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Want to be myself, but how do I figure out who I am??

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4 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - "Be who you are! is what they say. But the uestion is: "Who am I"... (17 words

I am shy, would like some advice on dating and being spontaneous??

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4 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - ok, so i have never dated a girl before and I`m just scared that I might not be spontanius (sorry for spelling), romantic, or brave enough in a relationship with a girl. I`m the kind of guy that doesn`t have a problem playing games and surfing the web all day. I`m also shy and ... (111 words

How do I leave a controlling cop?

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4 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Help, I am living with a controlling man, who is also a policeman. I own my own house and have told him to leave but he refuses to. He had a messed up upbringing, doesnt speak to his family, has issues beyond belief and is manipulative. The 18 months we have been tog... (209 words

Is there meaning behind her words, in this on-line relationship??

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4 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have an online relationship with a women, We have known each other for 2 years however she had a boyfriend for alot of that time and she split with him a few months ago and now we are together but arnt ready to meet just yet because obviously we have only been in a ... (233 words

Is this just a game with her or is there a possibility of a relationship??

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello,everybody... it's been ages since i have written here.i have been kinda busy and i couldnt find that time. well....i've just moved recently from England to Italy.i was just thinkin that the italian lifestyle will be different.i have managed to get a ... (310 words

Problems with my manager, any suggestions??

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - recently at work ive been having issues with a manager.. everytime i go into work she tends to boss me around and hurrying me up to do everything fast... im tired of it... she only picks on me.. i found out from another employee. that she told my main boss that im to lazy to ... (123 words

She doesn't want to be serious, is there more to this, maybe her ex boyfriend??

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4 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok, so this is a long story not sure where to start. I'm in a relationship with this girl I met back in High School. I was in the service for a couple of years until they had told me I was no longer fit for my job. When she and I discussed how we actually liked each other, I ... (695 words

Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried semen again he said he hasnt ... (76 words

His want for sex is exhausting me!!!

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I just moved in with my boyfriend several weeks ago. I had been holding off having sex for a long time and we finally started having it a little while before I moved in. Now that we're living together, he wants to have sex all of the time. It's gotten to the point where I just ... (104 words

Her fooling around... Do I have the right to be angry?

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I just found out that my girl fooled around with this guy from work. We had known each other at the time but it was before we started dating. It just repulses me to know about it. He is a truly disgusting guy. She got checked for STDs because of him and came out clean, but the ... (103 words

Help!!! How can I control my panic attacks?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need help. I suffer from panic attacks, and i don't know how to control them. I worry a lot about death, i have a big fear of it. I get really scared when i think about what happens to your body when you die, and i feel like i can't breathe. I also get really scared thinking ... (313 words

My boyfriend has low self esteem.

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now. In the beginning of our relationship he was very sweet, loving, and very dependable. For the past few months he's been having self-esteem problems. They gradually get worse and worse and on some days it'll seem like ... (201 words

My flirtation with a 49 year old man!

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - How much does age have to do in a relationship because lately I have started a flirtation with a 49 year old. He is a very young 49, he dresses young, and he is my mums friends son. We have known each other for three years and really I have only just realised how attractive h... (413 words

Now the family has come along our sex life is almost non existent!

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4 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyone. This is my first question as it is really the first time in a long time that I've had a problem like this. I've been with my wife for 5 years and the sex has been increadible for both of us since day one. Now my wife is usually very horny by nature and has never ... (239 words

Partner getting divorced and I'm not sure how to help him through it.

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Approximately 10 weeks ago I starting seeing someone, he asked me out - we clicked immediately and both felt we had something special. Everything was pretty great up until 3 weeks ago. His wife had left him early this year and he had only been apart from her for 3 months bef... (296 words

Gay, but I cannot be.

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am a 26 male profisionnal successfu engineer and i still virgin because i think i am Gay and I actully have this feeling when I was 10 or 11, I only attracted sexually to men and I feel making sex with women is uncomfortable and i havent try it yet. the pro... (307 words

I just need a little hope... me and my amnesia.

