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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could he have given me an orgasm without my knowing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heey. so me and my ex boyfriend are friends and we were talking about our relationship last night and the subject went to sex. he said "Did you know I've made you come before?" and i just laughed because i dont think he did... was he lying or did he really give me an orgasm and ... (62 words)

Met a guy overseas, we've kept in touch, but is he serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry if this is a bit long-- So I was studying abroad in Italy this past semester (where most of my family is from, and I am fluent in Italian) and met an Italian man through mutual friends a few weeks before I was due to go home. I actually ended up losing my virginity to him ... (467 words)

Had unprotected sex and I'm nervous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend like a month ago but he didnt cum in me it still took him a wi bit of time to cum outside. and from that time we have been having protected sex with a condom oftenly,more than ussual.But then it happen again like a week ... (228 words)

I was a jerk and regret it, is there any hope?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So, this girl at my high school was very obvious about liking me, she wanted to hold onto my arm going down stairs, was constantly watching me, turned in my direction, and other things. But when some other girls actually asked me out, i pulled my arm away from her while we were ... (117 words)

Boyfriend's actions make me wonder if he is being selfish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to be patient about this.. But, I would like to know how I should be feeling and what not about this. I leave for Texas tomorrow and will be gone away from my boyfriend for 5 days. Yesterday, a friend and I went over to my sisters house (30 minutes away) an... (417 words)

Girls carrying condoms.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have discussed having sex and agreed that while we both would like to have sex with eachother there isn't a pressure on either of us to do it. This is fine , however a few days ago we were in a position where we were going to have sex , but stopped beca... (201 words)

My ex wants to get back together, what should I take in to consideration?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up last night, it was sweet and delicate, but after fighting regularly we got so tired of it all and decided to call it quits...she wants to move out of state sometime this year and i don't so in a way it took care of the long distance relationship ... (141 words)

I'm not happy about taking care of this child if it happens to be his.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband had a one night stand way before i met him and she claimed she has his child. he told me about it and i insisted he go for a dna tests because i believe there is a chance its his child and he should take care of him. He is planning to go next week for the tests. the ... (114 words)

I feel intense sexual attraction for women in the 26-32 age range!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 41, and have had urges, shall we say, over the last few years toward younger women...mostly in the 26-32 age range. That's roughly a 9-15 year age difference. I seem to still be very attracted to 27 year olds. I dunno...I think they're older, strike up a friendship, ... (167 words)

My wife recently discovered she can not be truly happy until she has been with another woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just recently found out that my wife has interest in other women. She said she can not be truly happy till she experience it for her self. i have given her my support but i feel like i am missing out. I am not sure what to do. if any one that's has gone through the same ... (88 words)

My department boss seems to be flirting with me. Is he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - THIS IS A BIT LONG BUT GUYS, BEAR WITH ME. I HAVE TO GIVE AS MANY EXAMPLES AS POSSIBLE SO YOU CAN TELL ME. Hi I am 25 years old and work at an accounting firm. I have recently noticed that boss in our dept who is 45 may be flirting with me at work. I have been there for s... (1031 words)

I must start to think about the future for myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im(27) with a guy(23) for 6 years now engadged for 2 and living with him for 2. we live with his dad ,mom and suster(21), he does not whant to get married now, and says he does now know when he will be ready,its hes house, but hes parents still runs it. should i wait and see if ... (83 words)

He's 'refriended' me on FB after I 'defriended' him because of an argument.

