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Where are the best places to go to find a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - After a few bad relationships, I've decided to start going out again. I'm a single dude, age 24. I'm going out to clubs and bars to get myself out there. I see a few single girls there, but people advised me to stay away from those girls (STDS). I'm going for some ... (128 words

I'm pregnant but I don't want to get back with him. How can I make him understand that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - okay my boyfriend and i were going out years and we broke up and then i found out i was pregant and told him he cried saying he wasn't ready for this but he'll be there, I told him i'm not a bitch i have no problem with him seeing the child and coming to the scans, at the end ... (162 words

How can you tell if a man is married for sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - how can you tell if a guy is married, because this guy keeps hitting on me and i want to tell his wife that he's a jerk. he actually asked me for sex i'm not just flattering my self. What should i look for?!?! he has no ring on... says he's divorced. but i really d... (63 words

Lonely and really need a man in my life again...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2673 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm so lonely. I'm not that much of an outgoing person i find it difficult to socialize in big groups of people and can come across quite shy. About 2 years ago i got together with a guy who i could be completely myself with,i fell for him. That ended around 7 months ago. I ... (139 words

Eating disorder thoughts are slowly becoming worse.. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 17 years old and I'm terrified about the thoughts that have been entering my mind lately. When I was 6, my parents got a divorce. My dad dated off and on, then finally got 'serious' with a woman when I was 13. She was a complete psycho; sadly, my dad didn't figure that out ... (232 words

I feel like everyone hates me and that I just don't matter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi All, My life feels so weird lately, I have friends on Facebook that take their friendship away without giving a reason, I get ignored on Facebook, anything I post doesnt even get a response! I feel like I dont exist, at a works party recently we all got tipsy and I ended up... (256 words

I might not manage to go to the prom but she said she'd just go herself! This bugs me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - hey me again, me and my girl where discussing when her senior prom will be, and I brought up the question of what if I couldn't come? (since I'm in job corps like 3 hours away from her, there is a distinct possibility I wont be able to) And she just replied, she would just ... (193 words

How loyal are we to the memory of an old love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - A generic question - you fall in love or develop a rather major crush on someone, and for whatever reason your feelings are never openly declared to the other person. How long do they hold a special place in your heart for? In my experience, and I am a female (though I... (324 words

Is my boyfriend ashamed of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and he has not introduced me to anyone and I feel like he is hiding me. We work together and he says he doesn't want to tell people about us, because he doesn't know how they will react to us dating and that he doesn't want to ... (177 words

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues never able to marry you and ... (326 words

I don't feel as if my relationship with him is moving on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - A couple of months ago I met a guy on the internet. We texed for a few days and then met for a drink. In person I found him physically attractive but he seemed a bit shy. After the date he carried on texting every day (hes funnier in his texts) and then a week or so later we ... (287 words

Why oh why did this happen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years, we've had sex a couple of times, not regularly though. Yesteday we were fooling around and things got heated up, i was hard, and we were about to have sex. But when we were about to, i lost my erection and have no idea why. ... (103 words

Have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is kind of a poll. Guys please be honest here. Have you ever dumped a girl for another girl who was better looking than your ex but not as interesting. To be more blunt have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league? ... (55 words

How do I get this guy's respect after sleeping with him straight away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys! Right, well i slept with this guy that i like, and have done for a while, were not in any sort of relationship though, me sleeping with him probably wasn't the best thing to do. How do i get this guy's respect after this? I'm hoping to be in a relationship wit... (102 words

Why did she just diss my feelings that I still love her and want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 months already. We were in a long distance relationship for that time. We had an amazing bond together best friends, lovers we just got along so perfectly. Now during this break up I have been dating and I believe so has ... (284 words

2 beers and he couldn't get an erection! What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - My bf is ALWAYS horny and we have an active sex life, I love it. We don't drink much actually but tonight we each had 2 beers. He wasn't horny at all! for the first time since I know him (I've known him for 2 years) he couldn't get an erection! I was shocked. Most of the time ... (96 words

