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Big Questions: Help and advice

When a man is aroused by a sex scene in movies or porn, is it due to the beauty of the woman or the act of sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - When a man is aroused by a sex scene in a movie or a porno, is it because of the amazing beauty of the individual woman or the act of sex itself? Thanks....

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one ...

Why can't I bring myself to tell her "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I'm in hs and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are close and in the early stages of our relationship use to tell each other that we liked each other a lot. Now I feel like I love her... not necessarily that she is the one ...

Is it ok if an eight-year-old masturbates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I been babysitting all my life since i was 16. I baby sit this 8 yr old girl she's Always wanting Privacy. One Day I was Baby sitting Just her cause the other went to spend the night with grandparents. well One Day i was down stairs Doing some ...

My girlfriend is jealous for me looking at nudity in (not-porn) movies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 6 months, and we have had a good relationship, however she gets extremely jealous and can't stand that I've seen movies or anything with nudity in them. I'm not talking about porn, I don't watch it because I only want to ...

Why do I always end up being just the friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out ...

Is there any hope for me to get her back or have I been put in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving ...

Why do I keep on getting these bumps after I shave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I am really worried so any help will be great! Im 15 and have quite a embarressing problem. I shave all my pubes off, as i dont like having hair down there. The other week after shaving a day or two later a hard lump appeared and it wouldt pop ...

He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday...

Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...

Why do women always want their men for themselves only, if it's known that men like "variety"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hello, I've noticed a lot of porn related questions from females lately. The age-old question is "Why does he like to look at other women when he has me?". And the answer is difficult... Well, now I have a less common question. I'm a woman m...

Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we ...

She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and ...

I am out of state right now so I cant meet him, how do I keep him interested in dating me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I recently met this guy who is the same age as me on Speeddate. Hes really awesome and we have a lot in common and seems to be interested in me. The problem is right now I am out of state doing a research internship at a hospital. So I ...

He's the love of my life but he doesn't trust me. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hey... I'm so sad. I wish to stay single... I don't know, but after all that's been going on with my relationship, I feel un-confident... See, my boyfriend has problems with my past. Even though I never sletp with anyone before him, he think...

I would like some tips on how to get into shape

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - hello, i am 14stone and i am 15 got any tips to get me in shape...

No matter what I do he still doesn't trust me. What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - We've been together for 5 months now. I spent 3 solid months with him in America, and I've got my next flight there booked. This is the first time we've been apart. He's very hateful, jealous and paranoid. He doesn't like to socialise, he do...

How can I make my boyfriend be more mature about my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - how can i get my boyfriend to help with my pregnancy? ok .. well my boyfriend n i been together for a yeae..n hes been really happy lately because of our child. and i really love him and care bout him .. the thing is ,, hes always buyin vide...

Do I miss him or do I just miss having a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a few monthes ago but now i think i miss him. I was wondering how you can tell if you miss the guy or if you just miss having a boyfriend?...

Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please ...

I know it's wrong but I just can't resist this man. Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away fro...

Does he want to work out the relationship in the future because he wants to keep contact with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - In a LDR for many years pretty close relationship we were looking towards a visa and overall serious connection. He broke up with me because he says I kept doing things that bothered him such as he would warn me don't go spend the money on that you ...

My wife isn't attracted to me anymore and cheated on me, can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - my wife(together 5 years married oe year)says she isent attracted to me anymore, and that she loves me but isnt in love with me and had felt that way for a long time. i knew we had our differences but i did not see this coming. i asked her if there...

How do shy girls like to be asked out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - This may have been asked a million times but I still haven't found the proper advice, even after searching the web. I'm thinking of asking someone out but I have absolutely no idea how to (without her thinking it's going out just as friends). I know ...

Does anyone have any useful books/websites on sex education?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Ok, I was just wondering if anyone had any useful websites for me to look at or good books to read on sex ed. as I missed it at school and don't really know that much and I want to learn....

Is this throbbing chest pain something to do with anxiety over my love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I get a throbbing pain in the upper-right part of my chest whenever I see or think about this girl I like too much. I just wondered if anyone had any medical insight into what this might be? I checked the net but I couldn't find anything. It's not ...

I'm on the pill but I'm afraid I might be pregnant. Am I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend had sexual intercourse on Monday. we did not use protection and he came inside me. i have been taking the pill for 6 weeks now and not missed one out or anything and i am still taking them. the only trouble is i fee...

don't understand why he doesn't seem to be interested in S&M anymore? What happened? Is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He is (was?) into BDSM. When we first started being intimate and he broached the subject he was very happy to find that I didn't think he was sick and although with no prior experience, ...

He hardly talks. he stopped telling me he loves me when he used to say it everyday.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - im in a 2 and a half yr long distance relationship and things were going pretty well. we saw each other once a month or every 2 months after last yr. just recently he was acting strange and thinking that he is a failure and nobody wants him and ...

How can I stop gettin jealous and paranoid???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. He's really good to me and i love him alot. The only problem is i cant trust him at all, even though he gives me no reason not to trust him. I think this is because ive been hurt so much in the ...

I said I liked him, but his answer didn't tell me anything. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - There's a boy I really like at my school and before the 6 weeks summer holidays me and him got on really well and I thought we had a chance but we chose to wait until after the holidays to see what could happen. When I went back to school last week ...

He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He ...

How can I forget, once and for all, the guy I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - im heartbroken.....ive been dumped AGAIN for another woman....by the same man!! I should never of took him back after he did it the first time, but I did.....and I fell in love with him again, and now hes finished with me for someone else. I cant ...

We still want to love, but where did it all go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...

I just can't get through her! What else can I do for her to see what a wonderful person she is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - she doesnt have poor self esteem...she has no self esteem. no matter what i say or do she thinks she is the lowest being on earth. ive told her how great of a person she is and how beautiful she is on a regular basis, trying to help her out, but it ...

She was giving me a blow job but... nothing came out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Question is quite simple. I received a blowjob from my new girlfriend for the first time today and I just...didn't get off. She was going at it for at least 10 or 15 minutes and still nothing (although I have to admit it felt greattttt). Is this...

My mom's boyfriend cheated on her with me. I don't know what to do in this situation but I don't want her to be with a guy like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have this problem and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm gay. I came out years ago and my family have always been cool about it since they saw it coming. My mother especially as I always stood by her and helped her through a divorce to my father. ...