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Question - (31 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, *usty46 writes:

Hi,

I have been married for about 18 years, and recently have this fantasy of my wife being with other men, I get horny if i think of it. However, I am afraid to ask my wife about it. We love each other and have good sex. Am I crazy??????????

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A male reader, rusty46 United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

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I am glad I asked this question here. I saved my life because of your honest answers. I will keep it a fantasy and have a wonderful life. Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

"somethings are supposed to be fantasy and stay fantasy" - I think this is very well said! Bravo.

NightFairy

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntNo you're not crazy but don't share that fantasy with her. She will never get it and you'll catch a lot of grief for even thinking that. I can hear it now,' What! you think i want to have sex with stangers what do ou think I am/Oh, I get it, you want to have sex with other women...Just get out you freak!"

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A female reader, DazedConfused United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

Ok I had the same experience with my ex husband and we had a threesome. He was keen on the 3sum but not so keen to sleep with someone alone, but he went ahead with it and came back saying he didnt like it. I was sooooo keen to make this go ahead but all in all it wasnt that exciting. The fantasy was better than the real act of it and there was a snipping jealousy. Now looking back, it was a silly thing to do. we had a good sex life and it should have stayed a fantasy. I do think that if you really want to go ahead with it you really need to think it through carefully. somethings are supposed to be fantasy and stay fantasy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

Sorry but I agree with CaringGuy. Keep it to yourself for your sake and for the sake of your marriage.

NightFairy

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

Not crazy. If you read this site, you'll see other guys who have this fantasy. Unfortunately, you'll also read about fantasies likes this that have gone very wrong. Either the woman has become too accustomed and doesn't want to give the lifestyle up, or she's offended. So, the best thing you can do for your marriage is keep it locked up.

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