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am already an agony aunt on here and i know this isnt a relationship question but i guess all i'm looking for is someone who understands. I have a rare form of amnesia which means i can only remember the last 6 weeks of my whole life, i'm dealing with it quite well but its ... (249 words

Recent feelings for my best friend, could she feel the same way?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - [OP's Original Title] So for a while now I've been questioning my sexuality. I always sort of assumed I was straight, and I've had two boyfriends, but lately I've been attracted to my best friend. We've been friends for a year now but we are very close emotionally and phys... (281 words

Its illegal for me to be in love with my boyfriend

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear cupid, me and my boyfriend just got together on the 19th of june.his way older than me we are 4-5 years apart . It is illegal is my state .because i am under age but he promised me we wouldnt do anything until i finish school.highschool.but the other thing is my ... (124 words

How do I turn his "I love you but am not in love with you" into love???

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4 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend says he loves me but he's not "in love with me." We've been together for four years. He knows that I AM in love with him but i can't tell him how i really feel. what should i do? and don't say "leave him" 'cause i won't. Please, what i'm asking is how can i ... (156 words

In love with a woman 30 years older than me

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4 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - So I became friends with an older women and I'm 19 and she is 49 and after being friends for a little over a year she asked me if I would ever consider w having a more romantic relationship. I said ok. Well we began to fall for each other earlier on. But I realize its a 30 year ... (150 words

When there is a history of lying, how can you rebuild trust?

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Please excuse the length, but I really need some advice. I've been dating the same woman for over 5 years and recently we've had some serious troubles. To make a long story short, I recently moved away for graduate school (just 2 hours away) and she's remained in the ... (689 words

I just can't get over my ex!

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I can't get over someone i was seeing, i've tried SO hard but i just can't its so hard. We were seeing eachother for about a year and a half the only reason we werent in a relationship is because i wasnt ready. i knew he would end up meaning something to me from the first ... (395 words

I can't take this sexless marriage any longer!

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4 July 2010 (F age - I am 53 I have been married for 28 years to a man I love. It's basically a sexless marriage. There isn't anybody else just a very busy work schedule. I have gotten to the point where I just can't take it any more. We talk about it. I've suggested counseling and everything ... (68 words

LDR & he's busy writing to other girls but says he can't lose me!

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay guys i really need help with this one. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months now, we are a LDR (long distance relationship) and as you can imagine, it is very very hard. Since i have been with him, we've had amazing times together etc, but i always felt he w... (392 words

How do I find a girlfriend?

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - How to find a girlfriend? I'm living with my parents right now. I graduated back in 2008. I never have had luck with girls. One girl went on a pity date with me to prom, and she pretty much ruined my night.....saying that things will be different; she didn't want to start ... (233 words

Was my ex using me for sex, or did he care about me? what does he feels for me now?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - its been 2 months my boyfriend dumped me. he came back a month ago. we hung out as friends and i could say we did a little more than just friends. but i remember that night he asked me will i ever date him again. i responded i dont know. he asked why but deep inside i knew he ... (408 words

I don't know what my Turkish lover wants......Is he genuine???

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a 22 (nearly 23) yr old British female and I am very confused right now.... I have been meeting up with a Turkish 20 yr old male who lives in the same town as me for nearly 2 weeks. I know he does not require money as his family are in the food/takeaway trade and they make ... (329 words

My abusive boyfriend won't leave, and I can't pay the bills on my own. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay, I really need help. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, about 3 years ago he cheated on me and I decided to stay in the relationship. Well, since he cheated I just lost so much respect for him and he has lost a whole lot of respect for me. He used to be so nice ... (501 words

Can we still be friends after we've broken up?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So, me and my boyfriend of a year and 3 months broke up today. Well, I told him we should just be friends which I want to do, I just don't want to be in a relationship right now because I feel too young for that, I'm only 16. Anyways, he got mad saying "I knew you'd say this, ... (108 words

Am I being unreasonable, or should I re-think this relationship?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Am I being ridiculous or do I really have a reason to re-think my relationship with my boyfriend? He is only 2 years older than me. But I have begun to find him a bit of a bore. I know it sounds terrible, but he is always asking where I am, what I am doing, which would be n... (355 words

Could her friends be wrong? Am I right for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

4 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - I recently dated a woman who is also dating another man. Mutual friends of her and the other man set them up. I asked her to explain her current situation because i was unsure why after 3 months she would be dating someone in addition to him. She said she wasn't sure he was the ... (99 words

I got pregnant and he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've dated a 29 year old guy for 4 years. He has two children. Girl 11 and boy 6. Married for ten years. Said he got married because she was pregnant. Both cheated on each other. She is now remarried. He has children 50% of the time. I'm 30. We had our problems. Above all we l... (512 words

