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He never bought me a gift from his travel abroad?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - What does it mean if you date a guy for five months, during which he travelled once abroad and he never buys you a gift even when he returned from his trip? ... (32 words

Getting jealous of my peers

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm in a pretty big state of jealousy right now, and I'm not comfortable with the feeling! In my school, there are a lot of popular and pretty girls. Even though i'm one of them, i still feel jealous towards a few of them. For instance, on Facebook they always get a million ... (115 words

I don't want sex yet, how do I tell him to back off without being harsh?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering your adivce on the best way to talk about having space with someone and slowing things down a bit, without going overbooard and scaring the other person away. I have been seeing this guy for just over 3 weeks now, and we get along great he is a good listen, does ... (140 words

I still can't believe I'm pregnant after 7 months...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - well i have posted about an ongoing dilema in my life. im young and pregnant. i'm living on my own, i work hard and study hard for the future of my baby. my family is far away and the baby's dad, who was everything to me broke my heart and i have lost all contact with him. i'm ... (215 words

I had a good time, but did he?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I recently initiated meeting up with a guy I've known for a little while, he admitted that it was really out of the blue, but we still went out. We texted a little bit before the D-day, and I had a good time with him, but am unsure whether he did. He did kiss me on the ... (123 words

28 years later we are dating again and then she just drops me!

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23 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - I lost a love again. i was dating this girl that i had dated 28 years ago. we meet back up and hit it off just great then all of a sudden she was gone again. the first time it was easy to let go, but this time i just cannot let go and don't know what to do. she will not talk to ... (87 words

Should I tell my mate that I'm dating his ex?

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright, so I have a very tight-knit group of friends, about 8 other guys. We've all been close for over a year now. I have a good friend, who is a girl, we'll call her Martha. She went out with my guy friend, we'll call him Sam, for a year. They broke up about 2 months ago, ... (460 words

Husband Swinging Without Me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age - About 5 years ago after 20 years of marriage, my husband started to talk about swinging. I thought he was kidding at first and he got angry when I siad absolutly not. We had a good sex life and had been faithful to each other. To please him I agreed to go to a couple of aprties ... (403 words

How do I prove I'm not gay/bi ??

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 15 and i got drunk at a beach party last week i ended up making out with 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 of the guys wasn't drunk and apparently really like me but i REALLY don't like him and he wont leave me alone no matter what i say or ask. And everyone has found out about me... (117 words

I freaked out and broke up with him without meaning to!

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i don't know what to do, i recently broke up with my ex last week and apparently i broke his heart. i told his i wasn't ready for the commitment just yet and wanted time to work on myself. he told me he loves me too much and needs to cut down because its hurting him. i feel ... (200 words

Asked out by three guys and they're all mates!

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've know this one guy ben for about half a year and we've become really good friends and i found out he fancies me but is moving to london in 2 months but wants to go out with me, and i don't know if i want a long distance relationship and i'm still not sure how much i like h... (194 words

He had a girlfriend and I'm going to a wedding they'll both be at...what do I do?

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 16 and i went to spain with my friend for a week to visit my family. My family also had some friends visiting that were living in the villa next to where we were staying. over the week we had a bit of a thing didn't go too far. He nearly took my virginity but my friend s... (243 words

Ex girlfriend not over me and dislikes my supposed lack of grief

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23 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi all I'm 27, and my ex is 24. I asked a question on here not too long ago about my girlfriend having become disinterested about our relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and it was all mutual and amicable and we both agreed that it was for the best. Since we broke u... (190 words

I love my husband but I'm not happy when we are together

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23 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for almosr six yrs. we have three young children together. We have had a few big fights which resulted in him moving out for a while, we always get back together, but we don't move back in with eachother right away, he treats it like a vacation, and this ... (206 words

If he doesn't come looking for me what do I do?

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - so he said he love me ,so he said he wouldn't hurt me or leave me. I just got tired of always having to be the one who pick us both back up at the end .so I been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months now.we actually just made our 7th month .it seem as if it all ... (299 words

He stopped molesting me, but is he about to do it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok, im going to try be to the point here. im 17yrs old now and from the age of 12 to about 4months ago, i have been sexually molested by my moms boyfriend (lets call him joe). so joe has stopped abusing me now, but a few nights ago i was working on his laptop on my project. he ... (189 words

My baby's daddy is lazy and never concerned about our child!

