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Fell in love with my old classmate

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So we graduated from school yesterday (don't live in the US) and I lack in keeping in touch with people after I'm not forced to see them (like at school). But there's that boy that sat next to me this year and I really like him. I could trust him, tell him my stories and he ... (386 words

Should I get married?

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17 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am a single mom who's daughter is now off to college. I have never received any child support etc. I have my own business and have worked for the past 20 years in my profession. I have been engaged to a very nice man for 2 1/2 years. We both have been married previously ... (725 words

I'm 20 and my parents are still too strict!

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi I am 20 years old male and soon im gonna turn 21 and my parents are still to strict with me. If I style my hair then they get disapointed from me and my mom does not talk to me and my father yells at me till I get rid of the style.... im not allowed to hang out with friends ... (533 words

Is it normal to want to be a dad at 15?

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17 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - hay I'm 15 and I'm curious if it normal for me to be wanting to be a dad i mean i really really want to be one is it normal or what?... (32 words

How do I begin subtly flirting with this guy???

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey there, I have been working in a store for over two years. There is a very regular customer that comes in every day, who I think is gorgeous. I never flirt with him, because I'm shy, and I don't know what to say. I just ask him regular service related questions. This ... (324 words

Awkward and potentially heartbreaking...

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17 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm almost 17 (although apparently I seem older...) and I have a weird kind of situation... I'm friends with this girl and we're really close and compatible (we think, talk, act, laugh, even walk the same way and we have similar/ complimentary goals for our lives). I know we'd ... (291 words

Constant arguing, need help please

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half we are 20 years old and are planning to get married in the next two years. The only problem is that we fight a lot, they start off small and turn into huge fights. We have broken up so many times but he always begs for ... (279 words

Totally captivated by this guy... but what do I do about it?

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17 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey aunts I'm having a little issue with myself. I'm a 16 year old guy that's starting to get comfortable with accepting who I am... that is I'm STRONGLY interested in guys. And everywhere I go I find myself checking guys out and finding myself attracted to them. But there's ... (148 words

Do I really love her or am I just used to how things are and don't know any differently?

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17 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - This is a little longwinded but here I go. Here is the background, I have had a g/f for 3 1/2 years and so far a year and a half of being apart. She studies overseas we spent our first year together and then she went on to school we decided to keep our relationship "serious... (662 words

Help! Is there a chance for us to be together again? Does she still have any feelings for me?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met this girl online and we went out and we got very close, we would text all day every day, talk for hours every night, and I made her my gf. We did tell each other "I love you." We are no longer together because she started talking to another girl she "used to have a thing ... (673 words

What's going on between my husband and his aunt?

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband spends about an hour a day on the phone with his 'aunt'. She is the same age as him (37) and lives in a beach house with several others. Think older flop house basically. They recently reconnected, and I found out they were talking so much because the phone bill ... (361 words

Why isn't he public about us???

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17 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ciao dear friends, i'm a 25 year old woman having a long distance relationship with a man i met 8 months back, he's really caring and calls every day but the thing is, he never takes me out when i go to visit him. i know he's not married for sure through people who used to work ... (73 words

How can I know if a guy is a shallow player?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - How can I know if a guy is a shallow player? I met a guy on Facebook, and he seems really nice, we have lots in common, etc. However, my ex (he's been kind of stalking me anyway) warned me that this guy may be a player. He said he noticed that this guy has mostly female friends ... (162 words

Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ... (36 words

He keeps making me wait for his calls! Should I stay or leave?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was waiting for my boyfriend to call one time and he didnt. Before that day, we agreed that he would call me at a certain time which he didnt do. I had to wait for a couple of hours and I ended up calling him. I had to make sure that I double checked the caller ID to make ... (266 words

Does he miss his ex?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now and ever since we been together, whenever he sees his ex gf walkin around the neighboorhood or notices her car around the city, he always tells me "there goes your bestfriend" , and its like he notices her before anybody does and ... (94 words

Why did she dump me on Facebook?

