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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do guys only like skinny, slutty girls and why don't they like overweight girls, who are great people on the inside? Any insights?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i want to know why guys are so mean and picky that they only like skinny girls that are slutty and why they don't like overweight girls. It really hurts my feelings that they judge me based on the way that i look and not whats on the inside, I ...

At what age does a penis stop growing? My friend keep on taking the piss, saying my one is small because of what a girl said!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - dear cupid im 17 years old, turning 18 in march, i would like to know at what age does the penis stop growing, and is their any way of making it bigger? As i think my one is small, and the fact that my friend keep on taking the piss saying my o...

Is their any way of overcoming this shyness and if - how? Can you tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hello agony aunts, I seem to have problems talking to girls. is their any advice you can give me into asking girls out ? I see my friends talking and getting numbers off girls on the streets, but i am unable to do it as something keeps on holding m...

18 years of age and seem to be paranoid about my body. Please help?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - dear cupid i am 18 years of age and seem to be paranoid about my body. firstly i would like to know is having your lower left abdomen bigger than your right normal or abnormal, as my lower left abdomen seems to be bigger than my right. this happe...

She did upset me for a bit, but it made me question myself and my penis...Any thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I just had a random conversation with my ex and the topic of sex with her new guy haphazardly came up, and she said that he annoys her all the time and if it wasn't for how big his penis was, he would've been gone a long time ago. She also said that ...

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good frie...

Does anybody have any advice or tips of how friends of the opposite sex can live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Next summer I will be moving in to an apartment with my best guy friend. We will both be 18. We have known each other for a little over 4 years and get along really well most of the time. I lost my virginity to him, and we have never been toge...

I don't know if he's going to hurt me again. Is he just using me now for a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - hey guys im 17 , a junior. I had a boyfriend for a full year we were in love , with eachother 24/7 . i was so comfortable with him. this sumer i went off to camp and that runied everything. when i got back things just were not the same. we drifted ...

He came out of a bad marriage and told me from the get go that he is not able to commit, but I fell in love with him. Should I continue being with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy that I grew up with since April of this year. Things are going good or at leaast i feel they are. He came out of a bad marriage and told me from the get go that he is not able to commit. We spend our free time together ...

One lad in my group has started to turn my friends against me. Please help, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - hi i have a problem with my friends, see ive hung around with three other lads for the past three yrs, and i am strating to feel distant from my friends, because one lad in my group has started to turn my friends against me by making comments...

Can I talk to a lawyer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - My sons mother just started dating this guy whom i just had a physical fight with about 3 months ago. He has made several threats toward me and i have told her that i dont feel like my son is safe around him because he still has a grudge against me ...

How do I break it to her, without seeming like an a*****le ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys, okay this question isn't as emotionally charged as some of the ones you normally receive but its important to me. About a year ago, I planned to go travelling with this female friend of mine for 6 months around the world. She suggeste...

I've been through an awful divorce and am now in a trouble relationship with an alcoholic. I feel like I need to run away and start anew. What is best for me and my kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I was in an abusive rationship of almost 12 years. I dont have the best relationship with my mother or my family. My brother commited suicide a few months before my husband left me for another woman. Since then I struggled with an evil ex-husband ...

I really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. So guys, what really turns you on??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, This one is just a bit of fun really but it was something i was thinking about as i really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. Ok, guys, what turns you on the most? 1.Sexy nurse 2.French Maid 3.Police Wo...

Any advice on how to get rid of this jealousy and paranoia would be much appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, he's a fantastic guy and we should be really happy. But my trust issues and paranoia are destroying any chance of happiness we may have. Our relationship is a long-distance one, which I guess ...

My friends talk non-stop and I hardly ever get to even open my mouth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a group of friends (all girls) and we always hang out together. I have no other friends. My friends talk non-stop and I hardly ever get to even open my mouth. I never thought much about it, but recently I invited them all to dinner, ...

What is love? How do you know when you're in love? {not lust}

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I know this sounds stupid but... What is love? how do you know when ur in love not lust? ok, so im only 15, but im just wondering, is the butterfly in the stomuch thing true? can u love someone who lives far away? anything would be helpfull ;) J_M ...

We were 'wife swapping', then jealousy started, insecurity started and we ended up having so many fights. But we still love them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - We were friends, best friends with a couple and their two kids. We turned like family, always hanging out together. Over two years ago, we mutually decided to experiment sexually with each other' partners. It started with simple massage sessions...