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I broke up with my babys daddy recently because he does not have a job and because he never asked me if i needed anything or helped me. I am six months pregnant and he still has not got a job he sits there and lies to my face saying there is no jobs when i get job offers myself ... (145 words

My dad is going to press charges against my 21 year old boyfriend!

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am in a relationship with a 21 year old guy, and im only 16, i had kept this away from my parents but one night they heard me talking on the phone with him, and they asked my sisters who it was and they told my dad i had a 21 year old boyfriend. he said he was going to press ... (79 words

He'll kiss and cuddle but won't kiss me!

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I've been seeing this guy since 08 we have sex once in a while but he never kisses me, he'll cuddle after sex, talk with me, and play fight but never kissed me..I'm starting to like this guy alot and I wanna keep him for myself lol but I'm sure he's not interested in me in ... (63 words

Husband doesn't want a physical relationship anymore

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23 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am confused as to what my next step should be. I have been married for 10 years but lived with my husband for 10 years prior to getting married. He is a wonderful man who does not want a physical relationship anymore. For the past 7 years I have tried to talk with him with ... (165 words

Is it normal to stay with someone who does not have sex with you?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am 35 and consider myself attractive. I am witty, charming and smart. So I don't understand why my husband will not have sex with me. I am not a boring lay if you will. After a few separations I had lovers which i enjoyed and vice versa. For years I have noticed that his ... (211 words

I'm scared of commitment and seek out guys who can't commit!

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I think I'm scared of commitment. I am usually attracted to guys who I think or know have some reason for not wanting a relationship. For instance, I usually go for players, guys who I know just want to be single or like other girls. This has led me to have a lot of ... (273 words

I'm very controlling in our relationship

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are very close, we livie apart but seeing each other nearly everyday which we love. However i have recently been finding that i do get very controlling with him, which leads to arguments. I get frustrated if he is doing ... (129 words

I don't want to be lonely anymore! I want a boyfriend!

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23 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi guys. I'm 15 either gay or bi. As you can see I'm not at terms with my sexuality yet but I KNOW for a fact I'm not totally straight. My problem is that I'm at a moment in my life where I don't wanna be lonely anymore. I REALLY want a boyfriend.(Yeah, I'm scared of saying ... (123 words

Husband is an internet player and I need to make the break!

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Once one has established that they are in the unhealthiest relationship of their life, how does one tuck the love they have for this other person away and stand up to brush themselves off? I love my husband more than I ever imagined I could ever love a man, however he is ... (124 words

After making some fatal dating mistakes, can I still get his interest back?

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23 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, this is a long email so i can give background, sorry and thanks a lot for reading in advance:) Met this guy (26 yrs old), lets call him M, at a company workshop. We are from different depts so we didn't get to meet before that. He came to talk to me (i m 29), and got my ... (1081 words

How does someone like you so much at first and then drop you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - HI :], I have a couple of questions; I had been with my bf for 3 yrs, one day I decided to break it off with him because he was very possesive. I started dating this other man (Levi) he invited me to a crawfish broil, i met his friends...but it was like stepping into a ... (711 words

At my age I can keep going and going...

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23 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi there, I dont know how to put this. Its a bit embarrassing. I just wanted to know if this is normal during our love making sessions. We are both fit and healthly.We are both in our 40's. We love each other very deeply and we have a fantastic relationship in every aspect.... (207 words

I cheated on my ex before I knew I loved her, she found out and she left me!

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I cheated and led my gf on for months, but that was because, I didn't love or care about her, but as time went on, I started to gain feelings for her and now I love her so much and I can't imagine my life without her. She found out about the lies and cheating and she has left ... (411 words

A male coworker buying my boyfriend expensive gifts. Should I be concerned?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for a very long time. He had mentioned a gay guy at his workplace who fancied him ever since he went to work there. The guy knows he has a gf. However, recently my bf went over to his place and brought him something he had ordered, and asked for no ... (350 words

Would it seem that shes over it or do you think she felt the same way I did?