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17 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Okay, okay. Seems that my 4 month rocky relationship ended. Although, how is a lil surprising, and schocking to me. First of all, I am not a fan of texting, and that was our means of communicating. facebook, is also a detriment to the relationship. I think she would post things ... (440 words

It bugs the crap out of me that he blocked me on Facebook!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - He was flirting and I knew he didn't want anything serious but he freaked out as he got closer to me and blocked me off, changing his status to "having no regrets" I found out from a friend in class who was one of the ppl who noticed how he paid attention. He's a total party ty... (347 words

Are second pregnancies different if the first?

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17 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I hear that second pregnancies are different such as..... 1. You feel your baby move sooner 2. You tend to show about a month sooner, and 3. You carry your baby lower I know this is true if you go through with the whole pregnancy, but what if you have an abortion the 1st... (139 words

Why is she so unsure about us now?

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17 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year and a half. She means the world to me, and she's my first real girlfriend. Things have always been good until lately. She always tells me that she loves me, and she used to be quite affectionate. But just over a month ago... (573 words

I'm not into relationships so broke up with her. Why can't I get over her?

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17 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - Hi so I recently broke up with this girl who I was seeing for about two months, for several reason, mostly because I'm just not one for relationships. But the thing is, I'm still not over her. She's very shy, but she's also beautiful and smart, and funny and just a wonderful ... (167 words

Why is this happening to me? I am very pretty, successful, smart - what am I doing wrong?

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17 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I was married for 13 years to a man 17 years older than me - we have 3 children together. Few months ago I found out that he was having affairs with multiple women and filed for divorce. Shortly after that, I met a man, in his 50-s and started dating him, contrary to any common ... (265 words

Should I let him go back to his girlfriend or tell him to officially break up with her?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I accidentally met a guy a year ago while coping up from a break-up. Neither has the intention to be anything to each other so we were very brutally honest about ourselves. I tell him my problems and my disinterest with meeting men, he tells me he sleeps around. He would... (603 words

I had my twins aborted and years later I still feel a numbness about having done it...

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - When I was fifteen, I fell pregnant. Me and my boyfriend (who I'm still with) had been together for over a year by then, and I knew what his reaction would be if I just came out with 'I'm pregnant' without me having thought about our decisions first - he would of fainted, and ... (372 words

Why wont he ask me out? I really want him to!

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey people please someone answer this for me. I really like this guy and all his frends tell me he is constantly talking about me and he really likes me they have been telling me this for about 2 months now, when he's with me I can see the way he looks at me and whenever I sit ... (95 words

I think my husband might be gay?

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17 July 2010 (F age - Is my man gay? When I asked him on a scale of 1 to a 10 how good looking is you male friend, his answer was a 20!!! Is my husband gay?... (34 words

Only married a month and ready to throw in the towel!

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I have an issue that I KNOW has happened to many other women. I'm losing intrest in my husband, and I'm constantly depressed. CONSTANTLY. I've been in the United States Navy for over 2 years, and I was dating my husband for all of those years. We recently ... (444 words

Is it possible to conceive a child without ejaculating or going in?

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, my girlfriend is 4 weeks late, and we're obviously quite worried and we've back tracked what we've done over the last month or so. We've done everything other then sex, we're both virgins. We can only put it down to that we've been doing stuff in complete nude, an... (114 words

Secret relationship with younger guy!

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I started a sexual relationship with a guy I recently met. He is amazingly good looking, and the sex is intense and incredible...but I don't know his last name and I don't know how old he is - I'm afraid to ask and I don't want to know (although I think he is at l... (310 words

Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to?

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17 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to? Were they a virgin? Were you a giving oral virgin? Were you a recievimg oral virgin?... (29 words

Anniversary Gift Quandry

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17 July 2010 (F age - Am I being greedy for having expectations of a gift from my husband for our 30th wedding anniversary?... (18 words

A guy who can't stop staring inappropriately at other women

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17 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have a problem. I started dating an amazing woman approximately 5 months ago. I'm very much in love.I'm a 38 yr. old male (divorced 9 months ago) I looked at a couple other posts on this subject, but wanted to provide my story and hopefully get an answer that will help ... (240 words

I think my g/f is holding something back how do I get her to open up to me?

