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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We haven't had any physical intimacy since he told me he cheated on my while I was pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me towards the end of april while on a night out with his mates. It was just a one night stand, and he told me a few days after it happened. He even went and got a STD/STI test the same week. He seemed really guilty about it, but i just can't stand being ... (116 words)

Should I have to ask for decent treatment from a guy??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Every relationship I have been in was terrible. I always got cheated on and left and I don't view myself as a bad person to have that happen to everytime. I guess my question is in every relationship I don't ask for much I'm easy to show you care but I have to teach every guy ... (179 words)

Vacation with him or see my parents, what shoukd I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in North America but I am from Europe. My partner is also from Europe and lives in North America with me. We have been living here for 2 years now, but we have a recurring arguments about how we should spend our vacation. Being North America, I only have 2 weeks vacation ... (437 words)

Dating sites say "I'm too good to be true", what now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 and i got sick of dateing the girls in my area for reasons that i cant explain because its so extensive. so i tryed the only two teenager dateing sites i could find both filled with people im nuthing like and computer virusis (thank god for norton) then i lied about my ... (180 words)

I am pregnant, what are natural killer cells??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i found out a few days ago that i am 6 weeks pregnant and I have decided to keep it. I have been told I have a high chance I could miscarry as I have problems with my Natural Killer Cells but I have no idea what that is and the hospital werent very helpful. Rachel x ... (58 words)

My father touched me inappropriately when I was younger and now its hurting my relationships!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was younger I was always scared of the dark. In result, I always ended up sleeping in my parent's bedroom. When I was 5, I soundly went to sleep in between my mom and dad only to wake up in the middle of the night with a hand down my panties. It was my dad, but he seemed ... (359 words)

What is a creative way to tell a teacher you like them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my favourite teacher is leaving at the end of the year to go and work in asia. I really like this teacher and i want to tell him just before he leaves that i like him . But not to actually say that i like him.So basically to say that i like him in a creative way without ... (75 words)

No response to my text -- should I go back to where she works?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey aunts and uncles, So I met this girl one night at her work place (a pub, so i know where she works and what time this week) and we decided to hangout the next day as causal friends at the beach. She gave me her number on a piece of paper (i didn't have my phone with me ... (160 words)

Adoring my workmate from afar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there everyone OK, here goes. I am in LUST with a man at work. This isn't going away. I have lusted after him for over a year. I sit in meetings and look at things like... the tiny little hairs on his arms. Or his lovely eyes. Or his beautiful aristocratic brows... His aft... (343 words)

Why is he sending another woman text messages saying "hey beautiful"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been living with my boyfriend for a year and lately he has been distant. Not ass affectionate and attentive as before. I just felt like something was off so i checked his text messages (up until now i have never felt a need to) and saw messages from another girl sending ... (162 words)

Dating site guy coming on too strong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i signed up on a dating site... this guy emailed me.. we've talked and he seems nice so far.. he thinks am gorgeous and hes smitten.. he emailed me this: him: can i be straight to the point i would love to have a long term relationship with you and only you with ... (119 words)

I miss having sex but he isn't working on the problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend of a year has lost his sex drive. This isnt a recent problem, it's been going on since about November last year. I could count the times we've had sex this year on one hand... it's gettting me down. Now we've talked about this issue, he has numerous ... (256 words)

B/f a complete stranger now! Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a few days. Before we went out I had just gotten out of a nasty relationship about 1 1/2 months before, maybe a bit longer. He used to text me every night 'I love you sweet dreams!" and cute poems in french...now I'm lucky ... (479 words)

LDR things are getting weird and I'm not sure where to go with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this really cute guy on a dating site and he came to where i live, which is like 2 hrs away from where he lives, 2 days after we started talking. the first date went great. we kept talking constantly sometimes until about 4 o clock in the morning. he came again the 2nd ... (301 words)

