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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I am at a cross roads in my life. I am having problems with my wife of 7 years. She is 15 years older than me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - I am at a cross roads in my life. I am having problems with my wife of 7 years. She is 15 years older and I moved from another country to be with her. We have similar interests and hopes and all that, and even now we get on really well. Recently...

I want to give him something different, something special for his birthday next month. Any ideas please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so it's my boyfriends birthday in a months time, and its the 4th birthday i'll have been with him but i'm looking for ideas for a nice present. I'm a pretty sentimental person so have made him things every birthday, christmas and vale...

We found my best friend on a porn website, what should we do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do! Me and my boyfriend decided to look at some porn on the internet together to try it out and see whether it was fun or not. Whilst we were looking, we found a website for people to post pictures of themselves on it ...

I'm really struggling to cope with the sudden set back in what I thought was a great relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I need some love life advice even thought i am pretty sure i know the answer already. I have been seeing someone i love to bits for 5 months and he loves me too. Recently he bought a house a moved out of his parents, and to start with he said he like...

He ejaculated in my eye, now I'm having problems seeing with it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I have a really embarrassing problem so i thought i'd ask here where i can remain anonimous. I don't want to go to my doctor because im embarrassed by it. I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob a couple of days ago and something happened. Normally he t...

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he's just told me he's married, but separated for the past 11 yrs.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I have been involved with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and he has just told me he is married but separated for the past 11 years to the women I thought was just the mother of one of his children. We live in North Caroline and she lives in ...

I love my boyfriend so much, but this other guy is blowing my mind! I feel like a love-sick puppy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 23 years old, and have been dating my boyfriend for almost eight years now. We are high school sweethearts. It has been great, he is such a sweetheart and takes really good care of me. I have so many feelings for him and I am so ti...

My future sister-in-law is causing problems between me and my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Im 18 years old. I have a boyfriend (20) that i have been with almost 4 years. We have had ALOT of problems, but we almost always get through them. Well, my boyfriend has a brother younger than him by a year. His brother has been dating a girl ...

How do I convince my boyfriend he's not too old? One child, that's all I'm asking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - i have sacrificed a lot for this guy and he still don't want to have kids with me. he said he is too old. after all i have done for him and he still saids he is not having any kid with me, and after i know him a long time and sacrifice a lot for ...

Will quitting smoking give you symptoms that mimic pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - my husband had a vesectomy nine years ago,im 38 and missed two periods,i feel tired all the time,moody ,and irate all the time,i have put on weight quite a bit,but i am also stopping smokig[week 5]is it possible im pregnant or am i confusing it with ...

Am I being used by the justice system?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I need an advice from people who don't know me as none of my friend or family know what's happening to me for some time now. I'm a normal citysen with a good career, what has happened to me I would never of dreamed of in my worst ...

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...

I found out details about my boyfriend's ex that would shutter the perfect image he has of her - do you think I should tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am having a difficult time obsessing over a past love of my boyfriend's. I will call her Jane and him Jon. This is a woman he met about 18 years ago at a trade show. They were both involved with other people, she was engaged....

I have below average boobs....what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...

What do I get him for Christmas? I need ideas!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey!! I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend of a year [on and off] is turning 19.I know it's a little too soon to be thinking about Christmas but I really don't know what to get him.This is our first Christmas together and he told me to just ...

What could these stomach pains be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey was just wondering what this could mean? I have real bad stomach pain like cramping and in the lower back of my hips. Today when I was doing the dishes my stomach touched the sink just a little bit and it really hurt. I also went to sit on a ...

What are the symptoms of depression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - How do you know if you are depressed? and how do you go about getting help? I feel that I could have mild depression but I am not sure, I used to be happy the majority of the time but now I just feel like "what's the point" and I basically just s...

How do I tell my mom that her boyfriend touches me? I know it's wrong...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - hello, right here is my problem recently my mum has started seeing this bloke. he is so lovely when he is around her, but what she doesnt no is when he stops over he comes into my room at night after she has gone to bed and does things that arnt...

My boyfriend is jealous of my sexual past and is becoming verbally abusive. Will he ever get over this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we're great, no problems except for one which is big and is starting to make me go insane. I don't know how much longer we will last if we cant get this sorted. So the problem is that he is very jea...

I used to date this guy, we broke up, now he calls me a slut, which is very annoying, what should I do, is there a good verbal comeback?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Well i know this boy named evan and he used to go out with me and then he broke up with me. but now he calls me a slut and it is so annoying and i have no comebacks so what should i say to him....

My mom turned forty-eight today, and it frightened me, she is not sick or anything, but I worry that my parents are getting older, and they will die, how do I stop worrying about that and enjoy them while we are all still here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - My mom turned 48 today, and it scared me. Lately I've been worrying about my parents growing old and dying. Not that they're in bad health but it always happens eventually. And it just makes me so sad to see them get older. So how can I get over ...

I'm a little unsure about how I could strike up a conversation with him (and where)-Advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 14 year old female and am a sophomore in high school. Despite my age, please answer seriously. I moved to a town in California about a year ago, and just moved into a house more recently. I've found that I have a *ahem* attractive neighbor, ...

Isn't it hard enough being single? How do get through this embarassment?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I'm knocking on 30 and have never been in a serious relationship. Honestly, I haven't been on many dates either. No one seems interested in me. More and more my single friends are getting married and the married ones are having children and I ...

I like this guy I know and want to talk to him, and maybe let him know, but I have no idea how to approach him, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so this guy and I know I like him but I don't know how to confront him. Its awkard because we have not talked in like a really long time.( a year at the most) His friends look at me and all that. + I cant find a reason to approach him without ...