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How do I get past this breakup?

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Heyyyahhh ... Again I am wondering if anyone can help me. My ex who i spoke alot about a while back has come back into my mind. I cant stop thinking bout him and i love him. I dream bout him and wake up thnking of him. I know that things wont happen between us again ... (139 words

Is it okay to have a secret affair, as the sex situation is beyond repair?

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am in a sexless Marriage (for over 3 years of no sex), and believe me I've tried to resolve it. But my wife remains uninterested in sex, and it just seems like we share a house as barely friends. I in the meantime have a very high sex drive, and this is killing me. So m... (85 words

Should I leave him alone and go back to my husband?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok heres the thing. i am in the middle of a divorce, it will be final in a month. i am most definatly sure that im in love with his childhood best friend. and he says he feels the same way. thing is, he has two kids with a girl i used to go to highschool with. and she has one ... (141 words

Why did I lose interest in pleasing my boyfriend?

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - He's an amazing guy and I love him and I know he loves me. He still pleases me but when it's my turn I just feel like I'm getting lazy. I don't know why. I don't want to have oral with him but it's not because I'm replused by him. I love everything about him. I just feel bad ... (75 words

I don't know how to tell him!

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i met this dude on the last two weeks of school two years ago till today and from that time i feel in love with him and i don't know how to tell him. he has a gf but she dont care bout him like i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what should i do???????????????????... (51 words

He didn't want children, suddenly he's gone.

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8 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Dating the man of my dreams for six months,he's single age 40,a doctor, adjunct professor,no drama non-cheater,equally cares for me,wonderful!one problem, I'm age 48 and he has no children. I have a 23 year old son. Me and my guy discussed children and he knows I didn't want ... (137 words

Is it bad that I'm lying about my virginity?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I've only had sex with two people; only a few close friends of mines know (which is only 2 people), but I regret having sex with them because neither one was my boyfriend (I'm not in a relationship at all) and I didn't love them; when people ask if I am a virgin, I ... (89 words

I am away on vacation and I think my man is cheating.

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. We did long distance for a year and 4 months and i moved to arizona to be with him. Our relationship has not been easy because when we met he had just separated and I had to go thru some much stuff because of his ex ... (311 words

I just don't feel the same way about her... how do I break up with her?

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8 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend now for just over a year and a half, things started off great, at the time I really did find her attractive and have feelings for her but now I find it has all changed. I just find now I don't feel how I used to about her, I feel as if I sti... (167 words

Suddenly she's insisting I use condoms?!?!

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Here it go, me and this girl got together in 2007, and broke up in the middle of 2008. We got back together in 09, then around may of 2009 she moved to Missouri (6 hours away). Since then i'll go see her or she'll come see me. We've never really used rubbers, but when i saw ... (101 words

What should I do to grab my crush's attention?

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8 July 2010 (F - Well i have been at this company for a few years.. i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well.. he is pretty popular in the office as well..does get attention and i am very quiet. i socialize here and there but mostly just shy. I ... (1086 words

Am I doing wrong?

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi i m 16 n i hve a bf, say his name is John.We hve been dating for 3 mnths.I know that he loves me a lot and even i love him a lot but neither does my nor his parents know that we are dating .I m sure my parents wont allow me to see him anymore if they cum to know that i m ... (120 words

Help!! Is there anything I can do to get out of this downward spiral?

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I know this doesn't really deal with relationships, but I need some advice. In high school, I did my work and got good grades. Sure, I was reserved and kept to myself. Everything is different in college. While I am still pretty reserved, I have made friends, one in which I r... (238 words

Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ... (18 words

Is it wrong to be this ready or is it just that I'm more mature than most females my age?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been talking for about 19 months but we've only officially been dating for 14 of those months. He's 20 and I'll be 19 in September but neither of our families has a problem with us being together. We've had our ups and downs but we have a strong re... (218 words

Confused to tell him how I feel...

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've only started dating recently. He's my childhood best friend since we could walk. We are very humorous with each other. But we also have our moments where they are very sweet and sincere. For the first time ever, today, he told me he loves me and he really means it. I'm ... (105 words

Why do some men prefer "a good friendship" over a loving commited relationship?

