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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he flirting to try to make me jealous or does he love himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so i,m really getting frustrated with this guy, it's been nearly a year and this guy and I have built up a serious connection and can't keep our eyes or hands off each other(casual but not intimate touching)But obviously intentional especially on his part.He can't seem to ... (501 words)

Fiance had long phone conversations with another woman. How do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age - I recently was able to check on cell ph records which confirmed my suspicions that my fiance has been having some long conversations with another woman. It stopped a couple of months ago but should I confront him or let it go? It does bother me but at the same time I feel ... (78 words)

What do you find is the best way to make sex really romantic, passionate and emotional?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just really curious about people's experiences. I've heard loads of ways that sex has been really orgasmic and physically pleasureable for people, but I'm curious about the passion and romance of it. What made you feel the connection the most during sex? Is there a ... (72 words)

Shall he ever call me again even to apologize

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - 2weeks ago I was going through some hard time at work and I was very sick,my boyfriend who is 23 years older than me did not stand by me, I called him and he said fine, I told him I sense you want to break up with me, he said no. I told him that would be our final call and ... (370 words)

Not sure how to proceed to the next level with dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive just met a guy on the internet. He lives about an hour away and so far we've been out for a meal and today we met for a walk and lunch. He seems really sweet and has been texting me a few times a day for the last month or so. I do fancy him and he has given me the ... (126 words)

So am I setting myself up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So i hung out with an ex boyfriend over the weekend and we had a great time. he says he still has love for me. I know he cares. anyway i texted him saying i had a nice time w/you and it made me happy to hang out with you. maby i'm analyzing it too much but i figured he would ... (131 words)

He said to be patient... but this sounds crappy, doesn't it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok...I'm 45 and the guy I've been dating for almost three months is 34. I've invited him to meet friends...my family..but he always backs off. Today we talked and he said that three months is way too early. We only see each other about once a week...in almost three ... (203 words)

My boyfriend doesn't know what is a real woman in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend ignores me in bed every time. We have sex once or twice a week and it lasts exaclty 10 minutes both foreplay (if any) and penetration, and no cuddling after that or even a shot of another round because he is either too tired or just can't do it! He doesn't show any ... (243 words)

I need help to convince her parents that they can trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, I am in love with this beautiful girl that i've been dating for a year now, although her parents doesnt let her see me anymore, im 16 years old and she is 15. i can see her parents are just protecting her and dont want her to get hurt, but i love her and i would ... (81 words)

My friend is being weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi my friend and i know each other nearlly a year. we got close really fast, but over the last six months we've started to dift apart, i don't know why but i guess these things happen. i try and ask her if something is up because there is always something up but she never te... (71 words)

Feelings for my best friend....who's also female!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m crying out of sheer confusion as I write this, and I really don’t know what to do anymore. I’m a 23 year old female, who has somehow managed to develop very strong feelings for another female (10 years older than me). The problem is that I strongly believe there is ... (248 words)

I really don't know if I want the truth because then our relationship has been built on decite and lies.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age - I have been married for a long time and I believe we love each other. My wife claims she only had one sexual relationship before me but it was multiple times. I had to learn this from friends before I confronted her and she admitted it to be true. I have several reasons to ... (179 words)

Someone please help me with my husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: Combined two questions as they are both about the same marriage.] i am a 22 year old mother of two i have been married to my husband for over a year now we have dated since high school for the past eight years.in 2007 he gotten incarcerated and i was the only one ther... (375 words)

My neediness and insecurity is costing me my relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My name is, James. I am 35 years old and really need help. I have been single for a long time. I recently became involved with a woman and through my neediness and insecurity have already lost her. I have always been this way and I am not sure how to change it. I have a really ... (119 words)

Does becoming FWB destroy the chances of becoming something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have become fwb with an old flame who i have liked for a long time, problem is i want more but dare not say anything! we have only been together twice but he stopped all night and cuddled me, stroked my hair held my hand and kissed my forehead constantly when we was going to ... (85 words)

I think I'm stuck in the friend zone now, but how do I get out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently ask a girl out who i have really like for at least 2 years now, and she said no because 'she loves me as a friend'. however, i don't want to give up on her, because to me she is far too special to let slip. is there any way i can get past this 'friend zone' and get a ... (109 words)