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17 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - My gf and I have been together almost 4 years we broke up and now have been back together for about a month now. But I have this deep gut feeling that she talks to other guys and holds things from me. I hardly know about her friends thats he talks too and on our cell bill ... (259 words

My guy is afraid of hurting unborn baby so no sex!

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi all, I'm 25 weeks pregnant and have a little problem. my partner does not want to have sex with me. he says he's frightened of hurting our baby. I've shown him the books that say its okay and even brought it up with my midwife who has said sex in my pregnancy will b... (136 words

Troubled relationship, marriage proposal and now I've cheated on my fiance!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm having a serious crisis and I have made some big mistakes. My first mistake was agreeing to a proposal from my boyfriend of 5 years even though the two of us have a very troubled history together. He has lied to me and cheated in the past so we have a lot of trust issues. ... (345 words

How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me?

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17 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - My gf and I have been together almost 4 years we broke up and now have been back together for about a month now. But I have this deep gut feeling that she talks to other guys and holds things from me. I hardly know about her friends thats he talks too and on our cell bill ... (259 words

How can I help my friend find someone who will love her?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i have a frend she is tall and blonde and she wears glasses she is allways upset coz she thinks that noone will ever like her i love her very much and i want her to find someone that will love her for all her goods and bads i wish i could just find her a guy thats perfect for ... (113 words

I'm not happy in my marriage!

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am living in an unhappy marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have a beautiful little boy, who was born just before we got married. I guess my unhappiness began a couple of years after we got married. I was finishing school and he was working all the time. He works ... (271 words

Will you remember your first kiss forever?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - is your first kiss an important moment in your life ? will u remember it forever ? is it ok 2 kiss and date at 11or12or13 or is it 2 young?... (33 words

She's lost a lot of weight. What can I do to help her?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hello, i'm 15 and so is she, recently her dad left and she's been having a lot family trouble. But the last few months she has lost a massive amount of weight, people at school have been saying stuff. She constantly gets stared at and all our friends are really worried. How can ... (66 words

How can I find my Prince Charming?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - do fairy tales come true in real life? will the prince sweep the princess of her feet and will they life happily ever after ?and all the romance movies can it happen in reall life? and if so i want one of these stories 2 come true in my life.. how can i find my hottie prince ... (172 words

Should I break up with him? And how can I do it without hurting him?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Help i lyked this gye 4 about 2 years and he lyked me but know i feel lyk we r growing apart and i dont really lyk him anymore.....my problan is that deap deap in my heart i might still love him but every time he walks past me i dont feel this nice fuzzy feeling anymore ... (143 words

He told me he likes me! Can things go back to the way they were?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - My best guy friend broke my heart. He admits to me he likes me and ive always had feelings for him and so i was really happy. Then a couple weeks later he asks me out, it was ovr txt and i sed ok but i want you to ask me in person (it's just one of my things, wnt accept till ... (283 words

Help! I'm disgusted with myself!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Ok so I met this guy at a mall and we got talkin,and that went on for a few days after which we exchanged numbers..so he asked me out on a date he really liked me..and then we went out had dinner it was fun,he dint want to drop me back home..so after that he took ... (157 words

He dumped me. Does he want to get back together?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey all, my boyf of 6 months finished with me as he said he couldn't cope with me being depressed. basically i have been off work for 6 weeks as i hate my job and have been looking for a new one. my doc signed me off for one more week, my boyf went mad saying i was takin... (217 words

Since my boyfriend's family know of my genital herpes, I'm not allowed at their house, what can I do?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So, I'm pretty sure I have genital herpes. I told my boyfriend this when we first started dating (5 mo. ago) and that I don't get breakouts often (2x in 6 years). He was okay with it, but told his brother (without me knowing) because I guess he needed someone to unload on. ... (526 words

How do I know if it is worth it?

