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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Lovers or just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at work. The pair of us work at a daycare camp for kids. He and I had a conversation that really changed my mind about me. I'm unsure if he likes me or is just being friendly. He's a country boy and said I'm a pretty lady. Also at the end of camp he said he'll ... (126 words)

I need him but he doesn't give me what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I ask you to help me please because this problem is making me very miserable... I've been with this guy for nearly 4 months now but he was my ex from a long and troubled relationship, he keeps coming back to me, and this last time he said that I am the love of ... (202 words)

He's brought up having a threesome with a woman. Only he's already had a threesome with her and his exwife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So i just moved in with my boyfriend of over a year, and we have a fantastic sexual chemistry. We have talked about having a threesome. Over the weekend he was approached by a friend of his, she asked about having a threesome with us. So he told me he has already had a ... (158 words)

I can't sit and watch him kiss drunk girls while I'm working hard to change!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been on hiatus for about 2 weeks. I have posted my problem here before, and I do admit that my insecurities did end our relationship. The past week has been good. We are talking as friends and he keeps emphasizing that friends is all we are now which ... (518 words)

It would be nice if he was more confident in our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. About 5 months ago me and my bf came out to each other. We were best friends and did everything together...and about a month ago we started being a couple. We get a long great and everything flows but he's a little shy. When it comes to being physical, he doesn't ... (230 words)

I have an attraction with the other woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age - I recently met a woman who I started dating. I was rather unimpressed with her so over weight and that she was not really a good looking person. We have no plans to extend this into a relationship as we agreed that we were just dating. I do like her as a friend, but I'm just ... (212 words)

What does this phone message mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i messaged my ex this 'do you like the way you and me turned out in the end?' (which basically meant me and her finishing and we hardly ever speak now) to which she said 'no do you?' I then responded 'no,i feel like a fool asking you this now i just wanted to know how you felt... (142 words)

I'm worried about being clumsy in sex, having had only one partner before her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm starting to date a girl who I have been friends with for a while. I seem to click with her well and we have no problem talking to each and have good fun together. However I'm nearly 26, I have only slept with one girl when I was 20 and sex tbh was awful (I felt bad about i ... (149 words)

Can men stay without having sex with their wives for 3 to 4 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - can you please tell me can men stay for a long time i mean like 3 or 4 weeks without having sex with his wife? is this true can man stay without touching his wife for more than 3 weeks as my husband never keep attention on me why is that? is that because he is busy with his job ... (77 words)

I'm wondering if she's going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused. I've been kind of together with this girl for a while now but we're not a proper couple. We've both liked eachother for a long time and everything seems to be going well. We meet up a lot and stuff. The past few days have been a bit weird. She hasn't been ... (133 words)

How should I approach this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this man that works in a shop i go in. whenever i go in he says hello and smiles at me and comes over to me. my friend says it is obvious he likes me. i dont really know him and we havent talked much. but one time we did, he talked a lot about himself and stuff, is ... (227 words)

How do I respond to my dad's email saying I have wasted my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello dearcupid.org I was at my friends for 5 days in the southern country. When I came back here I noticed my dad had emailed me. We never have done so great but its always been bearable apart from some random rage conversations mostly about how i waiste my life ( i failed ... (252 words)

What does "I love you but I don't want you back" mean???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I spoke with my ex and she has told me two things as she spoke in riddles and I want to know what does she mean by. "I love you but I don't want you back"? and "I love speaking with you as youve done alot for me but I don't want to see you in person as it would hurt... (108 words)

I want another dog but he said "no" with a load of silly reasons!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age - Hello I really don't know where to start but I'll try my husband is an only child and I'm not sure if this is where the problem is I can have anything I want materialistaly but any thing else is a no no we did try for a baby without sucsess and now it's to late we unfortunately ... (136 words)

The lies of my life.... he kind of has a problem with lying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello My name is Lilly. I just got engaged after being with this man foe 3 years. We set a date for Oct. 23rd so in just 3 months. Well in the last 3 years we have been together we have had a lot of problems he kinda has this problem with lying. He did it tons in the beginning ... (373 words)

She became distance and wouldn't even hug me everytime we tried to rebuild our relationship. I still want a future with her

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help. I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half, and it didn't take me that long to realize she was the one. On top of that, she would always talk about "when we got married" and how I was "too good to be true." Needless to say, she was completely in love with me. ... (610 words)