My husband wants to end our marriage because I don't want to join his religion, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone I am a 22yrs married woman and also have a 5yr old son!!!!my problem is my hussy is muslim and i started liking the islam way.... than after sometime i wanna to become muslim, but then I changed my mind! but my hussy said he will end the marriage becoz I don't want ... (192 words

How can I tell my dad and brother about my online relationship? Theyre so overprotective!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy online im 15 and he's 17..we met in a chat room and he is simply amazing..very respectful, cares about me, romantic, loving, funny, attractive, and is always putting me first..he told me he loves me and multiple times @ first I told him he was crazy because he ... (370 words

Can detox medication work as birth control?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi i have a question, the past 3 days i have been taking detox medication to detox my body and last night i had unprotected sex but he didnt cum inside of me, i work up and took my regular detox medication, will the detox medication prevent me from getting preg.?... (51 words

Why is my father cheating on my mother?

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm devastated at my father. I'm 26 yrs old and stay with my parents. My parents r both physicians and married almost 28 yrs. My father has been known to cheat with countless women but stiLl takes care Of home. I don't know why my mother stays in the marriage but she seems to ... (245 words

Why am I the odd one out when it comes to bra size?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - im 14 and i havnt evan grown in to an A ???!!?!?! Why?!?!!? Everyone in my year has but me ? People younger than me have bigger than me. ... (35 words

Long distance relationships: a recipe for disaster?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I read quite a lot of situations concerning long distance relationships. Some people give up their social lives for that signficant other who happens to live miles away, maybe even in another country. Their means of contact is usually internet or phones. Can relationships li... (146 words

Should I hang in there or walk away before I get hurt?

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4 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I got together with my guy about two months ago after a very long friendship. At the beginning all seemed really great - he confessed that he had had feelings for me for sometime and he seemed really keen to progress the relationship. He lives over 350 miles away so we only see ... (349 words

My husband has gone crazy over the idea of swinging

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - so my husband and i were talking about fantasies the other day. he said one of his was to try group sex with another couple. no swapping spouses or anything, just being in the same room or possibly me and another girl. i am trying to open up to new ideas and think the idea is ... (140 words

I'm shy so how should I respond to him?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, this is really embarrassing but i really like this guy. And we are great mates, but everytime he trys to hug me, i get shy and step away. And yesterday he told me he likes me and i told i liked him to. So then he try to kiss me but i never really kissed anyone. so i just ... (79 words

Help! I don't want to be a pscyho gf!

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I have been daatingmy boyfriend how's in the military for almost two years. About a year ago I found some stuff that I thought to be unfaithful. (in my book) 1. He was texting another female friend (that he had already revealed to me that he still has a crush on)... (583 words

Opinions on drug use?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultures writing on this site. I'm from... (197 words

How did he let go so easily?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - *OP's Original Title* How did this happen? My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months. We'd known each other and been really in love for almost 2 years. I gave him absolutely all of me. We really were great together and always had fun and showed each other how much w... (782 words

Help! Sex with my bf is a chore!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend any more and it's really getting me down. When I'm alone and I think about sex it turns me on, I even have erotic dreams but when I put him in the situations its like all feelings of passion and want fade. Its horrible. Sex is ... (64 words

How do I prevent arguments before they start?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of a year and four months are going on holiday for a week very soon however as of late small things he does seem to be annoying me more than usual. Also we have very contrasting ideas about what makes a 'good' holiday as we come from slightly different ... (278 words

I want to donate a kidney so my mother can have another couple of years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi..ok i know this isnt about relationships but im desperate. my mum is currently on the waiting list for a kidney, both of hers are failing and we are running out of time, we've been told she won't get one in time so we need to consider being donors for her. no one in my ... (391 words

Will sex still hurt and will I continue to bleed??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3206 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - *OP's Original Title* OK so i had sex for the first time when i was 18 with my bf at the time. Well we were actually more on the drunk side and I do regret doing it. Anyways we did it for around 4/5 hours, we had lots of foreplay, lots of different positions and it ok. It ... (274 words

My wife is acting crazy! What should I do?

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4 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi folks, I am in a serious situation. I married a girl who was my girl friend for 2 years. And we used to love each other dearly. In between due to family problems we needed to spend 6 months apart. Then last year we got married. All of a sudden after marriage she sta... (654 words

Ladies, was this my first real orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a 30 yr old female and last night, I think I experienced my first orgasim..... I don't know for sure, but after me and my man finished up, I couldn't stop shaking and I have never felt like this a day in my life in 30 yrs!!! wowowowowowoowwow!! I mean my legs were shaking ... (110 words

He disses me in front of my girlfriend!

