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Scared to give a blowjob because of the way it tastes!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend asked me to give him a blowjob but I dont want too because he'll cum in my mouth I never tasted cum before and if i dont like it i'll be afraid I'll get sick so what does Cum taste like?... (43 words

Problems staying erect, think it's psychological

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hello,Im a very frustrated 49 years old guy right now. Im married 22 years ago,and I love my wife.But I have a serous sex problem. I cant stay erect,and also I have no sexual desire,and on the top I have premature ejaculation,and it goes on now quite sometimes.I went to -do... (164 words

I back down and then resent it. What to do when we fancy the same guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - This is going to sound strange But I hate seeing my ex's or people I like snogging my friends It really hurts me. I know I,m a very very very Jealous person when it comes to fella's but it upsets me. When one of my friends fancies a guy and I fancy them too I back down and let ... (131 words

Moving on from abuse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi this is my story i was with my ex for 9 months , when i first met him he told me he had split up with his ex 6 months previous they had been married for 20 years and had 2 children aged 17 and 19 but they dont want to know him or speak to him , he told me his wife and kids... (370 words

Should I confront my best friend about this?

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3 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - * OP's Original Title * I'll try and keep this short. I have a female best friend. Last autumn, a few people thought they saw a change in her behaviour that suggested she liked me more than as a friend. She was asked by a mutual friend if this was the case and she said no.... (317 words

I feel guilty watching porn

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3 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm not a good english speker.but i tray.... my probllem is watching Porno movies. at that time I'm not happy b/c i used masterbeshen.... after all the thing happen i hate my self. allwayes I ask my mind why im doing this but i didn't get the answer...... pls I need ur help ur ... (55 words

Is it wrong to flirt with my sensei who's twice my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi i've recently started aikido and my sensei said i'm quite good (so much so that he's offered me a scholarship) but i really fancy my sensei. he's about 30 and i'm only 15. we get along brilliantly and we flirt a fair bit aswell, nothing heavy, just light hearted flirting. my ... (236 words

My boyfriend is isn't interested! Should I meet up with a guy who is?

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3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: Edited for readability. I am in a difficult situation and just would like to hear some real honest advice from other peoples perspective. I have a boyfriend and a son with him, we've been together for about 3 1/2 years now and we only have sex about once every 2-... (586 words

I can't live like this anymore..controlling, jealous and angry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok. So, I feel like a crazy freak. I have always had jealousy issues in every relationship I have ever had. I also get very angry very fast over nothing. Being controling is also another issue of mine. I've looked up ways to deal with this online but nothing seems to work when ... (262 words

I love him but he got another girl pregnant!

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3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: First paragraph of this question was the user's original title. Was added to the question to provide more information. Im in love with this guy,he s 25 and im 18 yrs old.he had a girlfriend but now they broke up,but this girl doesnt wana let him go n she is pregnant... (99 words

What is the proper etiquette for this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So, about 6 months ago, I met a guy on a music website. We've been IMing and Skyping ever since and we've gotten to be pretty good friends. Ever since we started talking we've flirted a lot but it's always been clear that it was a 'just friends' relationship. Until last wee... (289 words

I got married 8 days ago and think I made a mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am lonely, only just married. I got married only eight days ago, and I am already feeling I made a mistake. He is very neglectful of me emotionally and sexually. I am a very attractive woman. I am a very sweet, kind woman. We have been living together for a year and a half. I ... (154 words

Is there another piece of jewelry that can be used to signify engagement besides a ring?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering instead of engagement rings can you have another kind of jewerly to say ur engaged or some thing like that? No i'm not actually getting engaged or anything I was just curious.... (38 words

Falling for a friend, but does he even care?

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3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok, so I'm 17 years old, just finishing my first year of A-Levels. I first met this guy when I was 14. I've been totally into him since I met him but he's really popular and I'm quite shy. (He doesn't care about being popular just a lot of people like him). We've become friends ... (242 words

Is this weird teen love?

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3 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello all cupids and readers=)! Thanks for reading my troubles and it does mean alot your willing to give free time to help so thank you for being amazing. Well lets just say im not exactly the doctor of love and at that would be an understatement. So back on topic ha, so ive ... (620 words

I'm on the verge of completely giving up on dating!