Since moving in together he is not the same person I fell in love with...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for some time now and we've been living together for about 2 months. It was nice in the beginning when i first moved in, but now i feel horrible. He is not the same person i fell in love with. He calls me name and flies off the handle over the ... (307 words

Should I cut my mother out of my life for ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have a really hard life, including kids problems, health problems and all other aspects. Seemingly unrelated and I blamed it on bad fortune. As there is things I have done wrong, but nothing to deserve this outcome.... I cant get into details, because it would be a novel. I... (232 words

Why won't my girlfriend touch me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend will not touch me. We've been together almost seven months and I'm depressed every day. We recently started being more sexual, and I touch/please her, but all I get in return is making out. I don't think this is fair, but I don't want to pressure her to do ... (96 words

Do you think once he sees my bump he might change his mind and stay with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but not children. He does not have either but said that want a family and kids. We have been dating for 7 months and by accident I got pregnant. He was furious and wants me to terminate it. I had one 10 years ago and got very... (293 words

My boyfriend is a pothead!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 and a half years since 8th grade. he was a major pot head and last year he was sent to a boot camp for almost ten months, he made it seem like he was so changed and he wouldnt smoke again i waited for him. about a month after he comes ... (136 words

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it off. Next thing is we were ... (578 words

Opinions. If he wanted to break up he'd tell me, ignore me or be slightly rude right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've posted before.. but i cant seem to relax.. im constantly thinking. I realized when guys are sick theyre big babies (well some). I'm used to being needed when a bf is sick but because my bf has his mom nearby/her friends to get him things.. he doesnt need me. As far as i ... (437 words

Help!!! How do I tell my mom I'm gay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey, I really want to tell my mom about what I'm going through with my sexuality (I think I'm gay) but I need some advice on how to go about doing that. So any help would help a lot. Are there any teens out there who feel the same way? I'd love to hear how you feel because ... (78 words

Sensitive subject and at a loss...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have a 5 year old who will be 6 in August and I recently noticed when putting her to bed that her hands smelt like they were near her "Daisy" or vagina. I asked her aboút it and she became stiff, so I told her that IF she was going to do that she needs to do it in private and ... (94 words

Can I be in love with two men at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - is it possible to love two people at once or is there a diference between loving someone and being in love?i'm in love with two men. i just don't know which one is my "true love".... (36 words

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, and I like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I feel pretty bad for liking my best friend's boyfriend, even though i liked him before she did, but i never told her. Her and him haven't been dating that long but she's really mean to him she talks to other guys while dating him and she calls him fat all the time. She has no ... (175 words

How much does height matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - This woman I like is about 5'8... the same as me. When she wears regular shoes to work and I wear my dress shoes I am a little taller. However, she often wears 4" heels which jumps her up to 6 ft tall, while I remain in the 5'10ish range in my dress shoes. Is this any s... (79 words

Help! My mum's boyfriend is molesting me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok, so ive asked a few questions on this topic before but i could really use your help on this one! until about 3 months ago my mom's boyfriend has been molesting me (this had been happening for about 3 years and no-one knws about this. i was also sexually molested from the age ... (156 words

Two men - Should I go with my head or my heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am confused. I need to choose between two men. This is not an easy decision. My husband has been out of the country for 2 1/2 years and I haven't seen him in one year.Over time we have lost communication(more on his part I would talk and talk and he wouldn't say har... (437 words

Internship people are asking me quit my job! I need advice fast! Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a bit of a big dilemma. This is more about a career thing, but i've came here for a lot of problems before and have received so much help. I'm not sure where else to go in such short notice. I hope you can help me! I am currently working at an internship 4 days ... (437 words

Why is it mainly women posting on here and not men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello Aunts I have one general question on the forum. Why do only women post questions here ? why so less questions being raised here by Men?. what are the thoughts on this. I know it is complex question and not a single and easy answer. Do the men do not prefer to s... (91 words

How can I unleash her libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the h*** out of her to night but i m ... (133 words

I lost my virginity to a guy I'm not in a relationship with...how do I act with him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I guess you could say what i did the other night was pretty stupid. I lost my virginity to a guy im not in a relationship with, he claims he really likes me, and we have had abit of a thing goin on for a bit of time now. However, im realising it was pretty silly of me, bec... (138 words

