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I think I chose the wrong guy! Soldier or saint?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I made a mistake. I think I chose the wrong guy. When the love of my life (my best friend) asked me to be his, I said no. We've been in love for five years, we just didn't know we BOTH felt that way, and when he finally tells me his feelings of the past few years he was a f... (191 words

Everytime he accuses me of cheating he suggests an open relationship!

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My fiance sometimes accuses me of cheating for no reason everytime he accuses me of this he suggests an open relationship. An example of why he accuses me of cheating is a cable cord he claimed he never noticed before was in a room we didn't have a tv and he said i must have ... (214 words

I'm taking a gap year from university, but my parents and my ex aren't supporting my decision. I can't take the pressure! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I feel like I'm making the wrong decisions in my life. I'm only 21 years old and I feel like any decision I make is going to drastically alter my life. I've just spent 2 years at university studying music. During the course I worked with people who, to me, were conside... (306 words

She's 20, I'm 40. Am I weird for feeling like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

18 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - There’s a young lady that I have an interest in. It’s not a sexual thing, really. I can’t explain it, there’s just something about her that makes me want to get to know her. The first issue is I’m forty and she’s twenty. Although I’m a young at heart forty year old, I stil... (730 words

My girlfriend believes a stranger over me!

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - to put it bluntly, my gf beleives a stranger over me. i met a girl at my local pub one evening, we struck up convo she asked me about myself etc, threw in that im with my gf a few times, this girl kept talking to me etc, we exchanged e-mails at the end of the night. th... (216 words

I'm tripping, right? How do I learn to relax and not worry so much?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Am I worryin bout nothin? My bf calls me daily (2x a day sometimes) and the other night..on thurs we were talking n he had to call me back. He never did (sometimes he falls asleep so I figured that's what happened) anyway - I didn't get a call the next day either..and that aft... (251 words

He comes on to me even though we broke up!

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend before school ended and he keeps texting me wanting to be friends but earlier when i asked him about 10 times he got mad. School is starting and I really dont want him around me cause he needs to get over me. Any ideas on how to avoid him??? I dont ... (84 words

Does she not want to be my friend any more?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a friend who i looked up to and during school we were fine. We had a fight a few days before that because she was jealous I was spending time with another girl and not her. She is the type who wants to be in control but is very caring. We made up and the day before ... (95 words

Stay and fight it out, or RUN?

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18 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I have a kinda hard situation regarding my parent/s. The story is this: when I was 6 my mum and dad got divorced and me and my sis went with mum, as is standard procedure I think. Then very shortly after that she met who would become my step-dad (let's call him Mike). They ... (847 words

He wants to work it out and get past his cheating but I need help getting over it!

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - so my husband of a year [we have been together a total of 5 years] cheated on my with a gril from his school. It went on for a about a month, he broke it off with her and is now back with me and our two year old daughter. i feel good about having him back and he really wants to ... (80 words

He proposed!! Do I share the excitment??

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My now fiance just proposed, he is in basic training so he did it over the phone, he told me to pick out three rings and he wants to choose one and ask again when he get back. Is it wrong to say we are engaged? He said that that was him proposing but he didnt say anything... (98 words

What can I do to kick start my life?

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok so I dont know how to really put this but im male, 17, rather intelligent and not the worst looking but not the best :S basically my childhood sucked. i used to live with my great grandmother and my brother. my great grandma died and me and my brother were alone, he moved ... (264 words

I'm really worried he'll cheat on me with her... help!

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have only been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and the first month was brilliant with no arguments whatsoever. Going into the second month facebook began to cause arguments with the way he commented on other girls statuses. They weren't extreme arguments. A few weeks in... (302 words

Should I pursue guy 1, guy 2... or just become a nun?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hullo, Its my first time on this site but I really need some advice. I am kinda torn between two guys and I was hoping that everyone here could help me? Guy one is a close friend, my first crush and my only boyfriend and I have been his only girlfriend. We kinda buit up to... (307 words

Do you think that if I give it time he will eventually get over me sleeping with someone else?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my ex-boyfriend split up a year ago. We have both liked each other for the whole year since, and have almost acted as if we have been going out, but actually haven't. When we were barely talking to each other, I ended up very drunkenly sleeping with one of his close... (176 words

Should I text my best friend's cousin... and how do I know she'll be okay with it?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone, So recently my best friend's cousin has been showing some interest in me he even told her that he liked me and to be honest i really like him too. We're into lots of the same things hes really great but he lives a fair bit away and i know this is going to sound... (149 words

Does cybersex equal cheating?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi, well im in a complicated situation right now. I have a boyfriend we've been together for longer than 6 months. I love him like i never thought i would love someone, he loves me really much (i know that)but the thing is... ive been lately sexually attracted to oth... (179 words

Am I giving out gay vibes???