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - *OP's Original Title* Background: i just got out of a 14 yr abusive marraige and ended up re-connecting with an old friend - we hit it off perfectly and became lovers. When we are together it is the most wonderful feeling. I have never felt love the way i do when i am with ... (345 words

Should I go out with my uncle's friend?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, this is kind of a strange situation. I know this guy who is friends with my uncle, and this guy is married to my uncle's ex. Lately, my uncle has been said that this guy has been asking him to ask me to come along when they go out for a drink. I haven't seen him for a long ... (238 words

My husband left me but why doesn't he initiate divorce and what am I entitled to?

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17 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - my husband of 21 years walked out on me 19 months ago because he had a mid life crises,he lives with his parents but has a girl friend 13 years younger than himself,she has a 3 year old son (not my husbands). i would like a divorce,he does nothing about a divorce why?? any way ... (92 words

He'd rather text strangers than me!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend of a month often goes away on business trips but he's not very good at keeping in touch while away (even though he says he will). 3 days ago I sent him a text to see if he's ok...he didn't reply anything. After 2 days of no reply, I sent him a text from my... (299 words

How should I react to his text?

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17 July 2010 (F - I broke my phone this week and unfortunately I lost quite a few numbers on it. I text my husband's friend and asked him to text me a one word answer just to confirm I had got his correct mobile number. We get on well and we have a laugh together but I must admit that I was just ... (129 words

Boyfriend is into casual sex and I'm appauled by it.. unsure if I should accept this..?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So my boyfriend has had 6 sexual partners(including myself).now me on the other hand i have only had 2(my first, and him)..Only 1 out of the five he had sex with,was while he was in a relationship.. the rest just casual sex..Now, MY opinion of casual sex for men and women is ... (135 words

Parents and girls...

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17 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I live in Germany and my parents want me to have a German girl friend cause i moved from the states in august and my German isn't that good and had a hard time in school. The only problem is that the German girl are very pretty but smoke and that something i don't like and im ... (60 words

Does she really like me? She says she wants to break up, but her boyfriend isn't letting her!

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok I'm in love with this girl for quite a long time. She has a bf and being with for almost 5 years now. Recently, she told me she's not in good terms with her bf. She knows about him and have initiated break ups many times but he forced her to be with him. She herself to told ... (162 words

How can he love me when he ignores me?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i were talking to each other everyday and he says he loves me. Then hes mad because someone stole his trailor. So the next day he didn't call me and i waited. I called him the second day and he didn't answer. Then four days later he writes on my facebook wall ... (69 words

Is she interested in me or not? Should I try calling her again today?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So I met this girl online a few months ago and we talked for a bit and I got her number. We made plans twice, (once in late may and another in early june) but they failed to go through because she never got back to me like she said she would. So I decided to give her a call ... (565 words

Should I just pretend I don't know about my husband's one night stands as long as he comes home after the fun?

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17 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My hubby treats me and the kids very well..we have been a loving couple for years. Recently I found out that even before we were married, he has been out for monthly one night stands (he usually says he is out entertaining clients when he comes home only in the morning). ... (113 words

Age differences and what is acceptable?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hay I am just wondering, how big an age difference do you think is still acceptable? I know the whole "love has no boundries" thing but I can't help thinking that a 20 year age gap is just a little weird, it's like a 1 year old going out with a 21 year old. I would just like... (109 words

I'm 15 and my boyfriend has jealousy, drinking, anger management, trust issues, and more...

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - im 15 and me and my bf have only been dating 2 months, but we both fell inlove realy fast, but he gets jelous so easy i cant even mention another guys name without him getting realy angry at me!!! he has anger management issues and i realy try to help but it gets to a point ... (391 words

I just wish I had guys liking me too, how can I feel better about my appearance?

