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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

God brought us together and the Devil ripped us apart! Any guidance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I was with my wife for the better part of 5 years and we had 2 daughters together but our relationship was always up and down. Typical battles of life and a relationship I suppose and at the time I was having difficulties keeping everything we had together, including our ... (818 words

Is my friend trying to set me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure whether to meet up with my friend and this guy she is friends with . She has been friends with him for a while, and she said he really wants to meet me, and she said he is a nice guy, and he is 32. I'm 26. I know my friend isnt interested in him as she has a ... (279 words

Do guys ever put women in "the friend zone"?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm concerned I've been putting in some male form of the friend zone but don't know. I have been friends with this guy for 2 years. We talk everyday on the phone, he has told me very personal things he doesn't tell anyone else, he has rearranged his work schedule around ... (874 words

How do I experience an enjoyable time without being treated like a strange, creepy person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age - I'm middle-aged. I am separating from my wife, at least for six months. The reason we are separating is that she has been unfaithful in several ways, and I want her to experience life without me. As for myself, I have been hurt by her behavior and believe that it might help her ... (141 words

Do birth control pills provide enough protection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been on birth control pills for over a year now and have been having sex with my boyfriend for the same amount of time. We used to always use condoms as a back-up with the birth control pills but for the past few months we haven't. Everytime we have sex, I look and I make ... (145 words

Need help understanding guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Having trouble understanding men. When I was a kid growing up. Guys would ask me out as a joke. It stayed with me for years. A couple of years ago I hung out with a guy for two long years which had a lot of ups and downs (mostly downs). At the end of it I was really starting ... (204 words

Will he come back to me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been talking for 8 months. He officially asked me to be his girlfriend around February and it was great then he broke up with me a month and a half later. 3 weeks went by i contacted him partially but soon gave up. one day after work he texted me wish ... (238 words

22 year old and 16 year old. What's legal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - "OP Own Title" So, I am sixteen (will be seventeenth December) and I am really good friends with a twenty-two year old guy. We have talked every single day, for hours, for the past six months and we've really started to like each other. The other night, I was upset and he ... (107 words

After intercourse I get what feels like urinary infection what is causing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Thanks in advance for any answers! Recently, after intercourse, I get what feels like cystitis or a urinary infection. Sometimes it's a day after sex and other times only a few hours. It stings and my bladder feels uncomfortably full yet I only urinate a few drops. Cystitus ... (106 words

I'm dying with her love so should I just wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - am tilly having a big problem that i dont even no what to do now and i guess i can get help from here,am a lasbo.i was goin out wit a gal called yaa,when we were goin out i didnt lov her but i was keepin her to find someone that i could be happy with till i meet a lady called ... (321 words

Why did my friend give her virginity to two strangers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am seriously worried about my friend.So here goes the story... me and my three best friends Well call them A,B and C. So A is older than me by 3 months and lost her virginity many years ago but that was before we were friends so we dont know much about that.. Age wise ... (352 words

How to stop my man from flirting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi peeps hope all is well... My question is! How do I get my man to stop flirting with other girls literally infront of me??!! I absolutely hate it, I dont have a clue what the hell to do!! We've only been going out just over a month.. He's the kind of guy that gets along ... (196 words

My friends are sexual at 14 and they keep telling me to do it to

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - ew. two of my close friends gave a blow job when they were thirteen, but all the guys gave them more attention, so instead of regretting it they have done it again, and they have turned really sexual at 14, i am also 14 but have not done any of that, we keep forgiving them, ... (129 words

Is he committed to the relationship or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. I just don't feel like he's committed to the relationship. I haven't met his parents, he has never given me a gift (he sent me a text message for my birthday), and he doesn't invite me to meet his friends. We've never even ... (276 words

Is it normal that I don't know anyone from his side of the family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I am in a relationship it almost a yr now.The problem is I don't know anyone from his side of the family and he says he want to marry me.Is that normal? ... (37 words

Do you think his behavior is unfair to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello Guys, Idk where to start. Ive been having relationship for 11months.. and the begining of this relationship everything was perfect..5 months ago, my bf went to his country for his sick granddad and stayed there 2 weeks and this situation really affected him andwhen ... (186 words

He says I disgust him and he doesn't want to see me anymore. What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - i've been dating a guy for 4years now and fell hard for him, he to says he loves me. problem is i'm married. my boyfriend just broke up with me because we were at a concert with some friends and i stepped out to have a smoke and get a drink. He felt i left him for to long and ... (108 words