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3 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Is there anything a person can do when they feel they are on the verge of just completely giving up? Im going through a divorce that I finally started after she left me over two years ago, and never had any experience with the opposite sex before that relationship. Hell, no ... (83 words

I have a restraining order against him but I ran away with him and now I'm afraid of what he might do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have been really stupid i have recently met up with an ex of mine and i ran away to scotland with him as i have a restraining order aginst him. He is still up there but is planning to come back and im dreading it because heis violent and an alcoholic and im scared of what h... (145 words

Can I get far in psychology?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi, ive just finished my A-Levels and am waiting for my results. i have predictions of: A for psychology C business studies E music technology i do have a mixed bag of grades but i have a great passion and have over 90% average exam performance in it. however due ... (128 words

He doesn't try to resolve things, with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am masculine when it comes to problems and issues. i want to talk it out until it gets resolved. my boyfriend, on the other hand, either walks away from the situation or becomes extremely defensive even though he knows he's wrong. i just hate how he is such a girl. how do i... (76 words

2 guys want me to live with them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I live in the US with a long distance relationship with a guy who lives in Sweeden, we love eachother and we want to spend our live together but i have no way to actually go to sweeden and see him and lately just to make matters worse im in love with my friend and hes in love ... (135 words

Everything functions normally so why is it so disgusting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is slightly graphic, please do not read if you will be offended. Ok I need to know if something is wrong with me. All of my... private areas are just plain gross. My boobs are nice and big and I guess perky, but they are extremely veiny and my nipples are massive, even ... (104 words

So far, so single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - At my age, I don't have a boyfriend and I'm a pretty girl. Please tell me, is this normal? ... (19 words

Don't know if shes cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok, so here is my story, i have a girlfriend and she is 15, and i'm 15.. me and her had been together for 8 months and i really love her a lot even though me and her got into some problems. Like today, she told me that she did something fucked up with her friend. I wanted her ... (174 words

Would it be wrong to date him after they're through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi theres this friend of mine *malachi* is going out with my best friend *rosie*. well rosie introduced me to malachi in hope of us going out we got on brilliantly and were flirting, having fun stuff like that like we'd been friends for years, and then she asked him out (which ... (292 words

How can he love me from online chatting of 5 days?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello Recently a young man contacted me on a dating site he lives in france he had been on the site for 3 days he is 32 years old. He asked me if he could get to know me, i said yes so he would call me everyday send me messages every morning .He told me to tell my parents ... (161 words

My new guy keeps bringing up the old guy and making things worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3204 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I recently met a guy and his name is johnny..he's a great amazing guy, nice personality..down to earth, respectful and sweet like me...after the day we met he gave me his number and I gave him mine and we've been tlking 3 days straight now..the 2nd day he told me he loved me ... (336 words

Obsessing about the idea that she's cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3207 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am currently in a long distance relationship with a girl who for the last 3 years has been amazing. This is a temporary thing, just for the summer. I have been cheated on several times in the past, and even though she calls me every night when she goes to bed and I call her ... (168 words

I've put my heart and soul into this relationship and don't think we have a future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I'm really fed up with the way things are. Everything was great at the beginning and I was really happy. However, lately I've begun to feel miserable and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend has two teenage kids which wasn't ... (296 words

Married to a narcissist. How do I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - i am dying inside.i am married to an egocentric narcissist .i have endured him because i have young children,and because i have no one to turn to.during the 22 years of marriage he put me so much down that i am not able to stand up anymore and face the world .i feel completly ... (143 words

How do I deal with his rejection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - we have been trying for a baby and succeded after 6months of trying. in the first week finding out i'm pregnant my partner has decided he deosnt want to be with me anymore. he says he wants the baby but not me this was 5 weeks ago and he still has not changed just got nasty. ... (95 words

How can I move forward when they both have disrespected me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I felt disrespected. My partner and i had been together for 6 and half years, we also have small children. He seemed to be getting very friendly with his ex whom he has a grownup child with. The ex would text him out of blue to see if he was ok, yet she knew he was with me, i ... (223 words

Guys: what does it mean when he shakes my hand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Theres this guy I have a small crush on at work. I've only been working there a few weeks, but we every once in awhile, I catch him glancing at me, then looking away. We've sort of played the flirty game of catching each others eyes for brief moments, then looking away. Th... (261 words

