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Why would he post this song as his away message?

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - If a guy talks about how relaxing and sweet this song is on a Friday late at night (not to you, just his AIM away status), is he in love with someone new? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-Z3YrHJ1sU and feature=related Lyrics... (301 words

I only like to watch lesbian porn, does this mean I'm gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dont judge me but i started watching porn a few weeks ago but only like female solo or lesbians... so does this mean i am a lesbian? thanks :)... (30 words

He has trust issues and I have issues with my weight, should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok i have a question ive been in a long distance relationship with this guy for about 7 wks i really like him but he has trust issues which i do to and hes been hurt alot i see it on his facebook how hes always struggling alone and stuff and he never tells me about anything ... (453 words

How can I lose the weight I put on during pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi ppl I am a 22 yrs cute MOMMY AND WIFE:-))))) but I got a problem after I had my baby which is like 5 yrs ago I just cant loss my fatty belly!!! I have try mostly everything I love my husband and he's a very young guy to only 25 and I know he loves me ,he does not have any ... (110 words

Breaking-up and no contact

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10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend for one year and three months. He broke up with me because he found out I was constantly lying to him. I ended up seeking treatment and counseling for all my issues. When I was with my boyfriend, I lived with someone else that he didn't know about. ... (263 words

Why does my girlfriend always ask me to stop?

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10 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - when me and my girlfriend are fooling every time i can get her to the point where she wants to cry from pleasure. she tenses up very tightly and begs me to stop and makes me stop and i do. she says that she cant go any farther and when i ask why she says she just can't. can ... (113 words

Separated, girlfriend got pregnant, had abortion, he wants her friendship but wants us to work it out, how??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - my husband and i have had our ups and downs and so on may 30th 2010 i left him and during the 3wks i was go he met someone else and they had ben having sex and i coame back so we could work things out and things were going fine and then i find out the day after that he got his ... (93 words

He's 19 years older than me, could he like me?

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I dont know if this guy likes me or not. we have a 19 year age gap. i am 26 and he is 45. My name is Beth and he calls me Bethy. His name is Malc, and i call him Malcy. I guess it would seem like we are flirting with each other when we call each other those nicnames, do you ... (586 words

I want to be intimate with my boyfriend, but past memories of being molested get in the way!

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Please help me any advice or tips! im going to try keep this short, so here goes: i was molested for a number of years in my past. i now have a wonderful bf who is caring and understands that i have issues from the abuse i went through. so my problem is that when we get ... (175 words

How can I hide the fact that I'm a virgin?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay i am 18 years old and i am a virgin. It sucks cus i dont really want the guy i first have sex with to know that. Can i hide it somehow? Would the shower work? It could wash down the drain so it wont leave me in the "spur of the embarrased moment". I just want to shove a ... (185 words

Is 160 pounds a healthy weight for my height?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Im 16 and i weigh 205 im around 5"7 ish and i want to be around 160 lbs i dont want to be super skinny so is that a good weight? Im not asking for any dieting or exercising help cause i have that part handled..... I also have a big lower back hump which makes me so mad any ... (72 words

My husband isn't interested in having sex with me, but had sex with a stripper!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - my husband doesnt want to make love to me or even me touching him do you think that their is someone else i use to wake him up with love making before and now he says he doesnt like it whats really going on this past october he told me that he had sex with a stripper durning ... (119 words

Why doesn't my girlfriend show me affection?

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10 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - me and my girl has been together for 2-3 months. we had the same class in school and started talking when we saw each other. at that time she had a boyfriend and talked to me about her relationship with him. we also talked about anything else and ended up getting close. we ... (301 words

What can I do to be more mature??

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am 25 and I act mature sometimes but I need to on a regular basis or else I will never be able to have a stable relationship. What can I do?... (32 words

I'm 14, he's 18. He wants to have sex but doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i really like this boy and he's eighteen and we've been really close for ages. he say he wants to have sex with me and do other stuff but he doesnt want a relationship or know what he wants. it really upsets me coz he would be a great bf but i dont know if we can stay friends ... (137 words

Is there an approximate timeline for relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating this guy for about 1.5 months and we started out really fast. I'm kind of scared because I feel like we're going too fast and even though he says he'll wait until I'm ready, he still tries to touch me... ... (149 words

I'm 14, he's 20, he wants a commitment, I don't, how do I get him to stop texting me??

