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Should I hook up with my cousin?

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Question - (31 July 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ticker writes:

Hi, I have a cousin problem and it involves me a 17 year old having sex and messing around with my 14 year old cousin. We have spend a lot of time together and have fun together, when we start fighting for fun he accidentaly touches my boobs and there's a acward moment but I know he didn't mind. I have been feeling really horny and lonely since I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago. Me and my cousin are alone sometimes for three hours and I want to make a move but I'm afraid that it may leave to a fight with the family and they will hate me and be discusted by me. But I really want him so should I go for it or find a random guy in the Internet to have sex with.

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A female reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (11 August 2010):

there are so many guys "not related to you" THAT WOULD BE INTERESTED..

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A female reader, jaylee kristen United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

jaylee kristen agony auntI'm currently with my cousin at the moment but our family doesn't know yet but we are thinking about telling them and he don't care what they think because its our decision not there's

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A female reader, loopylynch United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2010):

loopylynch agony auntyou should be taking ur cousins feelings into concideration, hes 14, young and hormones r raging, he is far to young to get involved in what could turn into a prison sentence!! i think you should maybe take a bit of time out from ur cousin, this is very unfair to him... good luck xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010):

being with your cousin isnt illegal, BUT your cousins not legally old enough to have sex for a start. So if someone wanted to start a real argument about it, that could be the card they'l play, and meeting random guys? I personally wouldnt recomend it, you dunno who they are or where they've been. Concentrate on finding another boyfriend. Go out, socialise, join a new club where your likely to meet new people. . best of luck hun x

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A female reader, S.L. United States +, writes (2 August 2010):

S.L. agony auntInstead of spending that many hours with your cousin, you are young and need to find friends to hang out with. Go to the mall where there's a theater, arcade like Dave n Busters or Main Event, school would be a perfect setting for new relationships. Having a relationship will enevitably ruin family. Think about your parent's relationship with the aunt/uncle that will be ruined. Don't let your hormones get the best of you. It a long road ahead of you and this could be haunting and maybe even devastating in the long run. God's blessing to both of you.

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A female reader, Sticker United States +, writes (1 August 2010):

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Yeah, thanks

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A male reader, blackeagle111 United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

i dont think that you shud.... first its family... (incest). second hes under age..third and u got it rite..if anything happens n ur family finds out..its gonna b awkwardness at all the family gatherings

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A female reader, Sticker United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

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Thanks, you are right ishould not get myself in risk.

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A male reader, bartmaverick United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

bartmaverick agony auntI was under the impression that the age of consent in the States was 18?

Just don't do it; you could easily get a prison sentence, both of you.

If you really can't control your urges, go and invest in a good vibrator and/or dildo.......

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A female reader, Sticker United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

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Thanks I think you are right.

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A female reader, Sticker United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

Sticker is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Really than what? Cuz I need help

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (31 July 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntI don't think you should... being "horny and lonely" is affecting your judgement.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

ok,well i had this same problem.and i went for it! i mean whatever happens,happens? you know?

now me and my cousin are closer than ever(;

but girl go on wit ur bad self.

oxoxo

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