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old guy and I have a problem with one of my guy friends. When he and I hang out, he is is regular self, and we get along fine. But whenever my girlfriend is around, he acts like a show-off and is really rude and mean to me. He always "jokes around" but when... (154 words

Was he really sleeping or not telling me the truth in his text?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone Iposted a question a few days ago about i gave the guy i was kinda seeing a love bite and he didnt like it saying were not doing anything sexual again (Thanks for the replys ive had) Anyway since then i made the desion 2 say to say after i txt him asking if h... (246 words

Good internet sites to meet people in the UK?

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4 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - hello. could anyone tell me the best internet sites to meet friends and posible relationships in the u.k. without haveing to spend loads of money or give my bank details away.... (31 words

He hasn't apologised this time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - When my boyfriend gets upset or angry over something, he sometimes takes it out on me. This is something he's always been aware of and normally he makes an effort not to do it and apologises if he does. But this time he hasn't. At the very beginning of our relationship, he... (542 words

My first serious relationship and she's already broken my trust

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4 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello guys, I'm new on here, first time I've used anything like this. Now to get to the point.. I've been with my girlfriend now for 5 and a half months. It's been going amazing. I've never felt so close to someone before and she tells me she feels the same way. (I know ... (513 words

I've tried everything but nobody seems to want me...

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been single for 10 months, after the person I was in love with finished it. It has taken me quite a long time to get over them, but along the way I have been doing what I can do find someone new. I'm loosing hope ..... I've tried dating sites, going out with fri... (223 words

Is there anything wrong in being a virgin at 24?

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Is there anything wrong in being a virgin at 24? In high school, I made out with a girl a bunch of times, but nothing happened. In college, I wanted to be with a girl. We made out quite a few times, but nothing happened. I chased after girls that didn't like me, and there ... (176 words

Should I go on holidays with a pedo uncle?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I wrote on here before about my uncle. This is the link to it. This tells you everything from the beginning. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/inappropriate-touching-from-an-uncle.html Well it hurts me so much that my pearents are on his side more. I'm going on holid... (106 words

Should I just wait for his call before I jump to the conclusion that he never wants t see me again?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Last Tuesday this guy who graduated with me at my school decides that he likes me. So Wednesday we went on a first date and we held hands and talked. He tried to kiss me but didn’t. Leaned in to kiss but was unsure. It was nice and I could tell he was into me a lot. But we only ... (266 words

Why would he want a special friendship?

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have met this guy and I really liked him (because there's no reason not to like him) but from the very start, he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship right now and that he is being friends with me and nothing more. But most of the time, he confesses he likes me, ... (218 words

Do families play favorites?

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4 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - Do families play favorites? Cause I really think there's something wrong with mine.... (13 words

Should I trust my husband after he cheated on me?

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My husband had been cheating on me with another girl from his university. Initially they were just normal friends but then the thing turned into a full blown affair. Over the past year I confronted him several time and each time it would turn into a fight with him saying that ... (340 words

Are all men like this?!

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4 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - Me and my bf are almost every time fighting over the same darn thing. SEX. If we didn't have sex in a while like for example in a week he starts telling me that this isn't normal, that we should have it more often, that no man can control it and cant go without sex for a long ... (174 words

Opinions on what you consider to be acceptable behaviour from a couple living together

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4 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - (OP's own title) OK I have been living with my gf for 8 months now. The relationship is sometimes rocky but quite serious. Only one thing is really ticking me off!! When I come home from work, there's no sign of my gf. She's off with friends or whatever. I'm OK with th... (187 words

I want to keep my baby, but my partner thinks it could split us up for good. Please help

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, i am in a real dilema....me and my partner of 3 years on a break as we have got into alot of debt and it is getting us down...plus i have lied to him about alot of things that have got us into debt so he is hurting and needs a break..we have a 14 month old little boy ... (217 words

Feeling uncomfortable in my workplace

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have decided to make a new start in my life... stay away from ppl at work that talk behind my back about me. but that doesnt make me comfortable working at my job. recently this week my boss cut my hours only working 4 days that is only 25 hours per week.. i was suppose to ... (279 words

Afraid of commitment, of just trying to let me down gently?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for three months since I met him in one of my classes at college. He showed interest in me from day 1 and asked me if I can talk to him on the phone so he could get to know me better. There is a 10 year age difference between us, I am 22 and he ... (593 words

