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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell if shes really moved on from her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm only 15 and you may think that this is only something trivial but it's tearing me apart! This girl I know I really fancy and I have for quite a time now. She has recently (2/3 weeks) split with her boyfriend who cheated on her (twice) and she is heart broken. The problem is ... (99 words)

He's married, but I love him! How can I handle this unrequited love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunt I'm a single 24 year old living in the UK. My problem is that I think I'm in love with someone who is married and can never love me back. He is 29 and married with a kid. We used to work together and we got on brilliantly, even to the point where he s... (384 words)

I don't see a future for us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I genuinely cant see a future for me and my boyfriend. When I have visions of my future he's never in it. Should I end my relationship purely based on this fact or should I just live for the here and now and see how it goes? All opinions appreciated.... (51 words)

Why is my ex ignoring me and hanging around with lots of other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi ok im actually at the point where i have been having an emotional breakdown almost every day and dont know what to do anymore. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and I have been left feeling very confused and hurt and need some advice please. We dated for a year... (1515 words)

Can someone give me help and direction on how to have a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age - i've never had a girlfriend or relationship because i'm very shy with women i don't have a clue how to approach women.... (22 words)

How can I increase the intimacy in my relationship slowly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got a boyfriend and he stayed over at my house. We were lying on the bed fully clothed and he took my hand and slowly guided it to his penis and i rubbed. he groaned nd it felt immense to feel him. I want to do more but start clothed.. what can i do?/... (57 words)

He said " I love you" so soon! Does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I ask this question I would just like to say - YES , I do really how stupid it is...but events leading up to this has caused me some serious paranoia. I need to sort my head out. I understand this is ridiculous but seriously just go with it, please. My boyfriend told m... (269 words)

The other women, cheater, extra marital affairs

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age - I need to know if I should talk to his wife? I had an affair with a man that I knew was married. He has four beautiful kids. We only saw each other while we were in Germany together over a 5 month period. He told me his wife was divorcing him after we had already been ... (296 words)

Why do guys want a virgin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys say that sex with a virgin girl is better/more pleasurable than with a non-virgin? and why do guys want and like to be the one to take a girls virginity?... (33 words)

Why isn't my husband looking for a job to pay off his bills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age - i think i made a mistake getting married. how stupid could i be? i own my own home, have a great job; we dated for 16 years. after the marriage, i rented out my house and moved in with him. i discovered he had a box full of credit card bills and other bills that were all ... (277 words)

How can you restore intimacy to a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know how you can get the intimacy back into a relationship. And what excactly is intimacy? Ideas??... (21 words)

I don't love him, I'm actually starting to hate him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 27and I have been with my boyfriend (29 yrs old) for 11 years and we have 7 year old twin boys together .I don't love him anymore . Im actualy starting to hate him .He never made me happy ,never tried and never will .The kids are starting to feel tit too. I really have the ... (157 words)

I get put on the back burner when he has his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He has a 4-year-old daughter from a previous marriage and I a 3-year-old-son. Chemistry was great between us and the both kids. We decided to move into together fairly quick and have been living together for the past 6 months. ... (275 words)

I'm considering first-time sex with my boyfriend, how can I make sure it isn't disappointing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a serious relationship with a man I love. And we are intimate, but both virgins for the time. I have a few questions. Here goes: One: I know it bothers my boyfriend that I don't come a lot, and haven't had an orgasm. We had a brief discussion, and I said its hard fo... (132 words)

Hooking up with a guy 10 years older for a FWB relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, So I was considering hooking up with one of my friend's brothers. I've known him for about two years and we've been discussing it for some time now and we both want the same thing, no-strings sex. The only thing is, he's ALOT older than me. 10 years to be exact. ... (107 words)

Are guys just automatically wired to like women smaller?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone please explain to me why before you lose weight you are told the infamous line of "you look good just the way you are" by your signifacant other..but as soon as you drop 20 lbs they are all over you and the sexy,hot compliments are never ending! Are men just wired ... (108 words)

Sheer bathing suits. OK, or not OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I like it when my girl wears semi sheer bathing suits to the beach. Or even in the hot tub with friends. We experimented with cutting out the lining on a few pairs, and it seems to work well -especially with darker suits as her bits are then only slightly noticeable and it's ... (123 words)