How do I get him to feel safe with me and open up after what happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - My lover of three years was raped a month ago and given HIV. Now, he's even more depressed and withdrawn, he refuses to come near me, I tried to touch his hand and he flinched, he has flashbacks...this is seriously affecting our relationship. He's only 22, and I'm 29...I w... (212 words

How can I get him to confess how he feels about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - please do me a favor. i am studying in a university and that's where we met. if we weren't in the same group i don't think he would notice me and neither do i. first of all i think i might have a crush on him. for real, i might just looking for a sign from him. therefore... (449 words

Lovestruck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi Aunts, i need your help. There this guy well actually hes my best friend. I've always loved him, we have gone out together a couple of times. But now we're just friends. Since we've moved to year 8 we've grown further apart. And it breaks my heart to see him wit differen... (111 words

Why is it so difficult to keep my ex out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Why is it so difficult to keep my ex out of my mind..I have 2boys that aren't his 15 and 9 worked really hard to get to where I am. Have a great job my own apartment and raising my boys to be the best that they can be. I know the best thing to do is to leave him because he's ... (299 words

I love an older, married woman with kids. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - So I became friends with an older women and I'm 19 and she is 49 and after being friends for a little over a year she asked me if I would ever consider w having a more romantic relationship. I said ok. Well we began to fall for each other earlier on. But I realize its a 30 year ... (150 words

How do I make this pain and heartache go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

3 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hi, I broke up with this one guy i was and still am madly in love in May. The thing is, I was hoping he would come and ask me to cool down or don't make decision while I was mad. But he never did. After a week or so, I endded asking him to come back. He doesn't want it.... (410 words

Am I in a position to help him out?

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3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - we became close friends through that we had intimate.for sometime later he asked for friendship and i gave out.we became close again but unfortunate i was not able to hide my feelings for him,so i let him know it.he is now confused and does not know what to do because there is ... (110 words

What do I do about a guy who keeps changing his stories?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i've met a guy 3months ago, one day while we was having sex he told me he knows people before me, then he started laughing...thhen he would say you look very nice 4 a 3sum, this guy does'nt like me. when i do try 2 move on from him he pulls me back in and pushes me away, he's ... (222 words

Would he rather masturbate to porn than to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3208 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have been with my boyfriend going on 3years now, our sex life has always been good and we have watched porn a couple of times together before but it never realy crossed my mind about him watching it on his own until we had internet. We are together most of the time so he ... (300 words

Opinions on tattoos please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3210 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have a few tattoos, and I'm wondering if women find them attractive or if they think they look shocking? The best tattoo I have is a black dragon on my right arm. I don't know if it looks scarey or not. One of the reasons I have tattoos is to cover up scars and disfigu... (112 words

She has no sex drive and says there's nothing she can do about it...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3209 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I are in our late 20's, been married for several years. There is no intimacy in the marriage. Which means there is no sex, very rarely any sexual activities (none that ever involve her sexual parts), etc. This is very difficult for me, throughout the years I've ... (284 words

How do I ask him to get tested without offending him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My guy and I want to start having sex. He is a little older than me, so we're waiting two months until I turn 18, just to be safe with the law. I am a virgin; he has had a number of partners in the past. What is the best way to ask him to get tested for STDs? I don't want him ... (132 words

My gay friend is in denial, but he slept with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey all, I am a bi-sexual male and have had another male partner who is gay. For around twelve months our relationship together has never been serious, however, the two of us have had intercourse numerous times. My problem is that he now has a problem with himself being ga... (77 words

Could my physiotherapist be flirting with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been going to physiotherapy for the past week because I injured my hip and lower back. I think my physiotherapist (26 years old, single) is flirting with me but I am not sure. - He is always smiling at me - He asks a lot of personal, getting to know you questions (w... (171 words

How do you start an on line affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi aunts, I need your advice. I am 27 yr old single guy. Recently after almost a year an old female friend, she is 22, got in touch with me. she got married a year ago and after her marriage she moved out and we kinda lost touch. I was attracted to her as she was sexy. No... (214 words

Both my friend and I want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok my friend had a house party there the other night and there was a really sweet nice guy there. The problem is we both fancy him. He lives on the other side of the country and just came bacck for the weekend. He lives with one of my friends and they both asked me to their ... (171 words