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyonee this is a simple thing, i just want to double check... a few months ago i had this argument with this guy, i was pretty immature but then he said some very hurtful things. i defriended him on facebook to give myself some time to cool off, and he has added me... (109 words)

Do all men fantasize of other women than their girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do all men fanatisize of women other than their girlfriends while masturbating all of the time? Is this a red flag? Does it mean they'd probably cheat too? Is it ok to do this?... (34 words)

Do aquarius men ever forgive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - disregard my age please i dated an aquarius guy for 2 years, it was rocky but full of love. now im pregnant, he says he doesnt love me and hasnt loved me for a long time now and that theres no way he will love me again. im hopeless, i love him, i cant get him out of my head, ... (100 words)

Why is he always falling out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner alway seems to find a reason to fall out with me and then blames me for it. the other night he totally ignored me and blamed me for being cold on bed. he said when i'm busy with other things, with family and friends i become distant. i know i give him everything and ... (70 words)

My husband is already married! Did he marry me just for the visa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age - hi please help me. i mmarried a turkish man 15 mths ago, not to give him a visa, wwe are very much in love. well, i think its the same for him but i have my doubts. he;s been refused a visa twice now on the grounds of them not believing we are for real. to cut a long story ... (301 words)

I have the feeling he is pulling away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need advice on this as i am going crazy. Maybe overreacting, maybe not but certainly lost ! I have been talking consistently with this guy for almost five months, going out on dates, slept together. He contact me most of the time and he is always making cle... (384 words)

I'm totally confused! How do I head in another direction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 44 and having a hard time making a decision . I am very full of life and feel as though I am being held back .I will start by telling you that i am married for 28 yrs even though my husband moved out of our home in feb of 2008 and said he wanted a divorce . Here is it ... (274 words)

I thought they were joking about a threesome!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm 15 and there are two girls at school who keep asking for a threesome with me, I thought they were joking but they came onto me when on my own. Waht should I do??... (36 words)

I wonder whether this situation has the potential to become terribly messy, or will it be ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently been over to Germany where my relatives live. Myself and my cousin have always been attracted to each other and this time I was staying at his place. On this visit we made love for the first time ever. We email and telephone regularly now that I am back in my ... (155 words)

How am I supposed to let him go explore his interest in men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and we are very inlove, happy, and compatible for each other. However,one day in Jan of this year he sat me down and told me very sincerely that he loves me very much and I make him so happy, but he has been ... (346 words)

I never meant to hurt anyone. I just wanted to be loved and he did that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age - My life is in deep trouble. I live with a guy 10 years now. We have no romanic relation. We bought a house together as a partnership. He says i am his girlfriend. We act like married people. I don't go out and he does not either. My problem is 5 years ago I meet this guy at ... (425 words)

Lots of mushy texts, but he doesn't ask me out!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy i've known for a year now and we've become really close friends. We text regularly and he keeps telling me how much he misses me (out of the blue he sends texts just to say hallow and 'i miss you')and he reminds me how special I am to him and how he treasures ... (207 words)

What can I do to change feeling isolated and lonely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 12 years left me for someone else. and she has kicked me out. i have no friends or family and i am very shy so i dont talk alot. now i just sit in a room on my own all the time. i feel isolated and lonly. what can i do to change this. ... (57 words)

Is this sarcasm or jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - tonight i was talking to my boyfriend on chat, who is on tour with his band. we are very much in love and talk as much as we can everyday. i asked him when they were going to play their hometime because guys at my college were asking me. and he asked me why people were aski... (161 words)

Who should buy the condoms?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, who do you think should supply a condom the boys or the girls? or should they take turns? Thanks.... (20 words)

We used to talk all the time, now we don't seem to have anything to say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know my boyfriend for almost one year.first we were good friends, then became best friends and now he is my boyfriend. it's been six months since we started our new relationship. I liked him because he was a really nice guy and he always stayed calm and never got angry. we ... (134 words)

I want the right boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. How come boys which are really bonny and have a good personallity dont like you? I try my best to impress them. i always wear makeup and wear nice clothes and i have got told i have a lovely and loving personallity, how can i get a nice lad to like me? xx... (57 words)

Something new in our D/S play

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old married woman. Point blank, my husband and I are in a D/s relationship with him being the top and he spanks me whenever I have done wrong. Recently, he was spanking me when I was laying naked on the bed. I began to wiggle to avoid getting slapped in the s... (212 words)

