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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Do I wait for my online boyfriend, or go for the real life guy who cares for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Here is my problem. I met a guy online, we like eachother so much. He is going to visit me in a couple of months (We live in different countries). He is always busy since he is on duty in the army in Iraq. lately, He rarely talk to me or even email ...

Will he judge me for being a 28 yr old virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 28 year old virgin, I've just started seeing a new guy but I am worried that he will judge me and will find it weird. ...

How can we make our first time about showing our love and not just about sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later his parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. After ...

My boyfriend enjoys getting period blood over him, is this normal?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both 16. Weve been going out for seven months and we both lost our virginty to each other around 4 months ago. I was just wondering if this is normal that my boyfriend likes to finger me whilst im on my period ( i only ever...

Is he just not into me? How can I get him to open up and feel more comfortable around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm really confused. My boyfriend is really frigid. He wont kiss me unless I ask, he refuses to have sex with me and I'm always the one that hangs up last, or suggests sex, or makes the first move in anything. I've tried asking him why this is the ...

We both still want each other but there are reasons we had to break up. Will I ever get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I split up with the man I am completely in love with at Easter, and am having problems getting over him. I still think about him pretty much every second of every day and can't imagine things getting better. What makes it worse it that I know he ...

Doesn't my boyfriend care that I don't have an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've never had orgasm during intercourse, but previous boyfriends were always bothered, and tried harder to make me come, but my current boyfriend seems doesn't really care. We've been together for a month, and we've never really talked about sex ...

Should I take some more time and analyze my situation for my kid's sake before I move in with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm 33 with two kids. I've recently become engaged. My Fiance has a daughter of his own and wants us to move in together. We really don't have any big issues, we don't argue that much and when we do, he always tells me 'lets talk about it and not ...

Should money get in the way of old friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I have a dear, dear friend whom I just love being with. We are much on the same wavelength. Problem is, she has gotten richer while I've gotten poorer. I don't want money to come between us. Recently i made the mistake of asking her for money, whic...

Is it too late for counselling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been arguing for the last couple of months (mostly due to his moodiness). We have been married for 3 years and together for 7. He had mentioned that I had been snippy lately so I was actively working on the problem. He brou...

Why do so many people believe in the 'no contact' rule after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Why do so many people believe in the no contact rule after a bad relationship? Or if they had just gotten their hearts broken? Why shouldn't we contact them? And if we were to contact them.. would that be such a bad thing?...

He couldn't stay hard for a minute without it slipping out. What's his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Last night I tried to have sex with a guy who I really like. Every time he tried to get it up he couldn't. He went down on me which was good. He held me all night, but when he tried he couldnt stay hard for a minute without it slipping out. I was ...

What's wrong with my dad? He keeps forgetting things and I'm really worried about him, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

17 September 2008 (?) - My dad has trouble remembering things. For instance, I'm supposed to get him up at 5:30am Tues-Fri....But when i got him up today, he said he'd be upstairs in a minute. Ok, so i waited..he never came up. When i got back from my taekwondo class, he s...

I'm just so insecure. I feel like I'm competing with her, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Am I being completely irrational in feeling inadequate? Here's some background. I've been dating this guy for 4-5 months. Prior to dating him, I'd known him for two years. We were pretty good friends and he told me a lot about his personal...

I really can't tell if he fancies me and and need advice from people who know neither of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Right, I'm in high school. I'm a thirteen year old, and almost eight months ago I started going out with this guy who I really liked. We got on well, but after a couple of months he broke up with me, and was very honest, and told me it was because ...

Can he get in trouble with the law, even if by the time our baby is born we are both of legal age and married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm 17 going to be 18 in three months and have a fiance who's 26. We're going to get married in December of this year, right around the time I turn 18. Recently I found out I am pregnant and I was wondering if he could get in trouble with the law, ...

I'm making it obvious....but does my shy guy like me back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hope you can help me on this situation! I started college about 2 weeks ago, and instantly found myself liking this guy in one of my classes. I never talked to him at first as i was too shy to do so, but recently i've began to talk to him - I tend t...

My girlfriend is willing to do anything just to clear her face of acne, and it's causing problems between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Am I really being selfish? My girlfriend of nearly 2 years is currently on the pill, and has been since nearly the beginning of our relationship. The problem is she is 23 and almost 24, and she still has achne break outs, and feels she is missing ...

He thinks this is not normal,is it true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I am a very happily married woman,both of us are still in mad,passionate love after 10 years.On a recent trip to a strip club which was my idea,my husband found out that he is not attracted to any of those beautiful and sexy women.This discovery has ...

Is playing hard to get a good strategy to get the person you want?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hi all, This question has been around in my mind for quite some time. So I would like to know does doing that actually makes that person you want crave for you, like you more and wants to pursue you instead? 'Cos I am susceptible to becom...

Does love involve belonging to your partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I would like an opinion here... Would you say that love involves belonging to someone else? In soul/heart? In body?...

Should I tell my children I was abused by my dad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I was abused by my dad as a child. I have had counselling and I am now a mother. All the family know about it except the children. My daughter is now 9 and I think its time she knew. My husband disagrees and said she will become frightened of him. ...

I am in charge of a woman at work, who I have grown fond of, she used to have lunch with me, now she doesn't and has become distant, I asked her out, she declined, and she appears irritated, whatever I do, please give me some insight into what I shou

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - For the past few months I've grown to have feelings for a woman I work with. About the first five months, I didn't feel anything for her and simply went about my day. She's the very quiet type unless spoken to. She keeps her answers short and does ...

I just don't know if I could be happy forever without ever experiencing being alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm in college right now, and in a long distance relationship. ive pretty much been in a relationship since i was very young (different long term relationships, one after another) my boyfriend just finished school and is getting really serious about ...

Is it normal after a 12 hr love making session to get up, switch on the pc and start going at it to porn??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Can anyone tell me, is it normal for a man, after a 12 hour love-making session the day before and a night spent together, to wake up the next morning, switch on the computer in the bedroom, and start wanking to porn while his girlfriend (me) is in ...

I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me ...

I can't seem to get her past relationships out of my mind, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginit...

Is it true you can get pregnant if a guy gets too close to you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've missed my period, but i've missed it before i don't know why, but i wasnt pregnant cause i didnt have sex. But now im worried because i've heard that u can get pregnant if a guys gets close 2 u, if he touches u, and thats what happened, and now ...