Do you like talking dirty during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'll be honest with you. I watch pornography quite often. Not particularly because I want to get turned on, but because I learn new positions, techniques etc I was recently talking to my (male) friend about the stuff I say during sex for e.g 'beat up my P****' and 'F*** me... (147 words

What explains why some men can have multiple orgasms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm just curious... To explain why I asked, my ex (whom I lost my virginity to and vice versa), before we had sex the first time, I assumed would probably come within just a few minutes since it was his first time. I was fine with that. Turns out, he lasted 2.5 HOURS (idk h... (194 words

I do things with other girls but then feel guilty about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have never been in a relationship with a female but I have been intimate with a few. I am definately attracted to other girls, I fantasize about kissing them, or having sex with them quiet often. I've even had fone sex and oral sex. Here is the confusing part. When I do all ... (161 words

I have a major crush but he's head over heels for my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - What am I supposed to? I'm crushing majorly on one of my friends, but the problem is he's completely head over heels for my best friend. She doesn't like him, but he won't give up. It's kinda hard to get his attention. Then again, there are times when it seems as if he likes me ... (62 words

Am I the only person that would feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3018 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a bit of a dilemma. It's likely I'm just being overly jealous, but I thought I should at least bring up the situation here. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and a half, and were friends for years before that. We've had our ups and downs, but we've... (393 words

Can he overcome his retroactive jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi. I am a 24 year old... Ive been with my current boyfriend for over 2 years now..hes 3 years older than i am. and everything is great. he's sweet and caring. we get along so well. in fact, he's the only person that I've thoughts about getting married to one day. well..that is ... (659 words

Why does my ex only talk about himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I asked him why he wants to be friends if all he does is talk about himself. And he replied that he doesnt have anything to talk to me about but he really does want to be friends and even be the best friends we were. But he wont even ask me how I am doing or what I am doing for ... (79 words

How long does someone go through a midlife crisis?

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3 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - can anyone out there help me please.how long does it take for a man to come through a midlife crises.and why do they do the hurtful things to their wife and children that they do.... (35 words

We fell head over heels for each other so what changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I'm really confused. I met this guy 6 months ago and we fell head over heels for each other straight away. We were crazy about each other, adored each other. He wanted to introduce me to his family and friends and I flew over to New Zealand to meet them as he wanted. ... (397 words

Is going back for this girl a good idea?

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3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - is going back for this girl a good idea? this girl she is a lesbian.more lesbian than i am.Im 90% lesbian and 10% into guys.shes 100% lesbian. i hated this girl at 1st.i notice her staring at me a few times when i wasn't looking.she would pass me note asking questions ab... (406 words

Why my girlfriend does not give me blowjob after I accidently ejeculated in her mouth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I and am my Girlfriend engaged in normal sex for one year. One day she said," I want to suck your penis. " She did it and I felt not much because she had not practice of doing this. One day I asked her to ejeculate with her mouth. She took away her mouth at the time of ... (186 words

Does he still want me? I can't go back until he changes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - i left my husband after being 20 yr tgether we got married 2yr ago the reason i left was because he opened a second buisness that hasnt paid him in over 2 yr and it came between us when he didnt have time for his family was stressed etc so after many discussions i left i got ... (486 words

Dating dilemma!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3210 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi Jason here, My problem is that I really love someone and they want to go out with me. Fime, but not now because she doesn't want to go out with anyone at the moment. Fine, but the same day I asked her out, on Facebook another girl asked me out. So I tell the other girl N... (117 words

I love a guy who has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am 22 years old and i am madly in love with my neighbour!!! he always kept asking me whether i am dating anyone and i assumed that he has a crush on me also!! then one day he said he is in a relation with a girl and so i was a bit heart broken! i avoided him for sometime and ... (162 words

How do you do an at home Brazilian wax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age - Hi a few weeks ago i gave my wife a full brazilian it was ok for 48 hours then she said it prickled. its now 3 weeks and is ok she like it but is worried about it pricling again. is there anyway to do it right... (53 words

Why doesn't he show he cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Well... I recently got a boyfriend, but he doesn't seem to care about me and I get worried a lot. He asked me to be his girlfriend two days before the vacation started and, even during those two days, he would never come and talk to me... I am really shy but I went to try and ... (190 words

You think I should end things with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I feel like the guy I'm seeing has been kind of ignoring me lately. In the past, if he is around his phone, and he see that its me, he would pick up/text back, or even if he missed the call/text, he would call/text back later. But recently, I feel like he is ignoring me, ... (295 words

