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writes:i had sex with two different men and im pregnant... thing is i used a condom with the one guy and i didnt with the other... now the man i didnt use a condom with i have been with off and on for 5 years now and the one i did i had dated in the past but it was just a fling... but the guy ive dated on and off we are getting back together.... mind you we werent together when i slept with the guy i used a condom with... i hope you get what im saying... so when i finally tell my boyfriend that im pregnant should i immediately bring up there would be a slight chance its not his.... or just leave it alone... i know i used a condom with the other guy but i dont want this to be some weird dark secret that come up down the road.... im not sure what to do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): Under all circumstances, tell him, he is the father and has the right to know!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Absolutely tell him, there's so many ways that he could find out down the track if its not his and that's guaranteed to end in disaster.
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reader, Dr.Ski +, writes (31 July 2010):
Listen, If your relationship with him is strong, trustworthy, and un breakable, then tell him. not even that, if he is understanding, then tell him. In fact, no matter what, tell him.. because if he finds out any later then it could erase the whole relationship you worked so hard for!:) x
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