I had an emotional affair and the woman is still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, everyone. I am in a relationship of several years. It's rocky. We have trouble communicating. She often won't tell me what she's thinking and a lot of the time I keep things to myself because I think she'll get sad, defensive, or judgmental. Neither of us seem to wo... (516 words)

Am I suffering from depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - lately i have been feeling so down and rubish my self confidense has plumited and i am so upset and gumpy all the time which is hurting my friends to see me like this and i am really worried it may have somthing to do with my nan is dying that i am suffering from depresson and ... (69 words)

How to I choose the right cock ring?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, so I have a few questions abut using a cockring. I'm kinda a novice in this area. First, the reason I want to use one is my GF craves sex, and quite frankly, I am not always super horny because we do it so often. As a result, I sometimes have lazy erections and sometimes ... (228 words)

He never tells me something is wrong until we start fighting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayy so me and this kid have been going out for about two months. And yesterday for example, we were talking all day and he was acting totally fine. And then that night i asked him how his game went...and he said that they won and so on. After that he got real defense cause i ... (208 words)

I don't know how our relationship can succeed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm with a guy that i known for a year and some months. When ever we aren't talking through webcamming (because he lives in another state, 10 years older than me, and we neva met physically except through the internet and webcam)I feel like our relationship won't success of us ... (100 words)

My friends don't like the new me, but I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) age 26-29 - I've changed! Suposibly I've gotten prettier, I lost some weight, I've gotten taller, i don't talk as much, I'm not as loud and alot more. But my friends don't like it. They don't like the new me. They miss the old me. But I like the new me not the old me. What should I do? ... (56 words)

4 years and no sex! Who else would put up with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend n i have been together for 4 years. we've never had sex. for the first year he kept puttin it off by blaming drink tiredness or not in the mood. truth was he's so nervous, he's afraid he won't be able to keep it up. after i found this out it tore me up that he ... (219 words)

PLEASE HELP - I'm jealous and I shouldn't be!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 2. A year or so before we got married we broke up for 6 months and ended up getting back together. Everything was going well (leading up to the wedding) and then she told me that she had a threesome with a coupl... (244 words)

What was he doing with the laptop for 30 minutes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I spent a week over my cousins house. One is my age and one is younger. The boy is my age. Well he went down stairs with his laptop and never came back up until 20 or 30 minutes later. I'm not sure what he was doing though. When he came back up he was all calm. What do u think ... (63 words)

I don't want to put myself out there if he thought it was a mistake.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months. Nothing serious, we've just been drinking, listening to records and talking. I kind of liked him but I didn't want to get into anything serious since he is over 5 years older than I am and he lives very close to me. Oh and ... (228 words)

Married high school sweetheart but not attraced to him anymore....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I started dating as freshmen in high school. He was my first everything....I never even held hands with another guy before or ever since. We are currently 29 and have been married for 6 years with one child. Even before we got married, I had lost that feeling of ... (263 words)

I lied to my b/f and now I think he is punishing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have a 14 month old little boy!!...we are currently on a break because i lied to him about money which has got us into debt and he is really angry with me so we are now on a break...i have told him i will get help with ... (275 words)

I'm 13, he's 20, and I want to have sex with him, but will he leave me afterwards?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all im a 13 year old girl and my bf is 20 im a virgin and well this has been my first real bf we have been together 4months and well i want to take it to the next step and have sex. i know he probably will want to as well but im just a bit scared like will it hurt and if he ... (95 words)

How do I keep my man hard enough for penetration?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just wondering if any woman or guy could help me with this... Im in a relationship now with a guy for nearly a year now, who i love very much. He's great fun outgoing and treats me perfectly..except in the bedroom. I get turned on by being with him and he does do, but soon ... (81 words)

He's in the army and I'll wait for him but I don't know if I can trust him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. Before he left we had some ... (189 words)

Shes having pregnancy symptoms but the signs say she's not pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my girlfriend are trying to have a baby and we have unprotected sex atleast 4 to 5 times a day and I ejaculate in her every single time and this has been going on for 5 to 6 weeks now maybe a little bit more and she has been takin pegrnacy test and they have been ... (148 words)

