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Should you treat a single mother any differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - OP's own title: So I've had this girl who I've known has been into me for quite some time. We know each other from work and are good mates. But here's the weird thing, she suddenly turned into a single mother... almost literally overnight. She's not a big girl, but some... (346 words

Does he like me, or is it wishful thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm not exactly sure how to handle my emotions right now....I just started marching band camp as a freshman, and I noticed a particular boy who is a sophomore. I fell for him given he's absolutely charming! I just, don't know how to handle this. I don't know how to approach him ... (130 words

Is it right for me to tell everyone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I'm extremely confused right now about where I stand! I joined Facebook two years ago, and I know almost 900 people; in other words I've seen them, talked to them or I'm their friend. But, this one girl recently joined. I know her from school; she made an account ... (133 words

He is being friendly because he see's I'm sad, or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F - i have been going through some things with family and even personaly..so at work i haven't been the happiest..if someone approaches me or talks to me i have no attitude; i think i am pretty sweet and kind. I don't take my problems out on anyone. I don't think it is obvious to ... (326 words

Am I wrong to demand she only speak with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello All, I am 26 years , I will marrying soon withing couple of months . I have a porblem i love very much my financy , before marriage we are now speaking all things on phone , she told all things about her and she said that she is having a best boy friend who she likes hi... (229 words

Is it normal to be grossed out by finger foreplay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal to not like to be fingered at 22 years old? I don't mind penetration from a penis but everything else just grosses me out, I feel like it's dirty and not supposed to be inside of me.... (40 words

What is he up to, what does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - This guy and I dated for about 6 months. We broke up because he didnt think I was ready for a relationship, basically, and told me he still cares for me. I made the mistake of talking to him constantly, and arranged to see him twice (the second time almost led to being too inti... (482 words

I had sex with a guy I was starting to like and he was drunk? Thoughts and opinions pleasE?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - OP's own title: Okay, I just need feedback and thoughts on this? So here's what happened. My close girl friend told me this guy that used to be in my class was talking about me while he was drunk. Saying things like, "Oh where she at?" "She's my babygirl!" And that he was talk... (544 words

I'm Gay and needs some help with this guy I am seeing 22 and 20 online just started chatting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - OP's own title: I am usually giving advice and not taking it. but in this case i am willing to listen. I would like to hear from gay guys like myself. Where to start, ok a few days ago I met a guy on an online dating site and he was in washington at the time, and then... (909 words

Is she Bi, Lesbian, or just beng friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I can't tell whether this woman is interested in me. I run my own business inside this shopping centre where this woman works. We see each other everyday and always talk. I'm trying to figure out whether she is a lesbian or not though. She is 20 years older than me but I ... (273 words

Can we live together?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend is joining the army, can we live together after his ait? does he have to stay in barracks?... (20 words

How can I move on, when I miss him so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i know its not love, but why do i miss him so much, we broke up over 1 months ago but i cant stop thinking about him, we had a clean break, no contact with each other... I miss him so much i cry myself to sleep most nights thinking about the memories we shared, But how can i ... (67 words

Why do I keep hanging on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'll do my best to recall this as accurate as possible. A few summers ago, I had a relationship with a friend I had liked for many years. It was a dream come true. Now, we never got to actually be with each other, because I was away at the time, and it ended before I got bac... (569 words

Why does he string me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - OP's own title: I am an international, came to U.S for studying 2 years ago. Honestly, I am very reserved and shy - maybe this is from my culture in Vietnam. I met this guy 2 years ago because he is my aunt's boss at a nail salon. He opened a restaurant and wanted me to work... (458 words

How can I approach her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Recently a girl I have been friendly with told me that she really liked me. I was surprised but delighted as I have liked her for a good while, but I am a bit shy. A few days later when we met again I told her that I really liked her as well. Ever since I told her that she has ... (176 words

Long-time crush and I kissed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - OP's own title. The other day a group of my friends were hanging out. Among that group was this guy I had had a crush on for YEARS! It's been about a few years since we've seen each other and we know that time probably changed each of us. Anyway, those feelings came back. But ... (181 words

How do I know if I really do love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - So me and this girl really like each other, but the other day she told me she was scared that I only loved her because she loved me. This is my first real love/relationship. I've had my doubts, I've been worried that something like that was true, that my feelings weren't 100% ... (144 words

Is it worth fighting for him, when he fancies someone out of his league!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently told me (after I asked on a whim) that he has a crush on another girl. They work together at the university. He says that it's only a crush and he doesn't "like" her. In fact, he says that she's so above his league that he would have no chance dating her ... (228 words

Should my girlfriend become a soldier like me?