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright, so basically I need help for dealing with some feelings about my last relationship. I met her at my last job, and worked with her for the longest time, and it wasnt until both of us and all of my other co-workers went out one night, that I realized that I really would ... (1602 words

I feel badly should I forgive my ex?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I was with my bf for 2 years and all was great until after a year we started fighting about everything. He got a huge temper outa nowhere and I was very patient and kind with him through it. He has thrown my personal belongings against walls to break them and has put me down ... (321 words

Why does my g/f seem so calm when I nag her?

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - sigh, i know guys are not the best at understanding emotions and what not. So here is the problem, iam going out with this girl for a year now, and its been long distance for about 6 months, because i was at uni in UK, nd she was at saudi arabia, now she has gone to Bangladesh ... (300 words

Girlfriend's dad walked in on us during oral sex, kicked me out and now she wants me to apologize to her dad!

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am 18 and my girlfriend will be 18 next month, we have been dating for 6 months. Her dad is a total hard ass, he is beyond over protective and he hates me jsut because I am dating his daughter. Afew nights ago we were in her basement fooling around and we didnt hear her dad ... (166 words

My live in boyfriend of 3 years watches porn online most everyday from what I can tell.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Please Help Me ~ My live in boyfriend of 3 years watches porn online most everyday from what I can tell. We had a conversation about this 2 years ago and I told him it bothered me and he said he'd stop, but just went into hiding with it instead. Don't get me wrong, I don't th... (265 words

17, female and a virgin. Should I keep my standards high?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 17 and still a virgin. I have had relationships, kissed guys, and just recently hooked up with an older guy who I went to 3rd base with. I felt very regretful after the hookup because I found myself wishing that had been someone who actually cared about me. Now when ... (184 words

How do I tell my sister about her daughter and this boy?

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23 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - i m in confuse situation , my sisiters daughter is involve with one boy ..but nobody knows only my kids know..ab,t it.. how should i tell my sister..i m worried because my neice is only 16 yr old.. and my sister live in small town with conservative background. boys parents ... (57 words

He doesn't want to perform oral sex on my anymore!

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey well me and my boyfriend are starting to do sexual stuff now and im new at. (the most iv done is making out but he had sex before) The problem is we agread we would start out with oral sex, but he doesnt want to eat me out any more. I asked why and he said because every ... (134 words

Addicted to lesbian porn, Please help me stop

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23 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - i masturbate to lesbian porn because i dont like the penis', and it feels sooooo good, but i wanna stop because it makes me feel reallly bad... can sumone please help me? ps. i started at 13... HELP... (39 words

Please help me get over my Ex

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need help getting over my ex.he cheated on me and just didnt treat me right.i broke up him,but still love him.plz help... (24 words

Will she ever end her unhealthy relationship to be with me?

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Here goes. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl for 2 and the half years already. She is in a relationship for 5 years with her bf and her relationship is unhealthy because she broke up and patched back many times and always fights with her bf and he is very possessive. She ... (143 words

Very confused....been married for 10 years and my wife cheated!

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23 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone....I've been married for 10 years but dated my wife for 2 years prior to getting married...so all together have been with her 12 years. We have 2 wonderful boys 6 and 4. About 3 months ago I found out my wife had been seeing a man who is a teacher at my sons ... (467 words

Got drunk, had a threesome and now scared I'm pregnant and only 15!

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Im 15 and well i got a bit drunk at a friends house party and well one thing led 2 another with these 2 guys and we ended up having a 3sum and we didnt use any protection and i know i shoud of but i wasent thinkin straight The thing is im 2 days late im not always on time wit... (152 words

He's gone away for two months will he still be interested when he comes back?

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay, basically, I've liked this guy for the past couple of years and about a year ago, when he began to notice that I liked him, he started showing very clear and obvious signs that he liked me to. He's shy, and there have been times when it's looked like he's wanted to tell ... (115 words

I really want a family! Will it ever be the right time?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I am 25 and have been married for 3 years. It has been difficult at times, but we love eacho ther very much. We have good jobs and are good people, but due to some silly mistakes, and the recession affecting work, times are tough.For my husbands job, we have moved ar... (355 words

Friends decision concerning our sons could really affect our friendship as well. How do I handle this?