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I understand some of the usual excuses... loss of freedom,been hurt before, loss of space, one lover for the rest of their lives, etc but I just can't wrap my head around the emotional aspect from a man's point of view. I have been told that the idea of a long lasting close ... (246 words

How can I block my crush on him out of my mind?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I go to the job centre to sign on for jobseeker's allowance. there's this advisor that i've seen twice. i have to see him every few weeks. i didnt feel like i had a crush on him the first time i had to see him, but last time i had an appointment with him, and when i saw him ... (380 words

Wife to be mentions wants to buy a paid woman to orally service us during an encounter

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi recently my wife to be has said one of the things that turns her on is the idea of her buying me a working girl to Partake once in our love making. Her interaction would be strictly limited to oral sex and breast work and fingers, with no kissing or full intercourse ... (143 words

My unsympathetic prat of a boyfriend!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - About a year ago I developed a lump in my left breast about the size of a ping pong ball. Eventually that lump has increased significantly to the size of a baseball. It didn't hurt or anything and I don't know how it happened but it did and it's been there for over a year. My ... (691 words

Au Pair work???

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I still feel very upset when i think about when i worked as an Au Pair last year in Spain. I hadnt had any previous experience in child care, but the family hired me any way . I think some families are relaxed about that as the main job was to teach the children English, which ... (1062 words

What other options do I have re the dating scene?

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8 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Last year I broke up with my partner of 10 years. This year, I felt ready to date again. I already have lots of hobbies and not really time for any new ones (or actually any interests I don't already follow). Unfortunately they don't seem to attract many females (or no ... (215 words

3 steps forward and 2 steps back!

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. Stuff lately hasn't been going so well, but it seems like we always have the same problems over and over again. I blame myself for a lot of the stuff because it always seems like it's ... (389 words

Help!!! Sexually frustrated!!!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm sexually frustrated, honestly he is not giving me some. I have tried all you can think of, now I want to tell him I'm sexually frustrated, hope I won't ofend him... help what to do?... (37 words

How do I stop looking like a fool and get over this man?

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - hello all, My boyfriend of 4 months has got back with his ex without even telling me. His sister had to tell me, I hadnt heard from him for a week, and now I find out he is gonna try and make it work for the sake of his children. Im gobsmacked. He begged me to take... (229 words

How do I have a fun sex life as a newly single woman without looking like a whore?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I thank you for all your advice in advance and I'd greatly appreciate kind yet honest answers :D I'm single, have been for the past 8 months after a five year relationship so the dating scene is all so new to me. That bf was my first and I didn't date befo... (241 words

How do I react to his comments about relationships???

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now. We've been long distance this whole time, but we talk every day. We've had some issues in our relationship. He's cheated on me before, and has told me that he has thought about doing it again but he hasn't. I ... (360 words

You slam my family and you slam me!!!

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8 July 2010 (F age - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. He has 3 adult, married kids and I have none. In fact, I have very few surviving relatives and most of those I don't see too often. On July 4, my niece (who I see a few times per year but talk to on the phone often) ... (332 words

Is he right for thinking I am holding on to the past too much?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met my ex through a friend a couple of months ago. At the beginning things were perfect, I felt like I could tell him anything and wasn’t afraid of being judged. He said all the right things and would constantly be there to support me. I opened up about my past to him and ... (440 words

It concerns me that deep down he wants to be with other people...

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Here's the deal.. my boyfriend keeps hinting about how he thinks it's fine for girls and guys to be "friends". I get that, I understand that, I know it's healthy for a relationship. But.. here's my problem ... he only has one male friend and the rest are all female. In the ... (467 words

Should I move in witht them?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Turning 18 in August and Im moving to my cousins house. Well her and her bf stay together.. When I move we had decided to split the rent between 4 ppl 200 each out of 650... That was beacuse my bf was going to move in too.. My cousin said that he has to find a job but the only ... (113 words

How can I flirt subtly to show I'm interested?