How far can Christians go sexually without violating our faith?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf 6 months. I am a Christian and am unsure how far sexually it is ok to go. He has fingered me and I've given him a handjob but have began to think this is wrong and so my question is, how far, as a Christian, is it ok to go?... (60 words

Does anyone know of any orgasm enhancing lubricants in the UK?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi there, its mine and my boyfriends 2 year soon, and ive decided i want to try an orgasm intensifying lube for myself. ive heard of durex play o, but am quiet sceptical because reviews have said its just a cold feeling that helps orgasm a little better. does anyone know if t... (82 words

My boyfriend cheated on me 4 times, and I kissed another boy. Can we still work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - [Moderator note: the age posted is probably incorrect. Aunts and uncles please respond to this as you would someone younger.] hi, me and this boy had a thing going on (we werent out)but this boy from italy came over for an exchange visit. he liked me i liked him nd he wanted... (163 words

Will losing my virginity to someone more experienced make it less painful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys! question, i'm a 16 year old virgin, really thinking about losing it now, ive waited for a while and i genually want to do it, if i lose it to a guy who's quite experienced in that area, will it feel good? People say all first times are uncomfortable but yeah, ... (63 words

My boyfriend keeps making excuses not to have sex with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't understand why but for a while now my boyfriend doesn't really want to have sex. When I met him we were like friends with benefits and he always wanted sex. But now he's always giving me excuses saying that he's too tired. I feel so bad cuz it's like hes rejecting me. ... (189 words

My boyfriend and I have decided to spice things up with a little competition

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together just over ten months and we have done most things (sexually) 'cept him on me (oral) and intercourse. (Just FYI, both 16) We're quite active sexually but we're not going to see each other for two weeks as we're both off on holidays and we'... (288 words

Found my faery tale but trying to live a dream

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung out only twice but when were ... (153 words

Why can he only get erect while performing oral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - This may not sound like a serious problem but it's beginning to be annoying...My boyfriend only seems to get erect once he has given me oral. This is the first guy I have ever allowed to do this. I am attractive, in shape and the sex is great. We usually fool around for a bit ... (158 words

Was it just a fold in his jeans or something else?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok this has been buggin me for a frickin long time!It was winter and at free period in school we had to go out on the football feild(Normal free time) and I was sitting on the blechers(Good old concret cbleachers from my school x.x). Well my best friend(ever since second ... (203 words

Hurt myself while masturbating. Will it get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, well this is embarrassing but i was on the phone with my bf one night. I was masterbateing and i was really turned on so i wanted more pleasure but i dint have a toy or any thing else i could use, So i used the handle of a screw driver but it hurt like heck so i stoped i ... (89 words

How long should I keep silent and miserable while he enjoys life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - my husband has made certain rules like dont discuss anything about family,friends,work etc.if i do so he pretendwahe cant hear.he is very funloving person to society in the house we hardly speak but sit and watch tv.i cant share my thoughts with him.i feel very lonely,he takes ... (165 words

We're engaged and pregnant so why would he say something like this?

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9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi, I am engaged and my fiancee and I live together, however I am currently three months pregnant, he say's to me just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you should have children, help me please my thoughts today are very dark and I am scared and don't know what to ... (54 words

Am I being selfish when it comes to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i love thia guy and i want him to be all mine. we have "talked" numerous times and each have blown eachother off once. now i really want to be with him, but he doesnt want to just blow off the girl hes talking to. the one time i urge to have a relationship with him is the one ... (111 words

Can social services prevent me from seeing my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - my children on child protecton, the socail severs know i have a boyfriend is there any reasons they can stop me seeing him after 3 years. he has no contact with the girls when he comes to see me ... (39 words

Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and I have both been very ... (227 words

How do I know for sure if staying in my marriage is the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - How can I get past this, or should I even keep trying? My husband of 21 years had to fly to Texas because my father in law was dying. I had to remain home because of extra expenses of me and the kids. My husband shared a hotel room with his brother, sister, and a woman who is ... (424 words

How can I show affection without seeming clingy or needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years. Things have been very good in our relationship up until recently. About two weeks ago we had a discussion. He said that he felt as if I didn't love him anymore and that he had felt that way for a few months... he had been acting ... (470 words