She says she loves me, then that she only sees me as a friend! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl that i really like, well love. she loves me too. she said so herself. she also said that she would love to date me. but when i asked her out, she said "it would seem weird for me to call you my bf because your my best friend". how can i get her out of that ... (68 words)

1st date and I'm really nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im nearly 16 and have got my first date ever coming up this weekend!! We're just going to spend the day together chilling and chatting in the sun by the sounds of it which sounds perfect to me but Im really nervous :( I've never had the chance to spend alot of time just wit... (155 words)

Poll, how do you girls feel when guys ask you to do somewhat Nasty stuff?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am just curious as to the general consensus on a few things I couldn't ask the people I know. What do you girls think of it when a guy: Pinches and pulls your nipples or is generally a little rough with your breasts during sex? Asks when you are in the middle of interco... (144 words)

Worried about b/f's health and weight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) my boyfriend is very heavy for his height and age. We've been together 7 months and I love him so much that I've actually realized sometimes i dont even think about what his body looks like because I'm so happy just being around him. But I do wonder what the future would ... (156 words)

How to avoid ED

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How can i avoid erectiyle dysfunction and premature ejaculation natrually?... (10 words)

Sites or good books that will help me with sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've just gotten into a relationship with a woman (I'm 26 she's 24) and I've only had one girlfriend before that. A couple of nights ago when me and my girlfriend were having a close conversation and I found out she has slept with 7 men (4 were one nighters when she went bac... (175 words)

What should I do leave him or work it out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - iam a mother of 6kids i have all my kids by the same man i been with since 8th grade we been living together for 5yrs with our kids i love him but lately i been finding myself falling out of love with him slowly but surely our relationship just doesnt seem the same im not ... (126 words)

How can I be happy in my marriage ,if my husband doesn't care for sex/?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) age - How can I be happy in my marriage ,if my husband doesn't care for sex/? Am I selfish to think, sex is very important for a good bound? What can I do,if he is no longer sexual at all? Like none. And I feel cheated, because, Im attractive, and deserving attention. My ... (192 words)

He has a girlfriend so I think he's seeing me just for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - okay, so me and my best friends brother had sex and i thought i liked him except the only thing thats in my way from letting myself actually liking him is his controling girlfriend. who no one in his family likes, and i know this because they say it all the time and i'm really ... (130 words)

I want to break up and don't want to hurt him but he won't let me go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on here asking for help to break up with my live in boyfriend a couple of months ago. Last night i finally was breaking up with him. I cant go on in our relationship anymore even though i love him because i need to find myself and just be alone. But, he doesn't want to ... (226 words)

I love my husband but am falling for someone I met

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so iv been with my husband 6 years married for 2.. i recently went out of town and met someone... i didnt mean for it to be more than a one nightstand but we spent 4 wounderful days together now that im home... i cant stop thinking bout this other guy i talk to him on the ... (101 words)

I like him and he likes my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really like this boy, but he really likes my best friend. they have been out but they broke up a while back. he always asks me what he should do and he asks her out everytime he sees her. she says no but i asked if she fancied him and she said not enough to go out with him. ... (67 words)

I want to live with him, but I feel so negative, am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem, my partner of 6 months has a daughter from previous relationship, the child is nearly 3,he has his little one 2 nights a week, we have kept this completly seprate from our relationship, he has now asked me to move in with him, also has started speaking about ... (183 words)

Is being 'too cute' a good thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, so here's my situation. i've known my best friend for almost 5yrs. and he's always been there for me, always, he's great. and a couple of months ago i told him that i was in love with him and a week ago he told me that he has feelings for me. but he joined the army ... (128 words)

I was so wrong, How can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend last week over something that I thought happened when I was drunk but didn't actually happen. Now I wish I could undo it, but he doesn't believe in getting back together. He thinks it never works out. He thinks that if two people break up, even ... (222 words)

I've fallen for my online BFF, should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl online and she doesn't live to terribly far from me, a few hours. We've been talking for literally about a year and a half. I really like her, and I get the feeling she feels the same. However, she is a really good friend, one of my best, I know I can trust ... (133 words)

