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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

Am I doing the right thing by using words instead of violence, even though it hurts my pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hi. This isn't exactly a relationship question, but it is linked to my relationship. The other night, me and the girl I've been seeing for a couple of months were in a club, and this guy comes up to us and starts chatting to us both. He was qui...

I got drunk and hooked up with another guy. Do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend and i love each other. He lives an hour and a half away. Things are really hard because he is really busy working 60+ hours a week and doesn't have anytime to really call or answer my texts. I feel like we aren't dating, that all ...

I have developed deep feelings, for a married woman at work, I told her, and she will not speak to me anymore, my question, do I have the right to have feelings for a person that I have never been on a date with, is this some kind of emotional immatu

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hello. I'm really depressed and disillusioned with life at the moment. I couldn't give two hoots about the credit crunch, I'm too busy licking my emotional wounds after my latest rejection. I basically developed feelings for a woman at work over a ...

My boyfriend wants me to take pictures of myself in my underwear. Is this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend(8months) have a really good relationship atm, we havn't actually had sex yet as i want to wait 'til i'm 16, but we mess around and that, i'm fourteen and he's in the year above. i'm really not into all the sex stuff but i know he ...

I want to give him the best honeymoon ever! By the way?...We are both virgins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Well, I'm getting married very soon and as big of a shocker this is...I'm still a virgin. And when me and Troy get married, I want to give him the best honeymoon ever. He is still a virgin too, so I want to start things off slowly. I was thin...

If he and his girlfriend did split up, should I go after him, or wait to see if he decides to come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - There is a guy I've really liked for a while, and I've been told that he likes me as well. But he already has a girlfriend and two young kids (one with his current girlfriend, and another from a previous relationship). Obviously a relation...

What does this all mean? Am I crazy or is it possibly something more, like paranormal behaviour?

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22 September 2008 (F) - Ok. I'm 17 and I've always had this uncanny unique thing about me. When I was eight and my mom was putting me to bed, this man appeared in my doorway and for an instant he turned around and smiled at me and then he was gone. I told my mother about ...

I'm keeping a major secret from the guy that could be my childs father, is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so i know you are gonna think i am a slut but please dont judge me. I don't sleep around and before i got myself in this mess i hadn't slept with anyone for over 8 months. So I knew this guy at we had been friends for ages but we live in diff...

Is it illegal to email a teacher out of school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Is it illegal to email a teacher outside of school in the uk? i am currently being taught by him, i am female, he is male, i am 17 and he is in his 30s, it is his personal email address and the emails are informal and of a personal nature,...

Do some guys like girls that are shy and nervous around them (like me!) or do they prefer an outgoing girl that always can start a conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i know everybody has different opinions, but what do guys typically look for in a girl? Do some guys like girls that are shy and nervous around them?(like me!) or do they prefer an out going girl that always can start a conversation. Cuz I really ...

Men, are you put off when a girl takes initiatives, always starts conversations, etc? When guys don't make the effort, does it mean they are not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I will not go into detail about my own problem just yet, i just needed to ask this question: Guys, are you put off in any way when a girl is usually the one to make a first move? I know guys are generally lazy and some are blind to see that a ...

Please explain to me why I feel this way whenever I see my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him. This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for...

What are you thought's on stretchmarks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - What do men think about strechmarks on a womens body?What does the female think about it too?...

Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i ...

I would give her one of my kidneys if she needed it, because I still love her so much! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys, this is a fairly common question but its worth asking because it's tearing me up at a very stressful time. Basically I was madly in love with this girl for about a year and we kept goin out for a year and a half. I loved her so much but ...

Are these signs my friend's giving out - letting me know that she is bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Hey i am 19 years old, so is my best friend who is 19 years of age too. recently i have realised that she may be bisexual and probably wants to make out with me. Just few days back she said that if she were to get really high she would make out with...

Am I just causing myself a headache to believe in the stars?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Oh, this is kinda like an astrology question. I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is Libra. I've had a lot of readings everywhere and people saying that the two are not a match made in heaven. But what me and my boyfriend have seems to be totally real and ...

I want to be with him, how can I make my parents acknowledge that I'm old enough and can take responsibility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - How can i make my parents acknowledge that i'm old enough and can take responsibility? My bf and i have been together for 14 months now. We love each other so deeply and we always talk about the things we'd do as soon as we get married and our ...

I'm far too naive! Do I follow logic or my gut to chase this girl? Or shall I just aim for friendship?

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22 September 2008 (M) - I have met a girl i really like and we have talked every day wether it be text, email, or msn and i am starting to fall for her i think. It's only been about 6 weeks that i've properly known her (she's a friend of a friend) and we have been out a ...

We're together now but I'm worried about how my violent ex might react!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - hey guys i have another question. sorry i know i bug u guys so much but please help. ok remember the guy that i toll u guys about well yeah we re going out now. but now we have a problem. well am scared that when my ex finds out he is going to ...

I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come ...

A carrot, an egg and a coffee bean...what are you??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Found another inspiring story that i wanted to share..in life we all have trials. Sometimes it feels the easiest way to do is to quit and give up..I have, on many occasions asked ,Why me? Why does it seem that I am not getting any break in life.. ...

How do I stop being so jealous of my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I've a strange problem with my fiance now. We've been seeing each other for about 3years and we finally got engaged 2weeks ago. The problem is that his work sometimes force him to meet females and i by nature become jealous and angry but i don't ...

I won't help my gay friend come out. Why is he angry at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

22 September 2008 (?) - I have guyfriend whos gay and has a boyfriend. His parents doesnt know about it. He wants to tell them but afraid they'll kick him out. He wants me to help him tell them but I told he should do it on his own. Hes mad at me for not being there for ...