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Do you think there's anyway we could possibly salvage this marriage?

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11 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I've been marrie 5 years. My husband has progressively become obese and a lousy lover. I have always been the initiator and in the last year we've had sex about 6 times. He has his orgasm but doesn't give me a chance to nor does he seem to care if I do. I have just quit asking ... (163 words

How to tell my family I'm gay?

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11 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Help needed... theres only one way to put this question but... how do i tell my family that i'm gay? advice much appreciated thanks... (25 words

How do I let him down without hurting his feelings?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I spend a lot of time giving advice on here but am yet to take some myself. I thought it was about time that i got things of my chest...any advice on this dilema would be much appreciated! About 5 or 6 months ago i stopped seeing somebody who had been treating me quit... (253 words

How can I break the rut of vanilla sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So generally my boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We have sex at least once a day usually and our sex drives match up pretty much perfectly. We both always finish and are always satisfied. Normally I have no complaints, but I want to try some more interesting things ... (236 words

Virginity Regret?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was 20 when I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend, at the time we were not in love and I always wanted to wait until I was either in love or married, but with him it felt right so we did it and we eventually fell in love. Now we're not together and I'm not sure if I ... (168 words

Porn is ruining my relationship and feelings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, I am having a little bit of trouble. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we live together. He had lied to me in the beginning about his sex, and how he used to be married. He is 10 years older than I am which doesnt bother me anymore. On more than one ... (342 words

She thinks I turn off from her not on!

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11 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - When my wife and I are enjoying foreplay, I often get an erection very early, and eventually lose it, as we usually play for a while. So I can't even go inside. She thinks I turn off from her not on .I don't know whats going on ,but it is very frustrating. Any ideas? Thanks... (55 words

It takes him over an hour to finish!

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So the guy ive been having sex with like has a problem busting..cumming or whatever. Like he can but it seriously takes him like at least an hour. This has become a problem with the fact that I cant have sex that long so i always stop before at least an hour and he gets so mad ... (76 words

With a married man, is six months too soon?

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ive just read the question i needed answering by someone else on here. Ive been seeing a married man for 6 months, we've had a fling before, but this time ive fallen hook line and sinker, he says he feels the same. In fact he said those three little words first. A few months ... (210 words

He blames me for our debts and wants me to dress like other women!

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i got a question ive been with my husband for 11years in july been married for 6years with 3 kids we've been arguing alot lately over things that i belife are true when i met him he left me locked up in his mums house all day in 2000 i had my first child then we moved out his ... (185 words

I feel uncomfortable giving oral sex

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have a pretty healthy sex life but I'm afraid to give him oral sex. He doesn't seem to mind very much that I don't but I feel bad when he gives me oral and the best that I'm comfortable doing is giving him a hand job. He doesn't like ask me to do it or ... (83 words

Do I take a big risk and follow my dream, or do I try to make yet another sales job work for me?

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11 July 2010 (M - Very confused. I was made redundant from my job 2 months ago. I used the time since then to work hard on taking stock and trying to find the career path for me as I was very unfulfilled in the role I was in - sales. I attended a number of interviews and have been offered... (263 words

Boyfriend is looking at videos of him and his ex having sex

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - If my boyfriend is looking at videos of him and his ex having sex should I confront him or leave? ... (20 words

He seems to put friends and sports ahead of me

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I hope you guys can help. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he really is amazing. We love each other there is no doubt about it. There is just something bothering me.. It's like he puts friends and sports before.. Now don't get me wrong I like to have time with ... (205 words

Anniversary ideas?

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11 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey people, me and my girlfriend will have been going out a whole year at the end of this month. I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas of stuff I could get or do for our anniversary :) So far I have the idea of an amazing scrapbook, paying to have a photo shoot of u... (102 words

Woman of my dreams left me for her abusive ex. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

11 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - Sorry in advance this is going to be a long one! I met a woman at work about a year ago and we clicked. Problem was that she was with someone else, but the relationship was rocky. As time went on we got closer and closer, even though I'd been warned about her history. To expl... (907 words

I'm in an abusive relationship, depressed and don't know what to do!