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23 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - My nine year-old son has a good friend who lives nearby, whom I'll call Joe. Joe's family goes on vacation to a nice lake every summer for a week. They have had my son visit them at the lake every year for the past 5+ years for a couple of nights. Today Joe's mom said to me t... (181 words

Can infatuation lead to love? Beautiful experience with a prostitute.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

23 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I had sex with a really gorgeous prostitute.There was a sexual connection of some sort that I never felt before with any other girl or prostitute. I had slept with a reasonable amount of them. It was almost a divine experience. She had 3 orgasm with me and the third we finished ... (306 words

I told him I was falling for him and now he's very distant

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm so confused and dont understand why I'm feeling this way. I met a lovely man who I didn't expect to have feelings for and we have been seeing each other on and off for 3 months. He lives about an hour away on RAF base and though its hard, we have stayed in touch and I've ... (213 words

I love my cousin but am unsure what to do about it

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - ... Okay... I don't really know how to say this but... I love my cousin. Whenever he's not around I miss him, when he's there I'm still thinking about him and wondering if he's thinking about me. We see each other quite alot and so we're rather close. I don't know why I feel ... (205 words

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with his baby mama

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend was with his ex for 5 years and they have a 2 1/2 year old daughter together. after they broke up he got with me . well its been a few months and i have found out a few times that they have been talking alot. well he tells me all the time that im the only one he ... (431 words

If he's talking to his friends about a girl, does he like her?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I would like to know your opinion on this. If a guy talks about a girl to his friends, does that mean he likes her?... (25 words

I can go on and on after sex, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3250 days ago

23 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi there, I dont know how to put this. Its a bit embarrassing. I just wanted to know if this is normal during our love making sessions. We are both fit and healthly.We are both in our 40's. We love each other very deeply and we have a fantastic relationship in every aspect.... (211 words

I'm confused about getting married and don't think I'm ready

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need help, i'm scared and i can't talk to my friends.If i told them about my opinions maybe they would lough at me.....so i decided to ask for help to unknown people. in a month i'm going to get merry, i love my boyfriend and he loves me,but marriage is too difficult for me..... (87 words

Girlfriend think I'm looking at other women but I think she's misinterpreting my thoughts

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23 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - I came to the US from England to be with my girlfriend who I met online, previously we had spent a great 10 days together and decided we would like to spend more time. With Visa restrictions I was able to come for 90 days which is where we are now. It was a steep learning curve ... (517 words

Bi-curious and not sure what to do

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23 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am a completely straight guy, but lately I have become curious about being with a man. Specifically, a well hung man. Nothing romantic, just sexual. I feel totally wierd by this, and I'm not sure where this sudden emotion came from. When I was like 10, I did have a ... (209 words

I want my ex to chase me!

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i recently broke up. well yesterday. we were doing a long distance relationship for the last year and he is living 5 hours drive away from me. he is 27 and i am 21. we saw each other every 3 weeks for a few days. He went up to coach footy for the year, so its ... (427 words

We fought, broke things off, he wants me back and I've had enough!

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi All, Please can you advise me about the following situation,I had an argument with my ' boyfreind' of 7 weeks a few weeks back. Things were fine before that - but he cannot let go of his anger towards me, and has broken off the relationship three times in two weeks, but k... (186 words

I am unsure what to do I don't think I love my husband anymore

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23 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I don't think I love my husband anymore. We have been married almost 5 years, together almost 10. (I'm 27, he's almost 32). We have 2 children together and my son I had just 8 months before we met (but my husband is and always will be daddy to my son). ... (553 words

Why is my teacher ignoring and avoiding me?

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - well there's this teacher, we talk to each other quite often last year. but this year, he suddenly started avoiding me. when i walk pass him in the corridor, he'll avoid making eye contact with me, pretend not to see me. and when i try to find him to ask some questions, he's ... (101 words

She's 7 years old than me--could there be problems involved??

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey Guys, i sorta need help.. I am an 18 year old male. I have experienced life, since the age of fourteen i help a multitude of jobs, most of which were three at a time when i was 16 to support my girlfriend who was a little younger than me, but her parents coulnd't pay for ... (264 words

He puts my friend before me am I just being paranoid?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy online (called Greg) and we talk almost everyday. We use to be really and play lots of games together on ps3. I was sick for a week and I was offline for that week and in the meantime my friend befriended another girl. Now he only talks to me if she has gone ... (262 words

I think my wife has another man on her radar

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23 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - My wife said to me the other day after 11 years of marrage. That she does not love me anymore "sexually or physically" and she wants me to move out? I think she has another man on her radar? What should i do? I am heartbroken for our little 4 year old boy! Please help!!... (57 words

How do I get my husband to want sex again?