How to meet and date when I'm overweight and underconfident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am looking for advice please, about meeting and dating girls. I am very overweight, and sometimes can be very underconfident. I know it is possible that my weight won't put someone off, as I have been in a relationship, but now I am uncertain about myself again. what a... (77 words)

My partner can't satisfy my sexual needs, but everything else is good. Is it a deal breaker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok , if u were n a relationship and everything Is good except for the sex, and u even expressed to ur partner Tht ur not happy sexual and even tried to explore new ways wit Ur partner 2 try 2 make it work but they jus can't satisfy u Sexual is tht a deal breaker... (75 words)

She refused to stop seeing her ex and sending him flirty texts and "I love you"s. I'm heart broken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone Me and girlfriend broke up after about a year of dating and i am still madly in love with her and I would give the world for and I would fight to my dying breathe to keep her safe and i feel completely heart broken to the point where I had to cried myself asleep t... (439 words)

What does a women look for in a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What is one of the first things or characteristics a women sees when looking at a man for the first time(potential boyfriend)?... (22 words)

She cries herself to sleep. I don't know how to help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom has been talking to this guy for months on this christian dating site, the other night he asked her some personal questions, and was talking dirty to her! She just recently got a divorce from my step-dad of 10 years, she's cried herself to sleep every night since! Since ... (109 words)

Can a player change? how do you know if he has?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy that i really like that i would pretty much do anything for. he has been a player for along as i have known him and has always told me the truth. he says he has changed so i guess my question is how do you know when a player is not a player anymore.? ... (58 words)

I feel like she cheated, but she didn't. I can't get over her past actions. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can help me. I feel like I’ve been played, and I’m not sure how to deal with it. I reunited with an old female friend on facebook, and we started out as friends. She was telling me about her relationship problems with her current bf, how she wants to break up ... (497 words)

Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?... (18 words)

Kind of a love triangle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I happen to unexpectedly find myself at the point of a love triangle of sorts… For all intensive purposes we will call them William and Alexander. William’s pros: he and I have very similar senses of humor and get along extremely well, when I’m with him I feel secur... (525 words)

We used to have 2-3 X a day and now hardly ever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i really need some help, me and my boyfriend have been going for about a year and a half, its was fantastic for about 7-8 months thn we started argueing alot. we had the most amazing sex life we did it about 2 3 times a day and it was amazing, but now we have sex probably... (164 words)

What is the difference between sex and real love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - -what is diffrance between sex and real love...i think ihe love u make is sex and the love that come from heart is real love...plz tellme the diffrance....my husband says he loves me but i am not his love...our marriage is arranged....hw can u expres ur love or keep alive ?with ... (108 words)

My girlfriend won't do anything new in bed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can you help me my girlfriend doesn't do anything in bed that we plan to try for fun yet will bite my head off if I ask why I could understand if she was nervous because she hadn't done it before but guess what her exs got to do it all with her she doesn't go down on me but d... (119 words)

I only seem able to have an orgasm in one position. Why is this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Can you please tell me why, when i have sex with my husband i feel excited when i face him and my clitoris touchs his penis? If we do different styles eg: a dog style he will be behind me but i cant orgasm, i cant end my excitement in any other direction other than the... (105 words)

If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby? ... (15 words)

Would I be living in a sexless marriage if I was to marry this girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My problem is very specific. I love my girlfriend and we are together for almost 4 years now. I have plans to marry her and to start a family with her in about two years and she agrees. We have been living together for 2 years, so we know each other very well. I am 26 years old ... (780 words)

Is it possible not to like sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it possible not to like sex? I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few months ago and we've done it somewhere between 10-20 times but I still don't like it. Sometimes it hurts a little but at other times it's just uncomfortable or I can't feel anything. I'm worried I'll ... (61 words)

Relationship failing because of my step-son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for four years now. We have a chld together and one on the way. We both had son's before we got together. I have tried to get along with his son, but have found it impossible. His son is a lot older than mine and he is very mean to him. He tells him ... (144 words)

My boyfriend's dad died a while ago... how can I get him to talk?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's father committed suicide two years ago. I know the story of how and why.. but I want to know more about him. Like what he was like when he was around and their relationship. But I don't know how to get him to open up and talk about it. How can I get him to talk ... (83 words)

How can I make him see that I am not the one for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sooo, "Charles" and I went on one single date and after that, he was convinced that I was the one. But, I wasn't ready for a relationship and told him so. The more I tried to put distance, the more he clung and he got jealous over guy friends leaving kooky or sweet messages on ... (194 words)