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i realy need some advise on how i feel at the moment.i have a past history of depression for various things that happend in my life when i was younger which lead to becoming independant of my self at 16 and i was drinking alot. i did meet a guy tho who i fell pregnant with and ... (301 words

Crying after masturbation?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, well im a virgen but i do masterbate and when ever im almost done or am done i feel like i wanna cry and some times i do. I like get really sad out of no where is that normal? Il be thinking of my boyfreind and stuff then when im done doing it alot of sad thoughts hit me ... (97 words

Worried about meeting my online love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello, My older sister reccommended this site to me because I'm having difficulty deciding what I should do. I am 20 years old and the guy I am online dating is 19. We met on an internet chat room about 6 months ago. We talk online daily, have spoken through a messenger ... (296 words

Is this bleeding from a broken hymen?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi , just a really quick question I need some advice on. Basicly I lost my virginity with my boyfriend last tuesday , its sunday now since then we've had sex 2 other times and the last time I had sex was on friday. Although today I went to the toilet and there was a ti... (166 words

Can you trust a Liar ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

11 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - In the summer of 2008 me and my wife had drifted from eachother... we still loved eachother and had a son .. but we had drifted ..liked doing seperate things...hobbies etc.. i felt the relationship was going very stale and needed a break.. to refresh.. to breath.. to stop the ... (1372 words

I left my alcoholic husband but now I'm afraid and don't know how to make it!

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just left my Alcoholic husband with my 2 kids. I moved from Washington state to Michigan for him cause he said that everything would get better. I have been fighting him with this disease for 5 years. Finaly after him driving with the kids drunk I had it. Well I had no where ... (145 words

He's going to ask me out but I don't like him, I like his friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I know there is a longer version of this story but that was getting ignored and neglected so please read this one:) a friend is going to ask me out on tuesday but i dont like him like that but i do really like his best friend and im pretty sure he likes me back:) anyway i... (141 words

Will he end up drinking again?

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been in prison since January 2, 2010. His parole hearing is coming up next month. He was on parole before I met him. The first two years of our relationship he has done great. Had a really good job and always was very helpful and supportive of me and the ... (194 words

He hates my children!

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11 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - my new partner hates my children!!! I have been with my partner for 3 years we have 2 little girls together. i was previously married and have 2 children with my ex wife i see them once a fortnight friday to sunday. when they come to stay all we do is row she says i put them ... (231 words

Can't seem to walk away from a man that I do not love.

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - [OP original title] I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but I know I am not in love with him. My previous relationship left a deep wound in my heart and he was the first person to make me feel whole again and something inside me just won't let me walk away. Recently... (277 words

What can you do when someone changes?

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11 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was engaged to the woman of my dreams. Suddenly she was no longer the person I was in love with. Emotionally unavailable, distant, rarely affectionate. No will to seek out employment, no will to play music. She suddenly is no longer who I fell in love with. ... (94 words

Help!!! Am I still a virgin??? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. We love each other. We've being practicing oral sex but always with my pants on. He does not want to have penetrative sex with me before we get married. Even though he sucks and squeezes my breasts, he has never touched or seen ... (75 words

Which should I follow... my mind or my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I don't know which one should I follow... my mind or my heart??? I know in my mind that she's really not for me. My mind always tells me to leave her because I know in the future she will be gone for me, We're not happy any more and we're always fighting each other because of ... (109 words

He got really mad with me and now won't answer my calls! Help!

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am with my boyfriend but another guy fell for me. I introduced him to my prince to stop him from disturbing me but he said if can never forget about me in front of my boyfriend and another girl he was then dating. My guy asked me to stop seeing him. One day his girlfriend ... (165 words

He keeps checking out other girls when I'm with him!

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been living with my boyfriend for about five years. My problem is when we are out together I always catch him checking other women out and I know guys and women will check a good looking person out but it bothers me that he does this when I'm with him and he does not ... (110 words

Should I believe my best friend about this other girl?

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - My friend with benefits told me that he likes me 4 days ago.. I've liked him since 6th grade (I'm going into 11th and him 12th) anyways we talked all day for 2 days in a row.. it was amazing. He invited me to go to the beach with him and some friends.. then the next day we both ... (224 words

Boyfriend is guilty... what can I do?