He promised not disappear, but he has!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am dating this guy for over 4 months, he called me in my birthday, and he told me what i was doing, i told him 2 weeks ago that i will like to share with him and my best friends, and hes says it was ok, when the day arrived he called me and he wish me a happy birthday, i ... (186 words)

Is it worth trying and holding on to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and i'v been out of school for about a year and 1/2 and i dont really feel like going back yet, but i have a girlfriend that i really care for that is going to collage soon and i dont see her much as is but once she starts school im afrade that i wont see her at all ... (235 words)

How to get over the past in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of a long story, so I'll try to make it short. I have an amazing boyfriend. He treats me like a queen and would do anything to make me happy. I see in him the man I want to marry and the man who I want to father my future children. There is one problem, though.... (787 words)

Pill Worries!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In the instructions for my pill, it says that if you miss a pill, you can take it up to 12 hours late. I take my pill at about 7 am on weekdays and later on the weekend. Yesterday I took my pill at about 9.30am, and this morning I missed my pill and I only just took it (it's ... (120 words)

Alcohol & Panic attack problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really need your help to do with alcohol. About 1 year ago I drank 3 smirnoff ices whilst I was out at a party. I suddenly felt really funny, light headed and felt like I was dying. I had a pretty tough childhood and I've been told that I had a panic attack that even... (121 words)

Hi neediness is becoming too much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends always trying to make me feel bad when i dont give him attention, like call and text more or say romantic things. and I DO ! i make an effort, and one second he appreciates and the next he just says i dont do enough. its upsetting me and im getting tired of it. ... (137 words)

Could I be a couple months pregnant and not know it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for about 7 months now, and have been sexually active. this is my first month off the pill after being on it for 3 months, and since i went on the pill, we have not been using protection. i have been really tired, dizzy, emotional, i have ... (110 words)

I miss my boyfriend and want help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years we were sooo good until i stupidly ended it just before Christmas, we got back together in feb but found it hard as i struggled with trust, he finished me then because i was always on at him he has told me that a have a slight ... (106 words)

Interested? Or just sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok how can i tell that a guy is really intersted in me or just want to have sex?... (19 words)

I'm lying to my parents to see my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend so much but it means lying to my parents i hate lying to them. if they find out i will not be allowed to see him. At 14 they dont approve and see me as a child still. i want to see him still, but i want the respect of my loving parents. any advice. thank you ... (64 words)

He copies moves and words from porn movies! It's not romantic and it's not helping my insecurities!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, i know you probably read these questins all the time but here we go. im 17 and my boyfriend of 21 have been together for a year, and recently i have become very insecure in my relationship. every day i dont think i am good enough or pretty enough for him. he is an ... (277 words)

I have been waiting 17 months for him to leave his partner and move in with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I'm in great need of help and advise, I'm 23 I have a good job and my own place, here's where the problem starts.. I have been seein this guy now for 17 month he's 10 years older than me but he acts the same age we get on so well when we're together, however he's got a ... (422 words)

I never seem to make it past the dating part of the relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunties, I never seem to make it past the dating part of the relationship, it never seems to become official. I know I'm not clingy, I show interest appropriately and I'm just picky enough to where I'm not settling. I recently went on a date with this guy I met onlin... (357 words)

How can I get over my paranoia or convince her to try the pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 month now and everything is going good. we see each other about 5 days a week and have a lot of fun together. im 19 and she is 16 by the way. the thing is, we have yet to have sex, which is fine with me, but she has ... (250 words)

How do I change our sex life so that it's amazing every time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just yesterday my boyfriend and I were really aggravated at each other. So, as we were laying down I asked him why he was mad at me. He began to explain why, and on top of the first reason there were a few others. When we were done talking, everything was fine except for the ... (288 words)

When will be the right time to get our relationship out into the open?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, when i was 12 i met my boyfriend, he was 15 at the time, we went out secretly with only a few of our friends knowing, now i'm 16 and he is 19 and we are still secretly going out, firstly, is it wrong for me to go out with someone 3 years older? and secondly when will be ... (85 words)

My friend is the odd one out?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i live in a small town where I grew up with all these girls. Iv'e known them since we were babies. We are all 17 theres about 14 of us all together. But one of my friends Naomi havent changed at all. she's still young in the mind. She doesnt drink and doesnt have a ... (223 words)

Should I change my decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well..typical I like two guys problem =[ This is just so hard man, and there's like no one to talk to because everyone says I should just forget about the other guy because I have a boyfriend.. WHOLE STORY: Boyfriend(let's call him Joe,we've never attended the same school a... (394 words)

