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I lost my virginity to a guy I'm not in a relationship do I act with him now?

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Question - (31 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I guess you could say what i did the other night was pretty stupid.

I lost my virginity to a guy im not in a relationship with, he claims he really likes me, and we have had abit of a thing goin on for a bit of time now.

However, im realising it was pretty silly of me, because what if now he just disapears or makes some excuse to not be with me?

He doesnt seem like that type of guy, but you can never be sure.

For some reason i dont regret it entirely because i was ready and i was happy to do it at the time.

Was wondering what you think i should say to this guy, yano to help reasure that things are gonna be alright?


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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntWell, the best "let down aftewords I remember getting was something like; "Wow, last night was wonderful but I'm sort of in a relationship.but I hope we can be friends.

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A female reader, Dr.Ski United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

Things will be fine, He was your first time, and at the time you both liked eachother. sure he isnt your romeo, because they dont come this easy, or early.. but now you have experience for when that romeo DOES come along, and when he does, you will sure know about it. Listen, this guy, he might have meant something at the time, but now, he is past. and unless anything changes, that is all he is! you sound like a girl who can do much better than a one thing fling. :)

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