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23 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok, the last time I posted something I was on the verge of leaving my husband. That was about 6 months ago, and then right before I was about to meet with a lawyer he did a complete 180 and has changed so many of the things that I was upset about. This was truly an answer to my ... (933 words

How do I tell my mom I'm gay, not doing drugs as she thinks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey, right, i'm a girl and i'm gay. i have a gf who i've been with about 6 months. ive only recently come to terms with being gay myself really, and this is my first serious gay relationship. i really love my gf and have come to a stage where i want others to know. so far iv... (241 words

My soul mate? But he suddenly has a girlfriend?

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well...theres this guy..and we've known each other two years. We have just casually dated,and we were (and still are) very close. In between this two years, he slept with one of my friends. Although this hurt, i forgave him and things are back on track. We rarely argure because ... (191 words

My bf dumped me, after I dumped him and now its like a merry go round

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i love my bf. we have been together 1 year and 8 months jst about. i love him to death and i cant see my life without him. we had been goin out for 3 days and i broke up with him because my parents made me i never wanted to but they couldnt expect the fact he was muslim a... (451 words

Sex has become nothing but a chore for me!

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My libido has disappeared and this has been getting worse for the last 3 years - since last child born. I now feel guilty for not doing it, and guilty when I do it as I am clearly not enjoying it as much as I or my husband would like me to - it is just another chore. ... (122 words

I think our first was bad and I don't know if he'd gone off me now

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i like this lad he walked me home last night which is a fair way and stayed at mine for abit we had pizza and watched tv for abit and we was cuddling like he had his arm around me i had my head on his chest and he was holding my hand everything was so cute and nice then he ... (226 words

I have a wonderful girl but am falling for a girl from my past

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23 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I have been going out with this girl for 5 months but I have liked her for 3 years, a year before I asked her out I met a girl and she liked me but some how we lost connection and now that I'm with my girlfriend the other girl comes back we start talking a lot and I end up ... (79 words

I'm in love with my cousin's wife

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23 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - well am 24 from pakistan,live with a cousin o mine in a foreign country , his family lives with him and i share a room in his apartment , well the thing is am in love with his wife ! i know it must sound bad but i cant help it ,on the other hand i hav a steady gf which i plan ... (477 words

I'm emotionally stressed thinking about her and I can't handle it anymore!

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - a couple of months ago i realised that the girl i was absolutly stone cold crazy about, was never going to feel the same way about me as i did about her. even though i had found out that it was never meant to happen between us, i still couldnt stop thinking about her. every ... (223 words

What does he really want?What is he in real?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi! I have never met this guy in real but have known him only virtually.He befriended me two years ago and we had great platonic friendship initially.He has real in-depth spiritual knowledge and has taught me a lot.Then one fine day after a year he said he loved me.I realized ... (325 words

I'm pregnant and my partner is having an affair with a male member of my family!

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Been with my partner for just over a year, love him so much and as far as i was concern he was happy with me too. im 6 months pregnant with a baby boy (our first child) and we are just decorating our new place which will be done in 2 months. 3 weeks ago i had the biggest shock ... (628 words

I'm freaked out! Girlfriend came home poured water on me at 3am! Why ???

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23 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. It's 3am, I was woken up by my girlfriend who dumped water on me to wake me up. What if I didn't wake up and drowned, there's a fan next to me and could have caught hypothermia and she's a nurse she would know about that. I don't know if I trust ... (440 words

How many lies would you put up with before you called it quits?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - How many lies would you put up with before you called it quits? And if you were with a man who lied to you multiple times in the first few years of your relationship, how long do you think it would take to rebuild that trust once the lies stopped? I am in a very painful sit... (604 words

How can I stop cheating, lying, hurting and stealing???

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23 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - How can I stop cheating, lying, hurting and stealing??? How can I change?? Who can help me?? who has the right answer??? Why am I doing this specially to the those who love me and close to me??? How can I change?? Why am I angry?? Why do I fail?? Am I crazy?? How can I love? ... (159 words

Will sex hurt as much as using a tampon?