Thinking of ending my marriage for someone else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I met my ex boyfriend when I was just 16. He was 34! I lied to him about my age and he broke it off with me because of my age. He told me to call him whn I turned 18. There was a definite spark between us and a feeling I have neer felt with anyone else. He really ... (228 words)

Am I really in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Right, im 13 and im with my girlfriend, ive been with her for going on 4 months. We've done loads together and I never stop thinking about her, im thinking of her now as i write :'), but we really love each other and she means the entire world tp me, and people have said she ... (102 words)

What is the best way to prolong sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] What is the best way to prolong sex?... (11 words)

After we had an affair he's having commitment problems.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met someone at work 12 years ago. He was co habiting and had children but was not married or in love with the mother anymore (he said), but would not leave out of love/duty etc. for/to the children (does this really happen?). He pursued me relentlessly but made it clear he'd ... (556 words)

I can't go on like this. He's the only one who can make me into a better person! :( I need answers please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [OP original title] Ok, so im a teenager. I do drugs (only marijuana), I drink, and smoke ciggerettes. I want to quit so badly but I can't, my biggest crush ever does the same. but when i'm with him everything changes, it's like i can quit everything around him. he makes me feel... (448 words)

My husband has a problem with hygiene!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, quick question. My husband has a problem with hygiene, such as I have to "tell" him to brush his teeth, or to take a shower...I find it disgusting, and a HUGE turn-off. I don't want to be rude about it, but I want the problem to be fixed. Any suggestions on how to ... (58 words)

Is it right for a boyfriend to say that he should always be your top priority?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like your opinions about this. Is it right for a boyfriend to say that he should always be your top priority, meaning even more important than your friends and family, e.t.c ?. Personally, i think everyone should be treated equally. i dont think anyone should be superior to ... (109 words)

Should I meet this guy off the Internet? He is much older but I don't see that as an issue.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I'd just like to know guys opinions on this, I'm 18 and have had a thing on the Internet with a guy for about 2 years, he's much older (42) and I really want to meet him!! But I'd just like peoples opinions because I'm not sure whether to suggest it or not, we nearly met up ... (112 words)

He proposed over two years ago, but we are no closer to being married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been together and lived together for 8.5 years now. He proposed 2.5 years ago. We bought a house together this year. Whenever I bring up getting married he becomes upset and last week he told me he "isn't ready". I am in my mid thirties (so is he) and ... (116 words)

Why is he ignoring me for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a ldr(long distance relation)for about 5 years. My bf is angry with me for getting him in trouble at work by being I admit annoying and over texting him. I realize I was annoying, and didn't consider his job but I believe I just miss him and I get just so excited to ... (391 words)

Is it normal for males to like this stimulation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! :) .. I have a really very strange question to ask.. Yesterday morning my bf and I were having sex, the first time in 2 weeks that we have had proper intercourse. Although the strangest thing happened about a year ago he bought me a vibrator, that we use together. And ... (103 words)

Exhibitionism/Voyeurism in Women? And Flirtatiousness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age - [Mod note: two questions combined from same poster.] To save space, I'll withhold a lot or most of the details, but I discovered, without her knowing that I know, that my 50-year old wife is both exposing herself and "peeking on the peekers while they watch." Probably for hour... (308 words)

What is a multiple orgasm, what is an orgasm, and do guys have them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi frns,, i want to know about multiple orgasms,, well i don't even know what is an orgasm and do guys also experiance orgasm,, waiting... (29 words)

Ex-girlfriend has moved on, though I just can't, for some reason....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here it is...yet another guy who for some reason cannot get over what happened with his ex-girlfriend... I stress that it's not that I can't get over her, or even that I want her back just that I cannot get over what she did...it makes no sense. To cut straight to t... (405 words)

Heavily pregnant with a boyfriend who is unsupportive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. im 8 months pregnant and my bf is unemployed at the moment and so stressd out and he never calls me nor text me. weve been together for atleast 10 months now. he was madly in love with me but now he is distant. i feel like dumping him n cutting him out of our lives but ... (70 words)

How can I approach my parents about paying less for my keep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This question isnt really about relationship or Sex but I need help wit this one :( I used to be on the dole and got 100 Pound a week and I gave up keep of 25 pound to my parents. a couple of weeks ago I signed off the dole and got a job. Now i get paid 200 a week and I,m for... (207 words)

