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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

He dumped me because "I liked him too much." So how can I be a good girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Boys are sometimes very hard to understand, especially my last bf. I am usually a pretty good reader of people but i could never read him. For instance, i couldn't tell if he was flirting or not, or if he was nervous. But the thing is, some months ...

Anybody have any advice on what I should do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just ...

How soon is it to say I love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - how soon is it to say i love you - if you do love someone and you feel ready to say it, how do you say it without totally freaking them out or know that they'll say it back? i think he's gone to say it a few times then changed his mind. is this cos ...

Do I have an infection in my big toe? What made it go green?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - right what does it mean when a aprt of your big toe has gone green? Is it just an infection? and is it easily sorted? its just down the side bit, not on the nail but on that area and then the bit of skin that goes down the right hand side of that ...

I have no feeling in the head of my penis, this makes sex impossible! Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - My penis especially the head has little or no feeling at the best of times. I can masturbate successfully with my hands on shaft , but never really touch the head, as it has no real positive sensation. If I am receiving oral or attempting vaginal ...

I have to get a DNA test but can anyone help me narrow down the conception date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - If my last period was on November 20-29th(not sure the exact day) and i gave birth on August 19th to twin girls both weighing 6pds, could i have conceived on December 15th? I know i need to get a DNA test between 2 men. I was with one guy for the ...

I need help dressing slutty for my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Any advice for me to dress slutty for my husband? I do not have the "body" I would consider to look good in slutty clothes. I'm 5'1, 142 pounds..........

My boyfriend joined the army and I want to go with him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - hiya, ive been with my boyfriend for two years, and hes just joined the army, hes been in there for 5 months now, and i cant cope, im worried and scared and hurt that he will eventually be going to athganistan, im hurting so much you have no idea, ...

My guy says he's not falling in love with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for as far as "answers" but here goes. After dating a great guy for 3 months 3 days ago he told me he couldn't figure out why, but he wasn't falling in love with me. It's just so confusing because we would ...

My mother in-law came onto me and I accepted. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - About three months ago I was visiting my wife's parents for her uncle's 45th birthday celebration. The party was a great time, and we were all taking advantage of the open bar. I don't want to go into too much detail, but what basically happen...

How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im ...

Is it possible to fix a broken marriage and bring its magic back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - Ok my wife and separated. She rents one house and I rent the Other. She has the kids. Before this our marriage was like room mate. What if your always seen as an unfit husband by your wife. How do fix a broken marriage and how do you put back the...

How do you get your man to love you again, without giving up who you are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I have been having trouble with my boyfriend for a while now. We have been together for 3 years and it seems like everyday our communication and trust is decreasing. I have done somethings to show him how I feel about him but sometimes I feel they ...

Is it normal to be virgin at 18?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I'm a male, 18, and still a virgin but all of my friends aren't. I'm afraid that i will be made fun of for being a virgin if they ever find out. Is it normal to be a virgin at 18?...

If he said that I was ugly, then why does he keep on staring at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - There is this guy in my class. He keeps on looking at me. Last week I heard him call me ugly to his friends. I was right there and heard him. When they look at me in class, I saw that they laughed and smile at each other. I don't even know or ...

My boyfriend is emotionally detached. I was raised in a loving home and I'm not used to this. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Hello..my name is lisa..i am 40 yrs of age...i have been withmy partner for 8 years...the relationship has not been an easy one...in the beginning, he had a problem with jealousy (and of course it was me who paid), he also had a problem with alcohol ...

Is it wrong to have fallen for my (dead) best friend's girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - Just to start things off, my best friend went out with a girl for 2 years before coming to university. They broke it off in the first week of university. He then started going out with another girl, and they were going off and on for a year before ...

I think my teacher quit because of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - my tecaher quit and i feel like it's my fault becuase i talked back to her and never did my work but everyone says she wanted a full time job, i feel so guilty it's already almost my third week of school! My whole class was so upset when they found ...

Is this love, lust, or infatuation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - ok, iv been dating a guy for just over a month, we get on great, known each other for a while, i feel as though i love him , can this happen so soon? ive told him i love him to bits , and he has replied with the same answer, we can si...

Is my irregular period normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Period question here... hi im 14 and i have had my period for about 10 months or soo they still arent ragular is that normal? also lastsunday i got my period but it was gone by monday but just a few minutes ago i relized its back is ...

Should I worry if I'm the one who usually calls first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost a month and called him on Tuesday wanting to talk to him since I started school the next day, I called while he was eating so I said "How about you call me when you're done?" he said "ok" and that ...

What does it mean when a woman makes the motion to touch you but then stops?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I have a question about this female friend that I am attracted to, although I am already in a relationship with another woman. When she is talking to me, she sometimes goes out to touch me but then stops just before. In one conversation, this ...

Ever since my two best friends became friends I've felt left out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - So here's the thing, I have these two best friends *Karissa* and *Jason*. I've known both of them since Kindergarten. The three of us drifted apart. Then, in the 8th grade, Jason and I reconnected and became best friends. We stayed this way all ...

Am I right for wanting to lose weight before I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - can someone please give me an opinion! i met this guy about 2 years ago through a friend, we only met like 3 or 4 times but i fancied the pants off him! then he randomly added me on msn about 2 months later and we got chatting! hes proper amazin a...

Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...

How can I ease my boyfriend's pain as his mother just died?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Even though my boyfriend and I have been together for around a month, we have a strong connection. He lost his mother 5 months ago, and I do not know what to tell him to relief his pain. We keep telling him that she's in a better place now. ...

My wife told me she doesn't love me anymore and seems to have no interest to save the marriage. Am I being hasty for considering divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - After a relationship that has lasted for 16 yrs, the last 10 married my wife has stated she doesnt love me anymore because I have neglected her and left her on her own too much. This is odd because she was telling people she couldnt do without me ...

The problems in our relationship is making me think if I should terminate my pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years ive been pregnant befor with him, i didnt keep the baby....later im now pregnant again....we were having some major problems befor we knew and he wanted to move far away, i found out i was pregnant and ...

I had a really weird dream about this guy. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Last night I had this realy wierd dream. It was about me and this other boy I have never seen in real life, and came into the room and we were about to have sex but then I had told him I was not ready. And it felt so real like it was it was ...