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27 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - OP's own title. I'm an army soldier and my current girlfreind wants to join the army as well, but I'm not sure I want her to base on the job she wants to do. she really values the my opinion and I told her she should if she feels it will bring us closer as future husband and ... (70 words

Your honest opinion but being open minded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - OP's own title. Hi this may be some what long and may not happen often but I have to ask you guys how do you feel about the situation im going to talk about. First of I got married to my childhood love at the age of 18. He was my world and had dreams that we would grow old toge... (379 words

How do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but no children and he was with someone for 15 years and no children either. They separated because he wanted children and she could not have. I think I forgot to take my pill and now I am pregnant. We have been dating for 7 mo... (169 words

Am I Fighting a Loosing Battle??? PLEASE READ!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - OP's own title. Ok so...Me and my now ex-boyfriend had been dating for a little over a year. He is 22 and i am 20. He is white and i am black(this alone has caused some strain with my family but not enough to break us) We broke up because I told him i cheated. And i told ... (364 words

My ex girlfriend is making me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend of one year broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I was very good to her and all she did was take. She wanted some space which I had a hard time giving to her and after some fighting she told me that she did not love me anymore. She did want to be friends ... (340 words

Advice needed! :)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - OP's own title. hey, i had been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We broke up about 3 weeks ago because i met up with some guy, nothing happened, i just wanted a chat and me and my boyfriend had argued. About a year ago, me and my boyfriend had a break and i kissed some... (219 words

My son doesn't want me dating his uncle, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - need help on what to do regarding moving on with my life, im 35 and have 5 kids my husband commited suicide about a year ago and i'm confused about what to do with a relationship. i started getting close to my husbands brother after my husband passed, i was married for 15 ... (208 words

Should I break up with him for talking to an old friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - ok so I have been with my bf for 9 yrs. live together for 6. I have been having a hunch of him talking on his itouch (through facebook) with an old friend. well come to find out I was right they having been talking back and forth for a few months and also talked on the phone. ... (123 words

Is he a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - OP's own title. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half and he's been living with me at my moms for a year. (I'm 22) Recently we kind of fell in a rut.. the affection/sex was fading.. and it made me start to question things because I had a gut feel... (449 words

Should I run away, or keep rescuing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I met my former fiancee four years ago in a philosophy class on a community college campus while we were both still seniors in high school. We were both in emotionally fragile states at that time. I was recovering from an alcohol issue, she was still fighting through a horrible ... (1297 words

Love sick??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3164 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i went out with this guy that i really liked and he liked me and swore he hated this other girl. well one of my friends that i really trust or i did trust cuz OP's own title. i liked him b4 i dated this guy said that my bf was just using me to get back at this girl he dated b4 m... (291 words

How do I know he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We live together, share a life and goals, and he has right out told me that he is in this for "the long haul". During the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship, he continued to "play the field" - by this I don't mean he ... (333 words

The sex isn't good, is it me, him or his size?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well I guess you can say this is a part II to my previous post "How do I be with him in a serious, committed relationship without forcing him into it?" There was one thing wrong. This thing barthered me. Something that I don't know how to solve. His sex isn't great. I like to ... (220 words

I need help to see the light through the trees, Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Grrr I have so many problems at the moment, this is my 3rd cry for help in 24 hours, let me see, I have almost lost my girlfriend, I have had to take out an IVA to pay off debt, I have a default now with a company, and I am having to take a loan out from a high intrest lender, ... (94 words