My internet love broke up with me and now isn't returning my calls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i meet a guy 3 months ago in a internet, and we chatted for 1 week than we fall in love, i don't what happens he don't talk to me much or don't come online much i got so upset and i write to him asking why is he doing this to me he reply he said its not you, its me, i don't ... (170 words)

Is it normal that I like him? Or is it wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, this is the story. My best friends neighbor is geting really close to us. He is so nice and extremly hot. Lately, we've been hitting on each other, and kissed a little. I was pure presured by my friend to do it though! I'm starting to like him but I'm still not sure how... (179 words)

Does she still think of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently (2 months) have broken up with my girlfriend over a very near 4 years, and well we broke up because she cheated on me, and the fact that after I gave her another chance she wanted to leave the relationship as she had no feeling whatsoever. We had quite a few real... (151 words)

Do I give my husband an ultimatum to stop contacting his half-sister?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age - I an unsure as to what to do for the best, do I give my husband an ultimatum to stop contacting his half sister. He only ever lived with her for a year when she was two and he was twelve, (they share the same dad who died earlier on this year), they then lost contact for years ... (847 words)

I lied to my girlfriend about drunkenly hitting on a girl at a party!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. 5 weeks into my relationship with my girlfriend i went out to a party without her as she was sick. I was hanging around my mates and this girl approached me to say hi and flirt, i told her to leave me alone as i was not interested. Later on she apporached me again on the d... (298 words)

He says I'm too rough? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - He tells me that we can't see each other anymore because I like it too rough in the bedroom. What do i do? I tell him that it isnt about being rough, I like it sometimes like that. But he swears everytime that im to rough. ... (46 words)

Opinions please on this email he sent to me....

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want some opinions regarding how someone I know feels about me, if you were to receive this email, what would YOU think, its not the full email, just a part of it which I received today. I've known them for a long time and it is starting to make me uncomfortable. He ... (171 words)

What more can I do to get my boyfriend's mum to like me?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year and half, we love each other very much, we are expecting our first child together (im 5 months pregnant) and we are also due to move into our new home once it is decorated. he is everything i could ask for, treats me so nice and buys ... (438 words)

My boyfriend cries to make me feel bad or to win an argument!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hello, I kinda feel bad because I feel that my boyfriend of about a year and a half only cries to make me feel bad or to win an argument when it's about something serious. It's like he only cries when it would be believeable but I just get a strange feeling he only wants me... (105 words)

Why did my work colleagues behave this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupids, mine isn't a love question but I'm annoyed at what's happened. At the weekend work organised a night out to somewhere me and my boyfriend had never been to so a girl who works with me and her BF said we could follow them - which we did. But instead of her... (219 words)

Am I making a big deal over nothing? I am consumed by his relatiomship with his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When me and my bf were together for 2 months, his ex started calling him. This is the woman he thought he would marry. He told me she called and they talked on the phone, and I wasn't mad. After another month he let me borrow his phone, and his messages 4 some reason stayed ... (271 words)

Why can't I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked this guy for months. were coworkers sometimes he's mean and sometimes he nice and has a convo with me.sometimes he says hi to me sometimes he doesn't. he walked in front of me with his gf. i wonder if he did that on purpose.well i kinda figured out he doesn't like me ... (108 words)

How can I make my girlfriend forget this other guy and come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i thank you before answering my question...so i have a girlfriend and we have child and when she was pregnant i passed from a very diffcult time and i wasnt that helpful,apart from that she always liked this guy and now she's liking even more,problem is she never had a ... (74 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend i going out with another girl from another state. when we first started going out he said that he had broken up with her.and then 2 weeks later he started calling me and telling me to break up with him. and i told him about all the stuff he told me but he denied ... (115 words)

If a man is using you for sex why would he keep on coming back even if he didnt get it every time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - if a man is using you for sex would he keep coming back even if he didnt always get it and sometimes he did but it wasnt great? how do you tell if someone is genuine or a really good liar, i have to say he has a girlfriend and the rule of thumb is he is a liar obviously and i ... (112 words)

I had sex with a guy who already has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) age 26-29 - what do i do when i had sex with a guy who already has a girlfriend and has been with her for almost 10 months?... (25 words)

I don't understand why he has lost interest, I haven't done anything wrong...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship for 4 months with a man I slept with twice and saw maybe once every two weeks.... while he was away on a holiday, I cheated on him with another guy who I just met but who was a friend of our friends.... I spent twelve nights in this guys ... (337 words)