How do you show someone that you love them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i never belived in love until i met my boyfriend we have been together for so long and my boyfriend is so lovely and romantic, but i have troble expressing myself. how do you show someone you LOVE them? thankyou for any replys xx... (52 words)

Do I have to make my career choice already at 15?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, im 15 and i've been told i have 5 months to decide what i want to do and i have to apply for college in 5 months. im not sure what i want to do i wanted to be a police woman and make a change because i really do care but im not very healty( because i smoke :s) and ... (189 words)

Can a previous abortion be to blame on why I can't get pregnant now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i had abortion a year ago I don't stay with my man but I have been trying to get pregnant its been 4months and nothing yet I'm worried my abortion may be causing this is it possible? Please help! ... (41 words)

Why does my hubby want me to lick, finger, and penetrate his arse. Does this mean he is gay or bi?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - "OP Own Title" Why does my husband want me to play with his butt so much? He always wants me to touch it, finger it, even lick it. He is often putting it in my face during 69. I don't particularly like it, but do it sometimes when I am drunk or just to make him happy. Thing ... (229 words)

Can sexual desire vanish without any cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) age - Can sexual desire vanish without any cause?My husband doesn't want any sex with me, or look at me as a woman. He says ,he wants to stay with me, and he loves me. And he has no idea what went wrong .The doctor said he was ok. -What can I do to turn him on? -What ,if he will... (125 words)

I'm not sure how to find out if he likes me back or how to make a move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 16 and I really like this guy who is 19. I have liked him pretty much ever since I met him but I have never told him because I have always been too scared of rejection. Lately we have become good friends and we go for late night walks quite a bit, where we just talk about ... (150 words)

Did you ever love someone you couldn't have?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really for advice, more for opinions. Is there anyone whose ever loved someone before or had feelings for someone, but there was sort of an obstacle to get to that person? Did you ever get to them? Was it worth it to risk the things you might lose in the process?... (54 words)

All my friends have lives of their own, but I'm alone! What can I do to get out and about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, it seems as if all my friends got their own life now and i feel like i have no one. all my friends have boyfriend and jobs and are too busy to do anything latley. im unemployed and dont have a boyfriend and it seems all i do is stay in. ive tried geting a job and i am ... (115 words)

This boy I like kissed me but my friends say he is using me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in high school and on the last day of school, my best friend who i have a big crush kissed me on the lips..The history between us is that my best friend introduced us and we've been friends ever since. For most of the time he's always there for me and, of course like every ... (152 words)

Boyfriend commented badly on the nude picture I sent him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a long distance relationship and in a committed relationship of one year.well i really love my bf and even he loves me a lot.the problem is that he told me to send some nude pics..well i don't have any problem because we are close and i have sent many nude pics before ... (121 words)

The ex wants to hang out, but I want more than friendship. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) age 36-40 - Alright so, my gf has recently dumped me because she thought she was never there for me. Even though we didn't see eachother as much as we wanted to due to homework, sports, family, etc. I still think we had a great relationship.. I asked if we could get back together bu... (90 words)

Am I setting a good example by staying for the kids, or am I setting myself up to be alone with a stranger when the kids leave the home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 28yrs old and have been married for 9 years. I am not sure exactly what answers I am seeking, but am compelled to tell my story in hopes of gaining some advice, or at least a different perspective from those in similar or different circumstances. I met my husband ... (866 words)

He said he liked me, then ditched me on the day of our date, and the informed me he likes someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best guy friend finnally admitted to eachother that we liked eachother. A week later he asked me out over a text, I said yes but that he had to ask in person too. Later that night we were being all fliry and sweet. Then we decided that we'd go to the fair the next day ... (249 words)