Girlfriend cheated, said she does not know why she did it, says he loves me now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - *OP's suggested title* About 6 months ago my girlfriend cheated on my with someone from her job. I found out by seeing the two of them together two days after we had a big argument. she denied it for about 6 weeks then finally admitted she slept with him. Then I found out she ... (362 words

We were so close and he knew how much it hurt me...do I have a right to be so pissed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey, So my best guy friend finnally admitted that he liked me. Then a week later he asked me out. But I told him, i'd go out with him if he asked me in person instead of ovr a txt so we planned to go hang out the next night. The next morning after he got off work he texted m... (200 words

I love sex but don't have orgasms!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm a female and I love having sex. This may be a weird question to ask, but I'm curious. Every man that I've had sex with experienced an orgasim but myself. Even my friends have. Is it me? Are my sexual partners not pleasing me enough? I would really like to know. Its a bit ... (56 words

Why does it seem that when a relationship is nearing the end men tend to say things that make it seem like they would die if you broke up with them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - There has been some tension in my relationship with my boyfriend a, we have been disagreeing a lot lately about various things, so much so that I have considered ending the relationship. I care about him deeply, but I don’t think things will work out. My question however is not ... (446 words

What dirty talk do girls like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - What r some dirty things I can whisper to my wife during sex to get her off? She's real good at the Nastybtalk during sex, and I really like it. Problem is, I am not sure what to say to her. What do girls like to hear. It's easy for girls, "fuck me" "I want ur cock In my ... (104 words

Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., sending sexy texts back and ... (126 words

Can a leopard really change its spots?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age - My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, then he dumped her. It really s... (299 words

Why does he keep playing with my emotions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband left 2 months ago ... We just had a baby who is now 6 months. He moved out got his own place... And since the day he left he hasent stopped calling atleast everyother day and kissing me... He's said he is sorry but hasent really apologized and has said he is not ... (129 words

So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend that I thought I could trust ... (925 words

Boyfriend wants to take a break!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been fighting since forever. We love each other alot but we don't trust each other. He just lost his job so he's stressed out about that. I'm trying to be supportive but he just ignoreS me like if I'm not even there. Last night we got in a fight and he ... (173 words

How do I get through to an uncaring boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2998 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boy almost 3 years now. In the beginning everything was amazing, i fell deeply in love with him and we couldn't take our hands off each other. At the time we both felt like we had truly found the one. After probably 18 months things started going do... (926 words

He's excited but I don't feel ready for this...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - im 17 n my boyfriend really wants to have a baby he says he wil be there for me and everything so we started having unprotected sex and ive missed my period and have been feeling sick so im reaaal scared now and dont know what to do. i told him and hes really excited but i dont ... (67 words

I'm confused about whether it's worth my time fussing over this or whether I should grow a pair and just ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i met this guy in college at the beginning of the year in my English Language class and i really want to ask him out on a date. i've never asked anyone before nor have i ever been asked, i usually just go out with a guy and it screws up because we don't really know each other. ... (221 words

Help I'm being bullied...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am nineteen and I live in England. I go to college here and in September I'm starting again. I love it there and I have some good friends but there's this lad in my class who is gay and he constantly makes my life hell he even smacked me with a drumstick for a brass band... (78 words

I'm going to lose her if I don't stop being so needy and clingy...has anyone out there done that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Guys, what can one do to become less needy and clingy? if you read my previous question you will see my issue, were back together, I want to change back to the person i was a few years back. I have to change now or i will lose my girlfriend who i do consider to be my soul mate, ... (98 words

He now says he never felt that way so why did he want me to tell him so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello, after a long, confusing and heartbreaking few years my lifes finally ended on a dull note. Me and a friend had known each other a while and although we never really spoke something felt weird. As time went on sitruations changed and we eventually became good friends. A ... (494 words

What should I do about his ex wife texting?