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 13 years old and I have just realised I like this guy that I've known for around 8 months now. I think the only reason I didn't see this sooner was because I didn't want to admit it to myself. He teases me quite a lot but I only see him once a week at a youth club. I don't ... (150 words

How can I reinforce in her mind that she's the only woman for me???

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I met on eHarmony almost a year, and it has been amazing! I feel like we were made for each other. We've called each other soulmates. I proposed to her on April 24th, 8 months after our first date. I found out today that she is feeling insecure about m... (291 words

My friend's boyfriend is using her to get a green card by marriage!

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - My friend's boyfriend is using her to get a green card by marriage! The guy is really a user, and manipulator. But, she says that she's so in love with him... What can I do? She won't listen to reason. She says it's real love, but she has only known him for less than a year... (82 words

I am 30 years old and have never had an orgasm.

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am female thirty year old and never had an orgasm. What can I do to achieve an orgasm? Are there any gadget or products I can buy to aid in this?... (33 words

Why won't she talk to me?

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8 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - My ex girlfriend left me a couple of months ago and refuses to talk to me. We had been dating for nearly a year and a half. We’re both in our early 40’s and have children. The only difference there is that her kids live with her 5 nights a week and also spend time with ... (1215 words

Do guys like being called "daddy" during sex?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I was wondering do guys like it when you call them "daddy" when your haveing sex? Or would they think its weird? ALso if they do like being called that during sex would they still like to be called that when there not? Just curious, thanks.... (46 words

Women ignore me. Are they all just jealous??

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have met 3 people through Craig's List. I have two young children and wanted to find other moms to meet up with for play dates, etc. One of the moms met up with me 3 times for play dates and she kept saying she wanted to get together and go out with our husbands. So i set up ... (317 words

He's getting out of the army and I'm not sure I can handle civilian life!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - ive been married for 4 years to a soilder. we have been together for 7 yrs altogether and i love him very very much. im 23 and hes 24. my problem is that he is getting out of the military and im not so sure how i feel about this. ive been military my whole life and i dont know ... (249 words

Why can't I love the man who loves me?

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i feel trapped between two men. one is my ex husband and other my boyfriend. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3years. we have a 1 year old daugther but i dont love my boyfriend. i told him that so many times but he dont want to leave. as for my ex i love him still and i ... (87 words

My husband won't go to anger management, is it time to divorce?

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8 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband gave me an ultimatum last week which was I needed to return home by Thursday otherwise he was going to his scheduled appointment with his attorney to end our marriage. I really need him to go to anger management or something since his verbal/emotional and even some ... (377 words

My girlfriend doesn't show her love anymore! I'm falling apart!

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8 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I am in a relationship with my girlfriend who I've been with for some months, the thing is that I feel out of love with her. I try so hard to love her and support her as much as I can, even her family enjoys my company and they support our relationship as well as my family. ... (236 words

What should I say to my BF to keep us together?

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - [OP original title] My bf and i have either split, or are splitting, or may split, I'm not entirely sure, he kicked me and said he didn't want to see me again, but that was after england lost and an extremely tough weekend of me nagging and us having no time to talk what... (265 words

Boyfriend says we're over the "lovey-dovey" stage!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and it was fine at first all the lovey dovey holding hands and kissing. now he says we are over that stage. i don't understand why it stopped. i still want to do all that what should i do?... (50 words

Is giving him a marriage ultimatum without communicating with him okay?

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8 July 2010 (? age 41-50 - [OP's original title] I have a boyfriend of 1 year. We have plans of getting married, but whenever we try to discuss, it becomes a hot topic and he is defensive. I have stopped bringing up the issue or contributing when he beings it up cos it makes me feel as if am putting him ... (210 words

I'm that boyfriend who is in an abusive relationship!

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8 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I find it funny how nomatter where I look, I can't find anything on a boyfriend being abused. I am that boyfriend and I am abused. I'm hit occasionally, insulted very often and nagged to death about every single pimple, stray strand of hair, and my clothing. I've done a lot for ... (160 words

My wife is still in touch with her ex husband and I say cut him off

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have a question about your opinions regarding ex's. My wife and I both agree that ex-bf's and ex-gf's should be forgotten after all it didn't work out, so it's not fair to the new person to have to deal with that old baggage. Here's where we differ. My wife was marr... (246 words

What is so special to women about having a baby?