Mum walks in on me having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Titled by Poster: What a mess i am in. Had a gathering the other night, well i would'nt even call it that, there was like five people and myself there and that's it. Things went well, wasnt anything crazy, nothing broke, i dont think. However, the problem is, myself and this ... (268 words

I'm finding it hard to let myself go sexually...I am so shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I need some advice as I feel I am not normal, I have never felt attracted to anyone until now, I am with this amazing guy and we have been together for a long time and he has said he loves me and I love him in every way, he knows everythng about me and I feel really comfortable ... (202 words

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or neutral opinion from people who are ... (390 words

Secret fantasy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for about 18 years, and recently have this fantasy of my wife being with other men, I get horny if i think of it. However, I am afraid to ask my wife about it. We love each other and have good sex. Am I crazy??????????... (52 words

He needs time... all the while I am unravelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello friends, I need some advice. My bf and I had a big blowout a few weeks ago, it was my fault, I lied to him about a few things and he found out. The lies were white and small and didn't hurt anyone but still, I lied. After trying to reconcile and him not seeming to make an ... (341 words

How can I show him that I'll be there for him regardless of anything and that he has nothing to fear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he holds my hand, kissing me , we make out... (195 words

Should I wait 3 weeks for him to break off his other dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for about 2 months now. Sex has come up and I have stated that I will not have intercourse until we are in an exclusive relationship. At the beginning of the week, he has said that he likes me a lot, and that he 'needs to put some things in order'... (318 words

Landing strips for men???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok so i got bored this morning and when i was in the shower i gave myself a landing strip... I feel a little weird since its usually girls that get them. Is it ok for a guy to have one? Will people think I'm gay or something, will girls laugh at me when they see it?... (57 words

Will she ever be happy in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok. A friend of mine, who is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus, but these 4 years was a rough ride for her. She told me she has initiated a few break ups but patched back with him. She has slept with him once. She tells me he controls her, he is very possessive. ... (169 words

I want to say no nicely, and I want discretion....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi I have a married male friend who recently asked me to have an affair with him, I too am married and love my husband dearly and would never cheat on him. How can I let this man know that as much as I like him I do not like him in that way and not for our other firends to find ... (63 words

I want my children to finish College/ University and I want them to have a good upbringing too but how can I have these both without risking my work and children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am married with 3 children, ages 15, 10 and 5. Since 2007, I left my children and work abroad since my husband couldn't help me financially, I would rather say, he is very irresponsible and wouldn't like to work. He takes care of the children but doe... (582 words

I need advice about sex...How to be safe, and satisfying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - i want to make a safe sex with my girl friend. We are realy sincere with each other therefore we want to make sexual relation between us. . ! Please give me tips by which we make our sex long at night and i don't want her pregnant. Help me s0on. . ! Our meeting is fixed on ... (64 words

Blowjobs...What's my problem and what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Ok, so I have been married for over 13 years, and have only gotten off by a blowjob once in my life and it wasn't my wife. I love when my wife goes down on me, it's truly amazing to watch her as she engulfs me, but for some reason I just can't cum. It frustrates her, but at the ... (126 words

Erection issues...need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - hey friends,, I am a 19 yrs old guy, well virgin guy, and I'm facing lot of problems these days. Firstly, i keep getting an erection all day, also at night, its so much more than normal, i believe. whenever i see a hot girl or without any reason, i keep getting an er... (121 words

I secretly masturbate but don't like doing this ...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I have been living with My Girlfriend a while now but I secretly masturbate a lot. No one knows about this, I have porn magazines hidden behind the panelling on the bath in the bathroom and I masturbate to them sometimes. I also masturbate sometimes in bed or just bef... (131 words

Sex has waned in our relationship and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my guy for 5 years! I have a high sex drive and he knew this when we first started dating. This was one of the reasons we kept seeing each other as he thought he'd died and gone to heaven...sex on tap! But as the years have gone on he's slowly going off it...he ... (178 words

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away from my town to London, and ... (1237 words