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27 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - hi i have been with my boyfreind now for seven months i have moved in with him we are both divored his ex wife keeps texing him but nwhen i ask him he denires it but i know i should not have looked atbhis phone but i did as its driving me mad and i have seen the texts what ... (65 words

When I see her I get angry, when she's not around I miss her a lot. she makes marilyn monroe look like a virgin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - (I have a question. It's a bit long so please bare with I.) I started going out with this girl in Jan 2008. I had known her for some time before then. Infact she had just been dumped her boyfriend. I believed in her and completely trusted her with my life. By ... (376 words

I'm a confident person but these feelings of embarrassment are jeopardising my relationships..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a problem that is jeopardising most of my hopes for a romantic relationship, and I'd really like to get some kind of outside perspective on it, because personally I can't understand where it's come from or why I feel like this. I am made very uncomfortable by... (267 words

Can I believe what he said while drunk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Just a quick question. Do men speak the truth when they're under the influence of alcohol? A friend of mine admitted that he liked me, but I'm not sure whether to take it seriously or not. ... (46 words

Why don't I feel myself anymore? what signs am I showing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Posters Own Title: I don't understand what's been going on with me. To start off my gf of 3 and 1/2 years broke up with me last March. Then in June she finally admits she still loves me and wants to work things out. I was finally relieved and excited although I didn't trust her ... (343 words

Why does she stay in this unhealthy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Okay. There's this girl who is in a relationship for 5 years with her bf. She tells me her relationship is unhealthy. Her guy is very possessive, she got hurt by him emotionally many times and he has made her cry before. She admits she has on and off feelings towards me for the ... (156 words

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was absolutely shocked and he had said ... (456 words

Whenever I'm Not There, This Girl is All Over Him Like a Rash!!

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I just want to begin by saying I trust my boyfriend totally. We have been together 9 months and he has never given me a reason to doubt him. I am not generally a jealous person when it comes to boyfriends. There's a girl who is in the same circle of friends as my boyfriend.... (426 words

Does He Want The Relationship Back - Or Just Sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3139 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, I was seeing this guy for a while, and things were going great, then we feel out, and he finished it. I ignored his calls, and he kept on calling me - he called 15 times in four days, so in the end I picked the phone up.He was saying he still wants a freindship, and has ... (345 words

My Brother is Lazy & Selfish, & Abusing Me on Facebook!

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Please Help! I know its long but i'm desperate...I dont know what to do about my brother. I am a full time University student working full time for the summer even though I am considered as being a student with a permanent disability(due to structural anomalies wit... (543 words

Should You be Together a Few Years Before you Get Engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. Everything moved very fast with us, which has suited both of us very well. We'd both been single for about 6 months before we met and got together, I'd moved in to his place after 2 months (it wasn't really planned, it just ... (257 words

My Sister Bullies Me, But I've Been Forced to Invite Her to My Wedding

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3152 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey i need some advice. my problem is i hate my sister and my mum made me send my sister an invite to my wedding. i dont want her there! shes always been so jealous of me, to the point she used to physically, mentally and emotionally abuse me. everyone says im the better ... (500 words

His Ex Stalks Him on Facebook

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex is all over his Facebook page, and it's recently started to bother me, especially as his family (who are also on FB and I am very close to) have started commenting on it. They broke up over a year ago, he had 6 months being single, then we got together. I... (182 words

He Only Wanted Sex, I'm Finding it Hard to Move on

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27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - its been a month and im finding it hard to move on this guy only wanted sex from me, he manipulate me to having sex, i thought he would change. he is very disrespectful he lies to me all the time he if i dont give him what he wants goes out looking for it and his tells me. i ... (76 words

Her FWB Past Scares Me - Were They Better in Bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I'm struggling with my girlfriends past. She has had about the same number of partners as me from what she tells me, but they have been recent and FWB type relationships, whereas mine have mostly been more serious. I get the vibe that some of these guys were great in bed, and ... (131 words

How Do You Meet People?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - How to people meet their partners if not in work or education? I'm 22 and I have got one more year left in university. I do not want to rest my hopes of finding "the one" on my last year at university, moreover I'm doing a dergee which is considered male dominated and fr... (152 words