After a year of dating, is it appropriate for me to ask him to pay for part of the babysitting fees?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have been dating this guy for over a year now. I was widowed about 2 years ago and had 3 children with my husband. Financially, it has been very hard and my new BF knows that. Every time we go out on dates, I have to ask my family to help babysit because I just don't ... (180 words)

Why is she so shy about showing physical affection? Our 6-month relationship is in trouble.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 6 months is everything to me. We quickly fell in love and never looked back and i couldn't be happier. This is until a slight problem i thought was cute at first turned into a real annoyance. You see when we first got together she was really shy, i mean REALLY ... (197 words)

Should I not be interested in a man who is trying to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm very confused and hope some of you can help by offering an outside perspective. I've been seeing a man for a year now. He's absolutely great - lovely, kind, sweet, intelligent, caring, sexy handsome, great job, generous. He's not perfect but he's wonderful. We've ha... (421 words)

Why do I keep having these feelings that I'm not smart enough or capable enough to have a career?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - If someone can help me, I'd be really grateful. For the past several months I've been preparing to start a new career and it's something I have my heart set on doing, but I feel overwhelmed by fears of failure. I have long desired to teach English abroad, I have a TEFL ce... (576 words)

I do not love that she calls me every single day and tells me she misses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl named Harmonie for 2 weeks and i really love her but what i do not love about her is she calls me every day and tells me she misses me every flippin day that we aren't together and it is starting to piss me off because i can't spend every single waking ... (67 words)

I don't know what this boy wants!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused about what this guy wants. Over a year ago we had a 'thing', we never actually went out we were just sort of together, but because of our schools and stuff we didn't see each other as much as we'd like but we talked loads and met up when we could. We never... (421 words)

Do I get to know him better or just think of what could have been?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i'm in a bit of a problem and need help so all answers are appreciated I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend in my life and I always feel lonely. My mum keeps saying to me i'll find someone but I never do. about 3 weeks ago i met a guy at the bus stop. He say... (165 words)

Did I mess up here???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi last night i was in town and i was very drunk, i recently moved back into my mums, and ive been seeing a girl i really like, i went town with her and like i say i was very drunk and invited her back to mine, we ended up having sex but to my horror my mum and her boyfrien... (118 words)

16th birthday prezzie needed for my boyfriend! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a 16th birthday present for my boyfriend. By then we will be dating for 8 months. I want to get him something kindda special that he can keep, and stuff. I was thinking of a Picture of the two of us and put it in a nice frame. But idk, if he will actually like it. Does ... (81 words)

Totally disappointed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Totally disappointed... Almost a year ago I met a wonderful guy. It was all very romantic at the beginning. However with few problems even then...He just broke up an 8 year long relationship. And he lives in another country. Not so far, but still...I hate long distance relation... (434 words)

Is it normal for him to spill his guts like this on a first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok here is the scenario... I met a man online through a dating site and we went to have lunch the first date then bowling the next. On the second date the man spilled his guts to me about his past issues and said he hasn't told anyone about this before. Is it normal for a man ... (202 words)

AM I going to fast here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl since last Sunday and I think i'm in love but don't want to tell her yet however I'm not sure she feels the same with me. On sunday after I asked her out we both went swimming and it ended up me holding her and it felt to me like she wanted to ... (208 words)

Is he just taking me for a mug???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone i need help my partner and i been together for 3 years, hes stolen money of me 3 times and I caught him using my credit card. i got angry with him when he did ths before and he promised he wouldnt do it. He then stole money from my purse again yesterday and it was ... (103 words)

Help! My best friend is in love with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend is in love with me at least he was i dont know about now... but when he told me that he loves me I told him that i like another boy, he got freaked out and he is acting like I owe him he doesn't talk to me and when all of my friends and him walk together he ... (110 words)

I don't think I love or am attracted to my girlfriend in the way that I should be...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, can you try to help me out here. It's a long story but i need to know whether i'm being selfish, uncaring and greedy or whether i've got a serious problem in my relationship. i met my current girlfriend 2 years ago, though have only been going out with her for... (911 words)

Is 18 really too young in your opinion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so it's my 18th very soon and my boyfriend who I have been with since I was 14 has mentioned getting me an egagment ring more than once. I have thought about it seriously and I want to say yes but I cant help thinking perhaps we are too young. I love him to bits and I re... (165 words)

I am not sexually satisfied. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF and I have been living together for 2 and a half years. We get along fine, but the sex is not often enough (once or twice a week), and it is not good enough to make up for the days of no sex. I used to get alot of BJs, but those have stopped. Maybe I get one a month. I ... (78 words)