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - this boy i was with brought me gifts and said he wanted to get married and have kids and get our own place as soon as possible. im only fourteen and he is twenty. i just founf out he has a four year old daughter with his ex and i ended it, he keeps texting me saying he wants me ... (159 words

He's on again then off again, never know what's up, should I forget him??

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So i like this guy and we i told him i liked him in december 23, 2009 and he didnt say anything and on february 3 2010 we started talking on aim for 2 hours and he would comment on my facebook status and w.e so now i still like him i feel like he was playing mind games, my ... (123 words

Does wearing tight boxer shorts lower a man's sperm count??

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I heard that when a guy wears tight boxers it lowers there sprem count is that true? Thanks.... (18 words

My mom and dad don't like my fiancee and we don't speak at all, any suggestions??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok where do i start im 25 im a mum of three my eldest is six then 4 and i have a baby of 6 months.....i first got with my boyfriend and got pregnant very quickly he is older than me so obviously my parents had there concerns but he made me happy we moved in and we are still ... (332 words

He doesn't like my son, treats him awful, is he resentful because he is not his father??

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10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - why does he dislike my son? My partner and i have known each other for 11yrs, when we first met my son from a previous relationship was only 18mts. This guy and i dated for roughly a yr when suddenly he ended it saying he couldnt be a father to my son. I had never suggested ... (222 words

What is the female equivalent for viagra??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - When a man can't get an erection he can use viagra. But is there something for girls to help them feel more horny?... (23 words

Big age difference, he has left wife with five kids, can this relationshio survive??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age - What should one do when they have met a guy who is a lot older than themselves and married with five children but the marriage is not good. That guy then askes you out and this then causes major upset for their family. I mean real upset, parents not happy sibling terrible and ... (95 words

Never in a relationship with a boy before, I might be bi, don't know for sure, any suggestions here??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am in 7th grade and like EVERY other girl in my school has been in a relashionship BUT ME! Is there something wrong with me that boyz dont like? Some stuff about me: I have brown hair a little past my shoulders I play TONS of basketball and softball I have a littl... (169 words

I'm bisexual, she likes someone else, I like her, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - im bisexual and i fancy my best friend im only 13 and i dont know what to say or do when she talks about a guy she likes and i like her alott x i no im supposed to be to younge to no what i am xx but im pretty sure x shes always on my mind and i just dont want to make it ... (82 words

Men, how do I get a guy to ask me out on Facebook, with subtlety??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - question for the guys - how do I get a guy I've known since I was little to ask me out on facebook, without being so obvious?... (27 words

Spotting, uncomfortable feeling, what could be the problem??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am fourteen years old. I have only had oral sex ( recieving . ) but it was three months ago. Since then I have been masturbating . Recently, I've felt the urge to pee a lot more and it comes without warning . When I go to use the restroom almost nothing comes out . I am not ... (172 words

Would like a little sage advice on giving to notch blowjobs??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3224 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Any tips on giving an amazing blowjob?... (7 words

I think my b/f may have slept with my sister -- should I confront him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating a guy for just under 3 years and, up until now, we've been so happy. About a fortnight ago, I went away for four days to celebrate the wedding of a family friend in Paris. My boyfriend stayed at home. I phoned him every evening. On the second night I w... (592 words

Never in the mood for sex anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3245 days ago

10 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - I have been married for eight years.I have three kids.For the last two years I don't feel like having sex often.My husband is a wonderful man and he means the world to me.It makes me feel bad when he tells me why I'm not in the mood like I was before.I used to love having sex ... (82 words

How can I lose weight for vacation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So summers here and I go on holiday in just over 4 week. I'm 16 years old, 4ft 11" and weigh 9 stone (which I know is overweight) I really want to lose weight and tone up because just over a year ago I weighed 7 stone and was really slim and could fit in what I wanted although ... (233 words

Should I confront him about the Viagra?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 20 year old female. I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. He is absolutely wonderful and I love him. Our sex life also has been good but there were couple times he had some trouble performing. A few days ago, I found prescription viagra under his... (197 words

Is he secretly holding a grudge, or is he really over what I've done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for three years now, and in that time he has been perfect. He is loyal, respectful, loving and kind. However, I myself havent not been an angel. Although I didn't do anything obviously wrong I have sometimes crossed the line. For instance, I used to ... (169 words

What can I expect to happen when I lose my virginity?