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, Me and my boyfriend dating seven years. He never ever lies to me. last year he became friend with his co worker(female). They traveled together. He found that is more than a friendship with her. she feels same way. He talk to me about that honestly.I understood what he ... (256 words

Is it better to be wanted or needed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

11 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Here's a bit of a hypothetical question which has been bugging me... In a relationship do you think its better to be wanted or needed? Why? ... (39 words

His past keeps haunting me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well. I wanted to ask some advice with something I'm having problems with. I have been in love with the man of my dreams for 5 years now. We both love each other and everything is wonderful, or so I make it seem. I have a problem w... (229 words

They always beat me to it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3262 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Well I have been in love with this boy since last summer and my best friend has been dating him for five months and for the first four months I was distraught and I was convinced it was the end of the world I was shattered crushed broken the worst part was that she didn’t know ... (237 words

How to move on when badly hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Help! Since my boyfriend ended things suddenly three months ago I am getting more angry and depressed as time goes on, rather than feeling any better. I can look back now and see that he was insincere and didn't love me like he said he did. He swore I was the best girl he'd e... (234 words

Demanding friend growing obsessive with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've got a problem with a demanding friend. She's a lovely person, don't get me wrong! And we've been best friends for over a year now. She's a very caring person and I can talk to her about absolutely anything. However, she is growing increasingly obsessive with me! She a... (303 words

Can I not orgasm because I used to masturbate alot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, i need ur help please.. Im Asian, my bf is European. We have a normal sex life (4/5times a week). The problem is that i have difficulty to get my orgasm. We've tried evrything we know, fingering, oral, etc. I really want to get it. As im an Asian, sometime im shy to a... (103 words

I need help guys!!! How do I get him to like me more and ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have this friend who I really like. he's 15, and we talk to each other nearly every day. Sometimes he's really nice, and he'll hold my hand or stroke my hair, stuff like that, and he always hugs me. But some days he'll just ignore me and talk to his friends, so I'm really ... (86 words

He tells me he'll kill me if I leave him

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Yesterday was my b-day and I went out with my girls after while we went back over to where my car was and jumped in the vam (that I gave my fiance)as I'm getting in I reach in the side pocket and pull out (5) condoms you can tell it was a(6) pack and one had been used.I drove ... (269 words

I'm unsure of his feelings, does it appear as though he likes me?

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - First of all, hi there! Well this is sort of a long story so apologies in advance :) I think it started around January, I like anime (you know, Japanese anime and manga) and I thought "hmm I wonder if there are any anime conventions in the Uk" as there are lot's America I... (812 words

Husband in Love with me and his old girlfriend, help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married 4 years separate for 3 years on and off. After all this time we have finally decided to give it a try again living under the same roof he moved back in to the home. I had kicked him out 3 years ago because he was putting his self on dating ... (205 words

Should I ignore his ex and ask him out anyway?

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am in love with a guy I have known for so many years and I think he likes me too. The only problem is, his ex-girlfriend is (or was, when she found out I like him) one of my friends. She is willing to do ANYTHING to stop me from being with him. She is such a hypocrite as s... (116 words

He doesn't know it... but I heard my friend jerking off!!!

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok so I (a girl) have a really close guy friend, who i secretly really like. We talk about anything. One night, I stayed at his house (just because) and we ended up sleeping in the same bed for warmth. So we talked for ages and I tried to get to sleep. When he thought I WAS... (114 words

Do guys judge a woman's body?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - right. i know my question is going to make me sound like every other teenager and you're all going to say "you're not ready for sex!" but i want to ask some questions about relationships and sex. i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i am nervous. i have no idea what to ... (123 words

Why would he cut off all contact with me when I am having his baby?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - It's been a rocky road for me and my ex. This guy is 22 and he and I are expecting our baby in October. He is happy that he is going to be a dad. Sometimes he says he is not excited. But, he tends to change his mind. 3 weeks ago he moved in with his parents again. We could no... (527 words

Ending friendship with my boyfriend...

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - We are trying to get together after a break up. I feel neglected when my boyfriend and my best friend get together. every time we meet together its making me off. He dont even look at me. She is his friend too. they both use to laughing all the time. My friend always trying to ... (337 words

I've fallen for a girl who's dating a jerk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

11 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey there i started a job about 4 months ago and i new girl started abotu amonth later, i started out talking to her as a friend and i find her really funny and beautiful and great to get along with. I new all along she has had a boyfriend, and he treats her like crap he causes ... (272 words

How can I be free of these desires?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I am a virgin with a fairly normal sex drive, except for a bunch of paraphilias, most of which don't bother me. But there are 2 of them which are bizarre and disturbing and I've had all my life, and I'm disgusted and ashamed of them and wish they'd go away! I'... (137 words

My friend likes me, but I like this friend! And so does my friend!