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - [OP's original title] You're all not going to like this...But I am a guy and I don't think there is anything special about having kids. I had a vasectomy years ago, and there's some lunatic woman I've met, who I'm having it off with, who wants a baby. She wants me to see a Doct... (157 words

I'm beggin my LD girlfriend for attention

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - hey , i have a problem with a long distance realationship , so far me and my gf been together for over 2 years now , im australlian and shes british , we see eachother on and off usually on vacations, but lately she got a job (which shes quitting due to pressure) which made ... (150 words

Unsure about masturbation.

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm a fourteen year old girl, and well...a lot of my friends "masterbate". I suppose at first I was a bit shocked when they told me that. I had heard the term before, but had never taken part in trying to. I am very curious about my body now, but is that a bad thing? I feel ... (112 words

During sex wife called out ex-boyfriends name

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - how can I trust my wife, during sex she call me one of his ex-boy friend name. can i trust her any more ... (25 words

If he's over his ex shouldn't he be able to forgive and move on?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi there, I have been wondering lately whether my boyfriend is truly over his ex. She cheated on him several times and they had a bad break up. they were together for five years and we got together less than a year after they split up. she messed him up pretty badly. ... (124 words

My girlfriend that I live with wants space. What should I do.

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Things have been going perfect til about 3 months ago. The intimacy stopped. I chucked it up to her getting sick and the move I was going through. We talked about it long and hard and we decided to get an apartment together. ... (179 words

If you love someone as much as she says she does me, should she be knowingly hurting me?

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I had been dating a girl for about 2 years. A few weeks ago, she told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore because she wanted to go out and learn about her self, not date anyone exclusively right now, and "enjoy the single life". However, she says that she still loves ... (261 words

At what age do you figure you will want to be married at and why?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey Guys: Just for curiosity's sake, at what age do you figure you will want to be married at and why? And for those of you married already, at what age did you tie the not? What made you want to get married and was it more about the person or about the timing? ... (54 words

Please help, tell me if I am wrong?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - HI ladies please hear me out advise me?!!! i have 2 sons. before my first son was born i had to leave to my country to fix some papers my (boyfriend back then stood here) i was alone over there and didnt know i was pregnat then i found out in my country, my dad was mad ever... (506 words

Does it bother guys if you havent been kissed yet?

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - im just wondering but do guys get repulsed when girls havent been kissed before??... (14 words

How do you get over the residual feelings when you know the relationship is done?

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8 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - So I am 2/3 the way through a divorce from my wife of 15 years (partner for 20). We had a long talk last night about many things, but mostly about meeting other people. We are both convinced the divorce is the right thing, but I think we both still have feelings for each ... (227 words

Will we ever be able to move forward with our relationship?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok well just over a year a go i met my boyfriend in a club. I saw him and could not help but smile at him. We had spoken briefly years before on facebook and I recognised him. Immediately I had a feeling that something would happen between us and I wanted to start dating him. ... (1639 words

Wife wants attention of strangers

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8 July 2010 (M age - We've been married about 25 years and have had our problems like any couple usually does. I adore my wife and have eyes only for her. My wife is still very good-looking, very shapely, but lately, she says, has had doubts about herself and when, out of frustration, I confronted ... (135 words

Married but fantasising about sex with a woman.....

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - im happily married but there one thing on my mind when im alone i watch lesbian porn it really turns me on and i masterbate when i watch it i dont watch it that often but does this mean im a lesbian? i have always wonder what it be like to have sex with a woman but i just need ... (63 words

Scared of flying!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, can someone please advise. I'm going on holiday soon and hate when the plane takes off. I get so scared and have to hold someones hand- stupid o know! I can't read or distract myself either. Any advice?? ... (56 words

Do I still have a hymen?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I had sex for the first time, and I bled a little bit, but we were interrupted and didnt finish, so is my hymen still intact a bit? because it was still hurting then and it hurt next time to have sex too. so have i broken my hymen or might it still be partially there if i can ... (69 words