I don't feel the spark in my relationship anymore, so I should just leave, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - there is no spark in my relationship with my girlfriend (a year and some months) who i love or loved (i cant tell which it is). should i talk about not feeling the spark with her or just wait a little longer to see if they come back. its already been close to two weeks and i ... (124 words)

Do my scars discomfort her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello people, I have a problem here, or maybe I'm paranoid. Either way, I know this gal, She's 21, and I'm 27. Oh and I should make it clear that I have a number of scars on my body and 2 on my face because when I was in Afghanistan in duty an accident happened and I was taken ... (188 words)

I'm caught in a sort of love triangle, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so there is this boy that i was getting with and we liked eachother quite alot then we slept together, then he never really contacted me again (i know he used to like me cuz he told people he did) then we seen eachother a few times after an we didnt kiss or nothing but he acted ... (222 words)

All I wanted was this one weekend away and he couldn't give me that. Is this enough to call it a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice, I'm feeling really low right now. My boyfriend and I were due to go away this weekend. It was his idea. I booked everything. My sister has been having some problems and I have been there for her as much as I can. I told my boyfriend about it and he said we ... (242 words)

Is my ex just being nice? Or is it possible she wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi My ex recently got in touch with me- we haven't spoken since last October, when we ended and our rock band ended. Recently she got back in touch and suggested we start playing music again. I agreed to that, as I was hoping to start again anyway. But in addition t... (133 words)

She says if I hang out with my friend she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. How do I take care of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend of a year and a few months is trying to tell me that if i hang out with my friend (that she doesn't like because he doesn't like her) she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. how do i take care of this... (49 words)

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm because she is shy and holds back. How can I help her break this habit?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been trying to avoid posting another question on here because I'd really prefer to work on things like this between just me and my girlfriend. But I'm kinda stumped on this one and the outside advice could help us a lot... Ok, here goes...My girlfriend has never ha... (136 words)

My husband has lied to me and cheated on me. Why can't I forgive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has lied to me and cheated on me thru phone sex,date sites,porn,actual contact with another female,i have caught him everytime,and confronted him,but i cant seem to move past it,he says he is a sex addict,and goes to therapy,and has made great efforts to change his ... (51 words)

We hardly have sex any more and he doesn't turn me on. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and we used to have amazing sex but over the last 9 months or so our sex life has deteriorated. we hardly ever have sex any more and he doesn't turn me on, i can't get wet at all without using lube. i love him to pieces so i ... (88 words)

My husband keeps texting sex lines!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband keeps texting sex lines. i have asked him to stop several times and told him i will leave him if it happens again but i have just seen his phone bill and once again he's been doing it! We have 2 small sons who are 18 months and 7 weeks!!! too me this feels li... (113 words)

He doesn't want me to come out with him on his work nights out, is it normal for couples to go out drinking without each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to be long, sorry :X My boyfriend and I have been dating since our high school days (started when we were 17, now we are 23/24). We've been living together for 2 years now and are both in university. However, lately we've been fighting a lot and this came up... (273 words)

I want to spend all my time with him, yet when I'm with him I find myself wishing him away! Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey i dont really know where to start. I guess i just want someone to try and tell me what they think im feeling, because im so confused i dont know. I was in an abusive relationship for 2 years and spent everyday crying and arguing and pleading with my ex boyfriend to ... (662 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend but I moved to TX to be with him and now I have nowhere to go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help i just moved to tx with my boyfriend and now i want to leave bc i found out he has been looking up kid p--no. i dont know anyone and have no where to go. what should i do?... (40 words)

Is it out of line for me to ask to see the engagement rings he gave to his ex's?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - He's been engaged before and he still has the rings, is it ok for me to ask to see the rings or is that out of line?... (27 words)

My partner's mother wants to move in with us even though she can take care of herself, and I feel as a young couple with young children we cannot deal with the burden!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, need some much needed advice. I am 24 Ive been with my fiance for 7 years and we have a beautiful baby girl and I am due to have a baby boy in August. We recently moved home for a fresh start after I found out my fiance had an affair however things are good between us ... (585 words)