How do you get over someone you have never fully been with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you get over someone you have never fully been with? okay... i'm in love with this guy. it was love at first sight for me and i thought he liked me,i thought, well i knew that he liked me from the way he looked at me. we emailed and texted and met up once or twice bu... (187 words)

Is he really interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize for the long drawn out question but I like to start at the beginning so it's easier to understand. I have been talking with a male coworker for the past couple of months, he does have a girlfriend. We email back and forth at work, text, and sometimes we talk on ... (290 words)

Shaving advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy, i've never shaved and have used hair removal cream. i want to tidy up a bit down below, what should i do?... (23 words)

Is it better to be the woman he loves or his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know if you are in a relationship is it better to be the woman that he loves and can share all the intimate sides with or is it better to be his best friend? ... (37 words)

Do I stop chillin' with them, or make a stand for myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm here again. To be honest i never though using dearcupid.com would actually help, but seeing what other people have to go through helps me coupe with some of my own problems in a strange way. I'm writing today about some friends of mine that I've known for a couple ... (344 words)

Can I get pregnant if I put sperm from my mouth into my vagina?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - can I get pregnant if I put sperm that was in my mouth into my vagina, but I wasn't on my period and I was ovulating either?... (28 words)

Is there a solution to all of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age - I'vr been engaged to a wonderful lady for about 18 months, she is going through menapaue and grew in an alcoholic home. She is the most demanding ,controlling person i've ever met. We aren't speaking right now and our engagment might be over, all because i went to an alanon ... (81 words)

Should I tell him about my STD?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo I have this nasty ass ex boyfriend i've dated for 3 years and we had sex maybe a month ago. I heard he was sleeping around and sure enough he gave me clamidia. I took the z pack a week an half ago. Now i have a boyfriend and i don't know what to tell him if he wants ... (98 words)

He won't talk to me since I texted him while he was in a business meeting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my bestfriend and love for 6 years I'm 28 him 30, he is really a wonderful and great man. Recently he even told my father how Ill be moving to his country for marriage over this year, which we have discussed. He is going through a hard time as his mom battles ... (204 words)

How long should I wait after sex to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F) age 26-29 - How long can i take a pregnancy test after i had sex ?... (13 words)

Can anyone give me some moral support?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys i really need some help... ive been with this guy nearly 2.5 years now and i love him to bits... in the first month of our relationship he cheated on me with his ex and ever since then we have been tryna work on how to make us better... some days its great and some ... (303 words)

I feel so betrayed and it's damaged my relationship. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if anyone could help me or advise me with this, but i'm in an akward situation and I feel really helpless as to what to do. A while ago, I confided in someone whom I thought I could completely trust. I had a very personal embarresing problem involving me and my ... (630 words)

Help with bikini line!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm going on holiday next week, which means bikini time! I need to tidy up down below and sort out my bikini line. I've never really done it before so I don't know what to do. I won't be able to go to the beautician's. So any advice? Thank you!... (51 words)

Semen in his boxer shorts!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 18 mths now he has lied about his past to me ie sexual partners ect, a few months back i found a pair of boxer shorts behind the tv unit in our bedroom with small semen stains in them, but just about a week later he had a few stains in his ... (107 words)

I'm so worried he is ringing and texting other girls...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 17 months now, he is 7 years younger than me and has had a past life of sex and parties, he has lied to me about his past, and a phone call he made to his ex apparently just for a chat, she's also confirmed this but I'm so worried he is ringing ... (88 words)

His polythene wrapped penis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi aunt.. I'm girl of 20 years... I love a boy very much... obviously we did sex but did it in a diffrent way. We used polythene as he forgot to bring condoms.. i was scared to get pregnant but we had sex only for 5 minutes with his polythene wrapped penis... I had ejaculat... (100 words)

My embarrassing problem...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do I "fart" when me and my husband are having sex? This is embarrassing? Is there anything I can do for this not to happen?... (30 words)