I can't ejaculate with my partner, she thinks it's her fault.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - hello there, i have trouble ejaculating with my partner and she is saying that it must be her that she is not turning me on, but she is, she gets very sore because i'm well hung and can't ejaculate can you please help me!... (44 words

Why do I keep going back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - [OP original title] so i think im falling out of love. the mysterious phone calls from 'his mate' at 2am the stayin out and not coming home the drugs the living at home with your mum at 31 the lack of respect for everyone the lack of consideration for anyone elses fe... (183 words

My children are both addicted to meth and crack and it's heartbreaking. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I need advice on how to handle pain ,with drug addict family members. Sadly ,I have two children ,who both got got into crack and meth addiction. The causes are not clear, as they had good childhood, and stable parents with 0 substance abuse problems. Now they are in their ... (221 words

My boobs haven't grown any more!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi. i started my pireod when i was 13 and a half and im now 15 and a half but ever since i started i've stayed the same boob size( a :( ) and 4 months after i started my boobs never hurt again. what is going on with them? thanks for any replys x... (60 words

I'm not sure whether I should break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am having a problem with my boyfriend. He seems unable to be comfortable with my sexual history. I am 22 yrs old. I decided long ago to abstain from sex until i was able to do it under my terms. I had boyfriends and dated guys but i often felt pressured to have sex with them, ... (256 words

Is my boyfriend taking me for a ride?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. He never discusses our future together and if i do mention it we always end up in an argument. He says i have nothing to worry about and he knows what he is doing.He hardly takes me out anymore he says he has no time and money ... (105 words

Is my boyfriend a bisexual or gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who lives in a gay village in montreal, He stays with a 60 year old guy (apparently gay). But according to my boyfriend that this guy has been a very good friend of him for years now, and that they're just friends like a family. This 60 yr old gay guy has ... (182 words

Texting a girl during work, why does my co-worker seem nosy about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright, well there's a girl I work with who I've been trying to get with for the longest time. She's older than me, but we always talk and flirt and whatnot. Yesterday I was working and I was texting on my cell phone to another girl that I am seeing right now. She walked by ... (152 words

Is this man I really liked a con, sex addict and fraudster?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - hi i just got back from turkey i fell in love with a beautiful man working on beach and in bars. he wrote me a note to meet him that night, i was shocked as i had not really spoke to him i went and he told me a story about someone conning him for money, a friend of his, i... (573 words

What should I do about this boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok so I have a problem. So theres this group of four really nice guys all best friends lets call them D,S,A and J. In primary school I went out with D but we broke up and now I thought we were just friends he says he likes me. Okay so S and J and told me they like me. But the ... (284 words

Am I making too much of a lunch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - My 3 year relationship ended 10 months ago with a woman I loved and still do. I had not heard one word from her since. I had heard 3 or 4 months after we split that she was engaged. I was stunned, but I never bothered her or tried to contact her. i figured she moved on and was ... (155 words

What am I doing wrong with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - So, I'm 15 and I've never got anywhere with a girl. I'm really, really shy and self conscious. My social life, well I haven't got one and I'm home tutored. I desperately want to find someone, not for the sex or anything but for having a best friend, someone I can just sit on ... (104 words

Stay with a controlling man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My man and i are complete opposites. he is possessive, controlling,jealous and has a short temper. im a free spirit and love my freedom and independence. but when we are not fighting everything is absolutly amazing. the sex is great and when he's away i want him even more. but ... (64 words

Is he cheating with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - one night i was with my boyfriend and his phone started vibrating so i took it and it was a message from a girl he use to talk to. i read the message and she was calling him bae. now this is not the first time she did this. the first time she told him she love him, so i asked ... (103 words

My life is out of control!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Let me start with a brief backround. (I was diagnosed with OCD when i was a teen right now i am 25 years old and still suffer with ocd. I am currently going in grad school ; live with my parents, and have a curfew. Also my boyfriend just ended our 5 year relationship) Ever... (395 words

How do you deal with the lonliness of a long distance relationship??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey Guys. I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now, I am completely crazy about my boyfriend and he does make me very happy. My problem is that in the time we've been together we have only met for 2 weeknds. This long distance thing is really hard for ... (90 words

Please help! So confused because I'm in love with my second cousin ..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - all these days i was totally keeping this with myself, say for ten long years... now i feel little relaxed that its not only me who feels this but there are so many ppl... i just wanna know, are these kinds of relationships just an attraction or can it be serious too... because ... (163 words