Why do people get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why do people get married? just a thought.should a man marry a woman and then do what he feels? is that a valid reason for divorce.... (27 words)

Breach baby and a home birth.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby and i went to the midwife's today ... my plan is to have a home birth however the midwife said baby is currently in a breach position and looked at me nerviously, which of course made me feel nervous. I am positive baby still has plenty ... (166 words)

Married and still a virgin, the longer I wait the harder it gets

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have a problem with my sex life. I have now been married for four years but still a virgin. My problem is I feel afraid and so penetration never happened. We tried lots of times but failed. It is like I contract my hymen and put a pressure towards outwards in such... (97 words)

Who do I choose, the guy I cant trust or the guy from my childhood who flirts a lot with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok there is two problems, the 1st one is Well im with this guy Max now but i am having a hard time trusting him. Not that he lies a lot its just that i just cant buy his story. Anyways, i like him and he says he likes me too much.but i told him that i just came out of a serious ... (330 words)

Am I right to be mad at my boyfriend because he commented on another girl's picture saying she is sexy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - quick question. My bf of 3 months commented on a girls picture saying that she's sexy. We went over what we expected of each other at the begining of our relationship. So my question is, am a right to be mad about it? He's been posting things for a few days, but finally said ... (62 words)

I'm worried about leaving it too late to start a family, but then again I also want to get this qualification!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I was just looking for some advice. I am thinking about going back to uni to do a course that I have been really keen on for the last couple of years, and I have also been given a place. However, my big problem is that it's a six year course. I am 29, and this mea... (146 words)

I feel like I am spending my life trying to make her happy when I am unhappy myself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been staying with my girlfriend for about 4 months just us two, but at times I feel unwanted , and wanna pack my stuff and just go else were but I never do, I try my hardest to make her happy, but it seems like I'm not doing enough, I can't live my life trying to ... (72 words)

She told me she wants to see me again but she doesn't know when, am I just wasting my time here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (M)

age - I have this lady friend I'm very much in Love with, we have met and talked on the phone and text each other a lot at first. When I went to see her I stayed for three days. We made Love a couple of times and it was great, I enjoyed her company and I know she enjoyed mine, I ... (729 words)

Under what circumstances would you lie about your name to a person of the same gender?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I start shooting my question, I want to thank you all for reading my post. This is not about relationships, however, it has been bothering me since it happened. Today, my friend's gf arranged a surprise dinner for him in a near by city. In order to get me there, she as... (450 words)

Is it going to hurt us if we kiss now he has braces with rubber bands?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there. me and my bf are dating like 2 years, and we had our 1st kiss last year. i had braces last year and we didnt have a problem when we were kissing but now he got braces with rubber bands on them. :/ well we didnt kiss when he has braces. when i had braces, we kisse... (97 words)

Can this be real?

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14 July 2010 (F)

- I have been in contact with a friend from face book. We hadn't been in touch for nearly 20 years but I looked him up and we got chatting. It has been nearly 2 months since we've gotten in contact and we have moved onto text messages and phone calls every night. He has told me ... (128 words)

17 with no sex drive?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I've been dating my first boyfriend for a little over a year now, and we've been sexually active for a while, but we just started actually having sex a couple months ago. My problem is, I've always had a problem um... being able to lubricate myself for him. It's not ... (307 words)

Do you think our friendship is over?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is an issue I've had before but it has never frustrated me this much. so...i was seeing this guy for a couple months and the thing just kind of died out when he moved back home. however after he left i started hanging out with one of his friends who was still here. we got ... (683 words)

How can I get her to open up to me?

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14 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - lets see where to begin, well me and my girlfriend are great, we never fight, we always talk things out if or when something is wrong, we've been together just passing 8 months, and I've fallen in love with her a long time ago, we both did, I'm nineteen graduated and she's ... (891 words)

She found a sexual text I had sent to another woman, how do I reassure her it means nothing?