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - okayy then.. I hope that this gets answered caus its kind of urgent!! Me and my friends are all really close and stuff (I know its weried to say that because all friends should be close but we are so much closer than a lot of other people) anyway, there is a guy who is really n... (552 words

Do we have a chance? He's not over his ex yet

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Over the last month I've been hanging out with a guy who isn't over his ex. (they dated 2+years, ended a moth or so before I met him). When I met him, I was under the impression he ended it and was glad to be rid of her; over time he's shared more and I'm now under the ... (302 words

I've been a grumpy partner of late, what is something special I can do to make it up to him?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my partner have just moved into our flat and i feel like i am constantly in a grump. we both work long hours and are always tired which i hate. today he is off to work and im at home i want to completely surprise him and have a romantic night planned for him coming home. ... (86 words

Why do you think THIS happens in relationships?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - just curious.. do all relationships start out soo nice you know always texting, late night phone calls all the sweet talks and they sweet things you do together, butterflies and all the nice feeling.. then a few months down the line the guy completely changes and be... (116 words

Marriage Partners Need Help

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11 July 2010 (M age - Has anyone here had any experience with psychologists, psychotherapists, marriage and sex counselors? My wife and I are separating but she is trying to change her behavior, which directly led to the rift now between us. I am not sure at all what I myself have done to contribute ... (89 words

Opinions needed here... Does he fancy me???

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, I see this guy most days, he always looks at me, other people have commented on him looking when i don't notice either. I have never spoke to him but i might if i could tell how he feels!! He doesn't give anything away though, just looks at me, no expression from what I can ... (81 words

28 year old virgin with psoriasis in deep despair

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11 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am extremely depressed I am a 28 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. I have never been kissed. I have never slept with a woman. I am extremely depressed. I am ashamed of who I am. I have absolutely no self-confidence or self-esteem. I need psychiatric... (1017 words

Boyfriend doesn't give me importance anymore...what should I do?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boy friend doesnt calls me like before, he behaves like i am his wife and doesn't give me more importance? wat to do?... (26 words

Was I just a tool for him Friday night?

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I slept with my ex-boyfriend Friday night. He has a full-time job now and said that he loves me and loves to have sex with me. Prior to him getting a full-time job he would normally answer my text messages and be very attentive so to speak and act interested in me in other a... (204 words

How do I get her to come back home?

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11 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - HI am in one hell of a situation .I was with my girlfriend lacy four almost four years. Then we started having these rough patches. Wed argue non stop over petty things . It really hut our relationship . Well we had got in a big fight one night so I left .she said somEthings ... (342 words

He went on a vacation, cheated, then left me! Now I am an emotional mess with low esteem!

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So me and my now ex boyfriend dated for seven months. I was totally in love with him, and he told me that he loved me too. Five months into the relationship, he went on vacation, and when he came back, he was different. He wouldn't text me, or hang out with me. Then after ... (126 words

Boyfriend doesn't want me to wear makeup!

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - hey, im having a bit of a hard time with my boyfriend atm he doesn't want me to wear makeup , get my eyebrows done or anything its killing me i cant keep him telling me what to do . I dont wanna give up makeup or stop getting my eye brows done but hee makes me so upset its just ... (105 words

How do I get more with him???

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - So there is this guy and I really like him, well the other night we fooled around a little but he made the first move. Now I want more with him physically but he doesn't seem to get my hints how do I get more with him?... (47 words

He treats me like a princess but sleeps with other women..should I leave him??