Dumped because I got too close to another guy! How do I get my bf back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok well basically my boyfriend broke up with me 6 days ago and im actually devastated. The reason he broke up with me is because he saw me being a bit 'too close' with another guy who is my friend and broke up with me right there and then. I know I hurt him and I made a mistake ... (122 words

My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions who sent me to the eye ... (100 words

I'm too much of a people pleaser and not true to myself! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3158 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - i need advice because im sure theres something wrong with me. it sounds silly but noone really likes me. this isnt about feeling sorry for myself but im convinced theres something wrong with me. when i was younger my dad left my mum for his sister and it was in the newspapers ... (230 words

He's in a relationship, he flirts with me and another girl at work! What is going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in love with my co-worker who is twice my age; he's smart, sexy, funny and we have a lot in common. Problem is he's involved in a relationship, he also seems to favour one of the other girls at work a bit more than me. I'm just so terribly jealous! He does flirt with me but ... (79 words

Did it happen or not? How do I explain this one to my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f*** off as I was not interested m... (527 words

Do you think i"ve made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Mod Note:Posters Title was not available I just broke up with my boyfriend of four years and I already feel horrible. I've been waiting for him to get his act together for years; he was a high achiever when he was younger and now he's stuck in a rut. This was part of why we brok... (136 words

My Fiancee has flirted with gay men online! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am with my fiancee for more than 2 years. I got to know him from the web. He was generally a very nice guy, responsible and faithful to me and very helpful towards my family. I used to believe he is straight. He even pointed out to me when he felt disgusted about gay behavi... (576 words

Sometimes I feel like I'm tired off him and immediately I think I can't live without him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3160 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - We've been in a relationship for a bit now. I chased him around a bit and he's very shy but after a couple of months of being really good friends we started going out and he's madly in love with me (like I am with him) Now that he's equally in love with me if not more I get c... (299 words

How to help a shy man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - i've been trying to find a girlfriend for my very shy friend. But they won't go out with him just because he is shy. He thinks women don't like shy men that they want confident men. He thinks he wasting his time trying because he is shy.... (47 words

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to her if its going to cause h... (498 words

Girlfriend flirts online -can I still trust her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend broke up for 10 days then got back together. A few months later, I found messages from a sexual conversation she was having with a guy online. When I confronted her, she said she was just talking trash and that it happened while we were apart. I let that ... (140 words

Tips for more attractive breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am 5.2 height and 34b breast....how can i make them tight....appealing and beautiful....need some exercises and massage advices ..my husbend is crazy for hight and big boobs.....how can i walk sexy...?plz reply soon... (34 words

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i am currently unemployed n ... (233 words

Should I hook up with my cousin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I have a cousin problem and it involves me a 17 year old having sex and messing around with my 14 year old cousin. We have spend a lot of time together and have fun together, when we start fighting for fun he accidentaly touches my boobs and there's a acward moment but I ... (141 words

Can anyone answer my questions about what to expect...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello, im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt and we want 2 have sex with each other its just that im scared and he doesnt pressure me in2 it he says he can wait! Well he suggested fingering me 1st and i was just wondering since im a virgin will it feel good if he fingers ... (67 words

I am shy with a speech impediment, need suggestions on asking a girl out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out? I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wandering what are some good ways t... (95 words

Had sex twice, but did not feel anything physically, why??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes... I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I was quite old to still be a virgi... (328 words

We talked, he made promises, then stopped calling, now he's back, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

31 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - okay well i'm not really sure what to do. theres this boy and he and me meet through another guy friend of mine. hes 17 almost 18 im 15. we had a really big thing but i would always have to sneak him in because I live with and abusive/strict father. or I would see him at my ... (272 words

I broke up with this strange girl, now she's stalking me, what can I do ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

31 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi ,i have a issue almost a 1 year now, i had a relationship with 2 year younger girl when i was 16 and we were together for 1 and a half week , i was not attracted to her at all ,but it impressed me that she asked me out and i said she seemed nice , so i gave it a try, we just ... (973 words

My husband has cheated in the past, being dishonest now, what should I do??