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14 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK I have a situation. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about three months. I screwed up in the beginning by sending a sexual message to another woman. I didn't put much thought into the statement. Well anyway she seen it. How can I reassure her that I'm not doing those ... (61 words)

I'm stuck with a controlling boyfriend, what should I do?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I am having a huge problem. Please don't jugde me and be mean I'm honestly looking for some good advice. See, me and my bf have been dating 1.5 years. I live with him, his mom, and sister. When we first started dating everything was good. And now...horrible. ... (556 words)

Does this happen to women too?

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14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I wish to know if girls do get aroused at night the way boys do get erections at night and in the mornings or if they are different?... (30 words)

Is it possible to be born without a hymen?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this isn’t a relationship question but I think everyone here is a bit more helpful than yahoo answers. it’s a bit personal. As far back as I remember I have not technically been a virgin (never had a hymen). I was wondering if you could be born without it or not. But I ... (131 words)

I'm in love with my teacher and I think he loves me as well!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 years old and i am in love with my English teacher and i am certain he is into me. When i first meet him i thought he was a weird guy but as i got to now him i flirted. 1:on my birthday he got jealous when another guy said his birthday was the same day as mine he even ... (698 words)

Anyone else feel worthless?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone else feel worthless? Men think that women are objects. That no means yes. That every woman is theirs for the taking because that's what it means to be a man. It's just the way they are... just like it's the way we are. We are worth nothing. Just wait to die women, just ... (70 words)

My boyfriend and his female friend used to be FWB!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a few months has a female best friend, Sally (pseudonym), that he used to hook up with intermittently but never formally dated. Sally moved to a different state for school and he ended up following her out here a year ago to find a job. I started dating my ... (501 words)

I promised I'd give him a handjob, but don't know how!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been going out with this guy for a while and we've only made out so far and I've never given a handjob and I'm really freaked out cuz I essentially told him I'd give him one next time we went out. Anyhoo, how do you give one and not seem like you've never done it. ... (93 words)

Did I fall out of love?

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14 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 18 and going to college in a little over a month and ive dated my girlfriend for a year. i know were young but we both thought we knew what love is and thought we were in it but now im thinking other wise. our relationship has always been rocky with a lot of fights (im ... (510 words)

Do I like him or do I just miss him?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My heart hurts. Not like oh my gosh sharp pain! But like I'm not sure. I feel like crying. But I also feel like ahhhh.... Like hearts! I've only felt like this once. But I've been feeling like this ever since Monday. Monday I left my boy cousins house. Do I like him? Or am I ... (63 words)

I've fallen for a guy I've known for 2 weeks, and he lives two hours away. Should I date him?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am falling in love. But I have only known the guy for 2 weeks. He lives about 2 hours away. My parents wont let me drive that far. So it will be him doing the driving. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met. And I know I can trust him. He talked to me infront of his ... (154 words)

I'm 14 and like a 17 year old boy, but my parents think he's too old for me!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well i met this boy he just turned 17 and i really like him, im only 14 and my parents say hes to old. my mom has met him, but they dont know that i like him, i have no idea how to tell them. They just wont understand because they think all we will do is have sex, thats ... (80 words)

I had an abortion, even though I didn't want to!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im 28 years old, i had my 3rd child august 4th 2009. i recently had an abortion may 26 2010 and ever since that day i have been soo depressed. im always crying and yelling at my boyfriend. i didn't want 2 do it and now i feel like a horrible parent for doing it. i love my kids ... (93 words)

My girlfriend of nine months is ignoring me!

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14 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been in relationship from past 9 months. i love her very much. but now she is ignoring me. she doesnt call me. she is calling me for 1 week and saying that she is having some problems in home thats why she is not able to call me. now what should i do. i want her at any ... (74 words)

We've broken up, but I haven't told him I'm pregnant yet!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well to start off the guy that i've been seeing for the past almost two years now, decided to end our relationship. we were fighting a lot and it just seemed like we were disagreeing with everything.. he wasn't allowed at my house-please don't ask how old i am, i'm twenty years ... (130 words)

We've been together a year, and he's completely different! What should I do?