Conflict between my sister and my father!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My sister has married. But I think my father doesn't like her husband, he disagree with her by money, and They say each other you are not my father and you are not my daughter. They are ignore still now. He don't want to listen about her and she don't want to listen about ... (70 words)

Is this normal after having a yeast infection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some help. I have a yeast infection and need it know if its normal to have a yellowish green discharge after using monistat 7? And also, after using it, does it mean its working when it starts burning more?... (44 words)

How to get over being old-fashioned

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This perhaps isn't so much a specific question as a debating point, but as it's bugging me... Sometimes I feel so old fashioned I feel as if I don't belong here. I believe in sex before marriage, having been in an LTR that died because of sexual incompatibility.... (289 words)

So wrong, but could he be Mr. right?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently broke up my boyfriend, because he never touched me, he never initiated coversation with me, and he would always be touching my best friends. I couldn't take it, so I broke up with. I went out with him for about four months, but sometime in there, I started liking his ... (94 words)

Both men love me and know I deeply love both of them. I am so confused!

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Long story semi-short. I am in love with 2 men. The first I lived with 4 years and while it was a wonderful relationship filled with love, he was not ready to get married like I wanted and needed. I moved out and purchased my own home and we keep in contact. In 4 years there ... (295 words)

In love with 2 guys, and the new guy in my life is still not divorced, what is a girl to do?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 qyestions from the same poster have been merged together] When I took a break from a almost 2 year relationship, I met a guy 13 years older than me and now he loves me. I am back with the ex kind of, but am more compatible with the new guy. The only pro... (257 words)

Is he just being nice? Or sending me mixed signals?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is my dilemma. I dated a man one year ago. I was the one to ask him out for coffee. We ended up really clicking and dated for six months. We kept our relationship a secret because my kids knew each other. Didn't really have any major problems, until we got to the ... (755 words)

Period is late - Am I pregnant?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My period is now a week late, my average cycle is normally 28days and my period is very regular. In my 24 years of living I have never missed a period, i have never been late. My period is like clock work.my husband and I have been trying to have a baby, he comes in me every ... (216 words)

The intimacy in our relationship has all but gone completely, what should I do?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't know what to do .we don't talk or rarely in sleep in the same bed . if it wasnt for a few i love yous and kisses you wouldn't even know were a couple please help... (38 words)

My mom and my brother don't approve of the guy I want to date, what should I do?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for how long it is. Skip to the bottom for the abridged version, or read the whole thing so you know exactly what's going on. To help better understand my problem, I'll explain my relationship with my younger brother. I'm 17 and he's a year and a half younger than me ... (813 words)

I believe he still loves me but why doesn't he want to be with me again?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my problem: I am still in love with my ex boyfriend whom i dated two years ago. We only dated for a few months and i broke up with him because i felt like he wasnt opening up to me. Well he suggested to remain friends when we broke up and stupidly i agreed. For the ... (179 words)

We don't know each other, but he loves me

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok so I have a problem. A couple of months ago this guy contacted me through the Internet. now this was not throught a dating site, it was a site just to play random games on. I didn't think it was a problem because I talked to people all the time on the site. I'm always ... (414 words)

How do I tell him I never want to speak to him again?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate this man I'm seeing. He lied to me once, now twice. LDR...I'm visiting him now and just want to leave. Today, I told him I wasnt speaking to him, he left to go to store or whatever and hasn't been back since...its been three hours. I dont want to call him and see whats ... (115 words)

I fell in love with him after all his flirting but he has a girlfriend, how do I get over him?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a really big problem with a boy.br Well I think I love him. All the winter , he was like ignoring me and we were just known. In the summer lessons suddenly he came to me, asked me for my msn and was talking to me all the time. We exchanged msn adresses and stayed ... (357 words)

I am still struggling to come to terms with my boyfriend's cheating and now I have met someone else, what should I do?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! Ok so this is the sittuation. Im in my 20's and iv been with my bf for over 4 years. Everything was PERFECT untill he went on a buisness trip and cheated on me. I called his hotel room to have some B**** answer his phone and tell my she efed him!!! ANYWAYS i ... (159 words)

My long distance boyfriend doesn't trust me but he has the cheek to lie to me about himself!

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend online 6 months ago, and in a short period of time, we fell in love with each other. Even though we live a world apart, but we eagerly started this long distance relationship. We keep in contact by phone calls and mails. But somehow, someway... (206 words)

Is love enough?