She broke up with me saying she's going back to her ex for everyone else, not herself

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - im 31 and met a girl of 23, she was with someone who she has 2 kids with, i never felt happy about seing her but she was very insistent as i felt guilty for what we was doing, it was a case for the first 2-3 weeks that we would meet every other night and go out of town, there ... (459 words

Headache during pregnancy

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 25 year old. I am pregnant by 4 months. I am having headache since last night. i thought it is because of pregnancy. but today morning it started paining more. is it because of pregnancy. if not, then shall i take any medicine... (45 words

He refuses to take my calls, is angry and uspet, but won't give my stuff back! Why?

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been in a relationship for around six weeks with a lovely guy. Alot has happened during that time- and I have met his parents and been on holiday with him.he came on very strong, and his mother told me that he is in love with me. Anyway to cut a long story sho... (250 words

B/f said he "kind of cheated"

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Im a bit confused...basically i have been with my bf for 3 and a half years-in this time we have had an open honest relationship. he was my best friend for years when we were at school and since returning from uni we have been together for 3 and a half years. ... (442 words

I want to leave my girlfriend but have such strong feelings for her?!!!

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2.5 years now. We moved in together after only 6 months as my Dad was moving away and she had no place at her parents after she moved away with her ex. My issues started early on as she had been mis-treated, both physically and ment... (230 words

is it worth this to make my self-sacrifice and marry him even I know I won’t have life what I dreamed of?

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have Muslim bf... almost 3 years we are together, but it can`t be said "together" because we live in different countries, I live in country in the Balkans and he is from Turkey. Our love story began on internet, I even cant describe how it began, just in him I saw something ... (890 words

Sex is leaving me in a lot of pain ..

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey, im 16 and iv been withmy boyfriend for about 6 months. we do have sexual intercorse and started about 5 months ago. when we first started having sex i was fine i could do it with him all the time, but then i stopped taking the pill because i leterally forgot to take i... (276 words

My boyfriend can't get over my past

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for 8 months now, it does seem like it's not a long time but it's been the best 8 months of life span. I have been with another guy for 3 years and experienced and learned alot. But i've never felt this way before and never cared or loved ... (369 words

Not really looking for a relationship but confused if I should follow up with this girl I met on Saturday..

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8 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I met a girl on Saturday and I thought we had a good conversation abit maybe a little drunk. I phoned up after we left the nightclub and spoke for about an hour. I thought I had spoken to her before that night (on a previous night). She seemed very receptive and seem positive ... (123 words

Should I have been stronger and left my cheating husband?

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8 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - i have been with my husband for 8 yrs... we were high school sweet hearts, i was only 14 when we got together. he said all the right things and did all the right things, so we've been together ever since. now the yrs have passed and our 5th yr anniversary is coming up, and im ... (475 words

Questions about the honeymoon period, and what are other couples sleeping arrangements?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a couple of quick and easy questions: How long has the 'honeymoon period' typically lasted in your relationships? How do you normally sleep with your partners? Most of my relationships I'd go home to sleep but my current partner likes sharing a bed. I've got to... (116 words

I couldn't help probe about her sexual past, but I wish she wouldn't have been so honest!!!

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8 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok here's my problem. My gf and I have been dating for a little over a year now, at the begining of the relationship I asked the inevitable question " how many men have you slept with"?. She asked me to answer the question first, I told her 80 women as any man would exaggerate ... (306 words

Boyfriend doesn't have a car and I have to drive him everywhere

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay my situation is this I've been dating this guy Rigo for about a month.Well he lives like 15 minutes away from me.I have a car and he doesn't.So yea when we want to see eachother I have to drive to him.We went on dates and I had to pick him up and drop him off.I know that ... (198 words

We have no experience, should we "explore" before our wedding?