Why will my wife not have sex with me more often?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why my wife won't have sex with me more often? We've been married for five years and together for six, apart from the first heat when we've met, she never asks or offers to make love! and when I ask or make a move she says why? it's like a chore! sometimes I say: why do I bo... (268 words)

Does this "it" that so many of these guys seem to be talking about really exist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m feeling ready to give up on on-line dating as I’m finding the whole experience an emotional rollercoaster. After I split from my ex-boyfriend just before Christmas, I decided to give on-line dating a go for the first time using the most popular dating website. I alwa... (1024 words)

Is it because she's younger than me she has such a high libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - ok I started dating a much younger girl 6 months ago, the sex is unbelieveable. Its wild, fun, kinky and man its daily. Is it her age (she is 22 I am 40), my age, just because our relationship or is the chemistry just that good between us. I cant wait to get home form work to ... (99 words)

LIVE porn???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I finally got used to the idea of my boyfriend of two years regularly looking at porn without me. However, I have seen in his internet history that he now looks at porn-live, where he can chat with and have live 'porn' with the girls of his choice. Is this the same as ... (70 words)

How can I stop boys just using me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, when i met a boy i always used to jump in too fast and sleep with them too soon. due to this i have got a name for myself and now every boy i meet just wants one thing. I've changed now and want to get a boyfriend but how can i stop boys using me for sex and know which ... (70 words)

Am I right to be annoyed at my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im really annoyed at my 'best friend' yet im not too sure whether im right to be or not. A few days ago it was my 19th birthday and i was really suprised when my best friend said to get all our friends from high school and people that we had drifted away from together fo... (853 words)

I'm stuck in a loveless, nasty, marriage and at a loss as to how to get out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm stuck in a loveless, nasty, marriage and at a loss as to how to get out. I'm in my late twenties and have been with my husband since I was nineteen (married him at twenty-one.) We don't have children. I started falling out of love with my husband around the time I was d... (438 words)

He doesn't make me orgasm and I don't know how to tell him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has never given me an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy the sex, but I need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. He sometimes touches me down there, but never for long enough for me to orgasm, but I know if I asked him to carry on then he'd lose his ... (252 words)

Not sure if I want to get her pregnant, but the clock is ticking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a real predicament. I am recently divorced, and have a new GF that I am in love with and plan on marrying if all continues to go well. Well, we are middle age (40), and she has never had children and really wants to. So do I, but I also need time to sort out my losses ... (256 words)

Should I confess my feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So I posted a question on here a while ago, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-in-love-with-my-best-friend.html and I guess I need some more advice lol. The advice I got was really helpful, and I realised that my friend definitely needed time to sort his ... (497 words)

Am I using Max to combat my own lonliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About 1 and half months ago my relationship of only 6 months ended with my bf. he was a great guy, he used to love me a lot. So much that after i broke up with him he was devastated, then later he started hating me a lot because he thinks im a player. I feel realy bad for him ... (353 words)

She broke up with me and I don't know whether to leave or hang around

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my fiance and I broke up about a week ago suddenly and she hasnt responded to me or talked to me. she suffers from p.t.s.d and I know the symptoms and I know it will not be easy but I really love this woman and now I do not know what to do, do I leave? or do I show her that she ... (67 words)

My friend is suicidal, how can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend that is depressed and lately she has mentioned even suicide. I am trying my best to help her since I am the only person that she talks to about everything. She is 30yrs old and has gone throught so much in her life, was divorced ones, no children. She think... (327 words)

I feel I'm being used by my friend but I have no one else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, Would be really grateful if you could share some advice! At present I feel like I am being used by my friend although I dont stop hanging out with her because I have noone else. Ive always been the girl who gives so much into a friendship and never gets anyth... (423 words)

Its complicated but we're still mad about each other..what should we do?

