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Archived questions from: 30 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my c...

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...

I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whate...

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you ...

I still can't get over my crush on a teacher who moved away. Advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it...

This ia about my daughter - which for me at the moment is causing me quite a bit of stress.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My 22yr old daugher has recently returned home after splitting up with her boyfriend of seven years. with whom she lived with for a year. This has become quite a messy situation and I am doing all I can to support her. However, since coming back...

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ...

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have trie...

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is p...

I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of ...

Boundaries with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made ...

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...

How should we split up the bills?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for many years. He owns the house free and clear, and has since before I moved in. Since moving in, I have paid various bills, all food/non-durable items, half the property taxes and given him money monthly to ...

How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years ...

Can a kerb crawler stop for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Please could people who know kerb crawlers and if you have enough confidence a kerb crawler help me with my problem... My husband is a kerb crawler, OI found out christmas day 2006 his as he says last successful meeting!!!!! So my question to you ...

Why does it always rain on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if im enjoying life to much but im doing the best i can. Im a really nice person, so i get told. If that's the case i don't understand why i get the treatment i do off others. I just started college this month, made some nice ...

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...

Are Virgos able to forgive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2384 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their ...

Why does love hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - There comes a point in your life when you realize: who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your present or future. But when it ...

Is my husband's overnight meeting anything to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have recently found an e.mail from a female colleague of my husband who asked him if he got back safely from a recent meeting where he stayed overnight. Do you think this is anything to worry about considering he said she wasn't even there?...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...

What makes a woman marriage material?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I just wanted to know what makes a woman marriage material...what do guys really look for when the want to marry a woman....would a guy marry a woman who was promiscuos in her past if she had changed???...

People are rude to me and I feel horrible about myself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - so ever since 9th grade peolpe were rude to me in school.im shy,i had cricked teeth, ut than i got braces, ther off now! thank god!one day at a party i made out with this one guy cuz he was hot an he would always flirt with me and the next day at ...