Football for 10 hours a day!!, or is he avoiding me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 an my boyfriend is nearly 18 and in the last few weeks we just kinda growing apart. we live far away so dont see each other that much but we used text all day everyday but over the last week or two he has been spending more time alone like. he will text me saying i'm ... (206 words)

He used me, how do I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i get over a guy a who lied to me saying that once he sleeps with me i would be the only girl he sleeps with cos he dont sleep around, few months later i asked him if he is having sex with someone else he turned away and said no then got up then walk off saying yes im ... (88 words)

Long term relationship gone forever???!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Mods Note, OP's own title: im 18 and i have been seeing this boy for 5 years of my life. hes 18 also. we've been getting into small arguments lately because he took a promise ring back from me because he thought i lied to him. they have been my fault. i should have let them go b... (199 words)

I'm in love with a teacher at my school!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: I'm a 15 year old student, When I was in year 8 a new member of English staff joined the school (Mr T)and was trained, I didn't really care and I didn't take much notice of him. However later that year my English teacher left and we got a new English... (206 words)

What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married? I'm not looking for the obvious things here...Wondering what other engaged/married couples come to discover is important to know before getting married...things tha... (60 words)

How can I get him to see how nasty he is when depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age - Mod note: OP'S own title: My partner gets very down and can be very nasty about simple things. I mentioned that I would like to take my son, 12, camping for a couple of nights. He started telling us off and saying how ridiculous this was and how we couldn’t afford it. My son ... (197 words)

The sex doesn't feel that good to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mods Note: OP's own title: I have a problem. I am really in love with my boyfriend and i am really attracted to him. I love having sex with him and I do want to have sex with him. But lately we haven't had alot of sex and I really want to. And then when we do have sex it does... (110 words)

His secret email address is attached to porn site, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I was fiddling around the net and I googled my bf secret email address: I found out he commwnted an erotic pic on an amateur porn website stating how beautiful that woman was and telling her to email him, if she wanted to. I don't even know how I sould feel about this. ... (98 words)

Is it normal to want to know the relationship history of the person you are dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod Note: OP's own title: I would think that it is normal to want to know about the relationship history of the person you are dating. Especially as you are getting closer to them and more committed. Some folks seem to disagree with me...but I can't imagine not wanting to k... (125 words)

Does sending me raunchy pics, mean she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So this female friend who I've know for about 2 years and is one of my best friends and who I used to have the biggest crush on. Sent me topless pics, she has a boyfriend, who hates me, and he found out about the pics and is giving me death threats and whatnot. Anyway my ... (76 words)

Why has he removed his relationship status?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OP's own title: Hi, I've been seeing a guy for a while and we're not yet offical due to the distance in the summer and both of not in the same city until september comes again. He seemed to be really into me, and his ex then popped out of nowhere, wanting him back even though ... (181 words)

I really like someone who lives far away? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there's this guy who I have a huge crush on:P (he's actually my cousin's cousin, but that doesn't matter;)) i've actually known him for forever, but a couple months ago i saw him after not seeing him for over a year... and sparks flew, haha;) then, a couple weeks la... (336 words)

PLEASE I NEEED ANSWERS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OP's own title: Hi everyone i'm new here and i have a problem that is occupying my mind all day .. so i go out with a guy who i like he started to tell me that he loves me and all and that he likes me since the first day he saw me in college we are now together for 3 mont... (447 words)

I've not had sex, so why don't I have my period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello , I am 13 and im worried because my period has not come on at all this whole month. I havent had sex so I know im not pregnant. Someone please help im worried .!... (38 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to know??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OP's own title: Ok so to it keep short...my husband has never really trusted me due to me cheating on him before we got married. We've been married 9yrs now and I have been faithful. Recently he told me that a source of his told him that I have cheated on him and of course he ... (125 words)

Worried about these bruises, help please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So there are 2 bruises on my knee (maybe 3) and I'm not sure how I got them. I think they've been here for about 3-4 days...I'm just a little worried because on my leg there's also a bruise but I can't see it, it just hurts when I touch that spot. I don't have any on my other ... (96 words)

How can I make her say 'I love you' first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my gf i loved her about a month ago and she said it back to me right away, but she will never say it to me unless i say it to her first. She will reply with "I love you too" but will never say it unless i say it first. I've talked to her about how I want her to say it ... (207 words)