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - what are the signs one sees when she looses her virginity?... (11 words

She keeps requesting me as a friend on Facebook, and I keep denying her, but she's persisting! What is she thinking?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Alright to make this short and quick as possible, my ex dragged me on with her for 6months. I basically waited for her. I decided to move on and so I'm like alright imma just delete her off facebook and I did this was like a week ago, and like a couple days after that I got a ... (156 words

What has changed with online dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Besides becoming more popular, has online dating changed somehow over the last 3 years? I've done the online dating thing on and off for a few years and if I was interested in my dates had about a 25% success ratio, meaning multiple dates, relationships, sex... I started agai... (150 words

She keeps running from me to other guys and back again. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - A girl and myself started dating 4 years ago. We dated for 3 years and I decided to propose, I did and she accepted. She had became my the beat friend i had ever had and def wanted to spend my life with her. However 3 months after I proposed I found out she was sending messages ... (360 words

Did my friend blow his chance with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - my friend likes this girl but when she said she liked him he got scared and said he didnt like her now they are really weird around each other although he still stares ate her ALOT. Has he blown it??... (40 words

Why does he think he can treat me like something he just scraped off the bottom of his shoe?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - why does he think he can treat me like something he just scraped off the bottom of his shoe? everyday i leave the house at around half nine he will hit me with a nasty name or just try to star a conflict between us. after i have been out gone to see my mother, he meets me in to... (124 words

Why is his main priority hanging out now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So its abit of a complicated situation but basically me and my best guy friend flirted alot and i liked him more then a friend, he hadnt had a gf in awhile and often told me he felt lonely, and then one day he got a gf. we didnt see each other for about a month and i bumped ... (120 words

Does anyone else have a problem with texting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Anyone else feels the same about texting or it's just me? I have a real problem w/texting. It seems to me that guys just love doing it for several reasons: they can text few girls at the same time, they don't have to continue converstaion they don't like, they don't have ... (405 words

I'm just "not in the mood" very often!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for eight year.I have three kids.For the last two year I have been having Problems with my husband.I simple don't feel like having sex very often.Maybe four to five times a month.My husband is a wonderful man and he means the world to me.It makes me feel bad ... (73 words

Why he doesn't want to be in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - This guy is single but doesn't want to be in any relationship right now. He was on the process of divorcing his wife and he was discussing with me how he lost that trust to women. We are friends or a little more than friends but we're not in a bf-gf relationship.. we share ... (121 words

He's AMAZING in bed but I need to make it clear that I'm not looking for a relationship . . . How should I do tha

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - A few days ago I asked out one of my co-worker work-study students out to lunch. It went great, he was a real gentleman, and I liked that. He invited me over to his place last night to watch a movie...you can guess where that went, lol. Before that, however, we were talking, ... (230 words

Was it a weird vaginal exam?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi All I got a strange question, but looking at this site i dont think it will be too strange lol,,,, ok My Wife is pregnant and she is due next week, she was at the hospital yesterday to register herself, they did a few tests as usual, and one male nurse said he had to che... (112 words

Should I keep my weird sexual fantasy to myself?

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10 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - I have a really wierd sexual fantasy and I'm pretty sure any guy who ever heard it would run a mile! So should I just keep it to myself unless someone who I judge to be open minded enough comes along? If you're thinking what could be so wierd I have a thing for men who dres... (81 words

How do I express the things I didn't get to say to my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I still have some anger and things i left unsaid to my ex. My mom suggested writing a letter. I'm considering writing a facebook message and sending it to him, just to express how I feel so I don't have to bottle the emotions up. Does it seem like a good idea? We were an ldr, ... (93 words

No memory of being naked in bed with my ex after the party!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Last night I went to a party that my ex was at and got so badly drunk that i remember very little of what happened. This morning my friend was helping me fill in some of the gaps, and she said that she came into a bedroom to find me naked in bed with my ex. I have absolutely no ... (274 words

I think I need to break off the LDR but unsure how to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I am a young man from Germany who is in a long-distance relationship with a Brazilian girl from Brazil. We met 4 years ago, over the internet. I visited her the first time 3 years ago and since then we were in a long-ass-distance relationship. I am currently studyi... (410 words

My b/f upset because he says I encouraged guy who asked me out!