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25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost a year ago I got romantically involved with a very close friend. At the time we shared a house and worked together. His feelings for me resulted in his ending a long term relationship. His ex also worked in the same building so it was very intense and chaotic from the ... (385 words)

Why has she treated me like this and how can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a twenty four year old lesbian that has recently fallen head over heels in love with someone that is, to be frank, not interested! Obviously, this is not the first time I have fallen victim to unrequited love, this time, however, it is slightly different. I met her a fe... (696 words)

My boyfriend's parents think I'm too old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy back in march and hit it off instantly. A few months after I found out that he is only 18 and I'm 23. At the time I was upset but fell in love with him and realized that age is just a number.....right!?! U has a bit of a hard time with his mum because of my age but ... (122 words)

G/f very open about sex and I want to surprise her tonight!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age - I have a very beautiful girlfrind . She loves sex with always new styles . She need a new things every time . She made many things . She like neighbors to hear us when making sex . She likes to make sex in open areas . Now I need to surprise her tohight . What can I do ?... (61 words)

I don't want to lose her but I'm not sure how to keep her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age - CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO PLEASE.About four months ago,I met the most wounderfull girl ever,and after not beening in a relationship for four years it was realy great to finialy find happness after so long.I am 46 and she is 38 everything was going fine,untill about a week ... (252 words)

Do I go for the old ex-girlfriend or the girl from the strip club?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi thanks for the answers. this is a followup to this question..http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-doesnt-want-me-to-go-to. Alot has happened since. for the record i dont go to strip clubs looking for love i dont even believe in love. ive never been hurt or anything... (264 words)

Having communication problems since my break-up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. I was considering remaining anonymous to ask for advice but maybe it will help if others know that I am struggling also. The problem I face is not wanting to let people get emotionally close to me. I don't know if this is a question or not but I will try my best... (462 words)

Friend knew I was a virgin but she wouldn't help me having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Has any one had this problem. I was spending time with a friend just a friend we went to a casino then instead of going home we went to a hotel because its a two hour drive back to where we live, and we where both tired well i was. so at the hotel we got one room its cheaper... (471 words)

It turns out I was in love with her... should I make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best friend is a woman. Our relationship is closer than any relationship I've ever had before, male or female.... (499 words)

Ever since we went out for tea he's been acting strangely and I dont' know what the problem is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age - I have concerns about my boyfriend. We have only been togwether since the begining of April this year. Things have been absolutley wonderful. Never a nasty word said between us. We were happy and enjoyed each others company. We were getting on so well. Last Friday I took hi... (754 words)

Does sweating during sex (working harder) make it easier to orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I have sex I never sweat. My boyfriend always sweats when we do though. He's always on top so he's working more. The thing is i've never had an orgasm and because I dont sweat it might be because I'm not working hard enough at it. (besides being on top) How can I work ... (67 words)

He has trouble having sex! Should I give up on the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We been dating 5 months, he is only 25. He feels like having sex every day or every other day is too much for him. He has been losing his erection lately and has admitted to me his body can only do it 1/2 times a week. His last relationships were this amount and he was happy ... (257 words)

Do I date my ex again? Or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, A few months ago I was dating a woman who decided to break it off with me. Her reason was that she was in a special stage of her life. I was heart broken over it because I had grown to really like her. The advice of the closest female to me in my famil... (487 words)

Nervous about meeting online b/f for first time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I live in Washington state and I've been in a LDR for a couple months now with this guy on the east coast. I'm going to visit him in 4 weeks and I'm extra excited! Only thing is, I'm kinda nervous too!! I've been in a couple relationships before. The first one was wi... (184 words)

I finally get to ask her out... and she says no!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm 13-14 years old and there is this really cute girl in my class and she has broken up with her boyfriend a month or two back and I've already asked her to go out but she said no and she just wants to be friends I've liked her since mid year and I just can't get her of... (78 words)

I want to find a man for my mom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im about to be a senior in highschool. My mother who is 42 just ended her 20 year marriage with my dad. Im worried for her. My dream was to always go to college in newyork and study abroad i have eerything figured out. i have the grades that ive worked hard for ect. But now im ... (138 words)

She cheated, she's remorseful but I'm in the "should I stay or go" stage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. This is my first time posting. I'm not sure wheather I can continue to trust my girl friend. We have been going out 5 and a half months now and she has cheated on me. She got drunk one night while one of her male friends were over and they ended up sleeping together. A ... (309 words)

Am I still a virgin after our messing around session?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok ive been trying to find an answer to this but just don't seem to find the right one. Well like 2 days ago my boyfriend and i were just messing around, and well he fingered me and then well it led to another thing. He told me he wanted to just feel my warmth(down ther... (259 words)

I'm big but can't get anything!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 20 year old guy, who has just never been lucky in the dating department. I dont know why, Im not overly attractive but Im not ugly either. And its not like Im not gifted down stairs either. Most girls would love an 8 inch long penis thats 6 inches thick. Ive just never ... (80 words)