Ex keeps coming back into my life when I start to date, even though she broke it off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago but everytime I start seeing someone she walks back into my life and gets jealous of them. She has a new girlfriend and set me up with one of her friends but told her that she thought she was using their friendship to get close to ... (61 words

I feel I want and need closure but there is no closure needed. Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like to seek for your help but please don't pass judgments on me. I had an LDR illicit affair of 4 yrs with a man who was 30 yrs older than me. Because of my past issues in life (my Dad and family abandoned me when I got married against th... (964 words

Does this guy deserve better than me? Or do I deserve better than him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey all, I have something quite personal that I'd like to ask you about. At the beginning of the year, I found out the guy I've been involved with for seven years had an emotional affair last year. It wasn't your typical emotional affair. They'd always been friends, but whi... (709 words

Pregnant, but who is the father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I had a one night stand with a guy about 2-3 weeks ago (on the mon 21st june )which was a huge mistake, I then started seeing my ex again on the saturday and we slept together (on the 1st July) I am now pregnant and im worried about what to do.. i have taken a clear blue ... (73 words

I have found a really great guy but I still have feelings for my engaged friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung out only twice but when were ... (148 words

Am I meant to mention every guy I've had a thing with before I knew my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys just wondering if i could have some opinions! Myself and my new boyfriend, both 21 have been together for about 2 1/2 months. Last night he found out (in a conversation between us two where i couldnt lie) about a guy he knows who i had a fling with a good 5 or 6 mo... (324 words

Is my sex life normal at my age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age - I am over 60 and still have sexual intimacy on average once a week. Question; I prefer to 'finish off' outside her body is this normal and is once a week at my age normal? How much longer can i expect to be able to 'step up to the plate'?... (50 words

I don't want to be clingy but I would like to maintain contact with her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I met a girl in class through a class project and we have talked here and there during school. I'm not madly in love or anything, just interested. But she just graduated and is currently out of the country on vacation. The night before her graduation I ran into her at the ... (298 words

I don't think our sex life is healthy, but he says I have just got sex on the brain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been going out with my boyfriend just over a year and live with him at his parents. There is always a problem when it comes to sex. I have to wait months each time. I've tried alsorts to get his interest and nothing works. He told me last night that he won't do anythin... (126 words

I am only 24 and have 5 young children, should I abort the child I am currently pregnant with?

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9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am pregnant but i already have 5 young children and im only young. I thought about an abortion but dont think i can do it, what should i do my man isnt much help ... (37 words

Why am I feeling so bored with everything after the break-up of my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I have a very depressing problem! I recently got divorced which was my own doing. I didn't want to be with my x husband due to various reasons. Now its over. The problem starts from here. Now i lost interest in everything. I have started my pHd which seems really boring. ... (152 words

Awkward situation at work - how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a team leader at my place of work and am caught in between an awkard situation. There's this woman who joined the team last year from another office part of our work group as she was pregnant and needed to downsize her workload so she came to work with us. Now wh... (378 words

How do you have anal sex painlessly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend wants to penetrate me from the 'rear' can anyone offer advice on how to do it painlessly?... (19 words

My brothers friends seem to really like me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - well there are 2 boys that know my brother and are friends with him .one of them be coming here when he isnt home and i let him in to wait on him. my brother dont know he he really likes me. now the other one lives on the same block as me and he always looking at me finding ... (136 words

I don't understand what she wants!

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9 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - i'm in love with 15yrs old girl, but she don't say anything after proposing her, she only say i don't want to say anything about that matter. and previously we just looking at each other but after some day she inform to her brother about me. so what will i do now? i don't ... (62 words

Does anyone have any reccomendations between residence for uni or off campus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - This isn't a relationship question, but more an inquiry about personal experiences and advice. I have the choice of either living in a residence at my university (in a quad with 6 other people) or with a good friend of mine off campus. On campus would be much more convenient ... (94 words

What can I do to get her attention if I have tried everything posible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I like this girl a lot but I just found out that she likes somebody else but we text each other, so what can I do to get her attention if I have tried everything posible?... (36 words

Why didnt I bleed when I lost my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Is it normal if a girl loses her virginity and doesn't bleed and if she hasn't used tampons got fingered rode horses or played any sports of any kind?... (29 words