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - A guy I didn't expect to, asked me out, when I am already in a relationship with someone else. I told him I'm already committed and suggested if he wanted we could just remain friends. Now my boyfriend thinks that I shouldn't have "encouraged " him and should just ignore h... (77 words

Why is my family being so hurtful towards my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I just started dating this guy last Tuesday. The next day we got together and had a first date. It was nice we were holding hands and trying to get to know one another by talking. He always calls me but I’ve been having family troubles so lack of sleep and eating. My close ... (414 words

No contact will he ever come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is it possible that my boyfriend of five months who stopped answering my calls or calling me for three weeks now return to me. Or does this mean he is gone for ever? We did not have a serious problem what happened is that he just stopped taking my calls or calling me. I was ... (100 words

Does anyone out there ever look at their life& realise this isn't what your life was meant to be like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Does anyone out there ever look at their life and realise this isn't what your life was meant to be like? I'm 27 and am probably going through some life crisis lol! The thing is I know what I DON'T want out of life but I don't know what I DO want! I work in an offic... (244 words

Easy cookbook for my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age - My wife has never done any but the easiest cooking. I have always done it all, including the housekeeping, bills, insurance, etc. We are temporarily separating because of a certain problem we're having, and I would like the title and author of a simple cookbook she could use ... (73 words

Do I risk losing the relationship with my family and my kids for a relationship with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I left my fiance, 5 year relationship because id had enough of his anger and violence. He didnt hit me but did a lot of yelling, broken many things, thown things at me, attacked his kids when enraged, kicked property etc, lost the respect of my teenage kids and has ... (418 words

Is he taking me for being a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - hey! this may be a long question since the story itself is quite long winded so please bear with me as advice would be greatly appreciated! my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. i have 2 children from a previous relationship, 15 and 18, and he has three childr... (435 words

He says he loves me, but also loves his girlfriend? Help please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey guys, hope you can help me in my situation.??Basically me and this guy have known each other for 4 years, we always liked each other, but knew we couldnt do anything about our feelings. We were always very very close mates and always there for each other.??once we had known ... (330 words

He won't move out and the police don't help..how do I evict my 46yr old drug addicted roommate?

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10 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Please help with this problem. I live with a guy who smokes crack frequently. It didn't start out this way years ago when I met him. He was in AA and clean. He started this, unbenownst to me at the time, when he took his first drink again after failing AA. He has stolen money ... (222 words

Tensing during masturbation?

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10 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - is it normal to tense your muscles even knees when you masturbate? so you can ejaculate... (16 words

Can I buy stuff online without my parents knowledge?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I love my mum,shes wonderful but there are some things that you just cant tell your parents no matter how close you are. My mother has an ebay acount,I'm under 18 and need to buy a breast binder for personal reasons,This isn't something my mum will take well,it would upset her ... (114 words

He wants friends with benefits but I'm a virgin. Do I tell him?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 20 and part of me is worried I'm still a virgin but the other part i don't care and it's something I am proud of because I have done it out of choice. I don't want to lose it in a one night stand even though theres been several oppotunities. I think I'm having a sort of ... (203 words

My mom doesn't like me dating my friend!

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - A month ago I started a rebound relationship with my best friend. it was a mutual rebound but in the past month we started falling for each other. Then he found out he was moving, and moved about a hour away from here. The only problem is, my mom doesn't like him. she doesn't ... (136 words

How do you know when you are ovulating?

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - how do i know when am ovulating?... (7 words

I can't stop crying! I've never had to deal with this kind of a loss

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me because he was going away for 2 months and a bit. Weve been together for pretty much a year and he told me he loved me the night before which makes it really hard to move on. His mother tried to stop him from spending time with me, hes 19! so i ... (120 words

Is there anything romantic about having sex with a prostitute?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I'm not going to lie. I have made love to prostitutes before. I have tried to be gentle with them (women of course). But I want to know...is there anything romantic or beautiful about making love to prostitutes? I need to get it off my conscience. I don't want to feel guilty ... (126 words

We can't stop arguing constantly over the lack of attention he gives me... is there any hope for us??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old mom to a one-year-old. My boyfriend (not my sons father) and i recently moved closer to my family accross the country. so we have a blended family so to say now. My bf has an eight year old daughter too. To the piont now, We argue constantly. I will adm... (265 words

Irregular period? Or bleeding from sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Am I bleeding because of his intensive fingering or do I just have an irregular period? Hi Um im very scared and i just want to know if this would be my period or if his nails was the problem or it was his finger that broke my hymen i dont know.. Well i came over and we w... (276 words