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - He's much older than me with the age of my dad and treats so well like a princess. He cares about me and calls me regularly every week. BUT He has sex with other women which I can not stand at all. Should I just leave him? P.S. He really treats me well and takes care... (77 words

It's been a year, but I still want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3243 days ago

11 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay so I dated this girl for 7 months. I immediately fell in love and then we broke up never really got a clear answer as to why but she had a moment when she thought she was prego and I think that ruined us cuz we broke up not long after. We have been broke up for over a year ... (138 words

I found jock itch cream in his medicine cabinet, could he be hiding something from me?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, When I was in my boyfriends bathroom (I'm not sure if his parents use it too or not), I found a bottle of Jock Itch wash/medicine. He sometimes itches his balls alot. Do you think he could be hiding this from me? Or do you think he/his dad has it just in case? Wh... (65 words

Do guys find it fun/pleasurable to fondle their girlfriend's breasts?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Do guys find it fun/pleasurable to fondle their girlfriend's breasts? And can girls achieve orgasm just from having their breasts played with? Thank you for taking the time to read my questions.... (32 words

Is there any hope of finding what I'm looking for?

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11 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - It took me years to find quality girlfriends in the city I grew up in. Now that I've moved across the Pacific Ocean I find myself up against the same challenge: finding great female friends in Auckland New Zealand. Who thought it would be so hard? I've lived here for several... (147 words

I've tried everything to help her climax!! I just can't and now it's affecting our great relationship!

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11 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I can't make my girlfriend orgasm, we have been dating for 14 months ( started foreplay 10 months ago, sex 6 months ago) and I have tried absolutely anything and everything. This is my first sexual relationship, and hers too. I am 17 and I believe I'm decent lover. I pay att... (583 words

We've broken up but I still care and she does too I think?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a crush on this girl almost 1 yr this july but she already had a bf so distance myself to her but one of my friend told me that looks like she is interested to me but i still don't talk to her but Nov 2009 they broke up for some complicated situations, i heard about that ... (474 words

Me and my boyfriend have so much in common that I am wonderingif it is a good or bad thing?

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - So me and my bf are both really silly. We have the same taste on some stuffs, yesterday he even said, "I swear you're like my twin!" I don't know if this is a good thing or not. . Please tell me. We love each other a lot by the way. :D He's my whole world, he makes me feel ... (90 words

What does it mean when a guys stares at you and smiles, but doesn't talk to you?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - this guy in college I hadn't noticed him before but when I first looked at him he kept staring until I looked away does that mean he's been checking me out for long?anyway a few months after that we have been making eye contact every time we pass by each other and he s... (406 words

The man I am dating talks to his daughter about our personal issues and I've never even met her yet!

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11 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating a man who is 50..I am 44..We both have children..He has a 23 year old married daughter whom he is very close with..I have not met her but have been looking forward to it..He and I are just getting to know more about each other..We have had a few problems ... (159 words

I am 2 months late!

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11 July 2010 (? age 22-25 - Okay, well i am soo confused and i just want to know what is the best thing i should do. I have a friend who misses periods at a time but she always get hers sooner or later, but... I am 2 months late. What should i do? What could be wrong? Help me please... -COnf... (62 words

My teacher never leaves my thoughts!

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am a 13 almost 14 year old girl and i have a crush on my science teacher who is 33 which is a big (sad) difference. well now he isn't my teacher because it's summer, unless my school selects me to be in his biology class. i know lots of girls have these type of crushs, but i ... (470 words

Can you find out if a person is missing you?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is there anywya to find out if a person is missing you and paining as you are for them? Especially prideful people? I don't show that I miss him but I miss him so much... ... (38 words

My LDR boyfriend wants me to come live with him but my family wont allow it!

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship for 7 months now with my boyfriend. He lives a world apart from me. I know how we've dealed lots of problems since we couldn't meet in person in regular basis. We first met online and we fell for each other instantly and st... (304 words

Why won't she drop all contact with him?

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11 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi, My wife and I had been together for 5 years before marrying and have lived together as husband and wife for two and a half years since. She recently started a new job at the local pub after having our baby about a year ago. Things have not been so great and she got really ... (431 words

Need help on internet dating!

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11 July 2010 (? age 36-40 - Does anyone know a good dating site? I've tried several ones, and found none appealing. If any of you have had profiles that have been a hit, please let me know. Also, what is everyone's input on online dating? Does it work? Am I wasting time?... (46 words

Why does my boyfriend take pictures with other women and hides them from me?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just moved in permanetly with my fiance and one day my fiance was showing me some photos he had in his phone, but wouldnt let me hold his phone, so i insisted and basically fought him for it n took his phone away from him and discovered that he was hiding some photos. They ... (334 words

First she says she wants sex, and then she doesnt!