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17 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - Well ive been told that i was ugly, flat chested, and flat butt. It really hurts. I was also told today the same thing. Now im just sad. how do i make myself feel better. My friends have guys liking them and they talk about it all the time. I want to look pretty and for guys to ... (81 words

It hurts me to see my ex dating my best friend, any advice?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey guys......I had this 1 boyfriend a month ago we were dating for about 4 months and we had been through everything. I broke up with him becoz we were at a party together and we were having lots of fun and then i had to go so i went to the car and i had realized that i left ... (124 words

Why would he send me nude pictures of himself?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - This guy i like knows i like him and he likes me and wants me to be his gf, i have told him i am ok with being his friend soi giess he is ok with it since we still text, but just recently he ignored more for a week and i texted but no response, then out of the blue he sends me ... (67 words

Does this mean he's over me? Should I bother?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - A guy liked me for a year and showed it through the typical signs, e.g. staring, trying to talk to me, even offering to help me once. It hadn't been long before I developed feelings for him but the problem was that I responded quite shyly, if at all. I didn't mean to, but I ... (473 words

I wonder why my ex can be so nice to his new girlfriend, while I am just someone he cheated on and dumped.

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17 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I recently met up with a friend of my ex whom i broke up with almost a year ago. He has cheated on me with another girl who is currently still his girlfriend. His friend said that they have just bought an apartment together. The first thing that came to my mind is they must be ... (353 words

My boss is married and we had a short affair.. I'm confused and just want closure.

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a single mom 3 years ago. After what happen to me to the father of my baby it happen second time around but this time i was falling inlove with a married man and they dont have child since his wife cant give him a child that he want. At first were very much comfortable ... (394 words

In love with a classmate who already declined me..

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi i'm 19 and seeing this girl in class, she's 17, hot and i cant stop looking at her and she likes staring at me too.But the problem is that last year i opened up 2 her and told her how much i love her but she told me that she has a boy friend n would like us to be nothng but ... (143 words

I asked my friend to have sex with me as a joke. Now what should I do if he calls me for it?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was discussing with a dear friend why his relationship is not going to the next level. He is not having sex with his girlfriend. we were sitting together and i asked him what would he do if i offer to sleep with him. He said, if u are serious i am in. when we finished our ... (146 words

I love my best friend, but my dad has married his mom! What should I do?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey, im fifteen and my dad got married to on of my best friends mom.I used to date him when i was younger and we lost our connection.His mom and siblings moved in for a year but moved out because things werent working.My dad and her are still dating.So heres the thing im in ... (103 words

How can I make her feel lucky and not trapped in our relationship?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 4 years. She recently broke up with me. She says she always feels trapped and "obligated" to talk to me. She's broken up with me in the past (about 3times). Everytime she does she says she "needs space and room to breathe". ... (148 words

Is what he did acceptable? Am I just being immature? I feel so sad and annoyed

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - on friday night my boyfriend and i hung out and had dinner. he told me on thursday that he might be going out but wasnt sure yet. when he picked me up on friday he was very indecisive the whole night, and kept asking me 'should i go out?' he asked me this about 8 times th... (298 words

Best ways to snog someone...?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello everyone, If I could have some advice it would be much appreciated. Me and my girlfriend are happily together and we are comfortable about holding hands and kissing in public. I was just wondering, how do you snog someone? We are both new to relationships so ... (100 words

She says we'll never go out again, so why is she sending me these messages?

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted as one) 1-Okay everybody I have a real problem. There's this girl that says well never go out again and I told her that its too hard to just be friends with someone I was in love with. She tells me the next day that she doesn't think th... (234 words

He dumped me because I'm not "sociable" enough. How can I just get over him?

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17 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - So, I was recently dumped by my boyfriend. This hurt very badly, I still care about him so much, and I hate to admit it, but I think if we started talking again I might just fall all over again. The thing that bothers me the most is why he broke up with me and a conversa... (176 words

How does a limited divorce benefit her? Is she trying to scare me or send me a message?

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17 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - After months of seperating and getting back together, she filed for a "limited divorce" when I went to my attorney to reply to her motion he called her lawyer and told him that I wasn't interested in a divorce, that I loved this woman and I was interested in a reconciliation, ... (159 words

This new girl is getting in the way. Does my friend love her more than me?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm a girl, 15. my best friend is a guy, 19. We've been friends since Jan. '10. He is seriously like a brother to me. i can never ever imagine him anything more then that. and he can't either. He wouldn't do absolutely anything for me. For a while it was just me and him having ... (208 words

Unprovoked insecurity and anxiety in my relationship...any advice on how I can help myself?