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i'm a 14 year old girl. i have a boyfriend, we've been dating for a long time. we're starting to talk about sex. i'm a virgin, he isn't tho. my ex and i dated for 2 years, but i never wanted to have sex, but we attempted oral, but he wasn't into it. but he did finger me, but ... (157 words

Married with a child but what if my ex still loves me? I need to know!

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23 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I was with my ex ex boyfriend for 6 years. I was 15 and he was 18 when we started dating. He was a jealous guy. I broke up with him because i wanted to explore. I hurt him so bad. His brother is married to my cousin and our families our very close. I met a guy and moved to ... (430 words

How do I find out if she's only after sex?

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23 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been seeing someone for a brief period of time. I am really into this woman but,unfortunately it would appear that she only wants sex. Or at least that is the only conclusion that I can come up with. While I am not against this, I am also not in a hurry to go there. Now ... (150 words

I have to leave the love of my life so that he doesn't turn out to be the person I resent the most for holding me back

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - an addition to the thing I posted before, I'm having second thoughts about my realtionship. My partners nanna dies about a month ago, and my nanna passed 4 days afterwards. We both went to one anothers nannas funerals, both in the same week and both realized how important ... (265 words

How do I help her with trust issues?

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and everything is unreal and perfect. we love eachother very much, except she has trust issues. For some reason i lied to her about having a cold sore because i was scared of her reaction i then realsied i had t... (99 words

My ex is trying to take my daughter!

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23 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I have an ex that was emotionally abusive and still is to this day. It's been since July of 2008 that we have broken up and have a 3 yr old daughter. After we broke up he turned into a rage freak, threatened me, harassed me, etc. I had to get dcf involved for the safety of ... (241 words

Has anyone ever felt excited, depressed, exhilarated lustful and guilty all at the same time?

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok I'm in a bit of a twisted wicked little game here, and I'm completely to blame so I will accept any abuse. I just need to get this off my chest because it's driving me insane! i'm 20 by the way, you do the maths! Ok here it goes... I have a boyfriend who I have been with for ... (740 words

Am I doing my new husband wrong?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently got married a week ago and we never had sex. I married my college sweet heart u could say and i do love him dearly. whenever were together were always having fun, but when it comes to sex we just pull apart. note that im a virgin and so is he. we decided to leave... (155 words

Has anyone been in a similar relationship to mine? He cheats and puts me down.

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am so lost. My boyfriend that I have lived with for the past 4 years is cheating on me, puts me down constantly and always calls me names and tells me he hopes i have a terrible life. I want to break up with him soo bad but I live with him and I lost my job recently. I ... (113 words

Is it normal to get this wet?

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i get really wet and i wont even be in a sexual situation!!! (i mean wet to the point it drips down my leg) is this normal?... (27 words

Is this forgivable and would you forgive?

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23 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I just got out of counselling over an issue that I am having a very hard time forgiving myself for. I want to see if what I did would be forgiven, generally, particularly with an explaination and proper apology. In breif, I made an akward move on a woman years ago and kissed h... (270 words

So how do you get people to like you?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So how do u get people to like u? how do u get ppl to never talk badly about u? how do u not have drama in ur life? it is SO HARD for me to think before I speak, I have NO filter watsoever, i talked about how leos (being me and this girls bf) have a lot in common cuz of the leo ... (305 words

I don't want her to think I'm over her so how do I let her know?

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23 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - well, let me tell you a story. it will be short. so, basically, she broke up with me, she said she still loved me, i made countless mistakes, now she hates me. she didn't want to talk to me until today, accusing me of something i didn't do. i went along with it. it ended up ... (179 words

Extremely painful sex

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23 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am a 44 year old female. I have never been married. I met a guy about 6 months ago and have really "opened" up to him. When I say this I mean that I told him it's very painful for me to have sex and he thinks that this is the reason I've never been married; because I'm too ... (235 words

Do I wait and offer him loving support?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My Ex and I broke up after a year around 6 weeks ago - it was mutual and based on a breakdown in communication - we both agree we threw in the towel too early due to fears of rejection on both our parts. He contacted me 2 weeks ago we had a long conversation and decided that it ... (286 words

Should I send him a friend request on facebook?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I used to like this guy who i met when i went for a night out on my birthday two years ago. He was the friend of one of my relatives friends ( my relative didnt know him very well ) and there was a big group of us that were out. I met up with him and some other people i know a ... (247 words

I'm an antisocial teen and need help talking to people!