Suddenly my height is a problem for my boyfriend, why is he letting his family affect our relationship like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 26 and my boyfriend is 27, we have a beautiful babby together the problem is his family. they think i'm older than him be'cos i'm taller and a bit fat. now i can see that it affecing him because now he always say how tall i am? something that never bored him before.... (54 words)

Have I fallen out of love due to the stress or do I just need some time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my b/f for 2 years. He was recently divorced when we met and I pretty much got dragged through the baggage of the aftermath. I also let him live with me, pretty much for nothing until he got on his feet so other than odd jobs and kick in for groceries and ... (300 words)

He turns his phone off at night - does this mean he is cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think a guy is cheating if he use to turn his phone off at night during our relationship? He saids it was because he didn't want no one to wake him up while he was sleeping or no one look through his phone, meaning his parents because they are muslim and I was a secret ... (221 words)

I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my sister still likes my ... (193 words)

Can this relationship survive the "no-sex" test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am dating a great woman for almost a year now. She is the first relationship I have had after my divorce, but she is not the "rebound chick" as they call it. I met her after my emotions had calmed. We are considering marriage. Our relationship is very sexually active...more ... (344 words)

Why has he asked me out when I always thought he hated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ( Sorry if my English is bad ) Well there is a guy I know since I was a child I don't remember every thing but I remember that he used to tease me . He sometime say to my best friend that she is pretty in front of me . I got jealous and became angry at him He just teas... (176 words)

He says I'm not a rebound, but is this true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I've become attracted to a coworker and we've been hanging out every day for the past two weeks. We're not officially dating and we consider ourselves just friends, but there is a definite mutual attraction between us. He just came out of a 5-year relationship and... (390 words)

Should I call him and just let him know how I feel to clear things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 4 years ago when I met him it was a odd situation for me because at the time I was very shy and A VIRGIN. but we started to hang out and he wanted to take me on dates and tried to get me to go out and not just stay in his house.( wanted me to meet his mom) He was ... (435 words)

The guy I liked asked me out on a date to my total surprise but nerves have taken over, how can I calm down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been crazy about this one guy at school for a while now. hes gorgeous and everyone wants him but no one ever seems good enough for him and no one asks him out cos most people assume hes taken. he knows i like him but for a while he didnt seem interested soo naturally i gave ... (247 words)

I really don't like kissing, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i really don't like kissing, i waiting so long for it andi just think its so boring and eugh wet felt the same way when its been with different people i just dont know why i don't like it i feel so odd, can someone else tell be if they dont like it either i dont mind any of the ... (94 words)

I want to ask her out but I don't want to bother her with too many texts! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there I have a problem which I really need help with. A week ago I was out with a group of friends from work and with them was one of their friends who I have met before. We spent the whole night talking and while my friends kept telling me that it looks like she liked me ... (342 words)

Is it just normal doubts or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago i started dating a guy, well my friends told me that he was lying and that i knew it, i just did want to believe it. However, when i confronted him about the lies he said that my friends were envious and that they were just trying to break us up. After ... (174 words)

I cant get involved with my family problems but my mum's life is in danger, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help now because I finally have a dead end, see i'm far away from the rest of my family, the problem is this ~ i am a momma's boy, which means i always look out for my momma, anyways, i have seen this one problem, my parents have broken up, there has been many co... (140 words)

My girlfriend is not interested in sex, does this mean she wants to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) age 36-40 - i have done an a intercourse with my girlfriend i realize that she is not interested in sex, what i do she is know intersted in talking with other person's what i she i response me and ignore me suggest me is she want to break the relationship with me or not ... (54 words)

My boyfriend's mum hates me and she hasn't even met me yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends mum hates me! i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18. his mum just hates me and i havent even met her yet! i have been going out with him for 2 months and he lives 2 hours away from me. i havent met his mum or dad yet and when he is talkin or textin me his mum tells him ... (88 words)

Who do I choose, my boyfriend or my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we been together nearly 6 months. i was talking to my cousin who is 28 on a social networking site and my boyfriend wears glasses and my cousin basically said something really nasty to me about my boyfriend wearing glasses. and it really upset ... (88 words)