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - This isn't really do to with a relationship but more my sexuality. A girl that is in one of my lessons at college (who I actually get on quite well with) asked a mutual friend of ours if I was gay. I'm not gay (neither is she just to clarify) so does this mean I am giving o... (98 words

Why does my fiance' treat me like crap when he doesn't get any sex?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Why does my fiance' treat me like crap when he doesn't get any sex? We have been together since December of 2008, (it's now july 2010), and lately his attutude towards me when he doesn't get any is ridiculous. He makes me feel like I'm worthless and like a piece of meat wh... (168 words

He cheated on me and I was pregnant...

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - my partner of 4 and a half years has been cheating on me for the past 6 months. the worst thing about it was i was pregnant with his daughter at the time. the affair ended a few weeks ago but i dont know if i can move on. i feel so betrayed and hurt. i would like to move on and ... (74 words

Help! The condom split!!! Could I be pregnant?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Basically, me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 months had sex last week when the condom split, even though im on the pill im still worried i could be pregnant?!?! I know what your all say that if i've been using the pill properly it wont happen, but.... last month i refused to take ... (92 words

Friends with benefits... good???

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid... whats one good thing about being friends with benefits (without sex) and one bad thing about it ?? To me the good thing is that he can develop feelings for you but the bad thing is he can be using you which i know is not true believe me. Most couples become ... (81 words

I know he cares about me... so why is he still with his stupid horrible girlfriend???

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, i have a big situation on my hands. There's this guy who i've been hanging out with A LOT and I started developing feelings for him but the thing that sucks is that he has a gf. She shows him no type of respect and over all she's not a good gf at all but yet he's ... (287 words

I feel that I deserve better, but despite the way she treats me, I don't want to lose her.

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - ok, so i've been friends with this girl for almost a year now, and at first, we got along really well to the point where i wanted to ask her out. I never did ask her out and i never asked her to prom even though i really wanted to. Now, i feel like she treats me really badly to ... (153 words

What steps do I take to get him back?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I was wondering if you could help me. I split with my long term boyriend 2 years ago and we had been together 5 years and lived together. It was a very painful time for me and took me a while to get ove rit. I evetually moved to London and started seing some other guy -... (1161 words

Is there some other meaning to this?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have just started dating this guy, maybe about 2 months or so. Sometimes, we'll be watching something on tv and then he'll just turn, look at me, and say hi. I find this kind of weird but I go along with it and say hi back since I am not too sure what he wants. My previous ... (92 words

I want my Turkish boyfriend to come to my country before I move over there!

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I want my turkish boyfriend to come to england for holiday first before moving here, but i think it is hard for visa as he doesnt have a lot of money in bank... how can this happen the easy way ? ... (41 words

Shyness and how to get rid of it?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - What causes shyness and how do you get rid of it? thanks. x... (16 words

Do I have jealousy issues?

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Do I have jealousy issues? So I'm a guy and I'm going out with S, my boyfriend, for a month now. S is bisexual and you couldn't even tell that he's into guys. In fact, he makes fun of gay people. But anyways, he's really nice and all that. When we're both together, we can... (447 words

I need your opinion on him...

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18 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I was wondering ,if you can give me your opinion on that, if this marriage can be saved, or it is worth staying in it . I tell you the good and bad. GOOD -cornerstone of family financially -he is here when I need him, if Im sick or crisis -He helps his children fi... (280 words

Help! Best friend issues!

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I am a fifteen year old girl with a boyfriend who is a senior. We have been together for almsot three months, and when we were together for about two months I gave him a blow job. Now it was my choice, an he respects me, cares about me, and he even told me before then that ... (152 words

I believe she would rather see her ex than me! What should I do?

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18 July 2010 (M age - I have been seeing a women for the last 1-1/5 years. She and her ex-husband have mutual friends that get together frequently. She is seeing her ex more and more frequently. They go to parties and see each other etc. I really believe that she would rather see him than me. What ... (55 words

Is this his way of telling me it's over?