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8 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I got engaged to my high school sweetheart about a month ago, (we started dating our junior year of high school). I've always believed in waiting until I was married before having sex and even though he doesn't have the same belief, he's respected my decision. ... (219 words

50 year old virgin

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8 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi i just turned 49 this year and was with some friends when i realized that i was the only one without a family. In fact i have never had any real relationship before... the closest i got was in 98' when a work partner(also a good friend) moved away and bought a computer to ... (282 words

Should I even try to make this relationship work?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I met my ex through my best friend because her bf is really good friends with him. We had a connection right away but I put off hanging out with him for awhile because I was unsure about getting into another relationship. But no matter how mean I was and how much I ... (240 words

My mom thinks I'm too young to have a boyfriend!

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, My mom is being so protective over me ! I have a boyfriend, we're both fourteen and madly in love with each other. I thought telling her the truth that i have a boyfriend would be so much better but it turned out worse ! Whenever i go out, she would always... (255 words

In love with someone who seems to feel the same, but the future looks bleak for us...

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - to start with m a 22 year old girl....i was in a relationship of 4 long years which unfortunately ended 6 months ago....i was very depressed nd ol at dat time as every girl is...den i met a guy in college...really sweet, caring nd goodlooking too :-) he supported me really ... (223 words

I need her back in my life, but she thinks I hate her!

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am 14 almost 15 and i always knew that i was different i knew i also loved girls.. after being threatned for being gay i came out to my friends finding out that the girl i loved felt the same about me and that two more friends were also bi. but me and her kissed a few time... (288 words

I'm scared to have sex with him

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am 14 and he is 16. i fell in love with him from the first time i talked to him .. he was going out with my best friend and she slept with another guy and they broke up. he almost killed himself so many times. having to go to the hospital for drugs and cuts. i talked him out ... (277 words

My boyfriend tells me he doesn't believe in marriage!

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we have a wonderful relationship. In the beginning I wasn’t too sure about him but now I'm very sure that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I know that he feels very strongly about me, and he’s said th... (306 words

Should I force an issue just to be near him for a week?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I’m a doctor and I need to locum to make extra money at present. Is it too forceful to arrange a locum shift for an entire week at my boyfriend’s hospital (and by default move in for the week) just to be near to him? I could locum anywhere in the country. We’ve been tog... (142 words

Since his desk is right next to two of my supervisors, how should I ask this guy out?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - There's a cute, in my "league" work-study student who's been flirting with me since I came back to school this summer and found that he was a new addition to our department. So, I'd like to ask him out to the movies this weekend during work tomorrow. I don't really see him ... (547 words

If he is not interested in me why does he try to make me emotionally weak?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I know my ex has a new gf.He confessed to me when I told him that I know your present relation.At first he tried to make me emotionally weak.I dont know why.He begged to me to receive his phone.I received the phone and talked to him very politely and calmly.After that I started ... (305 words

Is it normal to hide your feelings when you have a crush?

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8 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Please tell me if this is normal or not, but I hate it when I start to crush on a girl because I feel weak, mainly because I don`t have the confedence to tell her I like her or anything like that. When I crush on a girl, I just feel like a coward and a weakling because I know ... (127 words

Nervous about seing an old friend that I have feelings for again

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8 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok.. so I started camp a week ago and made friends with this girl I like. She left the first week, and might be coming back the third week, which is next week, and my gut keeps telling me things will be awkward and I don`t know what to do. Should I tell her I like her? One of ... (145 words

He won't 'do oral' on me

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We've had sex several times, but it's always just me giving him oral and a handjob, and then intercourse. The only part of my body he will touch is my boobs. I've never actually asked him about oral, I mean I'm really shy ... (163 words

Boyfriend is on/off with me and I'm going insane!

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I really do not know what to think. I am British he is American(military) and we met in Korea on internet site. We started going out and we broke up as he was evasive and luying and putting his profile back. He is 40 and I am 41., he was married with a daughter. Now. sex i... (250 words

Boyfriend is hanging around bad influences and now I'm paranoid he's cheating...!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. i have never worried about him cheating on me i have never really worried about much when he's out. Now he has started to hang out with an old friend of mine(and i know his dirty habits) and don't trust the people he's with at all. ... (125 words

Is this going anywhere, or did we hit a pothole?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a long distance guy friend, and im in love with him -we've been talking every day and night for a year and half now, but he won't ask me out, and for whatever reason i can't figure it out, but here is the catch, we had sex, just twice, and i've told him my feelings... (191 words

Is it reasonable to split the travel costs of a long distance relationship?

