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Where exactly is my G-spot and what can I do with it?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is such an embarrassing question... where is my G-spot and how do I use it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010):

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lolalollypop, in case you didn't notice I am 16-17 from the UK where the age of consent is 16. So don't bother trying to discourage me from having sex at "my age". Kthnx.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008):

Dear Poster

The G-spot was named after a researcher called Grafenberg, who first located the spot inside a woman's vagina. It's a sensitive area just inside the front wall of the vagina, between the back of the pubic bone and the cervix.

The G-spot is on the top wall of the vagina, about 2 to 3 inches inches from the vaginal opening.

Some women can ejaculate from G-spot stimulation.

You may not orgasm the first time you play with it. It can take a few weeks to find it and to discover exactly what you like.

Reach the G-spot by posing your hand in a come hither motion.

If you have long fingernails, make sure to clip them before entry.

Once inside, rest your fingertips on the slightly ridged area just behind the pubic bone and press upwards lightly.

Move your fingers subtly until you start to feel a small bean-shaped swelling.

Many women claim it is easier to have multiple G-spot orgasms than clitoral ones. Each one often makes the next feel even better.

Use one hand to stimulate your G-spot and the other to massage your clitoris at the same time.

Vary the pressure, speed, and pattern of movement. Try moving your fingers side to side or in small circles.

Point your fingers more sharply upwards and rock them forward and back.

G-spot vibrators can help you find the spot quickly and stimulate it pleasurably.

Position for pleasure:

Have your partner stimulate your G-spot with his or her hand while performing cunnilingus.

Ask your partner to use his or her thumb to rub your clitoris, and the first two fingers to simultaneously stimulate the G-spot.

During intercourse, the head of the penis can rub the G-spot as it withdraws from thrusting, or during partial thrusting at the vaginal opening.

Intensify G-spot orgasms by strengthening your pubococcygeal muscle with Kegel exercises.

Women on Top and Rear Entry are particularly good positions to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse.

Hope this is of assistance.

Best wishes and lots of SMILES

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A female reader, lolalollypop Canada +, writes (10 September 2008):

well that is right what the last person wrote but i would like to start by saying 2 out of 10 girls can have an orgasum that why what i think you need to know is what is the pleasure spot not to say you should be having sex at your age but the clitoris is the best way to experiance pleasure its the what i call the man in the boat on the outside of your cuch cuch its what you need to if you dont already because those 8 out of 10 girls will not have pleasure from the inside g spot there are acually 3 g spots one on the inside and two on the outside the man in the boat wich everyone can enjoy and one right undernieth of it closer to the entrance hope my answer helps good luck to you and practice safe sex !!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008):

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Thanks for your advice!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (10 September 2008):

DoubleM agony auntThe so-called G-spot is generally located two to three inches inside on the vaginal wall toward the front. It may feel like a small bump or slight mound on some women, or it sometimes feels like a small area with a different texture but little or no mound or bump. The word "bump" is really not the best description - I think that maybe a small swelling seems more descriptive for some women's G-spot. Some can feel slightly rougher than the rest of the vaginal wall, which is very smooth and slick (especially when stimulated).

If one or two fingers are fully inserted with the palm of the hand facing upward, and the fingertips massage in a "come hither" motion, the G-spot should be detectable at some point. This area is actually an extension of the clitoral complex - in other words, part of the clitoris. It is the only area within a normal vagina with any significant amount of sensitive nerve endings, although some women have some feeling throughout the inner vagina. Most women can certainly "feel" an inserted penis, for example, but overall the vagina has nowhere near the sensitivity of the clitoral glans (bud or button), which essentially corresponds with the head of a man's penis.

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