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17 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I’m going to say sorry ahead of time for the super long post. (Err.. essay.) Hopefully it’s bearable for someone. A little background information for you. I'm 22, and I've been dating my 19 year old girlfriend for 9 months now. We met at school, and still... (1595 words

I felt unimportant to him and he hurt me so much. I don't understand why he even called me in the first place

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, I'll try to summarize this as best I can. I dated a guy in my hometown for a few months, then moved to Vegas, he would then fly back and fourth to see me for aprox. 2 years. It was never a consistent relationship. However, we were like best friends, let alone lovers. ... (871 words

I have to choose between my parents and my online boyfriend!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Well, the situation is really complicated. I met this guy online 7 months ago and we started talking. He was a nice guy and we fell for each other and start a relationship. He lives a world apart, but we keep in touch by phone calls and mails and we sometimes sen... (402 words

Where do you draw the line of being too picky?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - has that ever happened to you where you get asked out or hit on by several men in like one week and your not interested in a single one? What is wrong with me? Am i being too picky? I mean i know what i want and none of these guys fit the criteria, i wont even waste my time ... (100 words

Is it really love if he gets angry because I'm too ill to want sex?

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - He tells me he loves me. I have been unwell for a week now. He wants sex and i said no to him cause im not feeling well. He get really mad and pissed off with me. Is that love?... (40 words

New, good-for-me guy, or old, not-so-good but can't get over him guy?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I dated almost two years. He was 24, me, 20. I shared a lot of "firsts" with him, and he went behind my back, and cheated on me physically, and emotionally. He says there was nothing wrong with our relationship, and that he simply did it because he was ... (260 words

Should I call him?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I met this guy (let's call him Seth) this summer. We met in this out of town class that I went to. It lasted an entire week, so we saw each other a lot. I would frequently catch Seth looking at me instead of paying attention to the lessons. Whenever I caught him he ... (128 words

I feel like running away!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi i am 24 years old still cuz is 11.00 o'clock...its my birthday and i feel like crap.. let me tell u a story,well its starts my morning hubby delivers me roses then comes at noon buys mcdonald to eat lunch leaves to work.. then mom makeing me food and sister too..its... (232 words

My boyfriend hits our dog a lot and I'm worried about our unborn child.

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend hits our dog alot when he misbehaves and I don't like it but I'm worried about our unborn child he has never hit me and said he would never do such a thing but he says he has anger problems and won't go to the doctors for it or anywhere else I'm just worried what ... (77 words

How can I find a guy for me?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend. I know it's extremely young, but everyone else started dating at 13. I've gone on dates and hung out with guys, but nothing ever seems to work out. Either guys are interested in me and I'm not interested in them, or vice versa. I also have ... (141 words

Has anyone else had to leave one parent's home and live with the other?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok, all of this is pretty long-winded so i dont blame you at all if you struggle to keep up. so not to beat around the bush, i am a sixteen year old (soon to be) college student living with my biological father. i recently moved out of my mother's house to live with my dad ... (1162 words

I proposed, but I need closure!

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17 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - This is my problem: My girlfriend used an affair with a married man for almost 2 years. During his period as she told me (while drunk)... he fucked her in every way, place and time possible. To the point that she even let him cum inside her. I do know that this is her past... (194 words

Should I give him my number?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - There's this guy I met a couple weeks ago and we hit it off. I spend quite a bit of time with him because we sail together. He hasn't asked me for my phone number or anything or even to hang out but we always have a lot of fun when we are together while sailing. The only ... (124 words

My wife keeps lying to me!

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17 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - wow, it's been almost a month since my wife told me she had sex with a coworker. At first i belived her guilt. she had not got caught, and i believed all of her lies up till she told me. she seems very sorry, and whants to [be what she knows we can be], and has been going to ... (156 words

I'm 13 and have a son with my boyfriend, but I'm attracted to someone else!