He Wanted Me For 2 Years, Got Me - Then Changed Almost Overnight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - [sorry for such a long question]Well my boyfriend and i have just recently got together and it has now been at least a month and a half. he told me before we got together that he had liked me for almsot two years and that he was so happy that i finally said i would be his ... (141 words

I've Gone Off Sex & Feel Every Nice Thing He Does is Just to Get into My Knickers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I need some advice. I have been in a serious relationship with my partner for several years, we are engaged and have a 2 year old daughter. For over 12 months now, i have gone off wanting sex and even getting close to him. little things he does disgust me, and i feel tha... (185 words

He Cheated, We Broke Up, He Wants Me Back But I Don't Think I Want a Relationship Yet - But He Says He Won't Wait

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - i recently split with my boyfriend because he invited another girl round to his and she stayed the night. we had been together for a year and i was deeply in love with him, now were not together, im finding it hard to get over him. then yesterday he started talking to me saying ... (165 words

He Says He Wants Space - Does He Want to See Other People? What Doesit Mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My bf and i have been really good lately but he told me he would like some space. First of all, what does that mean? i mean does he want to see his friends more? hang out with other girls? im just so confused on what he means by space.. We dont live together but he spends m... (108 words

Is it best I walk away from this relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I really need some good advice. I've recently split with my boyfriend of 14months because his friend told me he cheated on me when we were first together. My boyfriend admitted it but says he wants to move on. Furthermore, his friend told me more things my boyfriend did such as ... (212 words

Insecurities a problem in my relationship!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for roughly a year, we have had ups and downs like any couple. I am quite insecure and this is something that constantly causes a problem between us. When we first got together I had no worries at all, but as the honeymoon period wore ... (337 words

I'm clueless! What is right and what is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid My name is Chu and currently living in the Netherlands. I've been dating this wonderful girl for an half year. During our relationship we've stumbled on a few problems. The fact that her mom which i respect, but continuously nags about the latest gossips to her d... (457 words

Is he just using me to inflate is ego?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm starting to fall, HARD, for a guy i've just recently gotten to know (i've hung out with him a few times over the past few months, always with other friends). Trouble is, I barely know him. He seems like an amazingly sweet, stand up guy; and he's extremely easy o... (392 words

Boyfriend got roommate pregnant...what to do?

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27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - OK, my question is what should I do??? My boyfriend broke up with me six months ago for less than a week and slept with his roommate and got her pregnant. Apparently she just realized NOW that she's pregnant and told him just the other week. What the hell... I trusted th... (497 words

My head is wrecked because of her...help!

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27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey people.My story is that is a ex of mine who i feel for is a real head messer.She has model looks but messed me about big time when we where together,she lied to me all the time and one week she would be nice the next nasty as hell to me.i loved this girl and she told me she ... (245 words

True love or game player?

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i fell in love with a guy over ten years ago. we were madly inlove, but i had to move to another country. we stayed in touch, and i visited regularly. but over the years i started to want more, and found someone whom i thought made me happy. through all this time i never ... (784 words

Is his job affecting his libido?

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi Can you please help me win my husband back as we love each other a lot? but nowadays he is not with me totally lost he never keep attention on me nor he sleeps with me why? i know his work has alot of pressure as he is CEO of the transportation company and more than 1000 of ... (121 words

Don't want to lose him because of that bitch!

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27 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - Well my x I like him so much and I'm berly getting over him it's beeen 2 or even 3 years. And a month ago he had to leave with his mom to another state we tryed a long distNce relationship but It didn't work out.. Umm now I've found out dat he has started going out with a ... (240 words

Why don't my orgasms feel that incredible?

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27 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Basically im 14 and i masturbate fairly regualarly, never more than once a day; probably about once or twice a week. It's just that whenever i masturbate the semen comes out etc etc and i guess i have a kind of orgasm that feels alright, but it's never that body tingling ... (79 words

How can I stop checking up on my ex?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - How do I simply stop caring about what my ex does and how he lives his life now? I can't help but sometimes check out his facebook and see who he's talking too and what he's up to, which I am trying to stop. How do I stop caring about everything so I won't want to check to see ... (72 words

How do I stop questioning if someone likes me or not?