How do I pick my future boyfriend out of these two guys I have a crush on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I have a crush on two guys and I don't know what should do I??? the first one is friend from one of my class, he is named Mathew, and i really like him and he is all the time flirting with me, otherwise the second one is named andrew, ...

He has made no effort to try and reconcile our relationship. Is he just taking the cowards way out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I just split from my boyfriend last week. We didn't live together but he spent most of his time at mine. Recently I've been feeling like he takes me for granted. He doesn't earn a lot of money so whenever we did anything it was on me. He didn't real...

Is this is a good idea, or am I going to get my heart broken?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Ok this is maybe gonna be a long one so here goes! When I was 16 (now 24) I met this guy, hit it off straight away and fell for him. He is 4 years older than me so nothing could really come of it and besides, he had a girlfriend at the time...

I guess I've always been suspicious there was something more. Is he 'in to' me? What do you think?

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23 September 2008 (F) - Needing some advice as to what is going on with a guy I kinda have liked for a fair bit but which I have kinda supressed due to complications which are now gone. We shall call him William. For the last month William has been acting very oddly. Ther...

My parents found out I was pregnant - they told me I had two choices only, 'have an abortion or leave'.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i am a 16 year old pregnant female. after my parents found out that i was pregnant they told me that i had two choices only, either to have an abortion or to leave. i spoke to my bf and his family - as i really didnt want to have an abortion, and ...

She cheated on me and got pregnant! So can I ever trust her to not cheat again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - This maybe abit long but it explains the whole situation, sorry for it being so long: Ok so I had been having a long distance relationship with my now fiance, we have known eachother for 13 years now, this October it will be 14 years. I am 20 years...

Did my hymen break? Because the day after, my period also started.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i'm 19years old. i dont know about sex and hymen breaking. my bf wants to see my pussy and want to do fingerring in my hole of pussy but i dont want to do this. and when we meet l only he try to put finger in my pussy but not enter in it, and he ...

He lives in another country, he's 10 years older than me, I'm 13 and beginning to get a crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - [What is a frienemy??] Latley i've been talking to this guy who lives in another contry. He's my frienemy and he makes me happy with his jokes and his all around prsonality. He is ten years older than me, and i'm 13! but i feel like i'm beginnin...

I don't want to lose my girlfriend, but I'd like to see other people before I commit to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I love her, but she's my first girlfriend and I want to see other people before I commit to her for life. She lives in Europe (I'm from the US) but I plan on going to college in Europe. I'm in an open relationship with her, and I have a different ...

My ex is pregnant with another man's baby, I have a child on the way to another woman, and now my ex wants me back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hello all, Hmm, where do i start I am 34 years old and my ex partner is 24, my partner and i seperated this year in February. We were together for 4 years and had a 2 year old son. We broke up because she says that she has lost the love and feelings...

I've been with a girl for five months, but I'm deploying to Iraq soon. Do we give the serious relationship a go, or do we break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hey all. I’m in a dilemma. I have been dating my girlfriend for about five months now. I feel like our relationship is doing well—that we are making progress, etc. But, it has only been 5 months. Right now, I can’t bring myself to say ‘love’ y...

How can I show my husband that I truly do love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband I have been married for 10 years and have two children. My husband asked me to leave 4 months ago because he said that he didn't feel like I loved him anymore or respected him as a husband. I love him very much and I want ...

My man is trying to fulfil my fantasy of sex with two men, but I'm unsure. Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

23 September 2008 (?) - My man recently asked if I had ever fantasized about having sex with two men, and I honestly answered yes. Now he's really trying to make this happen. I'm not sure that I would like the idea of me, him and another guy. In my fantasy, it was me ...

Does the way a boyfriend acts reflect the kind of husband he will be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - My question is related to the way a boyfriend's behavior reflects what the situation will be in a marriage. I have 8 months with my bf, and I have gone through difficult times economically speaking, he has never given me a penny, I talked about the ...

I found a butt plug in my boyfriend's drawer, and found out he has been responding to gay personals. But he says he's not gay... What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my guy for almost a year and I recently found a butt plug in one of his drawers (used). I know it's his because of the receipt. Other than the butt plug, I also found out that he has responded to ads on CL to J/O with other guys ...