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How can she hate me but want to spend time with me?

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24 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - what does it mean when your girlfrend of 1 year says she hates me but, then when things r going her way she likes spending time with me ... (38 words

Why does my mum keep drinking

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Please help me... My mum keeps drinking and im really scared because she keeps saying really awfull things like I'm gonna kill you so I'm very scared and now I'm scared about her health and what's going to happen in the future so please help me xxx... (53 words

Giving him space and being independent! How do I do this?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hiya!! I need help!! Ive being seeing this guy on and off like mad since about christmas time!! We are also great friends and we get on so well!! I don't know why though but lately i noticed were drifting apart we were together on tuesday and had a abs brill day and we reall... (214 words

Am I not able to love anymore?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, So this will all be very overwhelming. About 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. I loved him dearly and we were perfect for each other in every way. Somewhere though the sexual chemistry started fading. I had only ever orgasmed with him twice when we ... (532 words

Do nice, normal people go 'psycho' in a relationship?

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My friends would all say that I am a charismatic, funny, caring and intelligent person. I am currently in a relationship and I go 'psycho' all the time... you know, accusatory, jealous, angry, sad, hurt, crying wolf by breaking up but not, etc... I am not sure if I am the... (111 words

How do you break up for good?

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Until recently, I didn't understand why people have 'on and off' relationships. I always figured that if one person ended it, then that was that and the other person accepted it. What happened with this one was that I tried to end it 4 months into the relationship, an... (177 words

He cums too quickly, I think...

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so i've been hanging out with this guy (we're both 22yrs old) and i'm still a "technical" virgin... Ive given a blow job before but only 2x previously, and that was back when i was 18 anyways my question is, i only jerked him off, and he came within 10minutes... (is... (215 words

Should I have given her the song?

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24 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok so i liked this girl at camp, and longstory short I told her I liked her but was a coward and stalled the conversation for a half hour (we were playing truth or dare and she dared me to tell her who I like). I had planed to tell her I liked her but things didn`t go as I ... (167 words

Ok with your boyfriend living with a girl?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, would you be ok with your boyfriend liveing alone with a girl?... (13 words

Why am I such a coward with girls?

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24 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I just want to know why am i such a coward when it comes to girls. Every girl I like I am to cowardly to tell them. The first girl I ever liked I starade at and never really talked to her except in the eith grade(two years after we met). The second girl I liked I just could ... (169 words

Ways to get my boyfriend to show me he cares?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hello im 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. the longest relationship of my life. he didnt have a job and was living at his sisters, me and his sister got into a huge fight and now i never go over there. my mom and sister dont really like him because they ... (214 words

How to keep a guy interested with you

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - A question to all the guys out there, i need your advise: What can make a guy stay in a relationship with you? I have tried to be on both sides, my first ex i was clingy and it didn't work. The 2nd one, i wasn't so expressive of myself and was independent, still it did not... (155 words

Is it true if a guy doesn't have a batchlor party he'l feel like cheating?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Is it true if a guy doesnt have a batchlor party he'l feel like cheating? cuase i dont want him to have one cause he thinks it will be his last night to mess around. Doest it depand on the person cause if your gonna cheat wouldnt you no matter what? Thanks... (52 words

I need help telling my cousin I like her!

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24 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have this problem I like my cousin more than family and I have for two years now, I think she likes me to but I don't know for sure I know what your thinking that's incest but you see I don't consider all of my family as family I care about but if I had to say I care about ... (183 words

My wife slept with my best friend on our annniversary!

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24 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - my wife slept with my bestfriend, on our 10th year anniversary. We have being married 13 years. She just told me after i found an email from my bestfriend asking her if they could have sex again. I asked her about it and she told me i was not paying much attention to her. Am a ... (119 words

Bf acting distant I think he's about to break up with me? Help!!