How can I become more confident and communicate my desires more effectively?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, I love him a lot- and our sex life is as good as it can be, at the moment. We're a curious couple and we still have a lot of spark- so we try a lot of different things: limited only by my lack of self-esteem. My body ... (231 words

Why do some people feel the need to brag and put others down?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

10 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - I had dinner last night with an old friend from college. After she asked what my other friends and I have been up to her reply was, "Oh I see nothing has changed." She then proceeded to tell me about how she travels to different places for work and how she works so much. She ... (162 words

Is he going to marry me or am I fooling myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He enticed me to move to another country with him in our second year together and within weeks of living together I knew I wanted to marry him. He moved to further his career and is now 35. Unfortunately, I had to retrain because my ... (381 words

What is the proper etiquette for meeting my boyfriend's ex?

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10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - We are now married with my boyfriend, since he has a good friendship with his ex girlfriend he wanted me to introduce to her. I feel so hesitated and not comfortable to see her hence thinking that they have a past and long relationship together. With this situation, what must i ... (64 words

Did I come on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

10 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - About two weeks ago i met this girl in a club, chatted with her for about 1hr till the club closed and got her number. Anyways i found out that she liked me and wanted to go on a date with me. i called her after two days and went on a date with her, we went to a restaurant and ... (357 words

Are growth enhancers safe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well according to my friends im a little on the short side. 15 and about 5'2..they joke about it and all that and tell me i should get those growth enhancers? i was just wondering if they're safe? if they work and are reliable? and what are some of the types/names of these ... (66 words

Hot, heavy, and HPV!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

10 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm concerned! I met a man and we hit it off great. Lots of sexual energy. He has Genital warts on his penis but no where else. We've made out very intensely including oral on me. My question is, Can I catch the HPV virus by him putting his mouth on me? When we do touch his ... (87 words

I'm going crazy over this man someone pls help I need advice!!!!!!!

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i got myself into a pickle.... well this all started months ago it started when i was dating a guy named j then i met n and fell in love with him when i went to break up with j he told me he loved me and i chickened out it took 12days to buil up the courage to break up with him ... (483 words

Are you supposed to feel sad about a breakup you caused?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year amd 3 months today basically because he just wasn't the one. I know, its not like I'm looking for someone to marry at my age but although he was great and nothing was wrong with him, he just wasn't for me so I no longer wanted to waste ... (91 words

How do I stop thinking about her?

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10 July 2010 (? age - I had a bestfriend for 2 years. We have gotten in so many fights in 1 year. It was all me. I dont know why, but we always had a fight over stupid stuff. So i got mad at her again, but this time it hurt me and the next day she told me she didnt want to be my friend anymore.I ... (98 words

Does he no longer love me?

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend for the past year Travis is a very possessive jealouse unconfadent violent angry a bully aswell as does abuse me physicially or has in the past he doesnt work or helpto provide food or pay rent or anything like that. Reciently Travis was in jail for four months and ... (294 words

Is this a yeast infection or something entirely different?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, this is really embarrassing but i have a "feminine problem!". i rlly hope this isnt too graphic and im trying to make it as clean as possible! well yesterday i slept over a friends house and i felt fine alll day. then that night, around 2:30am we went to bed and i went into ... (388 words

Why don't boys like me????

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - *OP's Original Title* I'm 13 years old and I haven had a boyfriend in a while. I'm my grade, no guys like me and no guys ask me out. I don't know why they don't like me!!!!! It is really making me upset. I'm 5 foot, have breasts and have a pretty face. I don't act like a slut i... (105 words

She's had bigger

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10 July 2010 (M age - just wondering how others feel, wife was quite open about past lovers , no problems there, from the time she started having sex she said she had some big ones, 8, to 9 inches, 5in around, said they hurt but had a gleem in her eye talking about em, I'm not that big....needlest ... (79 words

I love him! Does he love me or just want sex?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating this person for 8 months now and we have yet to say i love you to one another. The problem is i do love them but i dont think they love me and I refuse to be the first to say it. i dont know if they really like me or just like sex- the physical aspect has ... (72 words

Should I go out with him or wait or not even at .all?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - *OP's Original Title* i know this guy who im starting to like but we are still just getting to know each other. he keeps telling me he likes me but i said we should wait to go out until hes older because the problem is right now hes twelve. he said hes turning thirteen in septe... (297 words

Should I leave my wife for the love of my life?