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am so confused right now, I have been with my bf for 2 years we have a son together. We love each other very much and our sex life is great. But I am attracted to another man. Am I wrong for this? Its not a sexual attraction. Me and my bf are great friends, sometimes he can ... (98 words

Is he playing hard to get or is he not interested?

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17 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - what's the different signs of a guy playing hard to get and just simply not being interested... (17 words

He's distant most of the time, but then reappears out of nowhere!

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 7 month now. Before we use to see each other more becouse i was in school and i sneak when i had the chance to see him and he will meet me no matter what.. lately becouse school is over i havent had much change to go out but ... (128 words

My girlfriend's insecurity is ruining our relationship!

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi. 10 weeks ago while my girlfriend was at work i watched a movie called three, it is classified as a thriller but has 2 sex scenes in it. Before this incident i had been going out with my girlfriend for 2months and she has told me she was insecure about her body. When she g... (169 words

When should I be introduced to his children?

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - how soon should i be introduced with my partners children ... (10 words

I feel used and very depressed, what should I do?

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - hey guys. im hoping to god someone reads this because im so down and depressed over this situation please excuse the length aswell ok here goes a year ago a new guy started my job. i had just come out of an emotionally and occassionally physically abusive relationship whi... (432 words

Should I continue to pursue him?

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17 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Met guy online, talked for a week, spent 6 hours together over the weekend. Had plans for the following weekend, he bailed - we continued to talk and then he sent an email saying the spark wasn't strong enough. Didn't reply right away but did send him a text message 2 days ... (84 words

I don't want to do anything to upset my sister or her family, should I walk away from this man?

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17 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - hi i've just met a guy who i seem to click with, which doesnt happen often to me! trouble is.. twenty years ago aged 25, he had a cleaning business with my sisters husband which went badly wrong. he walked away leaving my brother in law with 6k worth of debt and they never sa... (264 words

My husband told me he's been bored with me sexually since the first year of our marriage!

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17 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband told me the day I got out of the hospital after 14 years of Marriage that our during our whole marriage he has been addicted to looking at women on the internet, clothed or naked. He had been doing this in a cubicial (beating off) at work. They have cameras and could ... (121 words

I missed one of my birth control pills, how likely is it I could get pregnant?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I skipped one pill i took it as soon as i got home then i took another one when it was time to take it. then the next day i took another one at the same time. ive been on the pill for about 7 months. 2 or 3 days after my missed pill me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex, he ... (101 words

My boyfriend is acting strange, what should I do?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - well i have been with my boyfriend for aprox 2 years now but we are always arguing its usually to do with him being jealous, some people told me hes just being stupid whilst others said it was my fault. about 2 months ago i broke up with him and he called me 3weeks later asking ... (136 words

How do I get my wife to stop using her teeth during oral sex?

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17 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - How do i get my wife to stop using her teeth during oral sex? There are times when it is amazing and she doesn't use them but then there are times she does. We always have told each other what feels good. Sometimes i feel bad when i tell her it hurts because she is trying so ... (145 words

Are we a couple or not?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been seein this guy nonstop for a month. He calls daily - sometimes 2x a day. He told me at the beginning that hes not seein anyone else and hopes the same of me. I'm not either - he knows this. Well I was curious by this point as to what we are (even though we feel lik... (526 words

How can I gain more freedom with my controlling boyfriend without breaking up?

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17 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi, im 16 years old and i am in a very confusing and hard situation. iv been in a relationship with a boy for around nine months now. we have done everything together and i mean everything. i love him, he makes me laugh and i love the way he makes me feel. however he is ... (178 words

I'm scared to have sex again, it's been so long. What should I do?

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17 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well i haven't had sex but once and that was when i lost my virginity...it wasn't what i expected so that's why i refrained from having sex for a year but now im in a relationship with a guy who i truly love and i really would like to get intimate with him but im second ... (85 words

I want to give myself and my virginity as a gift for my boyfriends birthday, good idea?

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17 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so im 19, never had a boyfriend before, recently met the most amazing guy, he's 30. its a large age difference but we get along amazingly! we haven't had sex yet, although we have touched each other intimately during kissing sessions. he is obviously very expeienced, he said ... (125 words

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