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay me and my boyfriend started dating about 9 weeks ago. He'd come up to the bar where i worked and one day i asked him to hang out and we did all night and we started dating about 2 days later. The first 2 months were perfect, we hung out everyday, he would hang out w... (448 words

I cant tell if he means what he says or is he just being dramatic?

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24 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has hit a rough patch in life and I am not sure what is the best way to help him. He used to be on top of the world, successful in his career, financially comfortable, etc. Until he became a single father 8 years ago when the mother of his kids left him for someone ... (616 words

Should I give them the green light to have sex?

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24 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - My best friend told ne he wants to have sex with my mom. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mom thinks my friend is cute so I asked how she felt about it. I felt completely shocked when she said that she wants to have sex with him. ... (243 words

How do I interact with the ladies and handle mother hen situations?

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Going out tonight with my buddies to a club party. The problem is that i haven't been out in a while and i'm also single. How do i interact with the ladies and handle mother hen situations? if this hepls i'm athletic almost 6ft1. Thanks guys i appreciate it! ... (52 words

Young love last forever?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Well,I'm 13 now I met this boy from my school when I was 11 we've been together for 9 months now,10 months on the 5th of August,We started going out when I was 12 and he was 13 now he's 14 next month,We've had LOTS of arguments and break-ups,But we've always seem to get through ... (86 words

Should I tell a new guy about my ex?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok I meet someone new but idk if I should tell him about my ex I mean this new guy is awesome but yet still very childish should I b honest with him n tell him that I lasted with my ex 4 bout 3 yrs?? I mean I don't have feelings 4 my ex anymore n I could care less wat happns 2 ... (76 words

How to deal with hurt feelings and negative thoughts?

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24 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for 10 yrs and 2 boys 14mon and 28 months old. my husband and i have been very distant, sleeping in separate rooms and i try not to communicate with him as much as possible. this is all due to consistant fights and mostly to the fact that his mother got ... (341 words

Is it going to work if we don't have the same interests and tastes?

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 20 months today. I guess it's been so far so good. Its had its rough patches though. She's super insecure and jealous and goes 'psycho' on me a lot. For some reason, I had a dream with this cute emo-ish girl I remember from hi... (419 words

I don't see myself falling in love with him, how do I tell him that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - There's a guy I went to school with that I had a minor crush on, which eventually led to us meeting after parting out seperate ways and us starting a relationship. He's, or what everyone would consider, the perfect kind of guy. Here's the problem, I see our relationship as more ... (236 words

My boyfriend is inconsistent, irrational, confused, irregular, and indecisive, and wants to leave for another man.

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I met it was just total curiosity. We didn't know what we were getting into, but we made a life together. We had our trials and still had trials. Every time we made it through a problem I felt closer to him. We both had a bad experiences with love so ... (698 words

He hasn't texted me in 2 days now. Did I do something wrong?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - A couple of weeks ago, a close guy friend of mine has been a little off with me, so to speak, saying very snide comments about me, when I am in his presense. I gave him some space and now we are on good terms, however he has not apologised to me about what he said. We have been ... (86 words

Is it too late for me to do these extra curricular activities?

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Is it too late for me or will I have chances after uni at getting involved in other activities. I'm worried that I won't be able to do things I did at university once I have graduated and start working. I'm 22 and going into my final year at uni. Although I am going to get invo... (195 words

Did I blow it? Will I hear from him again?

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24 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating this really nice guy for 3 months- its hard because he's in the RAF and is often working, but we really enjoy our time together. 2 weeks ago he came back from Germany, and wanted me to take some time off to be with him, and for one reason or another we didn't ... (176 words

I feel as if she's just taking me for granted now... help!

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24 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hey guys, i'm in a bit of a pickle. I've been dating this girl for nearly 8 months now, and she has been starting to not care. I ask her questions, simple, mediocre questions and she replies with "meh" or "i don't fucking care" and frankly has just become rude. I don't... (178 words

What to do when a friend doesn't want to meet to talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a woman in my life, we're not bf/gf but definitely more than just friends. It's also a long distance relationship. On rare occasions when things sometimes get to much for her, too much pressure, too many problems, she sometimes retreats into herself. As she calls it ... (147 words

Is it just how I look???