Should I just ignore these girls who hate me? I'm scared this might turn into a fight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please note: this is really long, and if you have time to read, then i thank you so much. i just don't know what to do anymore.. i got into a yelling match with a couple of girls today. for a while now there has been a bit of tension between me and this one girl who claims ... (693 words)

What are the sure signs that a guy is into you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the closest to sure signs you can get from a guy that he is interested in you; what kind of: eye contact, touching, talking, attention, etc... are giveaways? xoaintno... (34 words)

Is my girlfriend and her past worth turning into a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for a few months. She is 23 I am 24 She is first real girlfriend Ive had since I was 19 which was a relationship that ended badly. She also has not a boy friend since high school. We love each other, and I dont think I have been happier than I have ... (496 words)

Why am I obsessed with hearing stories of my ex cheating on me with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

28 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have broken up with my girlfriend as a result of her infidelity. Of late she has taken to telling me all about how she used to cheat on me and with whom and how-in some cases with exact dates. The stories are crude, chillin, heartbreaking and traumatising. Instead of making ... (233 words)

Did I mess up our friendship by having sex with him?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he is single,hes a close family friend and he gave me his house spare keys,so that i can help him,by cleaning and washing when i'm free,cause he cant do it him self.we stay at the same street and i go to his house at any time.last week we had unprotected sex 4 the whole night ... (154 words)

My friend says it is best if we don't speak anymore, how can I show him things will get better?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a friend who lives in another country. we have known each other for a long time. he is in a way more than a friend but it is complicated. however recently things havent been going well. he said something has changed but he doesnt know what. i really dont want to ... (199 words)

My husband doesn't find me attractive!

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for nearly four years and were together a year before that; my husband is 32 and I'm 25. In most aspects of our lives we are happy together - alot of things seem to be falling into place recently. But unfortunately there are a couple of blac... (429 words)

Should I pursue her again or just stay friends with her?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is this girl that i have liked for about a year and a half now and i ended up asking her out on valentines day 2010. She said no and she didn't talk to me for 3 months. Then we started talking again and now we are good friends again. But the problem is, I still like ... (248 words)

How can I make our first time special?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a virgin and my boyfriend isn't and i know that it will hurt my 1st time but i want it to be special i dont want him to remember it as me just laying there doing nothing! I want to give him a lot of pleasure! and why do guys say virgins are better? do i need to ... (85 words)

How can I be more attractive to my husband when he is so stressed with work?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can anybody help me i want to be attractive to my husband, as he dont do sex with me now already 1month. he is working in a pressure company as CEO of the transportation company with 2000 people under him always pressure and he's always busy with emails etc: but he loves me a ... (80 words)

Did she break up with me because of her friends ot because she had met someone else?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello anyone who reads this, I have been in a recent relationship, and I thought it was going great, we talked everyday, we are at most times happy together and we had our great moments, but then she decides to break up with me because her friends didn't think much of me(her ... (160 words)

I love my ex and am thinking about going back to him but my bad boy is so much fun.....

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating the sweetest guy in the world for about 3 years... we were in love for most of the time, but we were in a long distance relationship, he was 20 and i was 16....so we had a few differences. He was way too possesive and never trusted me. (i should probably mention ... (647 words)

What did my bf's response mean when he found out another guy was hitting on me?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is a question for the guys... well my boyfriend stays at his bestfriends all the time. i understand that, the kid is my bestfriend to. its just his friend keeps (hitting) on me. And he told my boyfriend he does. All my boyfriend had to say was "thanks". What is that ... (55 words)

After his cheating, I forgave him. But why can't I get over these thoughts of mistrust?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like ever since I caught my boyfriend flirting with some girl on facebook who happen to be in his class who he was planning on meet up with, I feel like I can't really trust him...but I love him alot...and I forgave him...We moved on from that but I still find it hard ... (93 words)

How do I make him like me?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - *OP's suggested ttle* I really like this guy at my church. He's obviously very shy, and I'm kinda shy too. I've never talked to him but he said hi to me once. He looks over at me too kinda often. I know that I should "make him like me", but I don't know how.. So how do I make h... (69 words)

Should I let my ex bf back in my life...or go it alone?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a tough spot. Here's some background... I got with this guy when I was 17, we were together for 6 years, and had two kids together. The relationship was.. rocky, to say the least. It was always him cheating on me constantly, leaving me for other girls, and then running ... (402 words)