Should I leave my wife or try and fight a dirty media event that will mar her for life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - I got divorced in Dec 2005 and re-married in April 2009, In 1999 I was involved in an incident that threatened my children's lives in the run up to the Olympics which cost us both financially and emotionally so my wife and I had trust issues due to the nature of my work (she ... (512 words

I want children but my b/f has a fear of them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3212 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm a college freshman and my boyfriend is a college sophomore. We've been dating for 2 years and a few months now, and we're super happy with our relationship. We've talked pretty thoroughly about engagement and marriage and plan to be engaged within the next 2 or 3 years. In ... (184 words

I'm very attracted to my 19 year old step sister

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3 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - i have a very atractive 19 year old step-sister im 21. we have know each other for 3 years, i have very strong sexual feelings twords her. we made out a couple of times and touched other places before. but im still nervous about asking to have sex with her. is it wrong and if ... (67 words

He's not as big so I don't get excited! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My exboyfriend had a large penis(8-9inch) and my current boyfriend got smaller (5inch) and i won't get so excited when he's in me and cant give me as much pleasure. I don't want to tell him because that would break him so what can i do ?... (47 words

I feel the need of a comforting sex where I can I can hve my heart too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am going to be 44 soon and doesn't have the looks of 44. I look much much younger to my age. Infact people mistake me to be about 25 to 30 and unmarried. I am married and have 2 sons though.My sons are 21 and 17 years old now. My husband is 8 years older to me.Though our... (595 words

Does my best friend's brother like me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3202 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I like my best friends brother, i known him for about a year or so. One day he started touching me alot in the boob area and randomly putting his hand down my shirt. But he also hugs me and i ask him why do u hug me so much? He said that he likes hugs. He waves to me alot and ... (133 words

Beauty and the beast

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, this really is a beauty and the beast type scenario. I'm not like most girls, I'm 6 foot 1 and by no means skinny. My whole life I've been told that I'm weird, different, or just not good enough, especially by men. Well, I finally met someone who fits the type of person I ... (155 words

I'm hiding a big dark secret..I'm a virgin!

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3 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm adding another woeful post to the list of adult virgins out there who need help. But my situation has an unusual twist... First off, let me just say that no matter how this will sound, I'm not being arrogant. I genuinely need help figuring this out. I am ... (333 words

Is this guy interested in an actual relationship?

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3 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'd really appreciate anyone's opinions! I met guy accidentally by the last possible way I'd ever thought I'd meet someone: on Craigslist. I wasn't looking to even get into a relationship...I was just looking for another person (male or female, in the strictly platoni... (1056 words

Are my breasts normal?

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3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Kind of awkward (note me doing it on an anonymous website), but I have some issues with my breasts... I'm 15 and they're shaped like a V. Technically I'm a B-cup, but you couldn't tell if you saw me without my bra. They go straight down with an almost flat top, just barely s... (85 words

Can a cold sore lead to genital herpes?

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - If I have a cold sore on my face and my boyfriend kisses me, if he performs oral sex can I get genital herpes from it?... (26 words

Career or a perfect man?

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are together for year and a half and he is just perfect. I dated guys and had serious relationships but this man is just 10/10 in every way he is caring, loving, best looking, great shape, smart, charming, funny, best in bed( skills and " nature ... (180 words

I don't want my heart broken again by him!

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I used to have a major crush on my best friend. He used to leave his girlfriends house to come to mine and we'd talk for hours. He ended up breaking up with her to spend more time with me. I liked him but we never actually dated. We were together every night, texted each... (274 words

Is my friend bisexual or just physically close to me?

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3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - For a few months now I've had feelings for my best friend. We've known eachother for a little more than a year but we quickly became best friends and we are very close, emotionally and physically. She's very touchy feely but more so with me than our other close friends. ... (167 words

How Do I Learn to Brush Things Off? Have A Thicker Skin?

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - They say you date people like your parents.I ended up meeting and dating someone who frustrates me as much as my mother does. We've been dating for 2 wks. We have ALOT in common and he's incredibly sweet, affectionate and likes me alot - I feel the same of course..but ... (332 words

This other guy guy has qualities my b/f doesn't have do I break up with my b/f?