He doesn't love me but he is crazy in love with me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 4 months, it a man who's more mature than me. Last night he said "I love you so much" in french, then he said he didn't mean it. After when we back home, he said he doesn't love me but he is crazy in love with me. Although he said "I love you" ... (84 words)

Driving fears and how to combat it???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, this might sound like a silly problem, but any help and advice will be much appreciated. I just got my driver's license and a car. I've been driving around for a few days now and i am quite nervous! I drive okay but people are so rude on the roads, that i get reall... (101 words)

Advice please. She says she loves me and wants to be with me... but she doesn't have time for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I meet a girl a few years back and we were flirty flirty with each other. we became friends and went out on 3 dates. on the first date we were all over each other. it came out the blue. anyway she is a busy person and too used to being on her own. That much we came ... (369 words)

Help! How long should I leave it before I text him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I asked for advice a couple of weeks ago. Thanks West1000 btw. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-only-have-two-days-to-make-my.html] Well I made my move, we kissed and shared quite a lot. The only problem is I can't quite remember everything as I was fairly drunk... (205 words)

Help!!! Have I made the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Have i made the right choice? My now ex partner and i were together for 7 years, its had its ups on downs and there had also been the slight bit of violence at times. We had 2 children 5 and 2 yrs. During this relationship i was never sure if i could trust him,i discovered a ... (324 words)

Should I send his gifts back to him now that we've split up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy for 2 and a half years, it was a serious relationship so we bought each other stuff like you do, but in the last 6 months things got very rocky and during that time we split up and got back together a total of 4 times. I cheated on him last year with a guy i ... (280 words)

Can a relationship work out if you break up with someone then want to get back together with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can a relationship work if you break up with somebody and go off do your own thing like going on date or sleeping with other people? Then you both realise its not what you want to do and want to get back together? Even though you both know that you have been with other ... (460 words)

Men, do you dislike it if a partner doesn't orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This is a question for the Male readers. When you are with a woman do you try to make her orgasm? If she doesn't orgasm how do you feel? ... (31 words)

He is leaving to go back to Canada and I still have not heard from him, should I wait or just contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is a long story. I dont know what to do. I met this guy on a night out about 6 weeks ago. I wasnt looking for anything as Id just had 2 bad experiences in a row. BUT anyway I was drunk and kissed this guy as he was cute. Next thing I know he got my number and hes ... (792 words)

I am in love with my gay friend but he doesn't want to spend time with me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with my gay friend, recently i use to hang out with him a lot but now its been 3 weeks he is avoiding me and doesnt want to hang no more... what should i do?... (38 words)

I'm tired of feeling lonely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is how to get out of lonliness. recently this past 3 weeks ive been feeling awkward i dont have the same trust in people i use to have. I look for reasons to hang out with my friends and go out, but they always say there busy or they just wont reply back. i'm tired ... (121 words)

Is it wrong for me to like this other guy just a little when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy i've known him since 8th grade and we're in the 11th grade now.i always kinda liked him but were just friends. hes been saying stuff like he doesnt like eclipse(the movie) but hed go see it if i was going ,and im the only girl he can talk to for hours on the ... (115 words)

I'm tired of being the bad guy when I am only trying to help her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend and I have been living together for 2 years. We were friends first and then she left her boyfriend for me. For the first 6 months or so it was great we were all lovey-dovey and really great together, nothing but happiness. By now it is getting a bit rough. ... (326 words)

The girl I liked turned me down but is now dating my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 I asked out a girl one I have liked forever but she said her dad dosent want her dating and then my back stabbing best friend asked her out the next day and she said yes I have known this girl for 9 years my friend has 4 years now I feel so betrayed and depresed and the ... (70 words)

How can I let her know she is an annoying friend without being harsh?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I go to a big church, I'm single and don't have many friends. I met this girl who's 5 years younger like two years ago, but now we are getting to know each other better. Even though she is married with two little ones she feels kind of lonely too because she is unemployed as I ... (534 words)