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - dont know where to start with this but here goes i have been with my partner 8years he is a great guy loving and caring in his own way until he has too much to drink then he gets nasty but its always with me he doesnt hit me its verbal mental torture hes always really sorry the ... (192 words

How do people survive long distance relationships? And how can I ease my girlfriend's worries?

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Am a Zambian and me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost two years. The thing is I will be going out for college to the US for four years. My gf is very happy for me but also worried If we will stand the test of time. Lately she has been worried that I ... (135 words

My boyfriend and I aren't very good at holding long conversations. How can I improve this?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend arent very good at holding long conversations and i dont know how to change that coz i dont want a relationship thats just physical...and isnt meaningful. how can i improve this?... (35 words

Do most girls shave down there? And how do you do it anyway?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - do most girls shave down there? do guys like shaved or hairy or trimmed? how do you shave it, dont the hairs get caught in the shaver?... (27 words

I'm exhausted from having my heart broken during the last six years...advice please!

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am exhausted trying to get some answer from my ex. We broke up a while ago- but we continued 'seeing' each other till Dec last year, which is when I moved out of the country. This was the guy who, while we lived together, lied and cheated on me with several women, prioritized ... (271 words

Condoms! We don't use them, why do you have them?

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Serious problem! I've been in a relationship with my guyfriend for the last three years, and during this time we have never used condoms during intimacy. A couple of weeks ago, I discovered condoms in his nightstand, and he hurriedly rushed over to close the drawer, as if to ... (303 words

Help! I would like to know where I stand with him... but how can I put it to him?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi i have been texting this guy i met on a nite out for the last two months its all goin well, i have met up with him a few times and we have gone for dinner ect and we have slept together. He is the one to text me every day so we talk all of the time. i would love to know ... (83 words

Everyone says we should date... except her.

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've known this girl for six months now. She's intelligent, beautiful, funny, compassionate, cheerful, and just the right touch of nerdy. She and I are college students. We're three years apart, but in most respects, we're perfectly compatible. Same interests, beliefs, sense of ... (241 words

How can I talk to my doctor about this when he's male?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, this is a pretty personal question and i am a tad bit embarrassed although it must be addressed. my husband and i have been together for 6 years, and up until about a year ago i used to like intercourse to be deep and rough. we experimented many different ways a... (211 words

Why he left our friendship for his girlfriend's selfish insecurities?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Just as I was having the most spectacular day, my friend (guy) MSN's me saying we can no longer interact over MSN and of course, that ruined my day. I didn't want to get emotional over It 'cause I knew that wouldn't change anything. I kept needling him for his rational motive ... (247 words

What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said no! and then she told senior ... (203 words

I'm growing bored of my boyfriend...

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating my bf for 2 years now. I've grown bored of him. I had an emotional affair for 4 months, but ended it when I decided I wanted to stay loyal to my bf. I've tried to rekindle the romance, I've tried special dates, new activities, hobbies and we are planning a ... (127 words

I don't feel any attraction towards my husband any more...

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I do not feel any physical/sexual attraction to my husband... I cringe when he touches me.... There was never strong passion on my side, but rather a marriage of convenient timing and my biological clock that was ticking. Now after 10 years of marriage and 2 children, him ... (123 words

What is this guy on????

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hours later the first call he's calling you asking if i wanna go sauna with him and his male friends??? i said no i aint gonna go sauna with you and your friends, later in the night he ... (126 words

Ex's best friend just asked me out... should I go?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey guys....?? my ex's best frend just asked me out and i really like him and i dont know what to say :( should i say yes or no ?????... (30 words

Can I just put it down to our relationship becoming stale...? Urgent help needed!

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18 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have seen and read many hints and tips regarding relationship issues but as we all know, all circumstances are different, this one is a real head f*ck. I've been with a girl for 4 years, I'm 12 years her senior at 38 and she is 26. She comes from a small town where everybod... (1134 words

It’s so unfair that this slag can just move on with her life and I’m left to pick up the pieces of this damaged relationship.

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just really have to get this out of me or else it's going to drive me crazy. I don't expect any helpful advice, as right now I don't feel like I deserve anything like that.. I just need to vent this. Last year I volunteered to work on an exciting project that was sure to... (1561 words

I'm feeling depressed, hurt and feel like a fool in giving him another chance.