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8 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I am just about to start a long distance relationship w/ my boyfriend of a year and a half. I am moving out of the area (about a 2.5 to 3 hour drive away) for two years. I plan on coming back to the area after that. I have been pretty visibly upset about leaving. ... (241 words

Too old for me??

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, so I just need some opinions on this. I am really interested in this guy, and he is interested in me. He is 26 and I am 17. Is this too much of an age difference?... (37 words

Urgent-Brokendown

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ive been with a guy for 1yr and 9months, been through so much unbearable crap and we finally got tru it. i broke up with him due to some misunderstands and it was just killing me and i tried to patch things up but he wouldn't have it. he started dating someone else and is now ... (192 words

I lied to my friends!

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i lied to some of my friends and told them i lost my virginity... idk what to do... i trust my friends but i feel like they think im a hoe.. i dont wanna tell them i lied to them, but i dont know what to do..... (47 words

Is my vagina normal?

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8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok i have a question, um idk if my vagina looks alright. is it normal for your vagina to hang stuff out, its like hangs or something. something in it just hangs, idk if its supposed to be in or out..i need advice help... (44 words

Why do I still care what my ex-friend says about me?

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8 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - An old friend of mine, "Sally" and I had a falling out- our friendship became one-sided and toxic. I was tired of her put-downs and tried to talk it over with her, but nothing helped. She had lunch with a mutual friend "Amy" recently. "Amy" told me that "Sally" was bash... (214 words

Nightmares of war keeping us up all night.

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of 2 yrs is in the army and has really bad nightmares about what he saw when he was fighting in timo, they're so bad he starts shaking in his sleep and yelling. I don't know what to do when they happen or what to say when he wakes up. Its been a yr since he was in ... (110 words

My boyfriend of over 1 year didn't get me a birthday present, how do I tell him this bothers me without sounding materialistic?

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of over 1 year didn't get me a birthday present. It's not the value of the gift or the actual gift that bothers me, it's the fact that he didn't give me anything at all, not even a card. We went out to a casual dinner and he paid, but that's something we do all ... (145 words

feel my husband is highly critical of me and often takes a parental tone.

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Help! I feel my husband is highly critical of me and often takes a parental tone. What can I say to him that will not make things worse but get him to stop? This isn't a huge part of my marriage, but it upsets me when it happens. When he sees something that he doesn'... (312 words

He loves his religion more than his son and me!

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband told me that he loves his religion more than my son and I .. what should I do he's a good father and a good husband and we loves him so much????????????... (34 words

Relationship that never goes smooth...

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8 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been off and on for 3 years. The last time we got back together, I called him and begged for him to take me back though ive been immature, selfish and hurtful in the past. We've been back together for 2 months now and it seems like hes refusing to ... (311 words

Help!!! I know I need to walk away but how do I find closure?

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8 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello there, Im in love with a man and I know he loves me too. Its not good and i wish I didnt love him. He was going through the process of getting a divorce when i met him over a year ago. He has massive issues about the fact he broke up the family unit but says he... (200 words

How do I grab his attention?

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8 July 2010 (F - Well i have been at this company for a few years.. i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well.. he is pretty popular in the office as well..does get attention and i am very quiet. i socialize here and there but mostly just shy. I ... (1164 words

Is there REALLY an age limit on love???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

8 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to be a Senior in HS and I`ll ... (194 words

Why do women always lie about there sexual past???

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8 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Today im here too really find out why women always under sell their sexual past. I found out two of my good friends and including me, That are wives have liad too us about there sexual past. Ive been married for 13 years and come too find out from my wife who ... (282 words

Boyfriend's family reunion?

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8 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend wants me to go to his family reunion this Friday... But I don't think I feel comfortable going. It's not that I don't want to meet his family or whatever. It's just every time we're around other people and it's not just us hanging out, his attention shifts to them ... (131 words

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