What does this mean? Could he be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since moving to a new town, 4 months ago, i have liked the looks of this guy, we'll call him J ... up until this point it was an entirely lustful "like" because it was purely based on appearance. recently i've had the opportunity to get to know him, and not only is he g... (571 words)

What can I do in this situation? She claims to love me but she shows no signs of this at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner and i have been together about 2 years now. at the begining my ex partner and 2 children where still living with me until they found a new home but i didnt tell my new partner this as it wasnt a sure thing at the time and even though i wasnt sleeping with my ex i had... (229 words)

Would I be standing up for my girlfriend or causing more trouble?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, we're about 700 kms away from each other, but we still got to see each other semi regularly. She's told me a lot about her ex-boyfriends, how they're both highly self absorbed, use women and are pretty much dicks. ... (406 words)

Why do I have these feelings for another man when I was so sure I loved my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for two years, yes fiance, I was so sure I loved him more then anything and when Im with him hes all I care about, but when Im gone from him and one of my friends(male) comes around and drops hints he likes me...I feel the same when we chat I giggle ... (110 words)

What did he mean when he said "I cant keep it up with you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok. what does mean that when guy saying i can't keep it up with you ?i thought it was joking.cause he a bit older than me and im not come from english contry. but it is ture now. i've been dating with him about 5month now. suddenly he didn't taxt me back so i asked him and he ... (179 words)

Why does my ex husband always take his girlfriend's side over me and our children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - please help,i was very happily married for 21 years to a wonderful man.one day he came home from his work and told me he didnt love me.two weeks later he walked out on me and my 3 kids.its been nearly 2 years now and he still lives with his parents but he has a very young ugly ... (145 words)

Would I be able to get into an American college with my qualifications?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everybody i turned 17 a few weeks ago and when i left school i made the mistake of not following on my education but i am interested in applying for some courses at my local college. I am after any course but i would preffer a one year course because next year i plan... (113 words)

I like her but how can I find out if the feelings mutual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There is a girl that is "Out Of My League" That I really like.. She's single.. She's very pretty, and we talk a few times every week (I got her number, But I don't wanna text first I might seem creepy.)I really like her, but don't know how to let her know/or find out if the ... (88 words)

From a dream to a nightmare....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody... If I came here to look for help it means that I'm really f*** up at this point... Well I'll try to make the long story short. My and my bf (?) meet up 7 months ago, trough internet. I couldn't belive I'fe founded a guy like him: the first 2 months and a hal... (875 words)

Two boyfriends and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have stupidly wound up in a difficult situation with two boyfriends. One - R - I have been with for a year and a half. R and I are in a polyamorous relationship; all is fine as long as we keep each other in the know. The other - A - has no idea about R, and is not up f... (168 words)

I know I will end up getting hurt by this married man but part of me wants to know how it would feel to make love to him!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with a married man that I have been dating now for two months. we never slept together,but I'm planning on sleeping with him soon. I'm a little afraid because I think I may get hurt.I know the easy thing would be to run away now! but a part of me wants to know how ... (76 words)

He says the problems in our relationship are my fault!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my partner really made me feel like a terrible person. We have had a lot of stress since we moved back in together, his son, money, lack of job (on his part) his mother being an alcoholic, my own chronic illness. He has seemed to just get on with it, whereas it has b... (306 words)

To kiss or not to kiss...

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a very good friend who is a girl. I've been feeling very stong for her and decided to talk about it to her. She tells me she considers us casually dating but doesn't want to put a label on it. (I've never even heard the term casually dating before then by the way.) I am ... (236 words)

What is the best thing to say back when someone tells you they love you and you're not sure if you do yet?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the best thing to say back when someone tells you they love you and you're not sure if you do yet? I suspect my boyfriend might say he loves me soon - he's told our mutual friends he does and last night when we were holding each other in bed, he kept opening his mouth ... (140 words)

Should I get back with him even though I think I might cheat on him?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and i are thinking about getting back together but i feel i get back with him im gonna be unfaithful because the reason we broke up was because he was constantly accusing me and to turn out he was cheating the whole time...and if i get back with him in gonna be talking to ... (63 words)

Should I just ask him if he wants to be more serious? Or am I reading his actions wrong?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and an old fling have been "seeing each other" for the past month.. not weekly.. but here and there. He told me he wanted to date but he doesn't want to get married; on our date he called me babe (never did before) and also said he wants to make me happy; ran into him at ... (268 words)

I've had a crush on her for over 4 years, and now I have seen her again all the feelings are rushing back!