Should I tell my parents that I'm having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it really that "bad" not telling my parents I am having sex. I am 16 years old grade 11 in september. It was the first time a few weeks ago. I just don't find any reason to tell my mom. Also my mom drives school bus and after school for 5 mins she is on her bus. So she talks ... (100 words)

Can she end this ordeal for good and be a happy single lady?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. There is a girl whom I know. She is 19 and she is in a relationship with her bf for almost 5 years and her bf is 22. She tells me, She had broke up and patched backed with him countless times. She tells me her relationship is unhealthy. Her bf have slapped her once in the ... (176 words)

How can I get birth control without my parents knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i get on birth control if i dont wnat my parents to find out i have had sex? they are strong lutherans and if they find out im not a virgin, ill be screwed. but on the other hand, if they find out im pregnant, ill be kicked out. how can i get on the pill with out making ... (68 words)

My bfs family don't like me and I don't understand why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi (: i have been with my boyfriend for 17 months, and we love eachother so much. hes my first love nd im so happy with him.. just one thing: i dont think his family like me very much, i dont know what i have done to upset them? i know me and my boyfriend argue but what r... (236 words)

My girlfriend wants to kiss me but I'm not ready...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 19 and my girlfriend is 22, and we have been in a relationship for about 6 months. well recently she told me that she wanted to kiss me, now ive never been with anyone before (whereas she has), and i dont feel very confident kissing her quite yet id would like to gi... (96 words)

I have problems with sustaining normal relationships...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well... For the past few years ive been dating differnt men and i always seem to fall for the ones who are no good for me. When i say this i mean players, cheaters etc etc your typical "bad boys". From doing a lot of soul searching within myself ive come to understa... (563 words)

Can you have a healthy, committed relationship without sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to have a healthy, loving, committed relationship without sex? I am 25, and I have had two serious boyfriends -- the longest relationship lasting for a year and a half -- and several shorter relationships. I do not date anyone anymore, because I do not... (331 words)

Am I wrong for not feeling like I cheated on her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend had been together for 4 years. It was getting to the point in the relationship where I had to decide if I was going to marry this person or not. In thinking about this for a while I became really confused and asked to take a break to figure out if she was ... (299 words)

How can I make my family see that she is the girl for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 18 months ago I got a huge promotion at work, there is an annual weekend getaway for everyone in my division. The only problem was it was for couples and I was single I wanted to make a good impression so I hired an escort. Something I had never done before and never thought I ... (758 words)

Everyone is rude to me!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in the Greensboro/High Point area of North Carolina, and I've gotten to the point where I can't stand it. People here are obscenely rude to me on a regular basis, and I don't tolerate it. It happens to me several times a day! For example, I've met 2 nice people w... (899 words)

Can our relationship survive his depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my partner for over 4.5 years .. we were perfect together .. we had our occasional problems but they weren't affecting our relationships AT ALL .. However, he got depressed months ago and he hid it well! he began to be kinda colder towards ... (594 words)

In a bad long term relationship but if I leave I'll lose everything we've worked for!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well, my boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, best friends for 5. You could consider us married, although neither of us have an interest in it at the time...for a lot of reasons. I don't want to say I don't love him, but it's hard too with all the fighting. It's ... (138 words)

How can I achieve orgasm through intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old female and have had a few sexual partners. My problem however is that I cannot have an orgasm through penetrative sex. No partner has ever made me have an orgasm. I can reach it myself through clitoral stimulation but no one else can achieve this for me. I... (90 words)

I said I wanted to be friends only but now I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Please can anyone help me to win back my man? 3 months ago I was delighted when a very good friend of mine declared that he had feelings for me and had done for some time. I shared his feelings and we began a long distance relationship. This was great at first but gradua... (280 words)

I hate my ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate my ex boyfriends new girlfriend cause she started trouble between us so we dnt talk no more what do i do... (25 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend because I wasn't sure he was over his ex girlfriend, and now he won't leave me alone, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering if anyone can give me some advise on this please.. I've recently ended my relationship with my boyfriend. So we were together for two years, there were good and bad points like there are with any relationship, but I felt the bad points took over the good. ... (1002 words)

I need Edward...for now

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, My mother posted a message on this site about me, here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-serious-concerns-about-my-daughters-mental.html She asked me to come online and explain my case to you all, seeing as she couldn't do it too well herse... (347 words)

Why did he assume I would hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, in need of a little advice. a month ago i met a really nice , decent guy, through online dating. we had 5 amazing dates over the course of 4 weeks and connected and got on so well. sex wasnt in the equasion , we just enjoyed eachothers company. things , h... (363 words)