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14 July 2010 (F)

My boyfriend becomes angry and defensive when I try to talk to him!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im not able to communicate with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years now. Yes, hes always had this issue so its not like I didnt know about it however, now that we are in the middle of a serious relationship, it bothers me. Example: I walked in the room tonight ... (252 words)

He told me he thinks we should break up!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating my best friend a while ago. It was suppose to be a rebound sort of thing, the two of us helping each other move on from a bad breakup from our past relationship but down the road, we fell for each other. I pretty much fell in love with him and he did the same, ... (206 words)

My daughter refuses to speak to me, how can I get over the depression caused by this situation?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age - My daughter is 42 years old and we never had a "mother/daughter relationship". She always said I was never there for her and always put her smartness down. This is not true. I was always there for her, but she would never let me in. We are at the point where we do not speak ... (108 words)

What should I do? Does he like me or is he just horny?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my cousin kept having these boners but only when I was by him. We went swimming and we were playing the colors game. The person holds u and dunks u if u guess the wrong color they r thinking of. Well my top of the swimsuit was falling down and he wouldn't let me go. He ... (208 words)

Should I choose my best friend or a potential boyfriend?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy i really like is kind of a player and dated my now best friend and they were each others 1st time for sex. well she says she would be mad at me if i dated him but she doesn't know if she would be mad at me if i just fooled around with him. idk what to do i rly like him ... (138 words)

Would if negatively affect a man if his mother wasn't present throughout most of his life?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I would just like to ask your opinion, my ex boyfriend and I broke up after 4 years together. Sometimes I dont understand his behaviour. I would just like to know what are the effects of a man who has grown up without a mother since 7 yrs old coz the mother has to work in ... (93 words)

Even after we had broken up and his new girlfriend fell pregnant, we were still having sex. Now he won't speak to me!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,i have an ex bf who i was with for 1 year,i broke up with him,after about a month after we had broken up he got a girl pregnant. during the time he was with her we was still having sex. i thought that would make him cum back to me. no all of a sudden he jus stopped talkin 2 ... (66 words)

How can I find out if he's really interested without embarassing myself or jeopardizing my job?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started a new job as the manager of a small, all-male department of a large corporation. Almost immediately, I found myself attracted to one of my subordinates and lately it's become extremely distracting. A couple of weeks ago he did me a huge favor - unrelate... (211 words)

He asks me for sexy pictures, does that mean he likes me?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well this is a pretty weird question but i justed to see others opinions on this ( a little info 2 understand it better) (idk if this matters but im 15) I have a friend, who ive known for about 3 years, who i used to have a crush on.(he used to like me 2) He always came... (301 words)

I cheated while my fiance was in a coma!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiance for 4 years now. Things got a bit rocky and i cheated on him about 7 months back. It was wrong and I regret it. I decided that I truly loved my fiance and he was the one I wanted to be with and I broke it off with the other guy. He promised he would not ... (213 words)

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend because he's of a different race!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have met and fallen in love with a guy, we dream of a future together, but inside my heart is breaking. I am caucasion, he is black. The problem seems to be with my father and brothers. They are all racist, so i am to scared to introduce my partner to them. Some day... (110 words)

We were intimate, but now he treats me like I don't matter!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a gentleman on a dating site, prior to meeting him we talked and became so close for 3 months, we never talked much about sex until a week before he flew out for the 4th of july. We met and we had a such a good time, the second nite we was intimate but I felt like niether ... (173 words)

Everyone says he's too old for me!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'am 22.MY man is 35.they tell me that he is too old for mei have been dateing him for two yr.how do i tell him how i feel?... (28 words)