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27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm beginning to think I may need to seek help for self-esteem issues. Two months ago I started a relationship with a guy I really cared for. From day one I was constantly questioning myself about if he really liked me or not and found myself endlessly looking for evidence that ... (243 words

Do I grit my teeth and go on with it?

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27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and I am proud to be lesbian. Before I moved, my hometown ( london) was very supportive and wasn't homophobic. now we live in Derby and we get bullied and attacked( the police are doing their best to help us). I have asked if ... (92 words

My best friend has obvious feelings for my partner!!

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My best friend have obvious feelings for my partner!!!! I have seriously noticed on numerous occasions that my best girlfriend has feelings for my partner. We are a serious couple and we want to get married etc. Lately say 1 month back my so called g/f has been giving look... (272 words

What was your first time like?

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27 July 2010 (? age 18-21 - I am a teenage girl. I do not plan on having sex until I find someone I love and they love me back. But I wanted to know , what was your 1st time like? How did it feel? How old were you? What were you thinking? Was it someone you loved? Where was it at? Do you regret it? I ... (67 words

Can you get over a threesome gone wrong?

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27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Can you get over a threesome gone wrong? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years. Our sex life is good and has never become dull. We had in the past (usually after a few drinks) talked about a threesome (with another woman- he wouldn't be keen with a man). I've ... (491 words

Blowjobs: is it weird that it's the only thing I wanna do?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey y'all! I know this is going to sound weird. But I've had an oral fixation ever since I was young. I'd never given a blowjob until I had sex for the first time when I got to college. I was later given the nickname: BJ. I love to give more than I receive. Is there anythin... (98 words

Guys: is this normal or a fetish?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - A guy I'm seeing right now likes me to suck on his penis, literally, as hard as I can while giving him oral sex. I don't have man parts, but when he mentioned it to me it sounded really painful. But anyhow, I did as he asked (and have done so ever since) and he definitely se... (127 words

She cheated so should I just break it off?

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27 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello all, I am in a relationship that is pretty green, six months into it. I have been friends with this girl for a long time, and really like her a lot. I have started to have to work away from home for a week to two weeks at a time. The first two week trip out of town... (316 words

Do I respect the family and not make a move on her?

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27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - Here's the situation. There's a lady I've been interested in for a few years. I've known her for almost 6. I rarely see her but when we communicate (both in person or via online) we seem to have a good connection. By that I mean, there's always eye contact, we talk about ... (265 words

How can I overcome painful sex?

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27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 22 year old female. I lost my virginity at a late age compared to others that I know. I was 20. I lost it to someone who I was falling in love with. The first time was very painful, I was cringing and he had to stop before he could even fully enter me. Also, looking ... (360 words

I only see my boyfriend at work. How can I get more time from him?

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27 July 2010 (F age - My boyfriend and I have been together 5 months...but it's a bit strange and I am very bothered by the fact that we only see each other at work. We are work-mates 4 days a week, for 8 sometimes 10 hrs a day. He has another job on the weekends, in another state and I know the... (338 words

His parents don't like me so should I even stay with him?

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27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I started dating my boyfriend 9 months ago and i never met his parents til we had been going out for 4 months and a month before that they found out we had sex and we both got grounded. his parents dont talk to me and they never really even gave me a chance and they never let ... (116 words

How do I be with him in a serious, committed relationship without forcing him into it?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, i'm new to this. I think I know what I have to do, but getting a random person's input seems more fair. So me and this guy have been seeing each other on and off for almost two years. He was my first ..and I was ..(he doesn't know what number I am). In the beginning it was ... (435 words

Do you think this makes me a bad person?