Is it possible to lose 10 lbs in 3 weeks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - This isnt a relationship question but im just curious. Is it possible to lose 10 pounds in 3 week..?... (20 words

How can we make her parents understand our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3208 days ago

9 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I've been dating my current girlfriend for almost 4 months. The relationship has gone very well so far despite the fact that its strictly long distance. We met online, and since then we've only talked by email and on the site we met. We have connected on many levels and i ... (228 words

How can I find out why this married man is ignoring me without seeming like a stalker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have had some emotional "issues" with a married man who has been my friend for 10 years, and because I felt i was falling for him hard I broke off our friendship (via e-mail). I told him I would not contact him anymore. The day after I e-mailed him that, another friend of ... (166 words

Is he really only mad at me because I stood up for my friend? I cant belive he is acting this way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Long story,here is the short version:dated a guy C for almost 4 years but we split 13 months ago(last yr in June).A couple of mths later I started dating my guyfriend who we should call J and we dated until Feb. of this year.All I can say is that the break up was one of the ... (703 words

Should I have sex with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - uhm , last year i lost my virginity around the age 12 going onto 13 and this year the guy i knew and i still trusted likes me and we started going out for almost 7 months and i think i want to try it out with him i am 13 going on to 14 and this guys 15 and already gone through ... (165 words

I love my boyfriend but HATE his lifestyle choices!!!

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9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about three years this time. We dated before from our senior year of high school into college for about three to four years then took about two to three years off due to cheating, lying, and needing to grow up. We worked through things, ... (213 words

My boyfriend wants nothing to do with our baby so what should I do?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met my boyfriend at a mutual workplace and chemistry immediately attracted us together. We have been a couple for one year now. From day 1, he told me that he had two children (twins) and wanted to make sure I still wanted to be in his life. I said yes, of course. We have o... (386 words

He refuses to stop smoking pot. How can I get him to stop?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend of 3 years refuses to stop smoking pot. we have argued and argued about it. when we got together he had only smoked it a few times and so had i so it was fine. then about a year ago he started smoking non stop. all day it seemed like, he has a good job but would ... (257 words

Did us cuddling soberly scare him off?

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9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a twenty one year old in college and I've been having a hard time reading a guy that I'm really into and I'm hoping someone will give me good advice on what I should do next. I'm confused on whether or not this guy has feelings for me or not and I realize this sounds ... (722 words

Descison about sexual experimentation!

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9 July 2010 (? age 22-25 - I have a big choice to make. I really do love girls but I only like to masturbate to gay porn. Now the opportunity for me to try and experiment with another guy has arisen, and I need to know if you guys think I should explore my sexuality and figure out who I am. Should I ... (145 words

What should I say to his Mom?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay so i dont really know how to ask this question so ill just explain! :)My boyfriend is working offshore right now and he likes to give me money from his check every week maybe like 300 just so i can have money, but i dont have his bank information so his mom brings me the ... (118 words

How can I tell if my cousin likes me too?

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9 July 2010 (M age 18-21 - I have a crush on my cousin who is 16. Which is 3 years older than me. She is really beautiful and good in personality. I want to get closer to her but she has a brother at ny age who is a total maniac. Not the kind which burns himself but he is a very disturbing person. ... (143 words

She probably likes me way more than a friend, right?

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9 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Every time I'm with my girl "best friend" she is very possessive, wants me to spend all of my attention on her and gets upset if I don't. Also she gets veeery jealous and upset if I so much as look at another girl she'll bring out "why don't you go make out with her" etc. ... (82 words

Does he want to be with me?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone i need advice i am so depressed i feel like i am all alone ive been single for 6months i broke up with my ex a few days ago we decided to get back together and i have so many feelings for him i love him but he only says that he cares for me he barely text or call ... (161 words

Any suggestions on a sex life gone south?

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9 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - hey guys and gals just a quick question. what do i do here? i have been with my gf for 3 years now almost. we have a 1 year old kid which is tough but life is great. it gets hectic at times but i expect that. but our sex life has gone south. when we do it we have the baby in ... (234 words

What should we do when friends won't like us going out?