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31 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My husband is 27, I am 47, I am told that we look the same age, I weigh 142, smooth skin and nice looking. My husband had cheated on me several times in the past. I asked him about his cell phone last night, he had hid it. I check his voice message through my phone, ... (120 words

I hate it when he hangs out with his friends.

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31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are really happy with each other. We love each other and never fight. But there's just this one problem that bothers me every time. I don't know why, but I just hate when he hangs out with his friends. I mean, I feel like hypocrite saying that because I'm ... (167 words

Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?

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31 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years old, I work at this camp where I ... (1160 words

I'm starting to resent her and her ways...

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31 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Okay, i have a girlfriend that i love to death, but sometimes i have some problems that i dont really know the names for. To start off, shes has a troubled past of family problems, drug problems, and boyfriend problems. I, myself, have self-esteem problems or something, like ... (461 words

He doesn't know how much our sex life is bothering me

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31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over a year. We only have sex about once a week, sometimes not even that, or twice a week at a push. I want to have sex a little more often (twice a week every week would be great), but my boyfriend says he likes sex ... (912 words

Confused, hurt, angry, worried all at the same time!!! What now?

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31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We bought a house almost 2 years ago. It's in his name as my credit wasn't good enough to be used though my income was for th loan. Anyway, recently, I had an atv accident that he has been blaming himself for. Right after that, he told ... (605 words

Need Help With Possible Anorexia...

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31 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone, how are you? I'd like to thank you all on your help on everything else. They've all been very encouraging, rational answers that have either made me feel better or have helped. So, again: my sincerest gratitude to all of you. Thank you. So, here's another question... (313 words

Why is he being so selfish wanting me to have an abortion???

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31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, last week i found out that i am pregnant im 17 and my boyfriend of 16 months is 18. I told him that i didnt want to get an abortion, and at first he said he would be there for me no matter what and said he would move in with me and my parents, a few hours after that he ... (193 words

Just how much does sex hurt...?

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31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have question?and its about me and my boyfriend. well the deal is that we been together for about 4-in half going on 5 and were both in are 20s and we been wait for so long that we want to have sex already but im afriad of pain and getting hurt. are there any suggestions on ... (89 words

There's a possibility he's not the father... should I let him know that?

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31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i had sex with two different men and im pregnant... thing is i used a condom with the one guy and i didnt with the other... now the man i didnt use a condom with i have been with off and on for 5 years now and the one i did i had dated in the past but it was just a fling... but ... (161 words

Sex should feel good at some point right...?

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31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Here is my story... Well, I lost my virginity fairly late compared to others that I know. I was 20. Before that, I never was so into the idea of sex or felt that I needed it. I know this may be a taboo topic but if I wanted to pleasure myself, I could and quite successful... (894 words

We've just had this big fight and I haven't heard from him... what do I do?

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31 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need help and advice because lately my relationship hasnt been so good. Today my boyfriend and i got into a nasty fight. Yes we've had these alot but this time things were said that really shouldnt have been said. I really need help because things arent seeming to get bett... (328 words

Is this girl even remotely interested in me as well?

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31 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - There is this girl who kinda blew me away the first time I saw her. I didnt really think much of it at first, but over the last months Ive come to realize I really like her. But she happens to be 2 years older than me (Im 20). Anyway, we always seem to be playful around e... (184 words

I am not convinced why he wants to break up with me

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31 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me saying that we don't see things eye to eye. I have a 4 year old son, not with him. He feels bothered when my son acts up at the dinner table and wants to walk around. He believes children should be seen, not heard. My son's meal time at the daycare ... (240 words

Anxious about meeting my boyfriend again after a 3 month seperation (distance)

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31 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I will be heading back to meet my boyfriend after 3 months of long-distance separation. I am feeling with anxiety as to what should i do? How can I face him? I suddenly feel so far away from him... How can i control my fear? I heard that when many couples get back after a... (254 words

Problems finding a mate!

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31 July 2010 (M age - Dear Cupid, I have been quite alone for over 12 years now. My last (and only) marriage was a disaster- all I got out of it was three great kids, who are now grown. However, I am willing and able to start over again; I have a real desire to be a Father and Husband. I believe ... (225 words

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