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11 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - so my girlfriend of over 20 months told my that she wanted to wait till marrige when we started dating and i was totally 100% fine with that. i never pressured her to have sex or anything like that but a few months ago she said that we would have sex when i got back from a trip ... (105 words

Mum suspects me not being a virgin after random family converstation in hospital

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a really big problem at the moment, me and my mum and dad went to visit my aunt in hospital and other family members poped in and a random conversation about babies and sex started.. I looked so guilty and everything. My mum now suspects me not being a virgin and she ... (83 words

I just had a baby with my boyfriend, but caught him making sexual advances towards my best friend!

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm currently in a very annoying and awkward situation. My boyfriend of 3 yrs, whom I have an infant with, and my best friend of 3 yrs were caught red-handed, by me, this morning making sexual advances at one another in my freakin garage!! I saw what they were doing and heard ... (149 words

I'm living with my husband for the sake of our children, what should I do?

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11 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Im married for 15 years but just cudnt connect with my husband emotinaly...thot of breaking my marriage many a times but tried my best to change as per his requirments.....over the perid i felt i more like a door mat for him and to his entire family ....since im a house wife im ... (311 words

My ex unfriended me on facebook when I reached out to him, why?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Yea...when me and my ex broke up....it ended badly....I told him that he was not a real bf cause he didn't stand up to me.. I tried reaching out to him last week through facebook. Today he unfriended me...why? I asked him and sent him a new friend request. Is he still mad? ... (106 words

Is my husband's workload killing our sex life?

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11 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Can too much work on computer kill sex drive? My husband works 14 hours a day,7 days a week. And he is totally non sexual ,and when he tries sex, he gets some erection,but losing it,at penetration. Now I know,it sounds weird,but I thought maybe it is from focusing too much on ... (111 words

We work together but the distance is driving us apart!

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so I am in a LDR with someone. We were both exchange students together in South Africa for 6 months before he had to go home and I had to remain behind for an extra six months. We are from different countries, I'm Irish and he's from Denmark. He is absolutely lovel... (332 words

I really like this guy but he lives 2 hours away!

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay well basically i met this guy online and we started talking and getting to know eachother, and he is absolutly AMAZING theres only a year age gap, we like all the same things, have the same views on things, and for the last couple of months ive got to know him ive really ... (283 words

I love my boyfriend, but fantasize about freedom!

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey guys. Thanks for reading :) Okay so basicly, i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i love him to bits, but lately i've been having horrible thoughts :( when i'm with him, like when we're actually together, we're so passionate and loving, and there's no one e... (155 words

How can I tell my mother I'm pregnant?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - [op original title] I'm 19 years old and pregnant. I don't know what I'm going to do but I want to tell my mother. I'm just terrified at the thought of how she'll react. But truth is, I cherish her opinion more then anybody elses, even my baby father. As far as him, he's supp... (138 words

Why hasn't he tried to talk to me after we kissed

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - OrSpell Check Your Text Language: English (change) we meet about 2 years ago and about once a week we would spend the evening with a bunch of friends. we have always playfully flirted with each other and about a year ago it got more intense holding hands and wrestl... (247 words

Am I creating too much drama? Or what?

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - [OP's original title] My boyfriend of a month was attentive and great company in the first two weeks we met. We spent a lot of time together lately but I've noticed he has become a bit grumpy. I feel that he's lost in his little own world as sometimes he doesn't reply when I ta... (426 words

What is an open relationship?

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11 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - What exactly is an 'open' relationship? I know it has something to the effect that you can talk to other people also but what are the limits? I know that the couple can make their own 'rules' but what are most open relationships like? I previously posted a question about ... (129 words

What does "I'm difficult" mean?

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11 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - a guy im talking to says "im difficult", i think maybe he thinks that because i cant always hang out or something, but what does this mean? and is that good thing?... (32 words

My boyfriend won't tell anyone I'm his girlfriend!

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11 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My Turkish Boyfriend Keeps Me A Secret - What Should I Do? We've been together for 2years now and he wont tell anybody about me. He says he had fights with his family over his ex and thats why he wont. He is 30years old. I think if he loves me he should stand up for me eve... (281 words

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