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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I need to find myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - hi i do have problem when it comes to sex i get alot irritated when having sex alot of qestion do come to my head like i'm feeling like a dog or an animal or i see who am having sex with as a very crazy person[i have had several account of rape in ...

We've been together forever, so should I stay because of that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. I'm 18 years old and he's 20. Lately I'm starting to realise just how long that is. I mean, 5 years! That was my whole teenage life! Anyway, I keep having doubts like this about our relationship, ...

Can't deal with this ex- boyrfriend drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Ok well about a year ago i wrote on this too an di think it really helped me. i was talking about my boyfrend who had pictures of other girls on his phone. i carried on going out with him but we broke up about 7 months ago. we broke up about the ...

My wife sent pics of herself in her bra and panties to some guys via email, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Me and my wife have been married for just over a year. We dated for a few years prior to getting married and never cheated on each other. The last few weeks have been tough on us due to moving away from our friends and families and new stresses at ...

I want to stop imagining us together in 10 years time with a little baby.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I went on holiday to Turkey last summer and met the most gorgeous guy. He was working there as one of the entertainment team. I was 12 and he was 20. He was really sweet and we talked a lot in German as I didn't want anyone to be able to butt int...

I am eleven years old, and I can't stop thinking about sex, and having sex, how can I stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hey aunts and uncles im 11 and lately i have been really into sex and i want to have sex really bad. Any ideas on how to stop this feeling?...

This guy flirts with me and hints about going out, but never asks, he tells my friends, he doesn't like me, but I like him, is he playing a game or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - this is a bit of a silly and unimportant question but it would be helpful if i could get an outside opinion... there is this guy in my group of friends that fancied me a couple of weeks ago,then he went out with someone else and i asumed he didnt ...

What does 'I lost her a long time ago' mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - i go through my boyfriends phone every so often just to see he's behaving himself, he hasn't done anything to warrant me not trusting him but im afraid of getting hurt. I sorta cheated on him twice, no sex. so im going through his texts and he's ...

Why fret so much on appearance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - Honestly...i dont get it...So many people fret about thier appearence, a lot. Understandable, but i mean the "Im not pretty enough for him" or "There are better looking guys" ect. ect. Why do looks matter. Cant we love each other as we are? Im a bit ...

I believe this much older guy will only use my friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hi all. Just a curious question. I have a friend whos 20 dating a 42 year old man with a 15 year old kid.......am i wrong for thinking he's a freak? And now she ses she has feelings for him! Its like dude where do u think this is gonna go? I tell ...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with her because I thought she deserved better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years. She is devastated. She gave 110% to the relationship but I could not return it. She feels used and thinks that I am an awful person. She did deserve a better fate for all that she put into ...

I've been in extreme pain ever since I found out he had a profile in a sex dating site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hi i have a big problem i have been with my commen law husband for 8 years in january im going on 23 he's going on 26 we have two children a girl age 6 and a boy age 5 we have had a rocky relationship but i know he has been faithfull for about 5 ...

Do I need to give us time apart to make him truely realise what it would be like without me?

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10 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, it has been a great relationship, until the last month, as he has not been himself and i have had other stresses. Last week his phone goes off, but he has gone to bed and i read it as we're...

Does he remember our date or is he trying to make the week go by faster by being with his buds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Alright, I don't know if I am digging to deep into this or am just over reacting...My boyfriend and I are supposed to get together this weekend and he knows it. Last week he left and (is still camping) with a friend. He didn't tell me what he was ...

How am I suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - how am i suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that i love him?hes 7 years older than me.........

I was almost hit by my boyfriend - where do we go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I am in an overwhelming state of mind and don't really know what to do next. Here is what happened... A couple nights ago my boyfriend (of six years) and I had a casual night out. Dinner with his mom, and then we rented movies - but before we we...

Am I being rational in giving him some space and hoping he will come around, or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for about 20 months. In March he was promoted and it has been very stressful for him, including traveling a great deal of time. He was recently gone on a six week trip to seven different cities with only a day or two rest in ...

How can I ask this pretty girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - seen this girl around, sent her few messages online general chat. How can i break the ice i want to meet her? I cant think how to do it. And i don't know how she would react because she is really pretty whereas i'm not even up to that standard. ...

I'm 18 years old and I have never had a proper girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - i'm 18 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. Only kissed once 2years ago. I've lost all hope! Everyone says the time will come, i been lookin for 6years at least and nothing has happened. Its me isn't it? I'm really nice, girls love me but only as ...

Is this a normal procedure for massage sessions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - My partner and had a couples massage in a posh hotel in Egypt. He chose the hot stone massage and I the Thai, one. He was on a massage table and I spent the hour being contorted on a mat on the floor. I was given eyeshades to wear but appa...

Could we ever become more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - im 18 and my best friends a girl who iv known for a about three years we have loads of fun together she stays at mine sometimes.But i want more than just friends. but she doesnt. we flirt constantly and have loads of time together just us two. we ...

What can I do to stop hurting? He stopped trusting me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - We were together for 2 years. Wehad our issues, or maybe he did, I don't know. Maybe I did. Apparently I did. Who knows... Anyway, he was jealous. At the beginning, he told me, but it was just mild, once every blue moon, kinda cute jealousy. S...

I think my cousin may have feelings for me. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I'm 19 yrs old and I have a bit of an extended family. Pretty close to my mother's side of the family and all their children, we consider ourselves as brothers and sisters us cousins (there's a lot of us). In fact I'm the oldest, and I feel I kin...

Was this really a one-night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Am so confused! 2 year ago i met a guy n we became friends. last year we were invited 2 a party n he showed more interest in me. later that night we went 2 his place, he wanted sex n i said NO. We kept in touch n 2 weeks ago i went 2 his place n we ...

I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of t...

My boyfriend hasn't told his family about me yet...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - After 4 years together, my boyfriend still hasn't told his family about me. His family is just his sister and mum but still. His mum is coming to visit for Christmas and I think he should tell her before she gets here. His excuse at first was h...

Should I tell her my reaction about her comment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - The girl I like said something to me that really hurt. I realise why she said it but I cannot agree with it. I am sure she didn't mean to hurt me so deeply but it is affecting me. Simply put: I was having a bad day and I decided to delete my fac...

I think my boyfriend is gay and is confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I have lived with for 8 years whom I have supported in every sense of the word...financially, emotionally etc. Has not worked consistently and is constantly on the computer at home, while I work my butt off to pay all the ...

How should I act around my crush? He's so shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hey! I'm not sure about his feelings.. He is a friend of my friends and I really like him! .. we aren't friends .. and i don't know how to talk to him! .. today, my friends said "Andrea likes Andrew.. u are gonna make a good couple c´mon.. you guys...