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10 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have been married for almost 25 years now, other than sex , we have never had much of a relationship, We could drive across country and speak very little to each other. She is deeply in love with me. We have four children but only one is left at home. 5 years ago , I met ... (212 words

I don't get wet when turned on!

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating my current boyfriend for awhile now and at first the sex was great! However lately, I can't seem to get wet at all even if I am super turned on. We have started using lubricants but is something wrong with me? why can't I get wet all the sudden??... (53 words

Help! I stumbled across his porn!

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, so I was sending an email from my boyfriends laptop and went to attach my CV to it and the last thing he had been accessing on his laptop came up first - this happened to be a folder containing photos of naked celebrity women. I was quite shocked since I did know he watc... (399 words

Why did he sleep with her?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - *OP's Original Title* Okay well my ex boyfriend and I broke up. Why is because he wanted to do things that i didnt and anyway he crashed my facebook and put all over it that i am goin gay and im a slut and everyting like that. Well know he claims he didnt do it and then he ... (173 words

Guys, why don't you just call?

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10 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - I need male input - why do you all of a sudden disappear? and are there certain rules to follow when texting/calling a girl? this baffles me! I did not come on too strong nor talked relationship, ex, or sexual. what's the deal?... (43 words

Does "best friend' mean "just friends"?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, if a guy you like calls you his "best friend" does that mean you have no chance of being with him or could there still be hope. Thanks so much =)... (33 words

What's does "probably" mean?

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10 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - So I asked a guy out for the first time ever earlier thi week, asked him if we were still on, and he said 'probably so'. what does 'probably' mean and why?! He's the one who got my number and initiated all texts. I have not been the serial psycho text girl....I've been a little ... (62 words

Help! I like him but I'm scared to get close!

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10 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused right now. I've been with my boyfriend for just 4 weeks now and we've already been through a dramatic roller coaster ride. This is my first relationship so I don't know what the heck i'm doing and his first since middle school. I blame part of the drama on ... (778 words

She's living off the guy. Should I just stay away until she figures it out?

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10 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Long story short, I fell for a younger girl whom I was friends with for several years -- we're both artists and have come to respect each other's work, and after interacting with her for a while I do think that she might have some interest in me. I actually asked her out once ... (499 words

Can my parents take my phone?

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10 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I know this is not a relationship help request but I would like to know... Can my parents take away my phone if they didn't pay or it and I did with my own money... (35 words

Help to deal with alcoholic wife

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10 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - my wife of 21 years has some major problems with motivation. first, she is an alcoholic and a lazy one at that. she refuses to work to help the family in a tough financial time. wont cook, clean, pay bills, pretty much stays in bed allday and when i get home complains and lies ... (170 words

Shouldn't a newly-wed have a higher sex drive?

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I are newly-weds. We have been together for three years and have been married for 2 weeks. We're both 20. We've had plenty of sex in the past and I used to think i was a nympho because i always wanted to have sex with him.. But latly I have had little to no sex ... (157 words

I'm gay, but attracted to my wife. Am I wrong?

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10 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm gay, that means I'm sexually attracted to other guy and not to a girl. That's a biological fact, I accepted that. I currently married to a woman and I consider my life happy. Sure I'm not sexually attracted to my wife but there is something else that makes me attracted to ... (86 words

I'm almost 19 and have never even kissed a girl!

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10 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello. I'm 18, nearly 19 and I have never kissed a girl before, infact I've never hooked up with a girl before (or whatever all you hip kids are calling it nowadays). I feel there are several factors affecting this. 1; I'm a naturally very reclusive person, with unusual ... (297 words

I was molested, but my boyfriend is apathetic!

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10 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, I'm having a bit of a dilema.. I've been with my boyfriend for two years and 8 months (tomorrow, the 10th, will be 9 months). We've never been a problematic couple and we always try not to argue. But now things have turned for the worst. I'll start from the beginning (i... (1279 words

I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?

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10 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I have a meeting with him he is ... (279 words

He's begging to come back but I just don't have the strength. Any comments?

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10 July 2010 (F age - I have been married for almost 17 years, but have been separated for the last 12 months. I separated beacuse I just could not take anymore, the lies, the secrets, etc... He just was not a man, I mean in taking care of the house or me. nor was he a man in paying the bills. I... (159 words

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