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - well basically i used to be like really emo/goth in how i look and i liked this guy that wasnt and after telling him i liked him and him saying he didnt feel the same way back i kinda stopped talking to him for about a year, duing this time i changed a lot (not for him i just ... (198 words

I want to find my soulmate.

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok so I'm a 21 year old, tall, decent looking guy. And I want to find my soulmate (girl). Recently I've been having sex with girls I really don't feel anything for. The sex is ok but I feel like i'm missing something here. This might sound weird coming from a guy I know. But ... (148 words

Does he miss me or even still care for me? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I was with someone, and everything was going great. But one day I made him very mad, and he dumped me after that.. ( He couldnt take it, and thats just how he is as a person.. He can't deal with me being a bitch.. I think he's afraid of facing problems.. ) A month after our ... (543 words

He thinks I'm going to leave him but I'm not. How can I reassure him?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - me and my boyfrriend have been goen out over 4 months now and everyone says were perfect for each other and we both think so to. however theres a guy i no and were really really good friends and have been for over 3 years. we're both in steady relationships and we're both in ... (142 words

Why am I the one that always gets picked on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Every time I do something wrong i just get yelled at and mocked at. My sister does things wrong too, but my parents are always nice to her and when she does things wrong they just say " don't worry". And me? They yell and say " that's because you're too dumb". Howcome they do ... (356 words

I need advice badly! Is he falling out of love with me?

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year, we have had a rough time with jobs and money worries. I am also very insecure due to past bad experiences, my question is this, my boyfriend has stopped telling me he loves me to my face, he says he loves me too if I say ... (116 words

Help!!! I just can't get him out of my head... I want him back!!!

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24 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've had a relationship with this guy since I was 15. The relation lasted for 8 years...1998-2006. Since, he was too dominating on me and I wanted to make myself I moved out of the relationship in 2006. I tried dating other people in 2006-2007 and realized I still love him... (111 words

If he really DOES like me then why hasn't he asked me out?

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm wondering if my male coworker, who's also my friend at work, is interested in me. He always finds a way to touch me, either on my arm, my face, or my leg. He's joked about us getting married a few times, even though he says he's not ready to settle down. But he's ... (131 words

Why does he REALLY want to keep in touch? Could it be strictly for career reasons?

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24 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - A few of you may be familiar with my story about a mutual crush I have on my now ex boss. I I have now left. I saw him last week just to finalise a bit of unfinished business. Our previous meeting was after work. He asked me to meet him at 6.15. All the office staff had... (394 words

I need to know... is he using me?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been going out with a guy for a few months now, I like being with him but I can't help think that he is only using me for sex. We only usually meet at night, there is a small distance between us (a train journey) so he always comes to me. We always stay at his mates ... (168 words

Does he sound bisexual?

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24 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - This guy has been in the same class with me for 2 years. I reckon that no-one but I would doubt his sexuality: he appears totally normal. However, when we are close to each other he would get really touchy-feely with me. Maybe it is just a playful thing among people our age, as ... (192 words

Could it be that my wife was not a virgin when we married 6 months ago?

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi, My Name is Premkumar. I have got married six months before. My wife is 19 years old, she is very healthy, according to her age her weight is more. her weight is approx 65 kg. on my first night with my wife while intercourse blood does not falls from her vagina, so i am ... (103 words

Attraction to my second cousin...

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24 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - How do i deal with this? I'm like really attracted to my second cousin(female) and i really like her a lot (its strange cus shes exactly my type) but ya know I dont think she feels the same, I mean we'll be around each other a lot but i cant tell. I really WANT her but i got ... (109 words

Can you love someone toooooo much???