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9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok so me and my best guy friend just admitted that we like eachother as more than friends. We tell eachother everything! We know just about everything about eachother. We love eachother but we are scared to start goin out. First off he's my bff's ex boyfriend and no... (131 words

Could a prior abortion affect my fertility?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - When i was 15 i had an abortion, at the time i thought i was doing the right thing and now 4 years later i think about the baby i could of had everyday! i regret what i have done but i can't change the past. I have been with my bf for 5 years now and are trying for a baby, ... (134 words

Will he say I misused his brother in law? I consider it harmless!

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9 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am very open with my youngest BIL who is 22. started with he shown sexual interest up on me. when i spoke with my husband he told its just normal at his age and i shud not be very harsh to BIL. a day i noticed that he tried to touch on my boobs i told him that i understand ... (224 words

Is he crushing on me?

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9 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I think my best friend is crushing on me! We have been friends for awhile and I have had a crush on him as well.. Well, lately when we are hanging out with each other, I start getting this more- than- friends vibe from him and here are some signs that make me wonde... (471 words

I'm scared. Should I tell someone what happened?

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9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - so i was at my friends house the other night. it was around 1:30 am or sometihng close to that time when i fell asleep on her couch. her brother and her cousin where in her brothers room when i passed out. i woke up at around 2:30 to the feeling of someone touching me. it was ... (185 words

Is this how most guys work after a first date?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, hope you can help me out! A guy I'd been talking to for a few weeks via Facebook asked me on a date which took place last week. We got on really well! I've never experienced a date like it in my life, I felt so relaxed and comfortable in his presence and we talked about ... (363 words

How do I ignore her tattoo?

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9 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok, well i have a really strong dislike about tatoos. And my girlfriend agrees with me that they are disrespectful. Well she asked me if it's alright if she gets a tatoo, im am in no way a controlling person. I told her it's fine ill just ignore it. Well it's getting harder and ... (69 words

Am I just being blind to his sister's boyfriend's controlling ways?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Last night me and my boyfriend were discussing his little sisters relationship She's 19 and has been with this guy who's 23 for 5 yrs I asked my boyfriend what he thought of their relationship and he said that her boyfriend is a control freak and that he hates them bei... (108 words

What are we supposed to do in the Missionary position?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello! Just a quick question. How does a woman perform during sex? I know there are various sex positions where the woman is in control for example, when she is on top. However, I am referring to the traditional position of 'Missionary' - I know i'm wrong but i've always st... (116 words

I feel like no matter what I do I will feel regret, because if I don`t tell her I`ll regret not telling her, but if I do tell her I might regret ruining our friendship if she doesn`t like me back.

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9 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok so I met this girl and we became friends really fast but I have feelings for her. We met a week ago at camp, but she also left that week, and if she comes back to camp I want to tell her how I feel about her becasue I don`t want to regret it latter. I`m turning 16 and she`s ... (198 words

My husband is interested in shemales, what can I do?

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9 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have so much love for each other almost 9 yrs. We are a very loving couple in other people's eyes. However, I found out he is interested in shemale two months ago. Not only spending thousands of money to chat with them and even writing to each other in personal ... (427 words

Are the parents being irrational?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So, this past year, we had Austrians come and visit our school. It's tradition to spend the whole week with them and just have fun. There was one in particular, who stood out for me.. and I wanted to get to know him. I didn't know where it would go, but I wanted to see what he ... (508 words

Is he ashamed of me and doesn't want to have any pictures of us together?

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9 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm with my boyfriend of 3 months, D*****. I look at my friends pictures online and they have a bunch of silly pictures of them and their boyfriends together, making silly faces, kissing, etc. D***** knows that I want pictures of him and I doing that, but he say... (157 words

I really like the comfort of having him around but I just can't handle sleeping next him.

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9 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I've been in my current relationship for about 10 months. We're up to that stage where we're just getting really comfortable with each other and each other's places. The problem is I can't sleep in the same bed with him. When I was growing up, there was a lot ... (276 words

I have written her poem after poem but she still ignores me!

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9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hiya i am madly in love with someone and it kills me to see them with someone else, i wanna be with them but i cant coz i am a girl, and so r they. But i have told them how i feel and from there on in they hate me :'( i have tried talking but she doesnt listen, and i have ... (94 words

Should I be mad at my boyfriend?

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9 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - today my boyfriend ask me to spend time with him today, but i couldnt because i had other plans. so when i told him i couldnt, he says ok, i just wanted to know would you like to spend time with me and this girl...i dont even know her and he didnt even tell me her name, so i ... (69 words

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