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - After 4 and 1/2 years of having a crush with this girl since high school, I've been trying to get over her. The other day, I ran into her at the grocery store (she didn't see me though), now all the feeling rushing back. Is there anything for me to do to get over her?... (55 words)

My partner frequently calls out other women's names in her sleep

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner and i have been together for 7 yrs. and she frequently says another woman's name, not always the same one ,during sleep while she is masturbaing. it may be a co-worker, someone she thinks is attractive, or a patient - she is a pt. this is driving me crazy. why can't ... (85 words)

Can I still get pregnant while on the Depo shot?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is SUUUPER paranoid that il get pregnant while on the depo shot. we never used to use condoms but lately he has insisted that we use them incase. iv been on it for almost a year and only reason is for protection against unwanted pregnancies, im thinking about go... (115 words)

I'm Pregnant! Should I tell him now or wait till he returns?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just found out I'm pregnant, which I can handle, as it's my second child. Though I'm worried about my partner. We live long distance, have only been dating a month, and this will be his first child. He is about to go fight forest fires for the next 2-3 months. I'm afraid ... (149 words)

My ex and I are still friends, but should I tell him I have had sex with another boy?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So...my boyfriend and I have been broken up for 5 months;i finally decided to call it a quits after everything...and since then ive met plently new people and i like not having to deal with his drama..but only thing is were still friends nd we hang out all the time...and ive ... (69 words)

He cheated because he was drunk and I cant get over it!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months...we started going out sept.7, 2009 and its now June.30, 2010... Back in Feburary he decided to throw a small party when his mother was away and get drunk...( one girl and 4 guys) well they all decide to take turns ... (438 words)

I want to know how to be happy in life!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - They say that beautiful people are less happy later in life… I hide behind my looks because the truth is, I’ve got low self-confidence. In fact, I have never truly believed I’m super attractive but with the right attention to myself (personal care, makeup…), I get lots of at... (340 words)

Moving far away from family to be with boyfriend...need advice

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him to death but the distance is getting harder by the day it seems. So I have decided to move to Florida to be with him. The only problem is, I will be moving 12 hours ... (180 words)

What are the conditions that will allow me to get g/f out of her bad home?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i need to know laws aroud teens moving out of the house because im going to move out of the house and get an appartment once i turn 18 im 16 and a hlf rite now and my gf is almost 15 and i am wonedering if she can move in with me when im 18 and living in an appartment i ... (95 words)

I cheated on my b/f again and this time I'm afraid to tell him

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my bf for 2yrs...Within that time we both have cheated...But were still together...I kno your prolly think why were together still..We both understand where were comin from when we both did it..I kno a relationship shouldnt be like that but mines just ... (109 words)

I can't control my emotions and I'm going to lose my boyfriend because of it!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend so much but I can't control my emotions. One minute iam happy with him and the next I just want him to leave. He doesn't do anything the majority of the time to make me angry. He tries to make it work, I feel like iam pushing him away and that's the last ... (66 words)

Just found out partner is still married and I'm having his baby

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am very confused and would like some advice on my relationship with my partner if I am doing the correct thing. My partner and I have been living together for almost a year now we are having a baby next week. I found out a few months ago he had children and is married to ... (201 words)

I don't remember all that happened and I'm worried my g/f will believe this other troublemaking girl!