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some help. I'm going to end up breaking me and my partner up. We've been together for 2 years and I am so jealous, even when she is out with her family but I don't mean to be. While she is out I feel so alone and I take it out on her, I know it's not fair ... (185 words

He DOES want me back. Should I take him back?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I first wrote on here asking for advice on how to handle my boyfriend telling me that he loves and cares about me but isnt in love with me anymore. I got loads of advice telling me that he is unlikely to come back after saying this. Well its a month later now and he knock... (266 words

Was I right to quit after the personal letter I received from the property manager?

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24 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - This is not a question or input required for a work issue...I have been working in a small office for 2 and half years, only 5 of us in there. Well last week I sent the property manager an email letting her tho that she had made it quite clear during the week that she was ... (265 words

Is my fiance controling, neglectful, abusive, plus more?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a long distance relationship for about three of the four year relationship. I knew him much longer than we have been together, I would say approximately seven years in total now. He joined the navy about a year after we became a couple. It has been a strug... (1601 words

My wifes was not a virgin how do I get even?

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24 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - hai, ok my wifes sexual past haunts me. Married 6 years and i am recently just finding out about her.i was a virgin when i married her and when we talked during our dating years she implied that she was pure. I came acros her diary and yes sorry i read it. Am the 16 guy she has ... (84 words

My boyfriend doesn't have time for me and all we do is fight

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend has just got a job which is excellent, he has been dreamed about this job all his life, until this he had a lot of free time and we were all time together...and now i feel lonely when he is at work, now we are together only 2-3 hours a day...and i'm very ... (67 words

Unable to finish

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24 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - my girlfriend and i have been having sex for some time now, we have done it 15+ times now and i haven't came once by our estimations i could go for over 3 hours. i have no trouble becoming aroused and her performance not a problem either. i have no trouble finishing within a ... (153 words

What is the percentage that I might be pregnant?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 14, and me and my boyfriend have been having sex he's 16. I recently started using birth control about two weeks ago, but I heard birth control takes affect the first day you use it. So I had unprotected sex the second day, and now I'm scared I might be pregnant. He didn't ... (63 words

I told my 33 year old teacher that I love him and he doesn't believe me!

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im just 18.im in love with my teacher.hes 33 i dont care about the age gap.hes married and devoced. His wife has left him because he cant make kids.i told him dat i love him.I think that he cant belive it.How can i tell him that im dead sirious on this. My friends hate me ... (63 words

My Shy Boyfriend

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok well my boyfriend is extremely shy around me i talk to him and txt him and he expresses his feelings then but not in person...he can french kiss me but he cant hold my hand....hes shy and i know its kinda wrong to make the first mov but he was so shy i made the first move to ... (161 words

I just told him about one night stand.. What next?? Help

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24 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I just told my boyfriend about my one night stand after drinking which happen 2 weeks ago.. I decided to tell him because I dun want to lie to him.. Now he said that he needs times and also will go back to his parents house for couple of days.( we are stay together) . Befo... (132 words

Friends or more? Maybe one day,maybe not??

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24 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Good Morning all! I will condense this as best as possible so as not to bore the hell out of readers! I am 43,divorced with kids,believe it or not,I am honest and genuine. Anyhow,I have met this wonderful woman through a dating site,just chatting at first,we met for coffee,a... (466 words

I sent him a letter expressing how I feel but now I haven't heard from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3182 days ago

24 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I know i shouldn't have sent him a letter telling him that i was falling for him, but i can't help how i feel- we been dating for 3months when we can as he's in the military and is always working. He's now been quiet and not heard from him all day-where normally we send a... (198 words

Deployed and trying to deal with anger issues

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - so... I am deployed overseas. and lately I've been having some anger issues that I never had before... I don't like it and i don't know what to do. but i get mad over little things. Its very stressful over here n I don't know what to do! :( I just want to go home. just f... (72 words

How do I get my mom to understand?!?!?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - OK so I'm 13 years old and lots of people say i look way older and there's this guy whos 18, he goes to my church. he is very nice and all we text a bunch....but lately we been txt kinda sexually and well I know it sounds kinda whore-ish but seriously hesss sooo nice, and my ... (141 words

I'm 39 and have developed deep darkening of my vagina lips, elbows and knees - is this normal?