He's still not divorced! What should I tell him?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have read all the simular comments and stories to mine.. It all sounds the same! Where to turn, what to do next, and where does it have to end? I ended a 10 year marriage/divorced but living together relationship with the father of my child last September. In the mean time I ... (377 words)

My husband has lost interest in sex, could he have another woman?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm married i wonder why my husband is very cool in terms of sex he is not that before, we have sex once a month or nothing in a month, one thing comes into my mind he has another woman, because a man cannot wait for that long speaking of sex, am i right? ... (56 words)

He never comes to visit me, I always have to go to him! What should I do?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My new boyfriend and I haven’t seen each other since two weeks. He calls me everyday and says he misses me and he calls me honey and sweetheart. Every time he wants to get together he wants me to come to him. I can’t go to his house because my parents don’t want me to visit him ... (174 words)

I'm in a sexual relationship with my sister-in-law, but want it to stop!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my elder sister in law are having sexual relationship. we never did intercourse but only oral. we stay in the same house. how can we stop this thing going further. we know what we do will not be accepted in society. she is 4 yrs elder to me, i am 20. i like this thing. ... (84 words)

No one wants me, and no one seems to think I'm good enough!

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14 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do anymore, no one wants me, when it comes to age I'm either too old or too young and when it comes to my personality I'm too kind or too nice or too caring, when it comes to sex I'm not experianced or not confident enough :( I starting to feel life isn... (71 words)

How do you ask someone to leave you alone, when they have helped you out so much?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I split up with my partner of four and a half years last year because she wouldn't move in with me. We stayed friends and then I had a major operation, struggled to walk afterwards and it's been a long road to recovery. Ex has been great, helping me out a lot, keeping me ... (151 words)

I lied to my boyfriend about my age!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so, here it is. i lied to my boyfriend about a VERY touchy subject. My age. I'm really 15 but he thinks i just turned 16 I dont know what to do or how to tell him. It's eating away at me knowing he's gonna find out sooner or later we've been dating for a year and a half and ... (96 words)

I don't know if I love him any more, but can't leave!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I am 27 years old i married at 21 and have been with my husband since we were 15 years old. we are coming up to our 6 year ann. and i feel things have gotten out of control. we found out that my husband cant give me children and this is very hard for me because i want to ... (317 words)

I know he's using me but I just can't let go!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age - I am a 48 yr woman obbessed with a 32 yr guy I have been seeing for 5 yrs, I know he is using me bur I cant let go. Help!... (31 words)

Will I be single forever?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Will I be single forever? I guess I don't mind just surely you can't live a full life if you don't have a partner... ... (28 words)

Please help me to stop feeling so down and to understand why people do this to each other.

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really heartbroken, I feel so stupid and hurt that I've let myself feel like this. I really liked this guy at church and I thought he's a Christian he will be different to all the other guys I've fancied before he'll treat me with respect. I was completely wrong. We were ... (314 words)

She's been married three times but says she has never seen precum before...?

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14 July 2010 (M)

age - My girl has been married three times and has had several other men ask her to get married and dated multiple others. She is a good looker. I don't care about her history. I love her. The point I should make before my question is that she really likes to give blow jobs. In fact ... (213 words)

I'm uncomfortable with my weight, what can I do?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! I want to weigh 110 pounds by march 2011 and it's July 2010. And I'm 13 and I weigh 150 yeah I know what a shocker! So what can I do? Other then cooking healthier foods and stuff cuz I doubt my parents will do that. I mean exercise wise. Please help me. I want ... (84 words)

My female friend likes me, but I'm straight!

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my friend told me she was bisexual and I said I would be okay with that as long as she don't like me. She said she never would like me. I have nothing againist gay people. Then she told me she was a lesbian. I was okay with that to because you know it's just a labor no big ... (118 words)

I've stopped taking the pill, when will my period be due?

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14 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering when my period will be due? I was birth control for just a few months and was very regular. I was also regular before starting birth control but had a shorter cycle (24 days). The last month I was on the pill, I skipped several days and ended up starting my ... (90 words)