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, well 2 things. First I'm 21. I'm in a relationship right now for about a year and a half. Everything has been great till now. I've been thinking on breaking up with him for some months now, but now I'm sure: he doesn't make me laugh, we don't talk anymore, he does... (517 words

He cheated, hurt me, and now acts like he doesn't need me

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, everybody I hope someone reads this and answer's my question I been with this guy for about 3 years . We moved out together we both said that we wanted to start something good we were good for about 2 years . Than I found out he cheated though the call talking to someone ... (194 words

Do I "like" my best friend? I'm not a lesbian

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3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been best friends this girl for about a year and a half now. Let's call her Natalie. I've never really been interested in girls before, except maybe once in high school. I attended an all girls academy for three years then it closed down due to financial problems. I liked ... (434 words

No condom, feeling ill and now wonder if I'm pregnant?

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3 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - HELP!!..im fourteen years old, me and my 16 year old cousin (GIRL) got dropped off at a party; her boyfriend and my boyfriend are first cousins and so are we. so we usually hang out together all the time.. well that night i wa sin the truck with my boyfriend we were making ... (147 words

How to achieve multiple orgasms?

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3 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi, i dont want to sound nieve, wierd or discomfort anyone but could someone please shed me some light on multiple orgasims? if so, how are they achieved. me and my gf have been very sexually active in the past 18 months however, we are unclear on this. also, one of my friend... (92 words

Could he love me but not be attracted to me?

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3 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is it possible for a man to love you, but not be attracted to you?...And how likely is he to stay with you if he meets a woman he is attracted to? My b/f and I have been together 4 years and I sometimes get the feeling he's not that attracted to me. He's here yes, but when a ... (185 words

Should I have NSA sex with people from craigslist?

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3 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently broke it off with my boyfriend of seven years. I was 18 when we got together and we lived together the duration of our relationship. I left because I changed and he wasn't what I wanted any more. I am a very sexual person and my needs were not being met. It ha... (156 words

What are the chances of my girlfriend being pregnant?

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3 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I were messing around and I ejaculated. I cleaned it up with some tissues and about 15-20 minutes later we started messing around again. She wanted me to stick it in but I noticed some precum at the tip of my penis, so she cleaned it off with her saliva. ... (114 words

I'm desperate, How can I turn my wife on??

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3 July 2010 (M age - I'm desparate to have sex with my wife but she's not interested. I know that once she's interested she's amazingly interested!!!!! but how can I turn her on... (30 words

He has a good job, will he marry me now?

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3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Am in a long distance relationship for 3 year now. he say he will marry me once he get a good job... Now he has a Great Job for the past month now... he never brought up the topic.i know a month is a short time .. but i do not what to be wasting my time... ... (62 words

Can't stop fighting with my husband, he's sometimes very hurtful

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3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I married my husband after only knowing each other for five months. We've been together for five years now. He is 26 and i am 29 yrs. old. We've always been arguing from the start about every single thing. I guess it is also because we never really get to kn... (526 words

Just a one time thing?

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3 July 2010 (F - Well i have been at this company for a few years..i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well..just genuinly friendly it seems and very good at work--remains focused and motivated..he is pretty popular in the office as well..does get ... (1214 words

Boyfriend found someone else but cant take off my our pictures in his facebook and our promise ring even his with a new gf... How will I move on?

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3 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend has been in this relationship for 4 years, 2 years together and two years apart since I have to go overseas to work. We were so inlove. We have been through a lot in life. He is 25 and im 27. He has been asking me to marry him two years ago, he doesn't want ... (482 words

I am picking up on an attraction from one of my managers.

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3 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am picking up on an attraction from one of my managers. It is mututal - I like him too. He stares at me and my breast when he has a chance. He hunts me out in a crowd. I am leaving my job soon and I want to stay in contact with him. I have asked him if he will mentor m... (190 words

When is the best time to meet his parents?

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3 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - He and I have been dating for about a little bit over 2 months. Due to our crazy life, busy schedules and the distance, we don't really get to talk a lot or see each other that often. But whenever we do, its a blast! About a few weeks or so after we started dating, he met m... (386 words

What do you do when your spouse loses interest in physical activity?

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3 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I just got married a month ago, we are both near 40, and neither one of us has been married before, so we are both "learning". One of the reasons we got married is because we both enjoy outdoor activities -- a must for me when choosing a partner! My husband bec... (263 words

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