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27 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ohkay,Ive just gotton back from my best friends house and The last time I was there, I had gone half way with her cousin which is 16, Im 13 and yea,half way means he went in me half way and thats all.. I know I made a mistake and Im sorry..DOnt we all..well anyways i havent ... (230 words

Hook-up with life-long friend?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - After 10+ years of not seeing my childhood friend, we started contacting eachother, 5 months later we hung out a little bit. Right off the bat we were comfortable talking about everything, and I mean EVERYTHING; it was like we never lost touch. We hooked up a month later. I ... (283 words

I enjoy sexting him but how do I let him know I do need to meet him?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Three weeks ago a guy who lives a few hours away from me and I really hit it off. We text back and forth daily after we each get home from work, and I enjoy his conversations. He lives just a few hours away, he's got a good job (police officer), he's only 3 years older than me, ... (266 words

Things have soured...advice and such?

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27 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - So I fell in like with a girl in march, 4 months ago. She didnt return the feelings till somewhere in june. Then summer vacation started, and she left june 25th for a 50 day weekend. Things were fine between us at first, oh i miss you, love you and all that. However, lately, ... (283 words

Texting Dilemma: am I thinking too much?

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27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need input on a Texting Dilemma I have. Long story short, i met a guy, and right off the bat he was negative. The minute we met, he says "your dressed slutty". I looked awesome, and he was being a hater. His buddy was being more gentleman like then he was, my date did... (233 words

Do you think he's playing me?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met a guy. The pair of us work together. He and I had a conversation that really changed my mind about him. I'm unsure if he likes me or is just being friendly. He's a country boy and said I'm a "pretty lady." Also at the end of camp he said he'll remember me. In addition he ... (119 words

Tale of two men: which one do I go for?

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27 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do . I like two men, but i'm not sure which one to go for.One of them is married, but i really like him as he is confident and has a good sense of humour, and we have met up recently and known each other for a few years. The other guy also has a good sense ... (182 words

Is my online guy giving me the bum's rush?

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Arrrrrggghhh!! I have been having an internet relationship for months. I am 28 and he's 41!! We speak everyday about everyday things...how we're getting on at work etc.... Recently, I have been being a bit of a bitch to him!! I dont know why...maybe seeing how far i can push... (164 words

Online guy not sure about marriage in the future. Should I continue to see him?

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27 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 4 months now. We met on a dating webiste. We have both been married and divorced. His divorce was really bad. We are both scared but both have feelings for each other. He has recently told me he does not want to get married again and I am o.k. ... (205 words

Got a date...now what?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi :D i dont have a question but would like some help.... im having trouble with keeping a relationship and would like to know what i can do next.. to keep the relationship rather than having one night stands. i have reacently just met this guy, who is in my friend... (182 words

How do you have an LDR?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - so im going to college in a couple weeks, i just recently started going out with a guy i been talking to for some time. how can we make things work out while im gone? ... (35 words

How do I handle my friend with dignity?

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27 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Help! I have a very demanding, high maintenance friend! I am at my wits end and don't know what else to do. I really should remove myself from the friendship as I am feeling so drained but our children go to school together so I constantly have contact with her. She is very ... (168 words

Bipolar nice guy looking for love. How much bad luck can a person take?

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27 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - At this point, I don't know what to do anymore. A bit of background: I'm a 22 year old virgin, a nerd in many areas, afflicted with Bipolar Disorder, have had nothing but failed relationships, and a "Nice Guy". So you can kind of see what my personality is; a genuine odd ball... (368 words

How do I live like a normal girl and not care what others think?

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27 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been through alot,during my childhood! I sort of grew up so fast,and when I was in both primary and secondary school,others always made fun of me,I was taller than all my classmates and looked more mature than them, I became a woman earlier than the rest Everywhere I ... (241 words

I'm lonely and he's not around...

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27 July 2010 (? age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I absolutely love him with all my heart. The only problem is that lately we've barely been talking. He works nights and I'm asleep when he's awake and vice versa. Right now we are living two hours away from e... (291 words

Thoughts of her having the affair are driving me insane!

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27 July 2010 (M age 51-59 - Three years ago my wife had an affair with a married man and it has absolutely destroyed my life. We had what I thaught was a wonderful live with five great kids. I was unable to forgive my wife of twenty two years for hurting me so much even after she beg me to. I am now ... (197 words

How do we tell the family?

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27 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have been seeing my cousin and we are in love. how do we tell the family?... (17 words

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