Why do my breasts hurt?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi,sorry if this is a dumb question. but im a 14 yr old girl and my boobs have been hurting for the past few days.i asked my mom why pretending it was for a friend and she told me that can happen when your on your period or its about to come.and for me its neither.is something ... (60 words

My friend thinks I said mean things about him but I didn't say those things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - my best friend and I are extra tight but my other friends started saying kinda mean things to him on facebook and saying it was me. He wont talk to me at the moment, even though my friend told him i didnt say those things, i dont know whether its because he thinks i did say... (148 words

My guy bestfriend is in love with me and his girlfriend.

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am inlove with my male bestfriend. We have been bestfriends since 7th grade and we are currently going to be seniors in highschool. We did not admit to our love until the 2nd week of septemeber my junior year(2009). He started going out with a girl that he had told me was a ... (298 words

We've cheated on each other so there is no trust!

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok..so ive been with this guy for about a year and 4 months..i love him so much but there has been a lot of bumps in this road. to begin with, i had a really big family issue where basically my mother told him that i was a manipulative bitch and all these other untrue thi... (263 words

When I'm with a man and I reach orgasm, I suddenly lose interest momentarily

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4 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I consider myself bisexual, though I really don't care about the label. I'm attracted to both men and women and enjoy being with both. There is a difference and it's one I don't quite understand or know how to get over. When I'm with a man and I reach orgasm, I suddenly lose ... (121 words

Am I right to be angry about my boyfriend "liking" another girl?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Long story short, my boyfriend's friends hate me. They were one big happy group before I came along. They hate me mostly because I'm not like THEIR girlfriends (I'm not a cheerleader, I'm a freshman, and I'm not white or asian), so they think he can do better than me. Vecause ... (324 words

Possible heroin addicted boyfriend

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend used to be addicted to heroin before I met/started dating him. I believed that he had quit since he went through rehab and such, but he has rather large abscesses on his arm that he's going to get lanced. there are no cuts or anything around and they're... (149 words

I just feel sucked dry! I'm so bored in my marriage!

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a thirty year old woman who has been married for 8 years. We had a lot of chemistry while we were dating but as soon as we got married it just vanished. My husband has admitted that the risque vibe was a turn on before we were married and that it was gone after. Anyway, I ... (166 words

Which guy to chose?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So right now my problem is what guy to choose heres the situation ive been with my current boyfriend for almost 4years we have had problems from day one.I still love him and we really have came along way and made it though alot but i just dont feel happy but i still love him ... (178 words

I'm 19 and want sex! Should I just get it over with?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 19 and I kinda want to have sex but have not really found the person...Sometimes I just want to get it over with and have that amazing feeling that everyone talks about...Should I wait for the right person or just get it over with???... (45 words

I'm 16 and can't get a boyfriend! WHY???

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My question is basically why can't i get a boyfriend!!! I am completely normal looking, 5'8, i row and do track, have good grades, and am an outgoing talkative person with have lots of friends. I try to go after a guy and then i decide i don't like him anymore, so then things ... (114 words

He says he'll be there, and I promised myself that I'd never have another termination

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 19 years old. I just finished my first year in college, and had all intentions on going away for my next three years. But I just found out two days ago that I'm pregnant. This is my second time being pregnant, I terminated the first pregnancy because the guy practically ... (214 words

Is it unreasonable to want time without his friends?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a new relationship and this will be the third week. We sort of jumped right into it, so there are still a lot of kinks and problems we need to sort out. This is also my first relationship. A major problem that I'm confused about is that 2/3 times I see him, I'm always w... (388 words

Does she still like me?

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4 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have a friend whom I'm in love with for 2 years plus but she's attached. At first, she didn't like me as she was happy with her bf. Then after some months, she started liking me. She tells me that her bf is very possessive and then she got slapped by him once. During that ... (191 words

I have feelings for a coworker, is it a good idea to get close to his friend in hopes of getting closer to him?

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4 July 2010 (F - Well i have been at this company for a few years..i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well..just genuinly friendly it seems and very good at work--remains focused and motivated..he is pretty popular in the office as well..does get ... (1313 words

How should I tell my parents I'm dating my cousin?

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm I'm love with my cousin we have been dating for almost 4 years and our family doesn't have any clue . All our friend know we are dating but don't have any idea we are cousins. I am 21 years and hr is about to be 31. This year has been the hardest he got a letter from the ... (108 words

Could she have a yeast infection, or is it something else?

