks ago. the second time we had sex my condom broke and i didnt know it until we were done. then i told her what happened. she has ...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Yesterday i broke up with my first boyfriend because he didnt like my friends and i liked another boy. He asked me out on msn so i thought i'd break up with him on msn so when i started saying how im breaking up with him he started ...

I'm afraid that if I tell him the whole truth about my past that he will not want me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have a special guy in my life that i have dated for a year now and i am so in love as he is with me...at least for now anyway. i have told him all about my past, guys i have kissed and slept with (all of whom i have dated) and other miscellaneous ...

What can I do to make my boyfriend call me more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i jst wna knw how to attract my boyfriend towards m so dat he wants to toke to m mre n mre on phn as he hates toking on phn for long hrs...dosnt gift me preasants nor surprse...tell m smthng i can do so dat he miss m alot n gets attrcted towards m ...

Will God forgive my dead cousin for her gesture? I am open minded to all different beliefs.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My cousin killed herself. She was 27yrs old. In my church we were always taught that if you kill youself then you are going to burn in hell forever. And I was eavesdropping when some family didnt know I was there and I heard them saying things about ...

Why am I so terrified of actually having a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hi, i'm 27 years old and since always i've been absolutely terrified of having a baby, and really quite scared of being pregnant- and nobody understands the way i feel. i don't know when it started, but i know that my birth was tramatic for my ...

Two years, a ring and a break?? I don't get it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Ok so I have been dating this wonderful man for over 2 and a half years this last christmas he proposed on his leave he has been overseas twice and his most recent tour he just returned from in march. Tonight he told me he needs a break I am not one ...

Should I relocate? Should I enter this field going against my parents??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i am 19 years old,since the time i was 16 people have been telling me to join the acting world,the glamour industry and fashion..i personally would love to get into this field too..its like a dream come true..i want to follow my dreams but my ...

I fell in love with my female teacher but I don't know what to do about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Im 18 years old and i just graduated from high school in june. Im in love with one of my teachers. i had her as a teacher the 1st semester. She is 23 years old so there is not that big of an age difference. I have sepent a lot of time with her alon...

Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a...

What can I do to have an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my name is fanny, my question is: i never feel a orgasm before, just if i do it myself.what i can do? i really want to know how that feels?i take birth control pills do you think this is why i cant feel one? i love my husband and i tell him ...

Why does she do this? Why after being so nice to her does she treat me like garbage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - She uses her friend to talk to me. Hi, you may have heard of me in previous posts. The 15 years old boy with the not so nice girlfriend. First of all, I would like to thank the people who have supported me and answered my previous questions, ...

I can't stand my highly immature boyfriend! Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. He is 19 but acts like a 15 year old;he is childish,immature and downright annoying.I am 17 but have been through so much in life that I have taught myself to be logical,rational and unbiased. ...

I have a thing for the bridesmaid but I don't know what to do in this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - My best friend is getting married in 4 weeks. I have a bit of a crush on bridesmaid. She is brides cousin. Not sure how she feels about me. Been around her a couple times, but the last time is the 1st that I felt something back. I wanted to say ...

Does it mean I might be gay because I find this guy fascinating and good looking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - So I'm a teenage boy in high school and I think I'm gay. How can you tell the difference between lust and love? I'm focused on this guy, which is sorta weird, b/c it's not like I'm stalking him or anything, but I just find him fascinating. He's a ...

He's been saying he's "too tired" but I catch him watch him porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my husband and i have been married since may this year we have been together for a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex atleast once a week but for the past year he always says he is tired but I catch him watching...

Unprotected Sex....never worth it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Almost every day it seems there is a post that pops up from someone who has had unprotected sex and is worried about the possibility of being pregnant or having caught a sexually tranmitted infection. Alot of the time, this is due to them being pr...

They've been raising my baby as my sister! What can I do to claim her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i really need some help and advice but dnt no were to go or wat to do! wen i was 12 i was raped and i ended up gettin pregnant! when i was 6 weeks pregnant my mum, dad and me moved away for a bit until everything settled, i was close to my mum and ...

Do you think he knows I was raped at 14, or is he wantin me to make the first move for sex? we've been together over a year now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - dear cupids. ive been with my amazin boyfriend now for over a year and i love him with all my heart, we havnt yet had sex but have recently started to talk about it, like he was rubbin down there a couple of nights ago and i really enjoyed i...

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - so i have this boyfriend who i think is just amazing in everyway, int he beginning of our relationship i was kinda torn between him and my fiance who i was going to marry. i was completely honest with him about the whole thing and told him that i ...

I don't understand why he would want her email but swear he hates her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My live in boyfriend of 4 years he has a daughter that just turned 7 and between his family and friend they have all asked me if he is still in love with her he says he is not and wishes her out of his life forever and that he does not have the ...

Would my boyfriend go to jail if I had a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is 16 and im only 15. would he go to jail if i had a baby? (but i would be 16 when the baby arrives)....

Why am I coming second to his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (?) - Hi everyone and thanxs for any help. Let me start at the beginning I go to school with this amazing guy who asked me out after a year of becomin bezzies but we broke up coz other people we'r presuring us to snog and stuff n I was realy young an...

I have some questions about sex for the first time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hello i'm 17 teen right know and i was talking to my mother about sex cuz i was inrested and i was just wondering if it really hurts the first time? and if you can really bleed? i didnt want to belive my mom a whole lot cuz i was just thinking she ...

How can I make my birthday party amazing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - okay well i found this site and thought maybe you guys could help me out a little?! soo im 16, i was meant to have my 16th birthday party back in may but my mum ended up in hospital so it never came off, which i wasnt too upset about as my mums...

How do I set boundaries so he doesn't take advantage of my help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Please help!!! I met this man, he is 10 yrs younger than me, im 36. He was wonderful, he lived an hour away and we were together every weekend. His ex died and he got FULL CUSTODY of his 3 and 4 year old kids which he just began to see when i met ...

Why does he one day tell me he likes me and the next day he ignores me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hello, i know this is gonna take some time as there is quite a lot to the story, but anyway moving on. I met a boy who lives a couple of doors away from me, we became friends at the start i did really have a big crush on him and i admit it i did...