I want to get close to her again, but don't want to overdo it! Any advice?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this girl for like 3 months already, lately she went through some family problems, and work. So she pretty much asked me to give her space, and so i did. now it seems the storm has pass as they say, we now started talking again, she has a great attitude and ... (222 words)

What do I do abt my fiances interfering ex?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What do i do about the always interfering ex?my fiance and i hv 2 kids and hv been 2gether 4 about 4 1/2yrs off and on,our relationship has had alot of problems thanks 2 his ex...when we 1st started dating she would send me emails about her having sex w/ him in our home and ... (137 words)

I was betrayed and now I'm not sexually attracted to him ...

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. My boyfriend and I dated last year, broke up in December, stayed sleeping together, and got back officially early this year. During the time we were broken up, we were still constantly sleeping with each other and still spending time together as if we had not broken ... (241 words)

Why is he treating me this way?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy was always really nice to me and all of a sudden he was almost mean, teasing me and ignores me at random times.. i barely talk to him and then he'll just come up and talk to me.. i don't understand. Oh and he has a girlfriend.... (49 words)

What is his problem with me?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I wonder if someone could shed some light on this. I was with a guy for several months about a year ago and lost my virginity to him. I ended up cutting off all ties with him because he didnt want a relationship and was immature. He recently asked if we could be ... (238 words)

Housemate hates my bloke...why?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with a fantastic man, who can't do enough for me. He's handsome, fun to be with, smells fantastic, intelligent, a mind blowing lover, he adores me and we're the best of friends too. There's nothing that I can't say to him, we're totaly relaxed in each others ... (180 words)

My bf doesn't believe that I was a virgin!

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello my name hach i was a virgin 4 the first time i have sex with my bf on my 18th bday i wasnt bleading he said that i lie to him because i wasnt bleading thats mean i wasnt a virgin is that true. but he is the first person i did it with how can this happen can i get an ... (95 words)

How do I open up and do new things?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been constantly thinking about sex. I'm a shy person, but I'd love to make my thoughts become reality. It's so hard for me to open up and actual try new things..what should I do?... (36 words)

Why do guys like to play these silly games?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo here I go venting. I'd like to know, do guys like to play these games or something? It really isn't fun. I've been talking to this guy, and usually he'd be the first to contact me. And he use to complain about him always being the first to contact me, and how he thinks I ... (154 words)

My cheating past......

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know most of you will think I'm a dirtbag, but I really am not. I got engaged a little over a month ago to the best woman, who I truly love. I'm having a problem though where I'm feeling some guilt over something I did about a year ago. My fiance and I have been in a ... (246 words)

Should I give this a shot and how should I go about doing this if my only chance to see her is at work?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age - I have a crush on my dentist and want to ask her out, just for lunch for starters. I'm a 55yr. old male and she looks to be early 40s'. I'm not married and am financially ok so it's not about going after her money I'm doing alright on my own. My problem lies in the fact I d... (408 words)

My partner left me after I asked for him to show me more affection!

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am posting this topic to receive as much advice as I can. I have been involved with a man for 6 months now, he was an ex cop but left the force in order to take care of his child full time and I had taken on the immediate role of an unofficial step mum position to his 5... ... (270 words)

Will my boyfriend oneday return to his family? He has only been separated for 4 months and I am scared of losing him...

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ..im in a commitment right now for 6 months...i love this guy so much and i know he love me so much too..he is separated just for 4 months..and i am also separated for 3 years..im afraid of losing him....he is my life..he told me that this is his second time to fall in love ... (196 words)

My girlfriend doesn't really know much about her own body, so what else might turn her on?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, from my past experiences with girls some like being bitten lightly or having teeth run across their erogenous spots. but I dont quite know what to make of my girl...the other day while exploring some things about each other I found out that she loves intense biting, ... (128 words)

Teenage questions about sexual health....