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Ok one night i went out to a party while i had a girlfriend but she could not come. Because i have a girlfriend alot of girls came to talk to me that night. i told them to leave me alone, this one girl approached me multiple times and i told her to fuck off. my mates wi... (255 words)

I need help understanding what may be going thru this guy's mind

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I badly need help here. I met a guy at a party 8 months ago. I instantly felt drawn to him. We txted and IM'ed each other for a week, but then he stopped talking to me suddenly. He lives an hour away from me, btw. 2 months later he suddenly IM'ed me, and we started talking ... (474 words)

Trouble with online dating.....

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the past month and a half, I have been meeting men from a dating site. I have been in regular contact with a few different men, and have dated each several times. There is one clear winner due to a combination of interests and chemistry, but I don't know how ... (324 words)

What exactly does hook up mean?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What exactly does hook up mean? would making out be considered a hook up or has to be full sex?... (20 words)

I feel like I made a mistake but I'm doing all I can to make it up to her, why is she still acting this way?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright ladies. I need a little bit of help figuring this one out. So my wife is a big fan of the twilight series. (big surprise right?) Anyway, I was on my way home from work around 6:00 and I told her I wanted to take her to see it tonight. There was a showing at 7:00 ... (567 words)

Why am I so picky when I really want a relationship?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so I feel super ridiculous because I see all of my friends and stuff with their boyfriends and stuff and I can't keep a guy to save my life. A lot of guys like me but I'm super picky..and when I do like someone I get tired of them and move on even if its a great guy!!! I ... (73 words)

How many times can you fall in love?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this is kind of a simple question and I'm not so sure that there is a real answer as everyones opinion is different but, Do people fall in love more then once? and does the feelings ever go away? I've known this one guy since I was 12 and I fell in love with him so quick ... (205 words)

I don't have feelings for him, but don't want to hurt him again!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, A few years back in high school, I really hurt one of my friends that /really/ liked me. He had asked me to Junior prom (I had a boyfriend at the time) and things happened, and he ended up being hurt and humiliated (not publicly, but he was really embarras... (253 words)

Why does my husband treat me this way when I do everything I can to keep him happy?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont understand why my husband cheats lies and stopped have sex with me or treats me like a slave i do everything i can to keep him happy???????... (29 words)

It seems my partner is possesive, forceful and wants me to have a baby even though I'm not ready, what should I do?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi... am really in need for some advice ...have slept with my b/f who is 23 years older then me and actually enjoyed it but since then he is forcing me to move in with him ....when he first asked.. i asked him to give me some time but he is forcing the issue ....he has started ... (202 words)

Why is he ignoring me after declaring his love?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well here goes, i'v had a on and off relationship with my ex but always felt it was more one way, i'v always had a soft spot for him and i'v ended every relationship i'v had in the past two years for him, then i finally had enough and told him i had enough, then i went on ... (173 words)

Should I wait for him to say he loves me this time?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend that I loved him 2 months ago but he didn't say it back. I asked him if things were awkward between us about a week later since I had said it to him then and also asked him how he felt about me. He said that he likes me a lot but he isn't sure if he loves me ... (98 words)

I don't want to lose him, what should I do?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there i have a question well,i've been datin my bf for 8 months..but this moth his been acting mess up wth me he accused me of talkin to guys n of seen sum other guys..me n him have no trust when we started dating a month later he cheated on me n well. at that time i wasn't ... (95 words)

I want to be a part of my child's life!

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I am going to be completely honest here. I was dating this girl for about 5 months but have known her for almost 8 years and she is now 11 weeks pregnant and we are no longer together. Before we broke up, she moved to west virginia to help out with her mom, but her and her ... (234 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend I don't remember what happened?

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1 July 2010 (M) age 30-35 - hey. One time i went to a pub/club without my girlfriend, and if anyone knows once you have a girlfriend girls suddenly want to talk to you, i told them all to leave me alone as i was not interested, throughout the night i kept drinking and went home and told my girlfrie... (224 words)

Am I right to feel upset about what my girlfriend did when we were still broken up?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice here. I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We have kept in contact tho and even sometimes still had sex. We both agreed that we would stay friends and see what happened in the future. I even told her i didnt have anymore "spark" towards her but ... (204 words)

I think she likes me, but she has a boyfriend!