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend who has been trying to get back with me for the last couple of months verbally and physically abused me pretty badly a year ago. He also cheated on me behind my back on more than one occasion. He smokes marijuana pretty heavily. He says he has changed and that... (1527 words

Do I get back with a cheater? Can you help me get over her?

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. and she had a thing for me for a really long time and i was always attracted to her. we started dating and everything was going well until halloween when something happened (its a long story but as a quick summary she ended up ... (422 words

Girl question but guys can respond too!

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18 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have a scar that was caused from a bullies incident and I'm wondering if girls find any scar attractive or is it something they don't like?... (27 words

Do I need to let him go and wait for an year to see what happens?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid My and my bf are in relationship for the past 6 months and before that we were close friends. I would be travelling abroad for my studies and will return back after an year. My bf is emotionally devastated of my leaving for an year. He said he wants to take a ... (205 words

Do women feel sexier when they are a bit chubby?

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18 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have to be honest. I find women cuter when they are carrying a bit of weight (as long as they are not huge). But I want to know how women feel? Do they feel embarrassed if they are a bit overweight or do they feel sexier? Or would they prefer to be slim? Well? Is the q... (71 words

Having his baby and he don't love me... how do I get over him?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 14 years old and I'm pregnant by my ex boyfiend and he's made it clear he dont have any feelings for me, I'm really in love with him. I wanna get over him and I'm not quite sure how to get over him if he is gonna be in my life now that the baby is in the way. Do you have ... (75 words

I regret not giving him my virginity. We broke up so how can I get him back?

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has left me for another girl, as i did not satisfy him sexually. We have been together for 9 months and all i have given him was 2 blow jobs which i did reluctantly. His last attempt to have sex with me was rejected by me. Thereafter he did not ask for anything and ... (113 words

He says he wants a break!

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid My and my bf are in relationship for the past 6 months before that we were close friends. I am travelling for my studies for an year. My bf says since i am travelling that we need to take a break, i.e we can talk/chat/mail whenever we find time. But we should be... (170 words

Is it normal for women to act this way after orgasm?

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Is it just me,or do women act really strange,or slighty out of character,directly after they've had an orgasm?Ive noticed this with my GF.She has a 2 and half year old daughter which is unfortunately not mine.One day i gave her oral sex,which she loves,when we were done she ... (251 words

His mother used to like me, but now she doesn't!

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriends mom use to like me a lot , until one day she caught us ditching school, and well... Then she started talking shit , what do i do cuz i feel well always felt i can't be in a relationship w/o a mother approving . So what should i do?!... (52 words

She keeps betraying my trust, what should I do?

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18 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - So here's the situation. I've liked this girl for as long as I've known her, I never asked her out cuz I though she was married or dating someone which I was correct. She was dating this guy for like two years and one night we met at the club and partied and hooked up, ... (1047 words

How do I get over my anxiety?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really like my boyfriend, but when we go to kiss I get so nervous, maybe its becuase i'm not experienced with kissing or anything and he is. So when we kiss i just keep my mouth closed and continue to kiss him and I can feel the tip of his tongue like he wants me to open my ... (96 words

We just got married, but he doesn't want to have sex every night!

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18 July 2010 (F age - My husband of only 2 weeks doesn't want to have sex every night, Is this normal?... (16 words

Is there anything we can do to keep him from getting sore?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi all my partner and i have been together for two and a half years now and have a six month old daughter. He is 20 and i am 19, I have really been enjoying sex lately and want it all the time, we have had it the last 2 days but only once per day, i wanted it again today bu... (129 words

What does it mean when I feel this during sex?

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi all, just a quick question sometimes when your having sexy time, you know what i mean and its mind blowing, that urge that feels like you guna wee, if you let yourself carry on do you wee or is it something else? probably a dumb question.... (47 words

I'm in love with him, but he's still with his girlfriend!

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - im in love with my boyfriend but he still has a girlfriend i knew he had a girlfriend before we got together but i let my feelings get the best of me and started going out with him anyway.. he tells me he's not happy with her anymore and what they had is fading he says he's ... (156 words

I have small breasts, will guys like me?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am really tall and have been told i have a nice but and long legs but my breast size is pretty small normal for my age but will guys be into me???... (33 words

Does he love me and just can't say it?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So I've been on and off with this guy for about half a year now. It's complicated because he is three years older than me. So I'm in high school and he goes to College in another state. We are friends right now but we act just like people would in a relationship. We are very ... (236 words

I'm not interested in my best friend, but I compare other boys I date to him!