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been merged into this one post] Question 1. Okay, so I take a shower everday, and wash my clothes on a daily basis. But my pants still smell around my crotch area. I'm a virgin, and i've had my period for over 3 years, a... (108 words)

Would I be sloppy seconds if I chose to go out with him?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on this guy for about 4 months now, on and off, and he's sending some pretty mixed signals. Just so you know, he's really sweet and would never knowingly hurt anyone. We had a class together in school and I was positive he liked me back at first: he seemed ... (401 words)

How do I know if my online guy feels the same way?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I have been speaking to this guy online. I am from England and he is from Germany... and I really like him. We have been speaking for quite a while and we talk quite a lot but I don't know if he likes me like the way I like him... I don't know how I can tell if he likes ... (98 words)

My girlfriend's parents wont let me see her!

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About a year and a month ago i started dating my girlfriend. From that day i knew she had protective parents, but not as bad as they are now. We had a pretty normal relationship until winter came, then between my reap hockey and her competitive dance the only time we could see ... (369 words)

My boyfriend won't go down on my unless I'm shaved

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were talking about "what ifs". and it came up, "what if i was nine months pregnant and couldnt shave "down there"?" his response, "i wouldnt go down on you". my thought was arent you suppose to love someone even in there natural state? I mean his hairs dont ... (82 words)

Do I have the right to make my son have my last name?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 yrs old feel in love with my son's mom, we were together for 4 years. we ended up breaking up and months later I found out she was pregnant, but she claimed it was not mine. I told her it was mine the whole time but she denied it until the baby waas three months old. ... (138 words)

How often does a healthy couple have sex?

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend says we need to have more sex, and I thought we had sex a lot (about 4- 6 times a week). I just wanted to know how often do other couples (do you) have sex? And how long have you guys been together? Did you have more when you started or do you have more now? ... (81 words)

Our 'dates' are all at his house but I want us to go out

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... Ive been seeing this guy recently. Date 1: We was supposed to go out for drinks. He called after he finished work saying he was tired but i could come round his place. First off i said no and said we would do it another day when he was less tired but as i wanted to see ... (400 words)

It's been over 6 years and I still can't get over him

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how can i just move on? it has been over 6 years and i can't get over him. now from time to time we will get together and I always think it is us getting back together but it is him just using me and I get hurt everytime. he has made it clear that he does not want me but yet ... (74 words)

I really dislke Moms boyfriend, what can I do?

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28 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm a teenage male and I strongly dislike my mother's boyfriend. I just really, really, dislike him. For starters, he's always around and I mean always. He's currently without a job and my mother is always helping him fill out one job application or another. Truth is... (749 words)

Why does he masterbate at every opportunity???

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod note: Your title you chose is already in use. My bf masterbates every chance he gets. Evertime I leave the house even if I just go to the store.. We arnt haveing alot of sex right now. Its really starting to piss me off. I have told him how it makes me feel but he wont stop... (60 words)

Please help me, I'm 16 and think I'm pregnant.

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - am i pregnant or just paranoid? i had unprotected sex on the 29th of april and got the morning-after pill the day after. i got my period as normal a week later. recently ive been getting headaches, feeling sick, light headed, eating more, tired, my breasts seem bigger, needing ... (66 words)

Please help me, he says he loves me, but wont speak to me.

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28 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - *Reposted* No one answered the first time I posted this so... My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I absolutely love him with all my heart. The only problem is that lately we've barely been talking. He works nights and I'm asleep when he's aw... (306 words)

I'm very insecure about my body, What can I do?

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28 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have really small breasts and I feel insecure. I admit a bit of it is my own fault for letting it get to me, but a lot of people (especially insensitive guys) have commented negatively about this fact - also with the media and porn that men like, it's difficult NOT TO feel ... (484 words)

Should I start living my sexual fantasies?

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28 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 20 and as a student i work at the bar with mostly older male population. The thing is that my wildest sexual fantasy is to have sex with someone 50-60 years old. And in this bar i've met the right person, who is obviously very attracted to me. Since the first time i've sho... (237 words)

Should I be happy that he is only drinking 3-4 beers a day now?`

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28 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! Okay, so I'll try and sum everything up in a quick paragraph because I desperately need advice. I am 20 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and 1/2 years. For the most part, our relationship has been really good, however, there have been the bumps. For ... (200 words)

Does alcohol affect the effectiveness of oral contraception?

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28 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Does alcohol affect the effectiveness of the pill? I got hammered at a party at the weekend and am scared to have sex with my boyfriend just incase? ... (28 words)