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a girl who works for the same company i do who i really like, she also likes me (as in fancies me) too. She has not told me this herself and nobody else has told me this, but not wishing too sound arrogant i know when a women is attracted to me through experience and ... (361 words)

She's in eighth grade and I'm going to be a senior, should I date her?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im am 17 and going to be a senior next year, i feel like a creep but there is an eighth that is 14 that i really like and i think she likes me..what should i do date her, tell her to leave me alone or what? ... (47 words)

I like him but he's a player! How can I get over the boy I like?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What can i do to get over this boy i like. He played with my emotions and hurt me so bad. He is a player wth mad game and can get any girl he wants. Some what cocky u can say. i really do like me but he turned to a jerk. We have been talking for quit a while. In the first ... (155 words)

He cheated when I was pregnant with my third son with a close friend!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 22 years old I have been married to my husband since I was 16 years old and we have 3 beautifull little boys Unfortatly last year of 2009 I got pregnant with my 3rd son and so around april of 2009 a couple that we had met back in 2006 came into our lives as friends ... (341 words)

I think he may be cheating, but I need proof!

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I strongly suspect my husband has, or is about to cheat on me.Pevious posts to this site, and the replies recieved,say my instincts and gut feelings are right! I am absolutely sickened and heartbroken, but I know he will deny all and make me out to be jealous, mistrusting, ... (184 words)

Boys always say I'm hot, so why don't I have a boyfriend?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi :) well the most popular guy in my grade at school always says im so "hot" and he says "everyone thinks your hot!" and i get told that all the time by other guys and girls tell me im "pretty" ... but im 15 years old and ive never had a boy friend !!!??? im so confu... (106 words)

Feeling like I don't matter and difficult to speak to my partner. Help please!!

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - im having trouble in my relationship. i've been with my gf for 5 months and whenever we fight i feel that i'm the one apologizing even when its not my fault. when shes upset i ask questions to better understand why she is and how i can do better. when i'm upset she askes me to ... (411 words)

How do I deal with this kid's crush on me?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I live in a neighborhood with a lot of kids my age. A group of these kids and I are close; me, (14), a 12 year old girl, a sixteen year old boy, a thirteen year old boy, and an eleven year old boy. I recently found out that the 11 year old is completely infatuated with me, ... (157 words)

Should I tell my cousin that I love him?

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im 13 years old and i really need advice. 6 years ago i fell in love with my cousin, hes 17 now i dont care about the age diffrence, hes sweet sensetive funny smart and hot. ive loved him for 6 years and he just ignores me i see him everyday sometimes he laughs and smiles ... (132 words)

He doesn't seem truly happy anymore

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for a little over 5 yrs and recently my man has been acting different, watching online porn secretively and trying to hide it and lie about it, getting attitudes out of nowhere and ignoring me for unknown reasons,seems to be losing interest in me ... (95 words)

Am I unreasonble feeling bad that she sees her ex's without letting me know?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I would be grateful of objective view of my situation. I have been with my partner for 4 years. We are in our early 40s. My partner sees ex's of hers on a fairly regular basis. There are 5 that I know about. She has mostly male friends. I don't have a particular problem ... (495 words)

Should I give up or keep fighting for her?

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1 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend almost 3 years now and she been changing for the worst over the past 20 months. Where she used to be calm and self-assured, she is now insecure and self-loathing. She's become stand-offish and blames or lashed out at me verbally whenever things ... (123 words)

I think my mother is having an affair

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1 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey.. I really need help! Its about my parents... For the past year my mom has started to not be home that much only a couple of nights a week... She works as a teacher in Sweden (we have a house there and shes swedish...) It costs about 40 $ back and forth... everyday. so she ... (308 words)