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24 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 39 years old and noticed in the past year or so that not only have my knees and elbows become darker, but my vagina (the lips and also a portion inside) has become very dark. It used to be a plum color and now it's dark greyish/black. I know these are symptoms of ... (166 words

Stubborn guy won't try to love me again!

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need some advice from guys , or anyone. My ex and i have baby. We started a relationship a year ago at the time he had no job had gotten out of jail and no friends. He practically settled for me bcuz he had no one else. He doesnt love me anymore but i dont wamt to give up, ... (119 words

My husband is lying about his porn emails!

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24 July 2010 (F age - I have found items on my husbands email that are porn. I asked him about this and he sweetly told me I was wrong that he ordered some inhancment drug and started getting these after that. But I found an email for an account before. I am so upset. I want him to be truthful with ... (78 words

Lost feelings for my girlfriend. I don't even care to talk to her at times and I worry about it

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24 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I dont know if im asking for help or what . Ive been dating this girl for almost 2 years now . we are best friends . I thought she was the woman of my dreams . Recently . I have had some space from her and it has opened my mind up to the immaturity that she brings into the... (444 words

When guys try to date me, I close right up, but I'm not normally a shy person

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Around guys im really funny and outgoing but then when it turns into a relationship i get shy, Does anyone have any advice?... (23 words

Can I get pregnant from him rubbing his penis on me?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - If me and my boyfriend were messing around and he rub his penis on me up around the top of my virgina. Like the skin near my waist, and he didn't cum, and there was barely a trace of precum. Could there be any chance I could get pregnant. Plus I'm on birth control. Please ... (57 words

How do I deal with his ex in the picture?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Mod note:Question was too long, was edited shorter. Well, to start things off, I'm 20 years and female, and my boyfriend is turning 21 next month. We started out long distance, but really hit it off well. We visited and back in April I moved out to his state and became roo... (1015 words

How do make her believe me now?

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24 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I made the biggest mistake of my life at the beginning of this year.I was unfaithful to my wife of 4 years, we have been together for 8 and have a beautiful daughter.I hurt her in a way that i vowed to never do again and i havent.It took a long time for her to move forward to ... (265 words

I believe this married man is attracted to me, too

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24 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am friends with a married man and have been for a couple of years. Our children are friends and we have socialised together once with his family at our place. We were to go to their place for dinner one night, but my friend told me his wife was not keen to have us over then. ... (143 words

Guy says he loves me but ignores me for her

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - so me and this guy been talking for a very very long time and we dated before, about a month but i ended it because i am not allowed to date till i am 16 but... he said he wanted to wait till then and i was cool with that, but now lately he don't talk to me much, and come to ... (120 words

Our marriage is comparible to roommates living together

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband and I will be married for a year in a few days and the last few months have been terrible. Its seems like we are more roomates than man and wife. We havent been sleeping together and when we try to talk it turns into an argument. He doesnt put me first anymore and ... (100 words

What are the odds we can make things work again in the future?

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24 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - So I dated this girl for about 2 weeks after meeting her at a bad party. We hung out quite a lot since then, pressured by people here and there to go out, since we both needed a good girl/guy in our lives. I made a couple mistakes, intimacy oriented, and we broke up. In the... (207 words

My life should be a lifetime story

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don't know where to even start with this. I am falling for my boss. But first lets start with this: My boss introduced me to his best friend. Whom I dated for a year, then things started to go bad. He had a temper that I just couldn't get past. I talked to my boss all about ... (317 words

Relationship advice over "confused" ex girlfriend

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24 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello! I need some serious advice. My ex-gf and I dated for about 4 years. In December of this past year she broke up with me because she needed some "space." We ended up getting back together after about a month. Things afterwards were better than ever! Now, about 7 mon... (280 words

I love her but don't see it in return

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24 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - 2 months ago she left me http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-end-this-relationship-if-she-doesnt.html We worked it out or so I thought.I agreed she could keep her project house until we moved out of here and i said i didnt think i could do it in less than 6 mon... (372 words

Is it wrong to be upset that he never included me in his birthday plans?