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23 July 2010 (? age 22-25 - I need some help here!!! I am a very shy person, there are a few people I talk to at school but I wouldnt call them friends there more like lets say "Aquantices" because I dont talk to anyone on the phone or anything or hang out w/ anyone I just stay at home all the time and my ... (184 words

How can I get the nerve to talk to him sober?

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm meant to be meeting this lad that I've known for quite a while. I've spoke to him on messenger before but eventually we stopped. I recently saw him when I was drunk and got talking to him and we've been having late night chats on messenger every night since. I've arranged... (109 words

Stuck in a hole and can't get out!

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23 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Its now been 3 weeks that my boyfriend nd I have broken up. It was a bad split up, him telling me he was blocking my calls and texts. I have been with him for 3 years, its been up and down with him. He is a correction officer that brings his job home, no he does not live with ... (546 words

How come I can no longer orgasm?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am having a problem where suddenly my clitoris being worked up is no longer making me reach orgasm. What could be causing this because it has only occurred my last three attempts at this?... (36 words

I have a date in a week and need help with snogging!

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23 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - hi im 14 year old lad and im going on a date in a week. shes been to 3rd base be for but iv never snoged. n were going on a double date to the cinemar wid our best mates n i dont want to be the only on not noing how to snog a girl properly. my friends have been going out a year ... (83 words

Should you be nice to your ex, without regard for your new patrner??

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23 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Is being to nice to your ex sending the wrong message and is it fair to your new partner when your to nice to your ex??... (26 words

Is being in love with two men not such a great thing?

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23 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - im in love with 2 men first man have been with 4 17 years and i was a bored housewife second guy i met off the internet and we are both the same in everything that we do i have been with him now 20 months and he is all that i think about i dont eat or sleep and did try living ... (299 words

Do you guys think I did the right thing?

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23 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for only four months but it has been a fast four months. We have talked so much, gone on trips etc. And I am truly in love with her. She has always been pretty insecure about her looks, and she would ask me randomly if I love her etc, and she has ... (571 words

Does he have an interest in me?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this male coworker that doesn't work in the same location but its the same company. I will call him from time to time to get insurance benefit questions answer. After the nurse told me that he was asking about whether or not I was seeing someone. After that we kind of ... (108 words

Wife confessed to sex with my best friend before we were married, big deal or not??

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23 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - 2 years ago my wife confessed to sleeping with my former bestfriend before we where married. Since then she has being a good wife and mother.am still not over the pain and i constantly ignore her. She said she regrets her actions.she was my first sex partner well i gues she ... (58 words

Should I tell my husband what he wrote about me?

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23 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was over at my male friends house, and I found a book that had all our old game scores in it. Games like canasta and rummy and dice. Anyway, i was flipping through this book, and all of a sudden there were all these really crude suggestive gross comments in it about me. ... (204 words

Do you discriminate against obese people?

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23 July 2010 (? age 22-25 - I am 13yrs old and weigh 105lbs. I know that I am not a fat person but im a little chubby. I think its terrible when people make fun of huge people. Some people even say that they hate fat people. What I want to know is if people really feel this way about people. Do you? I ... (64 words

What should I do about Guy A and Guy B?

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23 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm in a mess, and it's confusing. I met a guy a few years ago, we'll call him GUY A, when I was 15. He thought I was 18, nothing had happened or anything but it was clear that we fancied each other a bit. But after he found out that I was younger, we talked a bit on faceb... (590 words

Should I keep it a secret that I like him?

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23 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, so theres this kid in my grade, lets call him Greg. Should i tell Greg I like him, because i think i do. ok heres the story. So Greg and I have been friends since sixth grade, and he always teased me, but in a nice way (like if were were highfive-ing and i missed hed say ... (198 words

I'm 16 but she thinks I'm older. What do I do?

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23 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - hi everyone I met this girl and we really like eachother but im 16 male and she is about to turn 20 so i mean she does not know im 16 either she thinks im 19 like her please i need a soultion besides leaveing her.... (47 words

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