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5 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How can you be with someone when you are on two different pages? I love my girlfriend but she feels that owning your own business and working for yourself isn't stable enough and a waste of time. I love what I do and I make a decent living doing it. I dont want to choose. What ... (59 words)

Should I just give up on him?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well i met this wonderful guy,hes 2 years older than me im 24. he's cute, intelligent, and so cultured that he took me completely by surprise,it was in a dating site, truth, and we e-mail like a month, since he is in the army i usually got replies every 2 to 4 days, which is ... (242 words)

Is there anything we can do about my father in laws bad hygiene?

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5 July 2010 (M)

- My father in law is very annoying. For one thing he is bi-polar and I know it's not his fault, but all he wants to do is sleep all day and smoke cigarettes and sleep more. Ok, fine. But the REALLY bad thing is that he hardly ever changes clothes or takes baths. Whether he is ... (155 words)

What reasons whould my ex-girlfriend have for unblocking me on facebook?

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5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago after dating for 7 months. When we broke up it was really more of a "break" if you will, and we were just being friends during the break. She didn't act like herself at all during this time, because of different things that ... (533 words)

Why was my boyfriend grossed out by this?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age - Hi I would like to ask all you Aunts out there this question.Why would my boyfriend be grossed out by this.We had been mucking around and he started to put his finger down on my vagina.he then said your dry as,i turned to him and said no way and i put my own finger down there ... (178 words)

I feel so stressed and drained by my "friends"

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5 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I always try to be there for my friends and no matter what I do it isn't good enough. Friend A: I thought we were close, but she started to ditch me and stopped contacting me. When she would re-surface, I would pick her up, drive to a restaurant or someplace and she would sp... (294 words)

He keeps running hot and cold

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay me and my boyfriend were dating after justa few months of being together he told me he wanted to marry me i said yes. We were going great in our relationship after he got in the military 5 months later it was good at first but then he started acting wierd being distant. ... (323 words)

Five years in, do we want out?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been together nearly 5 years and have 3 year old together. Our love is unexplainable...is it lacking passiona nd romance. We go through the motions everyday. I honestly think we are trying too hard, forcing, and not 'seeing' each other in the same eyes as we first met. ... (151 words)

How can I improve my confidence about doing intimate things?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is almost 25 and i am 26. We both haven't had sex yet. He goes mad sometimes when i say i don't want to go all the way, although, he apologises afterwards, and he has only gone mad about three times . However, i know he isn't just after one thing, as i know he ... (357 words)

How do I tell mum I don't have a boyfriend?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.. First thing is, how do I tell my mum that I dont have a boyfriend.. I'm turning 18 very soon and I have never had a boyfriend before (many people find that strange, and some find it hard to believe) anyway, my friend came over today and we were on facebook talk... (382 words)

She hurts me so much and I don't know what to do!

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5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfirend for about 8months now. When we started dating she was a sweetheart and was so nice. After the third month she began to fight with me with for just about anything small or big. She would start the fight, get me heated and curse at me and yell an ... (271 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant but doesn't want to be with me!

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5 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i been dating this girl for over 2 years,im 21 and she 18.we hust found out in may 2010 that she preg.at first we were thinking of aborting but some how her mom found out.i went to her house about 3 days later n we all sat down her mom,dad,her and me.they asked me what i ... (294 words)

How do you stay best friends with someone who you lose respect for??

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5 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I know that, really, it is none of my business, but I can't help looking out for my best friend. She is 33 and been single for a few years (some dates, one short-term relationship). We both regard each other as the sibling we never had (we are both only children) and have a ... (436 words)

Breasts are sore and getting firm, could the pill be the reason?

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my breast are sore and getting firm im on the pill could this be the cause of it... (18 words)

Never met, year plus, long distance relationship, can this survive??

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5 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've know my bf for 1yr and some months now. I love him dearly and he loves me. We webcam and chat through internet, yet we never psyhicaly met each other in our lives. Yet his in the next state from me.We really want to be together. Is our relationship goin' in the wrong ... (58 words)

Depressed after finding a used condom, can I regain my trust in her and continue this relationship??

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5 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Somebody please help me sort out this mess! I apologise for it being so long but there really is no other way to tell this. It involves a beautiful relationship put under intense strain by being forced into being long-distance for 6 months, and then reuniting to find a used ... (1261 words)