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - John and i are really good friends. He's like "big brother" to me. John has a girlfriend. off and on relationship. john and i talk and hang out just like any other friends. but when were hanging out he'll try to kiss me, and he's giving me signals that he wants to go out with ... (136 words

I feel guilty about having sex with my dead cousin's husband

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i had sex with my causins husband. i feel bad,cause i respect him and he is not over my causin. my causin past away last year june and he is still single. i help him by cleaning his house and do the washing every friday. he also gave me his spare keys,so that i can be welcome.... (129 words

Question on becoming a better agony aunt

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18 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Need advice to become a better agony aunt :P didnt feel it belonged asked in the question section since its not a relationship question. Lately, more and more questions are coming to my inbox. I've had everything from dating problems to marriage problems. I mean, its goo... (186 words

His ex-girlfriend won't let him go!

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am looking for some advice. my fiancee has this ex-girlfriend who won't let him go. i have found notes that she has written him and they make me feel uncomfortable. i have talked to him about this and he swears up and down that he doesn't encourage her behavior, but i dont ... (132 words

Did I sexually assault someone?

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey Everyone. Sorry that this is so long, but it’s been bothering me and I have to get it off my chest, and see what people’s opinions are so hopefully I can put my mind to rest. Here is my story as I best remember it and as truthfully as possible. About four years ago, I got ... (722 words

What is the meaning behind her staring at me?

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18 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Alright to make this quick and to the point. I ran into this girl a week ago (nearly dated my sophomore year, but my friend was an ass to her, so we stopped talking and havent talked in 2 years, im a sr now), but basically ignored her while i talked to her friends that wer... (260 words

He says he loves me, than breaks up with me. Help please?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been with this guy for a really long time. He's told me he's only fell in love once, until he met me. He broke up with me a couple months ago. I found out he broke up with me because he was falling in love with me and didn't want to risk getting hurt if I ever broke ... (120 words

What does "its nice" mean?

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18 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - OK, so when I'm out among (good) friends, and the women talk, and they happen to talk about lovers, the phrase "he has a nice cock" often pops up. Never "he has a big cock" or "he has a wide one"or whatever. So what the hell is a "nice" cock, anyway? Is it a combination of ... (114 words

Everyone says we should date... except her.

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've known this girl for six months now. She's intelligent, beautiful, funny, compassionate, cheerful, and just the right touch of nerdy. She and I are college students. We're three years apart, but in most respects, we're perfectly compatible. Same interests, beliefs, sense of ... (241 words

I'm not sure what I want to be with my boyfriend..

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Plese help, I'm sooo confused. I've been with my boyfriend a year and 5 months now and things between us are good. I care about him alot and can't see us breaking up anytime soon but sometimes I just get so confused. Like I don't feel like I feel about him as I should and it ... (180 words

She tells her ex "I love you"

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey everyone Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year and this is a girl that I have incredibly loved since the beginning of our relationship and she seems to be the perfect match for me. But I'm terribly afraid she is cheating with her ex. She is almost neighbor... (325 words

He's a great guy but wants more than friendship and I can't give it!

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18 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - Hi. So, I have been having an issue with a friend of mine. He is literally one of my best friends and for a while I thought we were perfect for eachother, and we ended up kissing a few days ago. I now realize that for one he's too clingy for me, and two he needs a girl that ... (229 words

Should I try to get back with either of my ex boyfriends?

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i'm really not sure what to do. i just went off to college this past year and i broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years for a boy i met there. we only dated for 3 months before breaking up because, despite being a sweetheart, was a bit too controlling and overbearing for my ... (321 words

Haven't had sex with my husband for over a year.

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - my husband and I haven't had an intimate relationship for over a year. we have been married for 7 years and we have had sex on average twice a month. He always has excuses, he is tired, he had to work and study, he lost his dad and he was sad, he is stressed out, and all the ... (118 words

How to be happy without drugs...

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I have dabbled in to just about every drug in my past. Only a few have stuck with me and those are marijuana and pain killers. I also drink on occasion. Anywho I recently quit the drugs and just drink on occasion. Since I have quit I feel like I have no life or ... (289 words

I'm in love with my ex and cant move on.