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I would very much to strangle my boyfriend, is that legal? lol jkjk Seriously, I sorta want some revenge. We've been dating for five months and its his birthday tommorow, his friends always try and get him clubbing so I joke , "I'm probably not seeing you tommorow uh?" and his ... (184 words

Ex-boyfriend said eeeew referring to me in a bikini. Do I confront him?

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well, me and my best fried were swimming and having a wonderful time, when my boyfriend texts me I get her phone, because mine was practically dead, and when I get her phone she gets a text message from her boyfriend and he is talking about me, I go through her messages, she ... (125 words

Sweet things we do for each other

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Sometimes, when I'm not there, my boyfriend writes messages saying he loves me in my notebooks or on word documents on my laptop or leaves them on the screen. Sometimes he sets alarms on my phone telling me he loves me or writes it in a text and leaves it for me to find! I ... (107 words

Wifes promiscouity is leading me to divorce

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24 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - hai, my problem started a few years back my wife liked partyn with her friends alot am not so much of a party freaky, i asked my wife to ease up with the parties but she didnt listen. Its now 4 years since my wife went out with her friends, she was always home, last year we ... (138 words

Condom "popped" could I be pregnant?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi im 16 and i think i might be pregnant..i had sex with my boyfriend who is 18 and he did cum inside me a little bit after the condom popped..and now im worried cause im not totally sure yet if im pregnant or not..so my question is how long should i wait to get tested and if i ... (79 words

I'm torn between two different guys

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24 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Here’s my story! Well I was dating this nice guy from school M who just wanted to go out with me, since we graduated. We went on one date and held hands the moment was perfect and he said he loved me. Whatever, my heart was just starting to get to know this guy. Then after ... (311 words

We're both remarried, but I still love her. Should I go after her?

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24 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - My first wife left me 17 years ago, she re-married 13 years go and I re-married 10 years ago. She is the love of my life and I can't forget her. When she left me she told me she did not loved me anymore. I know I am stupid, but I think she still might think about me. I am... (156 words

How can I tell him I need space nicely, and also that I'm not ready for sex?

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'am dating a guy and we spend a lot of time together, I was wondering how can I tell him I need some space nicely.H also wants to have sex with me and I'm not ready, how can I tell him ncely im not ready yet.... (46 words

Foreskin issues!

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24 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm 15 and i'm having problems trying to masturbate with my foreskin back, it's really uncomfortable even painful once, I couldn't take the discomfort so I don't try it any more, is there anyway to help with the discomfort? I'd really appreciate some advice... (44 words

If he likes me back why doesn't he try and talk to me

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24 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi theres this guy i fancy i first like him about 2 years ago he works in this building i go into. I notice him looking at me a couple of times but i notice he was wearing a wedding ring so i didnt bother with him them about 5 months ago i found out his wife has died then i ... (165 words

All I did was try for her but she fell out of love after 7 years of marriage

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24 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I want to ask how to let go of a women whom you have married, grown to love for the past 7yrs and now wants to be alone and doesnt want to be in a relationship. She has been dating and were still married and after a house and two kids i thought she was the one?? so now we have ... (130 words

I jumped the gun and he left

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24 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i started having problems with my husband stayinng out late with his coworkers drinking one night i decided to go by the place where he was at and when i got there i thought he was cheating on me with hes uncles stepdaughter who is 15 i hit him plenty of times and it was just ... (131 words

Will my intense questioning drive him away?

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24 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Sometimes I think to much, I over worry and feel the need to ask my boyfriend a question about what I am thinking of. I am quite scared that he is going to end up finding this annoying but I don't know how to stop. Like right now I just watch the movie Valentines Day. Now I ... (95 words

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