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4 July 2010 (M - Ok, My wife has been recently itching and burning just on the inside of her vaginal lips. She is also on her period. It is really irritating and we are just wondering what this could possibly be. We are assuming a yeast infection but we didn't think you could get that while on ... (62 words

I think he might be cheating on me, should I stay with him anyway?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have been with my boyfriend for a long time i love him a lot but he has done a lot of things that are weird but i have never caught him cheating but i dont know sometimes i feel like he is and hes kinda mean sometimes but he always tells me im the one and that im the love of ... (78 words

Do the questions she's been asking mean she wants a relationship with me?

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4 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi all. I've had a female friend in my life for about 2 years. We're both adults, well beyond teenage years. In the last 6 months, we've become much closer with one another and have a very deep, meaningful friendship. She means the world to me, and I am so glad that this ... (242 words

I am finding it difficult to fulfill my fantasy!

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4 July 2010 (M age - I masturbate a lot, and it has always been a fantacy of mine to masturbate in front of a woman. I tried to get my wife to watch me, but she thinks I am disgusting. I even tried to let one of her friends catch me masturbating, but it turned out bad. I fantacise about her ... (96 words

He wants to leave me after the summer!

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok, so I've had some ups and downs with my relationship and whatnot. Next week it will be two years being in this relationship. We've been living together for the past year or so and I've been in high school I know really young age to be living with your boyfriend except that ... (524 words

Should I tell my mom I had a miscarriage with my ex-boyfriend?

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4 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Since I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, it was my mom who has been there for me 24/7 to listen to me and comfort me. She has been my rock. I thank her everyday for untiring love for me. There is one more thing that I haven't told her about what happened to me with my ... (124 words

Did I overreact?

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4 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - dear cupid, I was told that a guy from my job liked me about 7 weeks ago so I gave my extension to the person who relayed the message for him. he called my desk that day and asked that I take his number and call later. i called that evening and we talked for about 1.5 hours.Th... (389 words

Can a relationship work when two people have nothing in common?

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4 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Mod Note: Original Title by poster hi, I had asked a question before, and this place seems very intresting. My new question is can a relationship work out if you have little in common with someone? becasue I like this girl and we are friends, but we have different intrests... (142 words

Age and Height Difference - Weird?

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4 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Mod Note..Titled by Poster Okay, hey there! So, I've got a quick question. I JUST got in to a relationship (like a day ago) and it's my first one ever. I'm 16 years old. The thing is: he's 19. I mean, I don't really see anything wrong with that. I've known him for 12 years and ... (93 words

Is he just going through the motions to keep me close and have a potential sugardaddy?

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4 July 2010 (M age - I'm a single, successful single company manager and have been seeing a 23 year old guy for about a year. He's cute, bright, charming and i enjoy our time together a lot. In spite of my initial hesitation because of our age gap (... and don't give me that look. I pass for late ... (458 words

How to accept its over

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Mod Note: Posters own title Hello, first i will say i was with this boy for a while he was so sweet, caring, loving we had so much in common. I really thought he loved me he even told me he did i was talking to this girl who happened to be friends with him and she told they were... (156 words

He was my everything, and he's the only Daddy they know.

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Mod Note: Posters Own Title My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. I thought we were perfect together, we didn't fight once for the first 8 months of our relationship, and get this, he adopted BOTH my kids. But lately all we seem to do is fight. I've been... (101 words

I do not mind him viewing and saving porn;but he saved a picture that cleary isn't pornographic and I don't know what to think..

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4 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My fiance watches a lot of porn and I don't really mind. He has a fetish for nylons. On a nylon fetish site he found and saved a picture of a group of girls approximately 14yrs old posing for a formal. All in dresses and nylons of course. I don't know what to do. Does the ... (128 words

He thinks I'm cheating, but I'm not.

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4 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OP title] Ok, so this is the deal. My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and 4 months. We met on myspace and live 3,000 miles apart. I cheated on him when we first got together i dont know what i was thinking but it happened and i lied to him about it for ... (532 words

Abortions, what do you think?

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4 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - *OP's Original Title* Hey aunt and uncles. I just wanted to know your opinions on abortion. About a year ago i went with my brother and his ex girlfriend for them to have an abortion. I know it wasn't me having an abortion but it really affected me, maybe it was because i s... (132 words

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