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Im in love with my ex girlfriend and I cant move on. Its so hard. She wont even let me talk to her cause of something that I did to end our friendship after we broke up. I dont know what to do!... (43 words

He leans on his charm to get him out of bad situations!

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Doubts, concerns... Met this guy 6 months ago in my acting class. Right off the bat he let everyone know he was going through a rocky patch in his relationship with his g/f of 4 months. He was quick in describing her as a total psycho and expressing his desire to leave h... (868 words

Living in the shadow of his ex

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18 July 2010 (F - How much time should I give this? My b/f of 5 years has had a difficult time getting over his ex, whom he was with for only 2 years, but they were engaged and she betrayed him big time. I met him 2 years after the break up and he wasn't over her at the time. He was still ... (389 words

Can I be sued?

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18 July 2010 (? age 41-50 - I am dating a married woman. Can her husband sue me? ... (13 words

We fight ALL the time and it gets really out of hand. How much is too much?

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18 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. For the first 6 months, it was great, hardly ever fought, we had so much fun together, we went out places, he bought me things and vice versa. We just loved doing things for eachother. But for the past month, all it's been is arg... (357 words

My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.

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18 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I've come to learn that she w... (244 words

Boyfriend accepted another girl's number. Should I be worried?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are long distance for a few months due to work. We were joking around by text and I was like oh darn I got this new computer, you're not gonna have a girlfriend for awhile! And he goes, it's not gonna be difficult to get another one. This girl around my age ... (215 words

After I deleted his facebook post he won't talk to me!

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy about a month ago at a club in my hometown and we really hit it off. I liked him, but he was way more into me than I was into him. Since he lives about 6 hours away, we would mostly text/im each other. He came down again to my hometown about two weeks after we met ... (434 words

Can men and women be friends? He doesn't want to even try.

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - There's a guy I've known for some time. Many months ago, he expressed an attraction and interest in me. Then later on I expressed the same. From then, we flirted and teased each other for many months. We finally met up, had great conversation, made out some and really ... (143 words

I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!

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18 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the short of it is i got her pregnant ... (223 words

Is she teasing me or testing me?

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18 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm a little confused... But I'll give some background info first. When I was about 12-15 this girl and her mum came to the same church as me. She (the girl) was really pretty and i was quite infatuated with her at the time. I never saw anyone else speak to them or make them ... (655 words

What can I do to feel better about myself?

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18 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - What can I do to feel better about myself? i split up with my fiance last year after 7 hellish years and had to enrol in a debt programme as he left me on the floor i lost so much confidence and with the help of 2 good friends started building up again. at the end of last yea... (182 words

I love my husband but I believe I'm in love with the other guy. What is a girl to do please help.

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I need some serious advice, I met my husband when I was twenty years old. We married when I was twenty three, I am now twenty eight years of age. He always had a problem keeping a job or quitting one. As his girlfriend I offer my opinion, as his wife I advised him and hope ... (327 words

Is it weird to be a virgin at 24?

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18 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I haven't found a girl yet. I could if I wanted to. In college I had some chicks reject me. I could have gone for girls that I wasn't interested in. I could have hooked up with them, but I didn't. But now I'm 24, and haven't had sex. I'm slightly worried that I haven't ... (129 words

He loves me and cares about me but isn't in love with me anymore...

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18 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend had been together 19 months when he decided to end it. I asked him for the reason and he said that his feeling have just changed. He loves me and cares about me but isnt in love with me anymore and hates himself for it. I also asked if there was anyone else ... (189 words

Should I just sit and wait for him to respond?

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18 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy while studying abroad in Italy this past spring- I would say we were together for about a month before I had to return home and we decided to stay in touch, especially as my family is from Italy (I speak Italian fluently) and am planning to return at least for a ... (287 words

Forgot to take my pill twice... could I be pregnant?

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18 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi im on the pill and i forgot to take it two days in a row the secound day i forgot i took it at 7pm then after that 1 hour later i had sex and had continued to take it the rest of the days. is there a chance i could be pregnant? ... (58 words

How can I take the initiative and show him I like him without coming on too strong?

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18 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have fallen for a guy I used to work for. He does not know it yet but the attraction has been growing for months. I can tell he is attracted to me also by the way he looks at me and some things he says. I am worried we are going to drift apart now that we are not working ... (200 words

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